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jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:42 PM
to bad...they have some really nice cool looking shirts.

I like a lot of their stuff, but the closest one is two hours away. We did just get a Hollister here in Manhattan (which is Abercrombie-owned).

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 06:46 PM
My theory is that the body puts out different pheromones when attached versus when single. Women are put off by the "I can't get a girl" pheromone, and they're drawn by the "I'm a virile woman holder" pheromone.

I think women are mostly attracted to the "you look like a sundried beaver, but you've got a million Dollars" pheromone.

badgirl
04-27-2005, 06:48 PM
I think women are mostly attracted to the "you look like a sundried beaver, but you've got a million Dollars" pheromone.

you should say most women, I for one would rather have someone who is good to me than what he can give me, I had a husband who had plenty money and owned his own company and was abusive, I left, I am not a materialistic person, I just want someone who loves me and I love them and I am a old fashion woman, I really love taking care of my significant other.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 06:49 PM
I just had to put all of this together into one post. Most of the time, I tune out when Matt goes on one of his many theories, but this one is pretty good. This comes from many a conversation that I have had with him over the years. Matt believes that I fall into the 7/5 category. This is because I hate it when guys come up to me and the first things out of their mouths are about my looks. And so the birth of Matt's theory (above).

My other roommate asked me how he's supposed to start a conversation with a woman he's attracted to without mentioning her looks. For me, I would like a guy to have a conversation with me without once mentioning anything about my looks-- this way, I believe he's actually interested in me, not my appearance. I find that way more enticing than someone who says he thinks I'm hot.

Needless to say, I suck at attracting men because of my 7/5 personality/looks.
This is a fun thread though.

THe real issue, is that if he has the Mojo claimed in the quoted thread.........has he shagged you monkeystyle yet?






OOOOOO AAHH AAAHH AAAHHAHAHAAH

jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:49 PM
I think women are mostly attracted to the "you look like a sundried beaver, but you've got a million Dollars" pheromone.

ROFL ROFL

jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:50 PM
you should say most women, I for one would rather have someone who is good to me than what he can give me, I had a husband who had plenty money and owned his own company and was abusive, I left, I am not a materialistic person, I just want someone who loves me and I love them and I am a old fashion woman, I really love taking care of my significant other.

The comma called. It would like for you to stop abusing it. It thanks you for your cooperation.

badgirl
04-27-2005, 06:51 PM
The comma called. It would like for you to stop abusing it.
If you don't use it where you need it, it would all run together. :rolleyes:

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 06:51 PM
Killer......just because a man wears Abercrombie does not mean he's gay? What freaking century do you live in?

No real man would be caught dead in Abercrombie.

No strait man, not cruising chics since 1987, would wear a pink shirt.

dp4me
Get those callouses ground off of your thighs yet? you know, from where they rubbed together like a midgets arse...

jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:52 PM
If you don't use it where you need it, it would all run together. :rolleyes:

The period called. It offers it's services free of charge.

badgirl
04-27-2005, 06:53 PM
The period called. It offers it's services free of charge.
OK :sulk:

jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:54 PM
OK :sulk:

C'mon, I'm just teasing you. Lighten up! :D

tk13
04-27-2005, 06:55 PM
I just had to put all of this together into one post. Most of the time, I tune out when Matt goes on one of his many theories, but this one is pretty good. This comes from many a conversation that I have had with him over the years. Matt believes that I fall into the 7/5 category. This is because I hate it when guys come up to me and the first things out of their mouths are about my looks. And so the birth of Matt's theory (above).

My other roommate asked me how he's supposed to start a conversation with a woman he's attracted to without mentioning her looks. For me, I would like a guy to have a conversation with me without once mentioning anything about my looks-- this way, I believe he's actually interested in me, not my appearance. I find that way more enticing than someone who says he thinks I'm hot.

Needless to say, I suck at attracting men because of my 7/5 personality/looks.
This is a fun thread though.
But do you not like being told you're hot because you want to have something deeper with somebody than looks, or because you don't think you're a "7" so to speak? I think there is a difference.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 06:56 PM
Croft....leave her alone...........at their age, badgranny and Dp4me, haven't seen a period in half a decade, not counting type.

badgirl
04-27-2005, 06:56 PM
C'mon, I'm just teasing you. Lighten up! :D
I was walking lightly, don't want to be known as C4me the 2nd. :p

badgirl
04-27-2005, 06:57 PM
Croft....leave her alone...........at their age, badgranny and Dp4me, haven't seen a period in half a decade, not counting type.
I freaking wish

jcroft
04-27-2005, 06:58 PM
Croft....leave her alone...........at their age, badgranny and Dp4me, haven't seen a period in half a decade, not counting type.

ROFL ROFL

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:01 PM
[QUOTE=Iowanian]No real man would be caught dead in Abercrombie.

No strait man, not cruising chics since 1987, would wear a pink shirt.

dp4me
Get those callouses ground off of your thighs yet? you know, from where they rubbed together like a midgets arse...[/QUOTE



Sicko...:harumph:

angel
04-27-2005, 07:03 PM
THe real issue, is that if he has the Mojo claimed in the quoted thread.........has he shagged you monkeystyle yet?






OOOOOO AAHH AAAHH AAAHHAHAHAAH
no, he doesn't have mojo
and no, there have been no monkey shags

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 07:06 PM
Whats wrong with Abercrombie?

It's pretentious overpriced crap.

Wearing Abercrombie doesn't make you gay... but, it does make you a douchebag.

jcroft
04-27-2005, 07:09 PM
It's pretentious overpriced crap.

Wearing Abercrombie doesn't make you gay... but, it does make you a douchebag.

It is overpriced -- can't argue with that.

Pants
04-27-2005, 07:10 PM
It is overpriced -- can't argue with that.

ROFL

Yeah, just a little.

angel
04-27-2005, 07:14 PM
But do you not like being told you're hot because you want to have something deeper with somebody than looks, or because you don't think you're a "7" so to speak? I think there is a difference.
I agree there is a difference. However, I think I fall into both. I definately want something with someone based on more than just looks. Whenever a guy introduces himself to me and the first things out of his mouth are about my looks, I immediately think he's only interested in one thing and will get it wherever he can. He's only saying these things so that he can get into my pants. Immediately, I'm not interested in this guy. I want someone who is more attracted to my personality because I know that there are hundreds of women (especially in a college town) around the corner that are hotter than I am. If this guy is only about looks, then he'll dump me for next hottie that passes by. This is part of the "not thinking I'm a 7" theory Matt has.

jcroft
04-27-2005, 07:18 PM
I think a lot of girls/women would prefer not to hear how hot they are right away. I was trying to tell gochiefs earlier, the only way to get a woman very interested in you is to be interested in her. That means you have to TALK to her. Ask her question about herself and actually LISTEN to what she has to say so you can RESPOND intelligently. Yeah, it's a lot of work, but I don't know any other way to get a woman to be actually interested in you.

If I'm attracted to the physically, I try to tell them so, but it can't be the first thing out of your mouth or you definitely look like you're just there to get in their pants (which you are, but you're not supposed to let them know that). :)

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:18 PM
Let me clue you in...........Every guy who introduces himself, is interested in 1 thing.

if they like you enough, after they've accomplished their intended goal, they may choose to stick around.


*those in committed relationships may be exempt.

Skip Towne
04-27-2005, 07:19 PM
THe real issue, is that if he has the Mojo claimed in the quoted thread.........has he shagged you monkeystyle yet?






OOOOOO AAHH AAAHH AAAHHAHAHAAH
Damn, Iowanian, why are you so antagonistic to the women on this board? Was your mother mean to you?

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:21 PM
No.....I just want them to Feel like "one of the boys".

I'm just busting Angel's chops......she's not annoying like some of the other rabblerabble.

If it would make you feel better, I could antagonize you for a while, Cheech? Maybe you'd prefer that I cyber-hump the leg of every poster claiming to be a woman, like some others do?

I treat everyone equally....No free passes for being a broad. I'm an Affirmative Action/Equal oportunity antagonist.

angel
04-27-2005, 07:26 PM
I think a lot of girls/women would prefer not to hear how hot they are right away. I was trying to tell gochiefs earlier, the only way to get a woman very interested in you is to be interested in her. That means you have to TALK to her. Ask her question about herself and actually LISTEN to what she has to say so you can RESPOND intelligently. Yeah, it's a lot of work, but I don't know any other way to get a woman to be actually interested in you.

If I'm attracted to the physically, I try to tell them so, but it can't be the first thing out of your mouth or you definitely look like you're just there to get in their pants (which you are, but you're not supposed to let them know that). :)
Very true
I am reminded of a fellow that held my attention for a long time. Each time I saw him, I could tell by his body language that he was attracted to me, but not once did he say anything about my looks. He asked me all about my interests and we held some wonderful conversations about life and our mutual interests. While talking, he gave me his full attention, kept eye contact with me (even when hotter girls would walk by), and kept his body turned toward me at a comfortable but close distance.

Pants
04-27-2005, 07:29 PM
Very true
I am reminded of a fellow that held my attention for a long time. Each time I saw him, I could tell by his body language that he was attracted to me, but not once did he say anything about my looks. He asked me all about my interests and we held some wonderful conversations about life and our mutual interests. While talking, he gave me his full attention, kept eye contact with me (even when hotter girls would walk by), and kept his body turned toward me at a comfortable but close distance.

No, Iowanian's post was the correct one. We are hard-wired to think about one thing. If you want deep conversations, find a gay dude.

angel
04-27-2005, 07:29 PM
Damn, Iowanian, why are you so antagonistic to the women on this board? Was your mother mean to you?
I didn't feel he was antagonizing me with his remark. Based on how I started here on the board, it was a perfectly appropriate (and somewhat humorous) question.

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 07:30 PM
No, Iowanian's post was the correct one. We are hard-wired to think about one thing. If you want deep conversations, find a gay dude.
Hey, I can provide deep conversation. Doesn't mean I don't wanna poke the girl I'm having it with.

Pants
04-27-2005, 07:31 PM
Hey, I can provide deep conversation. Doesn't mean I don't wanna poke the girl I'm having it with.

Deep conversations are a means to an end. Gay dudes are the ones INTERESTED in deep conversations.

angel
04-27-2005, 07:31 PM
No, Iowanian's post was the correct one. We are hard-wired to think about one thing. If you want deep conversations, find a gay dude.
I don't need "deep" conversations; they put me to sleep. I just want to know that someone will still be interested in me twenty years down the line when I'm really old and wrinkled. Also, I need to know that I won't be dropped for a "hotter" number.

siberian khatru
04-27-2005, 07:31 PM
Very true
I am reminded of a fellow that held my attention for a long time. Each time I saw him, I could tell by his body language that he was attracted to me, but not once did he say anything about my looks. He asked me all about my interests and we held some wonderful conversations about life and our mutual interests. While talking, he gave me his full attention, kept eye contact with me (even when hotter girls would walk by), and kept his body turned toward me at a comfortable but close distance.

So how far did he get?

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:32 PM
I can, with 1 tee shirt slogan explain why men talk to women that they find less than brilliant.

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 07:33 PM
I don't need "deep" conversations; they put me to sleep. I just want to know that someone will still be interested in me twenty years down the line when I'm really old and wrinkled. Also, I need to know that I won't be dropped for a "hotter" number.
Is the hotter number a better cook than you?

angel
04-27-2005, 07:34 PM
So how far did he get?
I only met him twice at various parties. Both times, he held my interest. If I ever see him again, I will most likely let him get as far as he wants based on the previous encounters.

angel
04-27-2005, 07:34 PM
Is the hotter number a better cook than you?
no, I'm a f*ckin' awesome cook

Saulbadguy
04-27-2005, 07:34 PM
Does "DP4me" mean what I think it means?

Pants
04-27-2005, 07:35 PM
Is the hotter number a better cook than you?

ROFL

Willingness to clean stuff also helps.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:35 PM
Dating 101.

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 07:36 PM
no, I'm a f*ckin' awesome cook
You're fine, then. No set of fake tits will make me stray from a bj and bacon & eggs in the morning.

siberian khatru
04-27-2005, 07:37 PM
I only met him twice at various parties. Both times, he held my interest. If I ever see him again, I will most likely let him get as far as he wants based on the previous encounters.

:clap: :bravo: PBJ :drool: :hail: WooWoo :toast:

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 07:37 PM
Does "DP4me" mean what I think it means?
Yeah

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:38 PM
Damn, Iowanian, why are you so antagonistic to the women on this board? Was your mother mean to you?





ROFL.....somehow somewhere I gotta meet the lady who married him.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:38 PM
Does "DP4me" mean what I think it means?


OOOOH YEEEAH!

Bwana
04-27-2005, 07:38 PM
Dating 101.

That covers most of it. ROFL

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:40 PM
ROFL.....somehow somewhere I gotta meet the lady who married him.

An attractive, intelligent, educated lady, who until relatively recently taught aerobics on the side........and doesn't bore or annoy me.

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:41 PM
Does "DP4me" mean what I think it means?




Something stupid that Killer made up. I suppose it has something to do with Deneise......or who the hell knows what goes on in that crazy mind of his.:rolleyes:

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:42 PM
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=DP

Pants
04-27-2005, 07:43 PM
Something stupid that Killer made up. I suppose it has something to do with Deneise......or who the hell knows what goes on in that crazy mind of his.:rolleyes:

I'm sure she enjoys DP ROFL

jcroft
04-27-2005, 07:43 PM
Something stupid that Killer made up. I suppose it has something to do with Deneise......or who the hell knows what goes on in that crazy mind of his.:rolleyes:

Yeah, I'm SURE the "D" stands for Denice. :)

Saulbadguy
04-27-2005, 07:43 PM
Something stupid that Killer made up. I suppose it has something to do with Deneise......or who the hell knows what goes on in that crazy mind of his.:rolleyes:
Heh. He didn't make it up. However, it fits you rather well. You've always got one in the pink and one in the stink, it seems.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:45 PM
Something tells me, that even with the Urban dictionary, and other tips........she's still going to need either a verbal illustration, or a stick drawing.

jcroft
04-27-2005, 07:46 PM
Something tells me, that even with the Urban dictionary, and other tips........she's still going to need either a verbal illustration, or a stick drawing.

One in the goo, one in the poo.

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:46 PM
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=DP



:rolleyes:.....freak

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:47 PM
I'm guessing she's more of a "3P" anyway.

Someone in that room would surely want to muffle the racket.

jcroft
04-27-2005, 07:48 PM
I'm guessing she's more of a "3P" anyway.

Someone in that room would surely want to muffle the racket.

Where I come from we call that "airtight."

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:49 PM
Heh. He didn't make it up. However, it fits you rather well. You've always got one in the pink and one in the stink, it seems.




And you know this how...:hmmm:

Saulbadguy
04-27-2005, 07:49 PM
One in the goo, one in the poo.
One in the mud, one in the blood.

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 07:50 PM
I'm guessing she's more of a "3P" anyway.

Someone in that room would surely want to muffle the racket.






Well you got one out of three right.ROFL

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 07:50 PM
:rolleyes:.....freak

Hey, I'm not one of your "landscapers".

I provide the Online thesaurus of name calling, and "freak" is all you can come up with?

Getting back on track, You have posted that your Husband(poor man) brings in eleventy-thousand bones per year, so we KNOW what your turnons are. Green-Franklin Pheramones. You're looking fabulous after the trimspa baby.

chiefs4me
04-27-2005, 08:40 PM
Hey, I'm not one of your "landscapers".

I provide the Online thesaurus of name calling, and "freak" is all you can come up with?

Getting back on track, You have posted that your Husband(poor man) brings in eleventy-thousand bones per year, so we KNOW what your turnons are. Green-Franklin Pheramones. You're looking fabulous after the trimspa baby.



idiot.....:rolleyes:

Claynus
04-27-2005, 09:26 PM
Woo!

cheeeefs
04-27-2005, 09:49 PM
Very well....flame away.

I have some pics of her as well...I don't know why I bothered talking to her, she was clearly out of my league.

http://jastermereel.homestead.com/files/chat.htm

I'll start with the fact that I'm no chick magnet but I do okay.

I met my girl online, we've been together two years now. She's one of the hottest women I know and is in law school with a lot of other perks, all in all a real great catch.

The one thing that struck me about your conversation is it was frikken BORING, that's why she didn't come back to talk to you. It doesn't matter what you talk about, it doesn't matter what you look like to her. Short of being a super-asshole, You can be a nerd, you can be ugly, you can be whatever the F* you wanna be, just embrace it and make fun of it if its funny, ignore it if its not. Just be fun, however you can be... crazy, silly, stupid, whatever... just make sure that she is laughing so much she cries, put a perma-smile on her face and it doesn't matter if she thinks you are a nerd or what not. The one thing that is guaranteed is that she'll come back for more, not necessarily because she wants to date you (at first) but because she genuinely has tons of fun just talking to you. Once that is accomplished, the rest all works out on its own.

Plus, don't make the focus of your conversation her looks or your looks. Don't ask for a pic right away, if she offers to send pics, by all means take a look so you can find out if your interested. However, don't ogle over them and don't critique them just make some honest observations that make her feel good about how you think she looks. make her smile and laugh and comfortable before you ever ask her to send pictures, for some people that's a really scary thing whether they are hot or not. If they are extremely unattractive to you, you've only wasted a few hours of your life... you waste that and more on the planet every night, might as well invest it into the possibility of getting laid (or building a relationship) whichever one you are angling for.

ENDelt260
04-27-2005, 10:15 PM
put a perma-smile on her face

A wise man once told me that women are like bathroom tile.

tk13
04-27-2005, 10:20 PM
A wise man once told me that women are like bathroom tile.
Cold, wet, and slippery?

Claynus
04-27-2005, 10:22 PM
Cold, wet, and slippery?

No. You can piss on 'em and walk all over 'em.

morphius
04-27-2005, 10:29 PM
So, what if you have caught a girl checking you out from head to toe when you run into her in the hallway more then once?

I find it gigglesome either way and will just pretend she is attracted to me as she is the only girl on my floor who is remotely attractive.

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 10:30 PM
idiot.....:rolleyes:

Clam diving sukubus.

Given your abilities, I'd kindly recommend you find another insult target before I have to get the clamhammer out and wake up the Keyboard of doooooom.

jcroft
04-27-2005, 10:34 PM
No. You can piss on 'em and walk all over 'em.

Actually, I think it was more like, "lay them right the first time, and you can walk all over them for the rest of your life."

Iowanian
04-27-2005, 10:35 PM
Thats what the wise man said.

cheeeefs
04-27-2005, 10:59 PM
Clam diving sukubus.

Given your abilities, I'd kindly recommend you find another insult target before I have to get the clamhammer out and wake up the Keyboard of doooooom.

Not to ruin your slam4me mojo, very entertaining indeed.

but it is "succubus"

carry on.

Rausch
04-27-2005, 11:17 PM
Or you could learn to read microexpressions and a little psycology.

With a dash of common sense...

cheeeefs
04-27-2005, 11:29 PM
Or you could learn to read microexpressions and a little psycology.

With a dash of common sense...

I've consulted my "Fru3d_2.0...l0L!11!!"

and here is a short beginning list of online microexpressions

:( - I'm giving you a sad face because you said something negative, I couldn't really give a shit, but its so easy to pretend online.

lol - You think you're funny. You're the only one. I am crying inside.

ROFLMAO - I'm an unoriginal tramp whose skills in the field of articulation are limited, but I'm a "h0t A$$" cyberchick so ignore this shortcoming.

OMG I lUv U! - I'm an unoriginal tramp whose skills in the field of articulation are truly limited, but I'm a "h0t A$$" cyberchick so you will ignore this shortcoming

l33t sp34K Rox - I'm a dumb ****, shoot me.

Claynus
04-28-2005, 09:06 AM
Damn, no Kcchiefsman nuggets of wisdom?

Claynus
10-04-2008, 01:09 AM
This thread is good. Any stories, guys?

StcChief
10-04-2008, 07:10 AM
Actually, I think it was more like, "lay them right the first time, and you can walk all over them for the rest of your life."
no you must keep laying 'em right...

Fairplay
10-04-2008, 08:39 AM
I remember in Psychology class one of the signs they said is if a girl legs are towards you and they are open. lol

Everyone laughed at that one.

Fairplay
10-04-2008, 08:44 AM
I can't wait until kcchiefsman weighs in on this subject. I'll take notes.



Did you see that picture of KCchiefsmen in the "I have a date thread"?

Its a picture he provided about 4 years ago when him and his friend went to vegas to prove they got pussy.

Its hilarious.

I resurface it on occasion.

JuicesFlowing
10-04-2008, 08:51 AM
One time a woman followed me into the men's restroom at a bar. That's a sign that a woman likes a guy. It was pretty cool until the angry mob of drunk men who needed to piss started pounding on the door.

RJ
10-04-2008, 09:50 AM
Sarah Palin definitely did 1 thru 3 Thursday night. I couldn't see her feet.

Cntrygal
10-04-2008, 09:59 AM
Bob Dole supposes all the anti-smoking sentiment is the reason they left out the "if she touches your hand when you light her cigarette" indicator.

I always thought that was to prevent an "accidental" burning of the face/hair.

rtmike
10-04-2008, 04:29 PM
I remember in Psychology class one of the signs they said is if a girl legs are towards you and they are open. lol

Everyone laughed at that one.


I can vouch for that. And it was a mini skirt with no panties. ;)

I've had a couple just outright grab the boyz. Always knew I was gettin sum when that happened.

The ol' eyebrow raise was another giveaway.

Tonguing the straw of a drink while lookin' at ya'.