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Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:07 AM
Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?

Baby Lee
01-23-2006, 10:09 AM
Was there an orgasm?

Skip Towne
01-23-2006, 10:10 AM
I would never do such a thing. But I'll bet Rainman would.

Hoover
01-23-2006, 10:11 AM
I had to put Gaz on ignore because of this. All those Hugs and Kisses at the end of each message really made me uncomfortable.

mlyonsd
01-23-2006, 10:15 AM
I had to put Gaz on ignore because of this. All those Hugs and Kisses at the end of each message really made me uncomfortable.

I think he's harmless. I would only worry if he offers you a Tequila Rose in a glass that you didn't watch him pour.

Bowser
01-23-2006, 10:15 AM
I think when someone goes behind a SO's back and flirts online, it's easier to shrug it off as "innocent". Is it right? Probably not. But this sounds like it's more of a problem with communication between the two spouses. Personally, I probably wouldn't be comfortable with it.

The question is, is it a regular occurance with this SO?

Saulbadguy
01-23-2006, 10:17 AM
I would say if the SO is open about it, and doesn't try to hide it, it's all innocent fun.

If they go out of their way to hide it, it's wrong.

Infidel Goat
01-23-2006, 10:17 AM
Did Oprah steal Clint's log-in?

I mean, really, he just started a thread about on-line flirting.

--Infidel Goat

Katipan
01-23-2006, 10:18 AM
Dear Lord.

I don't even care if my man flirts with the waitress bringing our beer. Much less some lonely girl on the internet.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:18 AM
I would say if the SO is open about it, and doesn't try to hide it, it's all innocent fun.

If they go out of their way to hide it, it's wrong.

My thoughts exactly.

mlyonsd
01-23-2006, 10:19 AM
Did Oprah steal Clint's log-in?

I mean, really, he just started a thread about on-line flirting.

--Infidel Goat

If he follows it up with a "Good books to read" thread you might be onto something.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:20 AM
Dear Lord.

I don't even care if my man flirts with the waitress bringing our beer. Much less some lonely girl on the internet.


Keep in mind that "flirting" can cover an awful lot of territory...especially online. I'm not just talking about a giggle or a wink.

Of course, some people feel nothing is wrong until bodily fluids are exchanged.

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 10:20 AM
I only participate in football message boards and poker sites. I always assume its a dude on the other end, unless I know better.

I made a rule with my wife before we hitched that when I wasn't around, she should simply ask herself.."If Iowanian were watching or listening right now, would he be pissed off?" If the answer is yes, don't do it.

I do my best to follow the same rule.

I think my limit would be the following.
1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts)
2. Is it in the public forum?
If it were in Email or PM form....Heads would roll for sure.

I trust my bride and she has no reason not to trust me, so its not a problem.

But I'm an asshole.

ChiTown
01-23-2006, 10:21 AM
As long as thy dont perfect the technology so as to get cyber-spew on my wife's face, I'm ok with it. That said, I generally keep my wife locked up in a dungeon...................

KCTitus
01-23-2006, 10:21 AM
Does 'flirting' also include unwarranted positive 'rep'?

I really need a ruling on this one.

mlyonsd
01-23-2006, 10:22 AM
1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts)


IMO that's the first and best question to figuring out if you've gone too far.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:23 AM
I only participate in football message boards and poker sites. I always assume its a dude on the other end, unless I know better.

I made a rule with my wife before we hitched that when I wasn't around, she should simply ask herself.."If Iowanian were watching or listening right now, would he be pissed off?" If the answer is yes, don't do it.

I do my best to follow the same rule.

I think my limit would be the following.
1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts)
2. Is it in the public forum?
If it were in Email or PM form....Heads would roll for sure.

I trust my bride and she has no reason not to trust me, so its not a problem.

But I'm an asshole.


I concur, word-for-word.

Simply Red
01-23-2006, 10:23 AM
I only participate in football message boards and poker sites. I always assume its a dude on the other end, unless I know better.

I made a rule with my wife before we hitched that when I wasn't around, she should simply ask herself.."If Iowanian were watching or listening right now, would he be pissed off?" If the answer is yes, don't do it.

I do my best to follow the same rule.

I think my limit would be the following.
1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts)
2. Is it in the public forum?
If it were in Email or PM form....Heads would roll for sure.

I trust my bride and she has no reason not to trust me, so its not a problem.

But I'm an asshole.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 10:24 AM
Keep in mind that "flirting" can cover an awful lot of territory...especially online. I'm not just talking about a giggle or a wink.

Of course, some people feel nothing is wrong until bodily fluids are exchanged.

Eh. It's nothing against how anyone else feels. I adore Iowanni and I think his philosophy is nuts too. But since I don't get to date him, I'll just have to accept that it works for his relationship.

There are more than a couple flirty PMs in my box. But I wouldn't hide a damn one of them from my guy.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:25 AM
Does 'flirting' also include unwarranted positive 'rep'?

I really need a ruling on this one.

That all depends on the message that accompanies the rep.

If the rep was only sent so as to type out a "secret message" to the recpient, then you may have flirting going on!

Simply Red
01-23-2006, 10:26 AM
Asshole? No. You aren't an Asshole. You are just insecure and don't like yourself. You wish you were an Asshole.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 10:27 AM
Clint,

Insecurity is unattractive, just thought you would like to know. The level of attraction your women feels for you is what makes her want to stay with you. How does it feel going through life with a big red insecurity button on your chest that everyone knows is there and can push to make you go off anytime they want? What's even more ridiculous is were talking about a guy who's woman brings other women home to him.

Skip Towne
01-23-2006, 10:28 AM
I only participate in football message boards and poker sites. I always assume its a dude on the other end, unless I know better.

I made a rule with my wife before we hitched that when I wasn't around, she should simply ask herself.."If Iowanian were watching or listening right now, would he be pissed off?" If the answer is yes, don't do it.

I do my best to follow the same rule.

I think my limit would be the following.
1. Would she care if I were reading it(or would I care if she read my posts)
2. Is it in the public forum?
If it were in Email or PM form....Heads would roll for sure.

I trust my bride and she has no reason not to trust me, so its not a problem.

But I'm an asshole.
So why are you always flirting with Chiefs4me then?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 10:29 AM
I just wanna make it clear to everyone right now.... clint's wife did NOT take my virginity.

RedNFeisty
01-23-2006, 10:29 AM
What have I done wrong now!?!


I proclaim my innocence!!

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 10:31 AM
Eh. It's nothing against how anyone else feels. I adore Iowanni and I think his philosophy is nuts too. But since I don't get to date him, I'll just have to accept that it works for his relationship.

There are more than a couple flirty PMs in my box. But I wouldn't hide a damn one of them from my guy.


Lets clarify something specifically.
I'm very confident in my relationship and the job I do at home. I have no reason to be jealous of anything my wife does. Initially, I didn't like it that she was still friendly with a former long term boyfriend, but once I met the guy, I could care less if they talk on the phone twice a year, or if she wants to have a drink with him and other friends at their class reunion that I hope to dodge again.

For the most part....I'm the one dinking around online, and if she is, its asking other hens about home remedies for infant constipation.

Under other circumstances, with another woman, with other morals and scruples than the one I chose to be with.....my story might go a little different.

I trust her, and I'd let her read anything here or in my email she wanted. She doesn't ask, because she trusts me, but she could.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:33 AM
Clint,

Insecurity is unattractive, just thought you would like to know. The level of attraction your women feels for you is what makes her want to stay with you. How does it feel going through life with a big red insecurity button on your chest that everyone knows is there and can push to make you go off anytime they want? What's even more ridiculous is were talking about a guy who's woman brings other women home to him.


What makes you so sure I posted this for personal reasons?

As for the last sentence, don't believe everything you read.

Cochise
01-23-2006, 10:34 AM
I think I would be angry about that. The question to me isn't, "is there anything wrong with it", it's "why do you feel the need to do that...?"

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 10:41 AM
I think I would be angry about that. The question to me isn't, "is there anything wrong with it", it's "why do you feel the need to do that...?"
Cause flirting's fun. It's not that you need to do it... but, it beats the hell out of arguing.

sedated
01-23-2006, 10:42 AM
What's even more ridiculous is were talking about a guy who's woman brings other women home to him.


kinda like feeding jabba the hut?

She opens the door and lets the unsuspecting woman in, flicks on the lights, gives her a push, and shuts the door.

the screams echo through the halls of the housing project, then are silenced...

patteeu
01-23-2006, 10:44 AM
I think at some point it goes over the line, but I'd have a hard time defining where that is any better than Iowanian's if-my-SO-reads-it-will-he/she-care rule, so I'll go with that. The specific answer to the question you really want to ask is "hell yes it's wrong and you should give R&F a severe spanking when she gets home tonight." ;)

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 10:46 AM
I think there are different levels.

"hey fine thing, your type'n is teh sexaaaaaaah.....what do you think Pitt is going to do to stop the Denver Roll out?"...is fine with me.

out in the open, with a little comment here or there isn't any big deal to me, but an email with personal info or a detailed blow by blow of what you're gonna do? Yeah.

If I send some broad a PM telling her that I'd like to speed read the chinese alphabet in tongue-brail on her pearl, my wife should be pissed at me.

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 10:48 AM
I'm still not convinced that "Mer" isn't just the handle Endelt posts under when he's got his junk tucked and the lipstick on.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:49 AM
Cause flirting's fun. It's not that you need to do it... but, it beats the hell out of arguing.

What makes flirting fun, at least to guys, is the fact that EVERY ONE OF THEM has a little part of their brain that's telling them "they just might get some someday".

Don't deny it; to say otherwise is pure BS.

FAX
01-23-2006, 10:50 AM
I think Mr. Iowanian's approach is correct.

There is a distinction between "innocent" flirtation and something more serious.

But, if your SO gets you PO'd you can always KO the SO. That usually solves the problem.

FAX

jidar
01-23-2006, 10:52 AM
Kick that bitch to the curb!

No seriously, if you're uncomfortable with it then it shouldn't be going on. That's marraige man.
She should respect your feelings enough not to do that type of shit. It goes both ways as well.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 10:53 AM
I'm fairly sure it's pretty fun to watch men puff up with self importance just because you were able to string 3 words together that inflated his ego.

We don't need flirting on the internet for the dream of getting laid. Every guy on the street is a potential dream.

I do need Iowanni to blow me tho.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 10:56 AM
So why are you always flirting with Chiefs4me then?







ah skip, you have been out of the loop to long...killer calling me slut is NOT flirting old man......ROFL

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 10:57 AM
I'm still not convinced that "Mer" isn't just the handle Endelt posts under when he's got his junk tucked and the lipstick on.
They told me to stop wearing lipstick to the office, actually.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 10:58 AM
I'm fairly sure it's pretty fun to watch men puff up with self importance just because you were able to string 3 words together that inflated his ego.

We don't need flirting on the internet for the dream of getting laid. Every guy on the street is a potential dream.

I do need Iowanni to blow me tho.

Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 10:59 AM
What makes flirting fun, at least to guys, is the fact that EVERY ONE OF THEM has a little part of their brain that's telling them "they just might get some someday".

Don't deny it; to say otherwise is pure BS.
I like to get a rise out of people in general. My flirting might be a little different than most. My overall goal is to get the gal's jaw to drop and that "oh my godd.... did he really just say that to me?" look on her face.

But, yeah... I don't so much flirt with ugly girls.

Donger
01-23-2006, 11:00 AM
You can flirt online?

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 11:01 AM
I like to get a rise out of people in general. My flirting might be a little different than most. My overall goal is to get the gal's jaw to drop and that "oh my godd.... did he really just say that to me?" look on her face.

But, yeah... I don't so much flirt with ugly girls.


You can't bullsh!t me.

The fact that you found a cute little angle doesn't change what's going on between your ears.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 11:02 AM
Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.

Any time a guy talks to me at all that's what he's thinking.

Chiefs Express
01-23-2006, 11:04 AM
Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?

I'm new but this intrigued me.

I think flirting on a bulletin board is just words unless pictures, emails and phone calls are involved.

I haven't seen any pictures so I'd guess it's just words being exchanged.

I do know, from experience, that trust is like a soap bubble, once broken it cannot be replaced.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 11:04 AM
Any time a guy talks to me at all that's what he's thinking.
Pshaw. Sometimes I'm thinking, "Why the hell hasn't she opened my beer yet?"

Chiefs Express
01-23-2006, 11:06 AM
Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.

I would take exception to this, once a guy gets past say 50, he could be trying to row his boat with a piece of rope. If you have a desire for sex but cannot do the deed, is it still cheating?

Katipan
01-23-2006, 11:07 AM
Pshaw. Sometimes I'm thinking, "Why the hell hasn't she opened my beer yet?"

Funny. All it takes is an empty cup and a smile to get you to brave the artic cold to reach the kegger for me.

Get off the Internet and go back to work.

I'm flirting here.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 11:08 AM
I'm flirting here.

You're doing a pretty crappy job of it. I haven't seen you offer to suck Clint's cock once.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 11:10 AM
You're doing a pretty crappy job of it. I haven't seen you offer to suck Clint's cock once.

Random blowjob offers to a strange man?

Sounds pretty slutty to me.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 11:11 AM
Random blowjob offers to a strange man?

Sounds pretty slutty to me.
It's not very nice to call Clint strange. You might hurt his feelings.

luv
01-23-2006, 11:12 AM
Some people perceive things wrong. Someone can be nice to someone, and that person will think they are being flirted with. Some people, it's just their personalities, and they don't even realize they're doing it. Some people are completely different people when they are online. You can say things that you normally wouldn't say because you're not face to face. I would say that it also depends on the intent. You can flirt with someone knowing fully well that you have no plans of meeting them in person.

Lurch
01-23-2006, 11:15 AM
Some people perceive things wrong. Someone can be nice to someone, and that person will think they are being flirted with. Some people, it's just their personalities, and they don't even realize they're doing it. Some people are completely different people when they are online. You can say things that you normally wouldn't say because you're not face to face. I would say that it also depends on the intent. You can flirt with someone knowing fully well that you have no plans of meeting them in person.

Hey, sweetheart. Are you happy to see me, or did you just pee your pants a little bit?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 11:16 AM
The funniest thing about online flirting is how many people are really, really bad at it.

Sometimes I wonder how some of you f*ckers get laid in real life. Thank the Lord for alcohol, I guess.

luv
01-23-2006, 11:17 AM
Hey, sweetheart. Are you happy to see me, or did you just pee your pants a little bit?
All for you, baby.

Lurch
01-23-2006, 11:20 AM
The funniest thing about online flirting is how many people are really, really bad at it.

Sometimes I wonder how some of you f*ckers get laid in real life. Thank the Lord for alcohol, I guess.


Yeah, I figured out that "You don't want to dance? Well, how about a blowjob then?" didn't work by the end of my Junior year in college...

Lurch
01-23-2006, 11:21 AM
All for you, baby.

Have you been a BAAAAADDDDD girl, Luv? I mean, REALLY baaaaaddddd.....

Saulbadguy
01-23-2006, 11:22 AM
The funniest thing about online flirting is how many people are really, really bad at it.

Sometimes I wonder how some of you f*ckers get laid in real life. Thank the Lord for alcohol, I guess.
Reminds me of the old days in AOL chatrooms.

luv
01-23-2006, 11:26 AM
Have you been a BAAAAADDDDD girl, Luv? I mean, REALLY baaaaaddddd.....
Guess that means I need a spanking, huh?

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 11:37 AM
What makes you so sure I posted this for personal reasons?

As for the last sentence, don't believe everything you read.

Clint, please it's me your talking to.

As for the last line I feel for you if that's not the case. I thought your last B-day present came in panties. I also was led to believe your wife was bisexual. Being a guy who has never had a girlfriend who was not bisexual I understood a long time ago that women like that have a fairly large libido. With that comes flirtation mainly with women but sometimes with guys as well. She knows where the line is when it comes to men. If your wife is indeed bisexual though this sex drive is not going to go away anytime soon. I guess you have to choose how you want to live your life moving forward knowing this. Embracing it with an honest understanding of where those boundries lie is the key to having a good long term relationship with a bisexual woman IMO. Bisexual women usually leave their man for one reason more than any other, jealousy.

Dartgod
01-23-2006, 11:41 AM
Cause flirting's fun. It's not that you need to do it... but it beats the hell out of arguing.No, it doesn't.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 11:47 AM
No, it doesn't.
Awwww.... c'mere cutie pie.

patteeu
01-23-2006, 11:47 AM
No, it doesn't.

ROFL

cadmonkey
01-23-2006, 11:50 AM
Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?


Alright, who's Red been talking too?

Baby Lee
01-23-2006, 11:53 AM
No, it doesn't.
An argument isn't just contradiction. An argument is a connected series of statements intended to establish a proposition. Argument is an intellectual process. Contradiction is just the automatic gainsaying of any statement the other person makes.

Dartgod
01-23-2006, 11:54 AM
Awwww.... c'mere cutie pie.
The correct response would have been, "Yes, it does", to which I would have responded, "No, it doesn't", etc., etc....

I thought for sure you would have caught the Monty Python reference.

Dartgod
01-23-2006, 11:55 AM
An argument isn't just contradiction. An argument is a connected series of statements intended to establish a proposition. Argument is an intellectual process. Contradiction is just the automatic gainsaying of any statement the other person makes.
No it isn't.


See, BL got it...

Saulbadguy
01-23-2006, 12:02 PM
I can't argue with you until you've paid!

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 12:14 PM
The correct response would have been, "Yes, it does", to which I would have responded, "No, it doesn't", etc., etc....

I thought for sure you would have caught the Monty Python reference.
You're so cute when you're being disigerent.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 12:16 PM
You're so cute when you're being disigerent.

If he's sending you frisky PMs heads are going to roll.

keg in kc
01-23-2006, 12:19 PM
What?

ChiefsOne
01-23-2006, 12:19 PM
Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.

Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.

No exceptions.


Plenty of exceptions. Fat women, ugly women, your buddies SO! You can flirt with someone with no intentions of sleeping with them, I would say that happens more often than not.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 12:34 PM
Plenty of exceptions. Fat women, ugly women, your buddies SO! You can flirt with someone with no intentions of sleeping with them, I would say that happens more often than not.

Maybe if you're trying to sell them a car.

Other than that, BS.

sedated
01-23-2006, 12:41 PM
waitresses flirt all the time to get tips.

they don't really want sex.



and they aren't too happy when you wait outside for them all night...sitting in their car...in the backseat...with a knife.

ChiefsOne
01-23-2006, 12:46 PM
Clint your wife flirts, do you honestly believe she wants to screw everyone she flirts with? I believe lots of women just do it for ego or to see how far they can push you.

When you flirt do you want to sleep with them?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 12:46 PM
I'm not above flirting for beer.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 12:47 PM
When you flirt do you want to sleep with them?

Don't be silly. Clint doesn't have permission to flirt.

Predarat
01-23-2006, 12:50 PM
My wife has a problem with me flirting online and looking at pictures of very scantly clad/naked ladys. I simply tell her if she would put out more, instead of flirting with people and looking at pictures on a damn computer id be screwing her and looking at her naked in real life. She gets mad at first but it works!

sedated
01-23-2006, 12:52 PM
I'm not above flirting for beer.


I didn't think there was much you wouldn't do for beer.

I'm not above eating a d!ck for beer.

I'm not above giving hot carls for beer.

I'm not above shaving my girlfriend's back for beer.

luv
01-23-2006, 12:53 PM
I didn't think there was much you wouldn't do for beer.
Since when is Delt married?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 12:57 PM
There are some nights in Vegas that are kinda blurry.

Mr. Laz
01-23-2006, 12:59 PM
What makes you so sure I posted this for personal reasons?
maybe it's because you're on here every other week complaining about people flirting with your wife ....

or your wife flirting with someone else....

or somebody having thoughts of flirting with your wife ...

or there being a picture somewhere around here that someone might have impure thoughts about...

KC Dan
01-23-2006, 12:59 PM
There are some nights in Vegas that are kinda blurry.
Know the feeling, I just had two of those this past week....

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 01:00 PM
Clint,

Did you read my last post?

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 01:01 PM
maybe it's because you're on here every other week complaining about people flirting with your wife ....

or your wife flirting with someone else....

or somebody having thoughts of flirting with your wife ...

or there being a picture somewhere around here that someone might have impure thoughts about...





:D

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 01:04 PM
maybe it's because you're on here every other week complaining about people flirting with your wife ....

or your wife flirting with someone else....

or somebody having thoughts of flirting with your wife ...

or there being a picture somewhere around here that someone might have impure thoughts about...


I only complain about it when it becomes inappropriate IMO.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 01:05 PM
Clint,

Did you read my last post?


Yes, and while I don't disagree, you're barking up the wrong tree.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 01:09 PM
you're barking up the wrong tree.

How so? So what your saying Red is lying to me and she is not bi?

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 01:13 PM
How so? So what your saying Red is lying to me and she is not bi?

No, I'm saying her sexuality is not related to the topic at hand.

Rausch
01-23-2006, 01:17 PM
My g/f just gives me shitty looks.

She knows I'm not going to cheat on her and so do I.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 01:26 PM
No, I'm saying her sexuality is not related to the topic at hand.

Of course it is. You post a subject everyone knows is personal and keep it from being so even though it involves members of the board. Then you want to speak in vague generalities.

1. It isn't appropriate (what isn't appropriate? What's going over the line?)
2. Her sexuality doesn't matter (of course it does flirting is all about sexuality)
3. Your barking up the wrong tree. (how so?)
4. Men just want to **** women that flirt with them (Funny I thought men just want to **** all good looking women I didn't know flirtation was a prerequesite.

If you have a good looking women it comes down to a matter of trust as multiple guys are trying to hit that every day. Other than that it is kind of hard to seriously address you when you keep hiding under the covers trying not to expose yourself on the subject.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 01:30 PM
Of course it is. You post a subject everyone knows is personal and keep it from being so even though it involves members of the board. Then you want to speak in vague generalities.

1. It isn't appropriate (what isn't appropriate? What's going over the line?)
2. Her sexuality doesn't matter (of course it does flirting is all about sexuality)
3. Your barking up the wrong tree. (how so?)
4. Men just want to **** women that flirt with them (Funny I thought men just want to **** all good looking women I didn't know flirtation was a prerequesite.

If you have a good looking women it comes down to a matter of trust as multiple guys are trying to hit that every day. Other than that it is kind of hard to seriously address you when you keep hiding under the covers trying not to expose yourself on the subject.

My original post just asked for the others' opinions on online flirting.

I don't know why any of my personal information would be relevant.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 02:24 PM
My original post just asked for the others' opinions on online flirting.

I don't know why any of my personal information would be relevant.

Because it's the only thing that is relevant and is why you posted this thread and everybody knows it. You want to make it a non-personal issue to feel more comfortable OK. Bottom line is the woman who has a man upset because she flirts online owns him and she knows it. The problem isn't the computer or the guys online either. The problem comes down to being owned and the women becoming board with her relationship because of it. The chase is over she already has his papers. Where is the excitement there? Many guys don't know this but ask a woman and if she is honest will tell you this is the absolute truth. In a relationship it is the womans job to take control of the relationship and it is the mans job to make sure that never takes place. The reason for this is if she ever takes control and he lets her she loses attraction BIG TIME. Women want what they can't have or a least something that still remains a challenge. She may still stay in the relationship but it's not a relationship worth having IMO. The question isn't whether you personally think it is right or wrong. The question is what are you going to do about it? Bitching to all your buddies on the BB she posts on isn't going to do it rest assured. That is a total wussy move and if there is anything in the world more unattractive to a woman than being a wussyman I don't know what it is. Maybe some guy that smells funny or something. I could tell you what to do but you probably wouldn't listen, you never have before.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 02:27 PM
The problem comes down to being owned and the women becoming board with her relationship because of it. The chase is over she already has his papers. Where is the excitement there? Many guys don't know this but ask a woman and if she is honest will tell you this is the absolute truth. In a relationship it is the womans job to take control of the relationship and it is the mans job to make sure that never takes place. The reason for this is if she ever takes control and he lets her she loses attraction BIG TIME. Women want what they can't have or a least something that still remains a challenge. She may still stay in the relationship but it's not a relationship worth having IMO.

It's so sickeningly true.

I don't know why men date us.

Fruit Ninja
01-23-2006, 02:29 PM
Its wrong if your with a significant other, becuase that shit can turn out to be much much more then just internet flirting.

Its not a bad thing one of my best friends is a chick i have met from a chat room back in like 1996. She comes down to visit every so often. Hell, once she brought her friend with her, and me and her friend hooked up nd ated for a while, before i ****ed it all up. Should have kept her, she was so damn nice. Oh well, mistakes people make. lol

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 02:33 PM
It's so sickeningly true.

I don't know why men date us.
It's easier than fetching my own beers from the fridge.

Lurch
01-23-2006, 02:35 PM
It's so sickeningly true.

I don't know why men date us.

Two words: Keegle excercises

They keep us coming back.

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 02:36 PM
There is a simple answer to your query, Mer.

Its because while women have half the brains....they have ALL the cooter.

Inspector
01-23-2006, 02:38 PM
Dear Lord.

I don't even care if my man flirts with the waitress bringing our beer. Much less some lonely girl on the internet.

I think I love you.

Oh wait, is that flirting???

scooter
01-23-2006, 02:39 PM
An argument isn't just contradiction. An argument is a connected series of statements intended to establish a proposition. Argument is an intellectual process. Contradiction is just the automatic gainsaying of any statement the other person makes.

If you want me to go on arguing, you'll have to pay for another five minutes.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 02:40 PM
Because it's the only thing that is relevant and is why you posted this thread and everybody knows it. You want to make it a non-personal issue to feel more comfortable OK. Bottom line is the woman who has a man upset because she flirts online owns him and she knows it. The problem isn't the computer or the guys online either. The problem comes down to being owned and the women becoming board with her relationship because of it. The chase is over she already has his papers. Where is the excitement there? Many guys don't know this but ask a woman and if she is honest will tell you this is the absolute truth. In a relationship it is the womans job to take control of the relationship and it is the mans job to make sure that never takes place. The reason for this is if she ever takes control and he lets her she loses attraction BIG TIME. Women want what they can't have or a least something that still remains a challenge. She may still stay in the relationship but it's not a relationship worth having IMO. The question isn't whether you personally think it is right or wrong. The question is what are you going to do about it? Bitching to all your buddies on the BB she posts on isn't going to do it rest assured. That is a total wussy move and if there is anything in the world more unattractive to a woman than being a wussyman I don't know what it is. Maybe some guy that smells funny or something. I could tell you what to do but you probably wouldn't listen, you never have before.

Women (men too) who need a "chase" simply need to grow up.

BTW, I never did get your opinion on online flirting...

Lurch
01-23-2006, 02:43 PM
Is this your way of telling us to leave Red alone? If so, just come out and say, "Guys, I don't appreciate ya'all messing with Red." That would be preferable to beating around the bush about it. Of course, that would likely only increase the "flirting," heh.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 02:45 PM
Is this your way of telling us to leave Red alone? If so, just come out and say, "Guys, I don't appreciate ya'all messing with Red." That would be preferable to beating around the bush about it.


Not at all.

If that's what I wanted to say, believe me, I'd say it.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 02:48 PM
It's so sickeningly true.

I don't know why men date us.

I don't know what I'm talking about though just ask Clint. You will find him bitching on a sports BB about his wifes flirting behavior.

No matter how much a man loves his women he has to be ready to leave that relationship rather than lose control at any time if he wants it to be a good one. It's not like women I have been with over the years have not crossed the line. Instead of bitching about it to her and having a fight and acting all jealous thereby losing all power in the relationship I chose to go another direction, exactly the opposite of what you would expect. Without getting jealous at all I just told her I thought she should hook up with that guy. I told her how hot he was and said I would want to **** him if I was a woman and left it at that. I gotta tell you it worked wonderfully. "I love you. I want to be with you. Stop it that's not funny" type of reactions followed by the hug that announces to whoever the other guy is that she has no intention of wandering.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 02:51 PM
I don't know what I'm talking about though just ask Clint. You will find him bitching on a sports BB about his wifes flirting behavior.

No matter how much a man loves his women he has to be ready to leave that relationship rather than lose control at any time if he wants it to be a good one. It's not like women I have been with over the years have not crossed the line. Instead of bitching about it to her and having a fight and acting all jealous thereby losing all power in the relationship I chose to go another direction, exactly the opposite of what you would expect. Without getting jealous at all I just told her I thought she should hook up with that guy. I told her how hot he was and said I would want to **** him if I was a woman and left it at that. I gotta tell you it worked wonderfully. "I love you. I want to be with you. Stop it that's not funny" type of reactions followed by the hug that announces to whoever the other guy is that she has no intention of wandering.


So, she fed you a line like, "I love you, I want to be with you" and you ate it up.

Who's the bitch again?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 02:52 PM
Hey Big Daddy.... next time you pull that trick, can I be "that guy"? Y'know... just in case it doesn't go the way you expect.

Lurch
01-23-2006, 02:56 PM
Hey Big Daddy.... next time you pull that trick, can I be "that guy"? Y'know... just in case it doesn't go the way you expect.

Especially if he ad libs, and adds: "Yeah, you know what would be really hot right now? Why don't you drop to your knees and give him a blowjob right now. I'd consider it a parting gift."

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 02:56 PM
Women (men too) who need a "chase" simply need to grow up.

BTW, I never did get your opinion on online flirting...

Online flirting, going in a club flirting whatever. I give lil momma a lot of slack. She can do what she wants within reason. Fortunately she likes women at least as much as men so she is usually flirting with them. I can do what I want though and do. It's worked for a long time but I have to admit it's not for everyone. Most people are not secure enough to be like that.

FAX
01-23-2006, 02:57 PM
This debate is too general imo. Maybe someone should start an official planet flirting thread.

That way, we can centralize all the Planet flirting into one thread and grade FPs (flirt posts) as "over the bounds", "innocent fun", "borderline internet fraud", etc.

I would start it, but my threads don't work out very well.

FAX

Katipan
01-23-2006, 03:04 PM
This debate is too general imo. Maybe someone should start an official planet flirting thread.

That way, we can centralize all the Planet flirting into one thread and grade FPs (flirt posts) as "over the bounds", "innocent fun", "borderline internet fraud", etc.

I would start it, but my threads don't work out very well.

FAX

Want to touch my breast?

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:05 PM
So, she fed you a line like, "I love you, I want to be with you" and you ate it up.

Who's the bitch again?

I let her have slack if I didn't she wouldn't do it. At the end of the night she is always coming home with me. If she cheats she's gone. It's real simple I don't feel the need to piss on my territory to mark it. She knows if if we break up it will take me no time to go out and get another woman who is hot and I will. She knows all my past girlfriends have been bi too so I will find another. I gotta tell you I feel more secure in our relationship than the great majority of people we know. I am WAY more secure in ours that you are in yours. Who's approach is working better? Call me a bitch all you want.

Taco John
01-23-2006, 03:09 PM
It there a distinction between "Online Flirting" and "Online Sex?"

I think online flirting is pretty harmless in a relationship. Flirting is human nature. I think Online Sex is a different story... One that I don't think I completely understand.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:10 PM
I let her have slack if I didn't she wouldn't do it. At the end of the night she is always coming home with me. If she cheats she's gone. It's real simple I don't feel the need to piss on my territory to mark it. She knows if if we break up it will take me no time to go out and get another woman who is hot and I will. She knows all my past girlfriends have been bi too so I will find another. I gotta tell you I feel more secure in our relationship than the great majority of people we know. I am WAY more secure in ours that you are in yours. Who's approach is working better? Call me a bitch all you want.



Which brings us back to the original topic. What constitutes cheating in your book?

Taco John
01-23-2006, 03:11 PM
Online flirting, going in a club flirting whatever. I give lil momma a lot of slack. She can do what she wants within reason. Fortunately she likes women at least as much as men so she is usually flirting with them. I can do what I want though and do. It's worked for a long time but I have to admit it's not for everyone. Most people are not secure enough to be like that.



I don't get it... You're allowed to cheat on her, but she's not allowed to cheat on you?

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:12 PM
It there a distinction between "Online Flirting" and "Online Sex?"

I think online flirting is pretty harmless in a relationship. Flirting is human nature. I think Online Sex is a different story... One that I don't think I completely understand.


Bah, murder is human nature, too.


Online sex is retarded. One step below people who jerk off in porn theaters.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:13 PM
Hey Big Daddy.... next time you pull that trick, can I be "that guy"? Y'know... just in case it doesn't go the way you expect.


ROFL


It's funny sometimes things get takin out of context when your trying to make a point. We don't go out that much and when we do she almost always flirts with women and rarely guys unless she is interested in their women. Whatever, the point is acting jealous makes you lose all control in the relationship. Funny thing about some people. They do something and it doesn't work so instead of figuring out what will they just keep doing the wrong thing stronger.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 03:13 PM
It there a distinction between "Online Flirting" and "Online Sex?"

I think online flirting is pretty harmless in a relationship. Flirting is human nature. I think Online Sex is a different story... One that I don't think I completely understand.

You did seem a little lost our first few times.

patteeu
01-23-2006, 03:14 PM
I don't get it... You're allowed to cheat on her, but she's not allowed to cheat on you?

Only with men. ;)

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:16 PM
Which brings us back to the original topic. What constitutes cheating in your book?

OK specifics. Cheating is sex specifically. What is going too far? Groping on each other, kissing, blowjobs, sex. Specific enough?

Taco John
01-23-2006, 03:16 PM
You did seem a little lost our first few times.


I just thought it was wierd licking a keyboard... Once I got past that part, it was all downhill baby... :)

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:17 PM
OK specifics. Cheating is sex specifically. What is going too far? Groping on each other, kissing, blowjobs, sex. Specific enough?


Cool, thanks for answering.

Is there nothing outside of actual physical contact that would disturb you?

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:18 PM
I don't get it... You're allowed to cheat on her, but she's not allowed to cheat on you?

We went out this weekend and I was dancing with different girls, she doesn't care that I spend time with them or hang out. Of course I don't cheat on her unless you consider having sex with another women in a threesome as cheating.

Sully
01-23-2006, 03:21 PM
Some ****ed up views of Love in here... but that's normal in any online community, I suppose.

KC Dan
01-23-2006, 03:21 PM
Of course I don't cheat on her unless you consider having sex with another women in a threesome as cheating.
:doh!:

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:23 PM
Some ****ed up views of Love in here... but that's normal in any online community, I suppose.


What gets me is how I'm an a$$hole for bringing it up.

I'm like a cop at a frat party.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:24 PM
Cool, thanks for answering.

Is there nothing outside of actual physical contact that would disturb you?

There is physical contact in dancing or dirty dancing but as long as it is not groping kissing kind of shit I am OK with that.

Besides that. There is no reason for her to be getting a guys phone number. Online I suppose if they were going on about how she wanted him to do her I would have to take a serious look at our relationship. That's not sharing mutual stuff.

Donger
01-23-2006, 03:25 PM
Of course I don't cheat on her unless you consider having sex with another women in a threesome as cheating.

No kidding? Interesting.

My wife would never go for a threesome, unless Angelina Jolie shows up at the front door.

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 03:26 PM
What gets me is how I'm an a$$hole for bringing it up.

I'm like a cop at a frat party.

I don't think your an asshole I just don't think your handling it right. I gotta go to a meeting and am out though so I'll see you guys tomorrow.

FAX
01-23-2006, 03:26 PM
No kidding? Interesting.

My wife would never go for a threesome, unless Angelina Jolie shows up at the front door.

Dude, I would wash her legs.

FAX

KC Dan
01-23-2006, 03:26 PM
What gets me is how I'm an a$$hole for bringing it up.

I'm like a cop at a frat party.
More like a Fart at a Cop's party.

Sully
01-23-2006, 03:27 PM
I think this thread was, for all inents and purposes, over with Iowanian's answer.
I think that would pretty much cover all things.

Mecca
01-23-2006, 03:28 PM
I flirted with some guys wife online before........I'm obviously a bad man.

Donger
01-23-2006, 03:28 PM
Dude, I would wash her legs.

FAX

Why? Is she known for having dirty legs?

Mecca
01-23-2006, 03:29 PM
Why? Is she known for having dirty legs?

FAX must have some weird fetish that I don't wanna know about.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:33 PM
I flirted with some guys wife online before........I'm obviously a bad man.


Apparently, by today's standards, you are the norm.

Only people like me, who frown on such behavior, are bad people.

Skip Towne
01-23-2006, 03:34 PM
ah skip, you have been out of the loop to long...killer calling me slut is NOT flirting old man......ROFL
He's just trying to get you to notice him.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 03:48 PM
Apparently, by today's standards, you are the norm.

Only people like me, who frown on such behavior, are bad people.

Not bad. Just high maintenance.

Chiefs Express
01-23-2006, 03:52 PM
I think this thread would be easier to follow if someone would put up the supporting cast.

Something like:

Clint - - M
Mer - - F
Etc.

If you don't know what gender someone is what they say isn't as funny. This is supposet to be a funny read, right?

Donger
01-23-2006, 03:56 PM
I think this thread would be easier to follow if someone would put up the supporting cast.

Something like:

Clint - - M
Mer - - F
Etc.

If you don't know what gender someone is what they say isn't as funny. This is supposet to be a funny read, right?

While you successfully guessed their respective gender, Mer is a female with some male attributes and Clint, well...

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 03:57 PM
Not bad. Just high maintenance.

:shrug:


"Hey, honey...would mind not acting like you want to screw the entire nation?"

"Jeez, you're such a high-maintenance prima donna!"


How does that work? High maintenance??

Cochise
01-23-2006, 03:58 PM
I don't think it's so much what you do, but what your SO's comfort level is. It's ok if you're not exceeding their comfort level. If you are, then it's not right.

Both just have to have clearly defined limits. BD gets along fine with his situation. I couldn't deal with that. As long as you two communicate and get on the same plane as far as expected behavior there is room for lots of different attitudes and tolorance levels.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 03:59 PM
"Hey, honey...would mind not acting like you want to screw the entire nation?"

"Jeez, you're such a high-maintenance prima donna!"

Is that what happened?

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 04:01 PM
Is that what happened?


Of course not.

I'm just trying to figure out how not being in favor of online flirting equals "high maintenance".

Skip Towne
01-23-2006, 04:01 PM
I think this thread would be easier to follow if someone would put up the supporting cast.

Something like:

Clint - - M
Mer - - F
Etc.

If you don't know what gender someone is what they say isn't as funny. This is supposet to be a funny read, right?
N00bs should be banned from this thread.

sedated
01-23-2006, 04:01 PM
My wife would never go for a threesome, unless Angelina Jolie shows up at the front door.


why do women say, "I'd never do a threesome, I'm not bisexual....except for (Enter Hot Chick's Name)."

Isn't that kind of hypocritical? :hmmm:


I, personally, would never do another guy, no matter who it is.

Nor would I participate in a thressome just because it's Brad Pitt or whomever.


Proves all women are bisexual, just to different degrees.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 04:05 PM
Of course not.

I'm just trying to figure out how not being in favor of online flirting equals "high maintenance".

Because it's been a problem in your relationship for as long as I've known you have one. So it's being rehashed and discussed and bitched about. I'm assuming in real life too. I really don't think you 2 live only on the Internet.

So the girl has to hear you whine about this. She has to start hiding stuff from you just so she doesn't have to hear you whine. She has to make sure every little word and thing she says and does doesn't in some way flick your angry man switch. Sounds like a fun way to spend the afternoon on the Internet.

Then she gets to watch you bitch about her in front of everyone.

I mean. Hypothetically.

Taco John
01-23-2006, 04:08 PM
I think I would be angry about that. The question to me isn't, "is there anything wrong with it", it's "why do you feel the need to do that...?"



I think the answer to that question is, "because you're not getting it done." And I'm not talking about you specifically... I'm talking in general terms.

In studying communication, there is a principle that has always stuck with me with regards to relationships... It stands true for any relationship, whether it be co-workers, boss-employee, husband-wife... You name it... It simply stated as this: in any relationship where one side perceives a deficit in the relational exchange, that side will (conciously or unconciously) endeavor to achieve balance.

Bowser
01-23-2006, 04:09 PM
Good to see the grab-ass thread is still going strong.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 04:10 PM
He's just trying to get you to notice him.








Is that what he's trying to say...because you know, when he goes into his tirades, he doesn't exactly speak english..ROFL

Katipan
01-23-2006, 04:10 PM
why do women say, "I'd never do a threesome, I'm not bisexual....except for (Enter Hot Chick's Name)."

Isn't that kind of hypocritical? :hmmm:


I, personally, would never do another guy, no matter who it is.

Nor would I participate in a thressome just because it's Brad Pitt or whomever.


Proves all women are bisexual, just to different degrees.

I smoke quite a bit of pot.

No where near enough to consistently read your posts.

Donger
01-23-2006, 04:11 PM
Because it's been a problem in your relationship for as long as I've known you have one. So it's being rehashed and discussed and bitched about. I'm assuming in real life too. I really don't think you 2 live only on the Internet.

So the girl has to hear you whine about this. She has to start hiding stuff from you just so she doesn't have to hear you whine. She has to make sure every little word and thing she says and does doesn't in some way flick your angry man switch. Sounds like a fun way to spend the afternoon on the Internet.

Then she gets to watch you bitch about her in front of everyone.

I mean. Hypothetically.

Damn Mer. Thanks for yet another semi.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 04:11 PM
N00bs should be banned from this thread.




Leave this new boy alone..I like his name, I think I'll keep him........:D

Donger
01-23-2006, 04:12 PM
Speaking of online flirts...

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 04:12 PM
Because it's been a problem in your relationship for as long as I've known you have one. So it's being rehashed and discussed and bitched about. I'm assuming in real life too. I really don't think you 2 live only on the Internet.

So, the problem would be all my doing, because I believe that spouses should not only be faithful, but act like it as well? Seems a bit harsh IMO.

So the girl has to hear you whine about this. She has to start hiding stuff from you just so she doesn't have to hear you whine. She has to make sure every little word and thing she says and does doesn't in some way flick your angry man switch. Sounds like a fun way to spend the afternoon on the Internet.

Here's a news flash: Socializing on the internet is not a necessity of life. It's as necessary as watching TV or playing video games.

Then she gets to watch you bitch about her in front of everyone.

I mean. Hypothetically.

Hey, I could bitch about some other people by name, too. Would that make it better?

Nzoner
01-23-2006, 04:13 PM
Good to see the grab-ass thread is still going strong.

Yeah and with my luck this will be the night the mrs checks on my on-line activities and I'll get to hear about how I'm spending too much time on the planet.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 04:16 PM
So, the problem would be all my doing, because I believe that spouses should not only be faithful, but act like it as well? Seems a bit harsh IMO.

The problem is that you're still having the same fight. Either she chooses to change, or you choose to deal with it. Leave her if you think she sucks.

Here's a news flash: Socializing on the internet is not a necessity of life. It's as necessary as watching TV or playing video games.

Neither are keg stands but they are sure fun.

Hey, I could bitch about some other people by name, too. Would that make it better?

Then you'd be bitter and high maintenance. But it's your life. You live as angry as you wanna.

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 04:23 PM
The problem is that you're still having the same fight. Either she chooses to change, or you choose to deal with it. Leave her if you think she sucks.

Having to end a relationship because internet flirting is so important? And I'M supposed to be high maintenance?! Not to mention the fact that I haven't said anything about fighting.

Neither are keg stands but they are sure fun.

So, basically, you have no self-control. If it's fun, piss on everyone else, you're doing it.

Then you'd be bitter and high maintenance. But it's your life. You live as angry as you wanna.

Oh, so I should take the high road, too?

You've been online far too long.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 04:24 PM
Speaking of online flirts...







feeling left out are we...........:D

Donger
01-23-2006, 04:25 PM
feeling left out are we...........:D

Left out of what?

Mr. Laz
01-23-2006, 04:28 PM
I mean. Hypothetically.
ROFL





show is "show us your tits!!!!!!!" or "This thread is meaningless without pics" flirting?


how about "NTTAWWT" ? ... cause if NTTAWWT is flirting than most of the people on this board
are gheymo flirts. :)

Katipan
01-23-2006, 04:29 PM
So, basically, you have no self-control. If it's fun, piss on everyone else, you're doing it.

You could be the hottest richest sexual dynamo in the world, and I still wouldn't date a guy that cared as much as you do about what I could consider to be completely inane and unimportant.

My self control isn't limited to just making sure I don't piss off my man. I'm not trading my joy for his joy. He wouldn't want me to. Granted compromise is nice and generally helps you actually maintain a relationship. But I'm pretty safe in thinking your girl has compromised.

And you're still bitching.

You should take the high road because you're a man and want to.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 04:31 PM
Having to end a relationship because internet flirting is so important? And I'M supposed to be high maintenance?! Not to mention the fact that I haven't said anything about fighting.



So, basically, you have no self-control. If it's fun, piss on everyone else, you're doing it.



Oh, so I should take the high road, too?

You've been online far too long.









If you are willing to let online flirting bust up your marriage, then you have far bigger problems then online flirting...:shake: And yes, people do flirt everyday, and it means NOTHING, I am willing to bet that my SO is the biggest flirt in the world...if this little board can upset you like this, My SO flirting would make you freak.....if you are not secure with yourself then that little green monster is gonna get you........ROFL

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 04:33 PM
Left out of what?






I don't feel like foreplay tonight, so call me bitch, whore, slut,whatever, and let's move on.........:D

Clint in Wichita
01-23-2006, 04:34 PM
You could be the hottest richest sexual dynamo in the world, and I still wouldn't date a guy that cared as much as you do about what I could consider to be completely inane and unimportant.

My self control isn't limited to just making sure I don't piss off my man. I'm not trading my joy for his joy. He wouldn't want me to. Granted compromise is nice and generally helps you actually maintain a relationship. But I'm pretty safe in thinking your girl has compromised.

And you're still bitching.

You should take the high road because you're a man and want to.

What on Earth has led you to believe that?

Donger
01-23-2006, 04:47 PM
I don't feel like foreplay tonight, so call me bitch, whore, slut,whatever, and let's move on.........:D

I wasn't aware that you were capable of anything else. So, what would you like to move on to?

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 04:51 PM
Hey, I could bitch about some other people by name, too. Would that make it better?

You're too pussy to let your woman do a little online flirting, but you've got balls enough to out the one she's doing it with that's got a bug so far up your ass? Right.

Baby Lee
01-23-2006, 04:53 PM
I wasn't aware that you were capable of anything else. So, what would you like to move on to?
Oy! Lookit! Ain't she a beaut? The rare and majestic double preposition ending.
http://www.brianbehrend.com/doing/images/steveirwin.jpg

Donger
01-23-2006, 04:54 PM
Oy! Lookit! Ain't she a beaut? The rare and majestic double preposition ending.
http://www.brianbehrend.com/doing/images/steveirwin.jpg

Heh. I almost changed it. But I had to consider to whom I was replying.

ChiefsFire
01-23-2006, 04:59 PM
its a well known fact that alot of beautiful,smart,funny women tend to be a bit on the flirty side...

my guess is that was one of the factors that drew you to her....probably didnt complain when you were one of the guys who she was flirting with...

in clints defense though,sometimes guys can mistake flirting for just being friendly..

in my experience,as long as she loves the guy,everything is cool

but as soon as you get a lil overbearing with her and her flirting..look out..good way to lose a great girl

Sybil
01-23-2006, 05:04 PM
You're too pussy to let your woman do a little online flirting, but you've got balls enough to out the one she's doing it with that's got a bug so far up your ass? Right.

Hell, he's only pissed because it's Skip. Or was it Kotter? No, no, it seemed she and go bo were getting friendly a while back. Or was that gochiefs. Damn it's hard to keep this stuff straight. No pun intended.

chiefs4me
01-23-2006, 05:06 PM
Oy! Lookit! Ain't she a beaut? The rare and majestic double preposition ending.
http://www.brianbehrend.com/doing/images/steveirwin.jpg






bug off lee.....:rolleyes:

OldTownChief
01-23-2006, 05:20 PM
Simple... If it's who she is and you don't like it. SPLIT UP or try to change another human being to suit you and live a miserable life until you SPLIT UP.

Skip Towne
01-23-2006, 05:20 PM
I don't feel like foreplay tonight, so call me bitch, whore, slut,whatever, and let's move on.........:D
Do you have a headache?

Cochise
01-23-2006, 05:21 PM
I don't feel like foreplay tonight, so call me bitch, whore, slut,whatever, and let's move on.........:D

Everyone wants you to move on, but you just won't leave.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 05:34 PM
Haha... the stupid twat doesn't understand Baby Lee's post, but she figures it must be about her.

patteeu
01-23-2006, 05:38 PM
why do women say, "I'd never do a threesome, I'm not bisexual....except for (Enter Hot Chick's Name)."

Isn't that kind of hypocritical? :hmmm:


I, personally, would never do another guy, no matter who it is.

Nor would I participate in a thressome just because it's Brad Pitt or whomever.


Proves all women are bisexual, just to different degrees.

What about RuPaul?

Jenson71
01-23-2006, 05:41 PM
Haha... the stupid twat doesn't understand Baby Lee's post, but she figures it must be about her.

ROFL

Was it the "Preposition" that got her? :)

RedNFeisty
01-23-2006, 05:57 PM
Ah, what shit!! I am gone for an afternoon to come back and see that Clint has everyone on the board thinking I am out flirting with every Tom, Dick, and Harry!!

Damn it mother****er, get it straight, I only want GO BO. The thought of rubbing baby oil all over his body just gives me chills and makes me rather wet. ROFL

Love Ya, Go Bo Baby my favorite Lawyer in the whole world!!




(GoBo, do you think you can start practicing again, I am going to need a good lawyer after Clint reads this in the morning since he is at home for the night now!!)

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 05:58 PM
I don't think go bo knows much about divorce. He was more into stealing old ladies' social security checks.

Bowser
01-23-2006, 05:59 PM
Please don't tell us about Tom's hairy dick.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 05:59 PM
If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for almost any reason in real life, in anything but a highly public environment, then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:00 PM
oops

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:00 PM
Please don't tell us about Tom's hairy dick.
No need to. Give him a few beers and he'll whip it out in the middle of the bar. I've seen him do it.

Mecca
01-23-2006, 06:00 PM
If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for any reason (even a Chief's weekend) then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.

If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........

RedNFeisty
01-23-2006, 06:01 PM
Please don't tell us about Tom's hairy dick.


Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:01 PM
No need to. Give him a few beers and he'll whip it out in the middle of the bar. I've seen him do it.

GRRRRR

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:02 PM
If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........

I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:02 PM
Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!
You f*cked Tom, too? Jebus that guy gets around.

OldTownChief
01-23-2006, 06:02 PM
I've met some of my best bitches on Chief's weekends.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:02 PM
my oops post was a lot funnier before the edit

jAZ
01-23-2006, 06:02 PM
If you have a healty, committed relationship and clear personal boundries, basic flirting is ok both on and offline.

My wife has several times said that she caught me flirting (it wasn't even dliberate on my part), and she thought it was "cute".

I would never cheat on my wife, and I wouldn't ever even consider doing anything like Online-"sex". However simple flirting isn't a problem.

I recognize that this isn't true for lots of people, but I think as I said that this has more to do with their lack of clear boundries and a strong commitment to this existing relationship.

Hell, there's plenty of that going on here on the net with the few female posters we have here. I thin Phil (under the watchful eye of Pink) was the biggest flirt on the net. That says a lot about their relationship, IMO.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:04 PM
....Damn it mother****er, get it straight, I only want GO BO. The thought of rubbing baby oil all over his body just gives me chills and makes me rather wet. ROFL....

Then all your promises and exhortations were merely a heat of the passion thing?! :mad:

Damn. I feel used. :harumph:

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:05 PM
I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.
The first time I met Mer in real life was at her house.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:06 PM
You f*cked Tom, too? Jebus that guy gets around.


"too?" :spock:

I didn't think Tom was your type.

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:06 PM
Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!



Hey Sexy.... How you doin'? ;)

Bowser
01-23-2006, 06:06 PM
Then all your promises and exhortations were merely a heat of the passion thing?! :mad:

Damn. I feel used. :harumph:

She used me.

She....USED me.


Cool!

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:06 PM
The first time I met Mer in real life was at her house.

Husband present would qualify as "highly public" IMO. Heh.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:07 PM
"too"

I didn't think Tom was your type.

He's everyone's type.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:08 PM
"too?" :spock:

I didn't think Tom was your type.
He's not. But, apparently he's just about every woman's type.

jAZ
01-23-2006, 06:08 PM
Keep in mind that "flirting" can cover an awful lot of territory...especially online. I'm not just talking about a giggle or a wink.

Of course, some people feel nothing is wrong until bodily fluids are exchanged.
I'd say there is a line between giggle and wink... and exchanging bodily fluids that's unacceptable. If you are having the net equivilant of "phonesex", I'd say that's over the line. If you are doing something with someone else that you feel necessary to hide from your SO, that's probably a good sign that you shouldn't be doing it.

RedNFeisty
01-23-2006, 06:09 PM
Then all your promises and exhortations were merely a heat of the passion thing?! :mad:

Damn. I feel used. :harumph:

I never said I wasn't a user. :p


However, it was to good to not do again!!

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:10 PM
He's not. But, apparently he's just about every woman's type.

I'm confused: are we talking about you, Cash, "Clint," or a hypothetical "Tom?"

:p

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:10 PM
bug off lee.....:rolleyes:

WTF? He said "double preposition" not "double penetration."

I can understand your confusion, however.

RedNFeisty
01-23-2006, 06:11 PM
Hey Sexy.... How you doin'? ;)

Hey gorgeous, just getting myself ready for you!! :drool:

BIG_DADDY
01-23-2006, 06:12 PM
Hey gorgeous, just getting myself ready for you!! :drool:

She wants his taquito. ROFL

Bowser
01-23-2006, 06:12 PM
Yeah, it'll be a fun night in the in Witchita house tonight.

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:13 PM
*eyebrow waggle*

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:14 PM
I never said I wasn't a user. :p


However, it was to good to not do again!!

Can I have that framed? ROFL



My life on ChiefsPlanet is now complete. Of course, that's probably how many Chief's fans felt after our lone Superbowl victory. The "desire" will probably return in about 5-10 minutes.....heh.

Count Zarth
01-23-2006, 06:14 PM
*eyebrow waggle*

You need this smiley, sir:

http://img40.imageshack.us/img40/3185/sleazy8or.gif

Iowanian
01-23-2006, 06:16 PM
Any of you male jerkwaters send brideowanian neked pics or make an effort to shag her, and her husband will harpoon you in the baows with a rusty, shit covered potato fork.

I asked the other half about this issue, and her answer was very, very close to mine. She doesn't care as long as I'm not doing or posting in secret, somethign that would make her uncomfortable if she were there, and as long as I wouldn't care if she read it.

Thats about right.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:16 PM
WTF? He said "double preposition" not "double penetration."

I can understand your confusion, however.

"eh, double preposition, double penetration, double pepperoni....whatever! Bite me!"

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:16 PM
I'm confused: are we talking about you, Cash, "Clint," or a hypothetical "Tom?"

:p
I have a neighbor named Tom. He's a whore.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:17 PM
This thread is an MTV Reality Show.

One of you is gay.
Another one is probably black.

FAX
01-23-2006, 06:17 PM
She raised her moist lips to Donger's.

Her braid had come undone and her golden hair fell over her shoulders in tangled curls. Her full breasts rose with each rapid breath, straining against the cloth of her shift, breasts that felt round and firm against his strong chest. He swelled with longing to explore them again, to taste them, to lose himself inside her. His breath was hot as he breathed the question he had waited so long to ask, "How often do you wash your legs?"

FAX

ChiefsFire
01-23-2006, 06:18 PM
goddammit Delt,quit flirtin with me.....

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:19 PM
Any of you male jerkwaters send brideowanian neked pics or make an effort to shag her, and her husband will harpoon you in the baows with a rusty, shit covered potato fork...

After your Hunting thread, I'm pretty sure no one's likely to try that on you.

KcMizzou
01-23-2006, 06:19 PM
You need this smiley, sir:

http://img40.imageshack.us/img40/3185/sleazy8or.gif...

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:20 PM
After your Hunting thread, I'm pretty sure no one's likely to try that on you.

I'll do it.

I'm not scared.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:20 PM
This thread is an MTV Reality Show.

One of you is gay.
Another one is probably black.

Duh. "Donger" is black; gopaint is a latent homosexual.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:21 PM
I'll do it.

I'm not scared.

If you let him join, I'm sure it wouldn't be a problem.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:21 PM
This thread is an MTV Reality Show.

One of you is gay.
Another one is probably black.
I eat peanut butter directly from the jar with my fingers.

FAX
01-23-2006, 06:22 PM
She appeared even more beautiful than when she'd graced his bed that morning, Iowanian thought.

He wanted nothing more than to hold her again, to kiss away the distress he'd caused her, to never allow anything or anyone to hurt her again. He would make amends to her, he vowed it. He would devote his life to making it up to her.

"I will never harpoon you in the baows with a rusty, shit covered potato fork again, my dear," he said.

FAX

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:23 PM
Jesus Endelt. You don't know what Kotter's been dipping into that peanut butter, but I'd bet you could probably guess why...

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:24 PM
I eat peanut butter directly from the jar with my fingers.

What do you use to get honey?

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:25 PM
Haha! Lame!

I beat you to the dick in the foodstuffs joke by a full minute.

ChiefsFire
01-23-2006, 06:25 PM
I eat peanut butter directly from the jar with my fingers.
i eat peanut butter directly off the ass of a tall shapely blonde woman..

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:25 PM
Haha! Lame!

I beat you to the dick in the foodstuffs joke by a full minute.

Mine is way sexier.

Bowser
01-23-2006, 06:26 PM
.

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:26 PM
What do you use to get honey?
The promise of sex.

FAX
01-23-2006, 06:26 PM
Almost involuntarily she tightened her arms around him and arched her back. To her surprise, he moved over her, still kissing her neck, her ear, her cheek. As he settled over her, it seemed natural for her to part her legs.

As he pressed against her, her ache grew stronger, more exquisite. She arched her back again and pulled up her shift so that there were fewer layers of cloth separating them. He pressed against her and released, pressed and released, in a rhythm that built something glorious inside her, something that seemed almost within her reach.

"Taco," she breathed. "Is that a pencil or a pen?"

FAX

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:27 PM
Mine is way sexier.




Not if you're Kotter's dog! :)

ENDelt260
01-23-2006, 06:27 PM
i eat peanut butter directly off the ass of a tall shapely blonde woman..
That wasn't peanut butter.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:28 PM
Or a woman.

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:29 PM
She raised her moist lips to Donger's.

Her braid had come undone and her golden hair fell over her shoulders in tangled curls. Her full breasts rose with each rapid breath, straining against the cloth of her shift, breasts that felt round and firm against his strong chest. He swelled with longing to explore them again, to taste them, to lose himself inside her. His breath was hot as he breathed the question he had waited so long to ask, "How often do you wash your legs?"

FAX

Well, I do have rather high standards.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:29 PM
Jesus Endelt. You don't know what Kotter's been dipping into that peanut butter, but I'd bet you could probably guess why...

Because you like peanut butter on my schlong? :spock:

You must be confusing me with the "star" you met in Larimer Square this weekend--the fluffer who caught you with the "I'm in Brokeback Mountain" line.

:p

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:30 PM
Duh. "Donger" is black; gopaint is a latent homosexual.

Holy sh*t. I'm black?

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:32 PM
Holy sh*t. I'm black? Well, my grandmother was Dutch.

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:32 PM
Not if you're Kotter's dog! :)

Hey, Bronco fans I know SWEAR beastiality can be consensual too.

ChiefsFire
01-23-2006, 06:32 PM
That wasn't peanut butter.
off the ass...not outta the ass

Taco John
01-23-2006, 06:33 PM
Holy sh*t. I'm black?



You represented that you were once. I had my doubts but figured why would anyone lie about that.

So you're not?

Bowser
01-23-2006, 06:33 PM
Holy sh*t. I'm black?

*****, PLEEEASE!!

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:33 PM
Holy sh*t. I'm black?

Great, great grandfather on your mom's side. Sorry you learned this way.

Know you know how Gun felt back in 2000.

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:34 PM
Gun is black?

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:35 PM
You represented that you were once. I had my doubts but figured why would anyone lie about that.

So you're not?

No. I'm not black.

I was probably intoxicated. For some reason that I can't explain, I become significantly less white when I'm tipsy.

Then again, I also once claimed here that I was a female, but that was in order to prove a theory.

Chiefs Pantalones
01-23-2006, 06:35 PM
What is everyone wearing?

Mr. Kotter
01-23-2006, 06:36 PM
Gun is black?

ROFL

Mosbonian
01-23-2006, 06:36 PM
Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.

Pretty cavalier of you to make the sweeping declaration that all men want sex with a woman when they 'flirt".....you probably should have added "in my opinion".

mmaddog
*******

ChiefsFire
01-23-2006, 06:36 PM
What is everyone wearing?
white thong.....


oops

i mean jeans ..t shirt

Katipan
01-23-2006, 06:36 PM
I was probably intoxicated. For some reason that I can't explain, I become significantly less white when I'm tipsy.

The more you drink the bigger your dick gets?

Donger
01-23-2006, 06:36 PM
*****, PLEEEASE!!

Gawd. I can't count the number of ways I violated Vanity in my mind because of that film.