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RustShack
04-16-2009, 12:19 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

L.A. Chieffan
04-16-2009, 12:20 AM
u like fishsticks?

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:21 AM
I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

Pants
04-16-2009, 12:22 AM
...and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

Dude...

KCrockaholic
04-16-2009, 12:23 AM
I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

This.

Do you know this "friend" personally? Or is it someone you've never meet?

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:35 AM
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either fucking the girl, or she's someone you'd like to fuck if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in fucking. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and fuck action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

KCrockaholic
04-16-2009, 12:37 AM
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Harsh. But true.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:38 AM
Harsh. But true.I just went through a fairly similar situation with my former fiance. I had to cut my losses, and it was pretty painful and really a shitty situation, but it had to be done.

Trust me dude. Either try to get your relationship straight like RIGHT F*CKING NOW..or cut your losses and move on. Don't let this drag out any longer, it's not gonna end well for either party involved.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 12:39 AM
Sounds like you got a real keeper there man...honest question did you do something where she'd intentionally want to make you jealous?

DaneMcCloud
04-16-2009, 12:43 AM
"your" fucked.

Sorry, Dude.

Get the fuck out.

NOW.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:45 AM
Well, Rustshack was online about 20 minutes ago when he posted this..and now he's gone without a response...

DaneMcCloud
04-16-2009, 12:46 AM
Well, Rustshack was online about 20 minutes ago when he posted this..and now he's gone without a response...

He probably had a problem with his septic tank

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:48 AM
He's probably pullin one of these numbers...

<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/LOjwMxccsZc&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/LOjwMxccsZc&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>

'Hamas' Jenkins
04-16-2009, 12:48 AM
Give the guy a spike piledriver on a concrete sidewalk, and give your lady friend a northern lights suplex into a dumpster.

ChiefsCountry
04-16-2009, 12:50 AM
Mistake #1 moving in together or thinking about it.

KCChiefsMan
04-16-2009, 12:51 AM
ya dude. I wouldn't care for that too much, I would text message break up with her right now.

Jenson71
04-16-2009, 12:52 AM
I'd say "fuck that" and make her say she wants to be with me and won't do it again, or end it.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:53 AM
Mistake #1 moving in together or thinking about it.THIS x 10,000.

Don't ruin your independence until you're married and you absolutely have to. Living by yourself, and being able to sleep in a bed by yourself should be treasured.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 12:54 AM
end it.FYP.

There's no "don't do it again".

Either you have the cheater mentality or you don't, it's pretty simple. You're the type of person that will or won't fool around on your significant other. If you do it once, 99% of cases suggest you'll do it again.

My buddy has been married for like 2 years. He's banged probably 12 girls since he got married. They both used to cheat on each other all the time. I'm not sure how many dudes she's fucked since they've gotten married, but I'm sure the cheater mentality didn't just vacate her mind altogether once she got a ring.

Saggysack
04-16-2009, 12:59 AM
You're getting played. Simple as that. Don't move in, just move on.

PastorMikH
04-16-2009, 01:11 AM
I'm pretty much with the consensus on this one. I'd have to draw a line with her on this one and let her know that one woman and one man at a movie is a date - even if they are "friends" and she needs to choose if she wants me in her life or not. If she insists on going, she's made her choice.

I'll add in that I'd probably have a talk with the dude too. Sometimes you just have to draw a line and let the guy know where things stand.

Dr where my wife worked quite a while back was a bit of a player. He never made a direct hit on the wife, but there were times when she said he would invade her personal space, put a hand on her shoulder (not around her, but pat the shoulder closest to him) or try to give her a back rub and such. She had told me this would make her really uncomfortable. We'd interacted with he and his wife as couples and he and I had hunted some, been to his house, seen his karate pics and such. One day we're out hunting. While out, I take the opportunity to point out to him that if I ever had reason to believe that a guy was making a move on my wife, preacher or not, it wouldn't matter if the guy had a gun, knife, or black belt in karate I'd beat the crap out of him. He kinda turned white, gulped, and changed the subject.

He kept a professional distance from that point forward though, and we were still able to remain friends. The wife didn't know until just a year or two ago when I finally told her about our talk.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:12 AM
THIS x 10,000.

Don't ruin your independence until you're married and you absolutely have to. Living by yourself, and being able to sleep in a bed by yourself should be treasured.

Oh cmon you got a neckbeard what do you know?

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:12 AM
FYP.

There's no "don't do it again".

Either you have the cheater mentality or you don't, it's pretty simple. You're the type of person that will or won't fool around on your significant other. If you do it once, 99% of cases suggest you'll do it again.

My buddy has been married for like 2 years. He's banged probably 12 girls since he got married. They both used to cheat on each other all the time. I'm not sure how many dudes she's fucked since they've gotten married, but I'm sure the cheater mentality didn't just vacate her mind altogether once she got a ring.

That just sounds like an open marriage to me!

T-post Tom
04-16-2009, 01:13 AM
You're getting played. Women don't go to movies with guys they've only recently met because they want to "be friends." She's either cheating or forming a "backup plan" because she's unsure of your relationship. Her dishonesty is definately an indication of her character.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 01:14 AM
Oh cmon you got a neckbeard what do you know?My neckbeard knows that having a bathroom free of stupid ass curling irons and body lotions is kick-ass.

And then I can shave that neckbeard over the sink and nobody will bitch about me not cleaning up the mess asap.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:16 AM
My neckbeard knows that having a bathroom free of stupid ass curling irons and body lotions is kick-ass.

And then I can shave that neckbeard over the sink and nobody will bitch about me not cleaning up the mess asap.

LOL...I actually clean the sink after I shave and all of that, my mom is a heavy neatfreak so growing up with that you just did it because you didn't wanna be killed in your sleep.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 01:17 AM
LOL...I actually clean the sink after I shave and all of that, my mom is a heavy neatfreak so growing up with that you just did it because you didn't wanna be killed in your sleep.Yeah, I was raised in a house with myself, my brother and my dad.

Our bathrooms were f*cking hideous. Just atrociously disgusting at times.

I keep my apartment clean, but f*ck, I grow a thick Kyle Orton neckbeard and sometimes I miss some of the hair...

acesn8s
04-16-2009, 01:18 AM
Poke her in the butt and take a picture of her while doing it.



At least when it's over you will always have that.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:19 AM
Yeah, I was raised in a house with myself, my brother and my dad.

Our bathrooms were f*cking hideous. Just atrociously disgusting at times.

I keep my apartment clean, but f*ck, I grow a thick Kyle Orton neckbeard and sometimes I miss some of the hair...

Why don't you grow a real beard you know like me?

Pablo
04-16-2009, 01:20 AM
Poke her in the butt and take a picture of her while doing it.



At least when it's over you will always have that.And then make copies and get a frame that says Daddy's little girl or something like that and let it miraculously find it's way to her dad's mailbox.

Oh, and posts pics on CP as well.

Pablo
04-16-2009, 01:21 AM
Why don't you grow a real beard you know like me?Because real beards itch like a motherfucker and mine grows out a really orange/red color, so I look like a fucking lumberjack or some shit.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:21 AM
Because real beards itch like a motherfucker and mine grows out a really orange/red color, so I look like a fucking lumberjack or some shit.

Once you get use to having it, it doesn't itch...

Priest31kc
04-16-2009, 01:22 AM
damn man, it doesnt sound good. F*** moving in with her now man, dont do it. I'd talk to her first of course dont just break up with her, but if my girl actually wanted to go to a movie with another guy and not me, we would be done.

Mecca
04-16-2009, 01:24 AM
All I wanna know now is what this chick looks like.

Over-Head
04-16-2009, 01:26 AM
Start doing the same crap
Tell HER they YOU are going to dinner and a movie with some stripper "just a friend" you know for the evening.
Or better yet, ask your gf what movie she's going to, then show up at it with another woman.


Seriously, GET OUT FAST!
BTDT

Pants
04-16-2009, 01:27 AM
If it was me, it would be pretty much over and I would start doing things with girls "as friends".
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Smed1065
04-16-2009, 05:14 AM
No good ending for you here.

Try going to a movie as just a 'friend" with a female........

ROFL

PhillyChiefFan
04-16-2009, 05:32 AM
I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

This.

Whether she thinks she is or not, she is in the wrong.

A friend of his is probably giving her attention and she likes it, but she would never admit that to you. Otherwise, she wouldn't want to go b/c what's in it for her?

She wants her cake and eat it too.

PhillyChiefFan
04-16-2009, 05:33 AM
No good ending for you here.

Try going to a movie as just a 'friend" with a female........

ROFL

HAHA yes!

That's actually a great idea. see how she likes it.

Skip Towne
04-16-2009, 05:42 AM
Start acting like Claythan and you won't have any woman problems. Cause you won't have any women.

Mile High Mania
04-16-2009, 05:44 AM
If it's really "just friends" and if you two are really involved to the point of considering living together, then you should just go to the movie with her.

Flip the switch on her...

Say "Great, movies sound cool, it will be nice to meet this group" and if she pushes back on that, you can do what comes naturally.

Obviously, I'm with the rest of the majority here... I think you're getting played and she has very likely already crossed 'that line'. I don't know you, but if this relationship is seriously at the point to where you should be moving in together (which is a major mistake anyway), then this trip to the movies wouldn't be happening.

Ask yourself this... make a list of what is different with the two of you NOW compared to before her friend met this guy and his crew? Hell, put on a hat and glasses and go to the movie - have a friend go and check out what happens with that group. It will clear things up a hell of a lot faster for you. But, if it is just friends and you're busted ... then yeah, you're SOL. So, have a buddy go.

I can understand her having guy friends... with people she knew before you two were an item, but this li'l episode won't end well.

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 06:00 AM
Relationships are bad, mmmkay?

Comanche
04-16-2009, 06:12 AM
Ha!! You are sooooo right about not "moving in." Moving in together is a chic invention. There is no benefit whatsoever to the guy. The "friend" has to go or its over pure and simple. Either the friend goes now or the guy will be on the hunt for a new girl soon.



Mistake #1 moving in together or thinking about it.

Red Beans
04-16-2009, 06:22 AM
Ouch, if it smells like a turd sandwich just assume it is a turd sandwich. At least tell her how you feel regarding the turd sandwich you're being fed...

JimNasium
04-16-2009, 06:27 AM
If this chick lacks respect for you at this point in the relationship what makes you think she's going to suddenly change? I'd run away from this bitch post-haste.

Redrum_69
04-16-2009, 06:33 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?



do you own a gun?

brandishing a gun sometimes brings out the whole truth from people....

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 06:34 AM
1. You aren't even in the neighborhood of being ready to live together.

2. my guess is the prospect of that is making her nervous and tapped her inner-hooker button.

I've had girls that were friends before...but they were my pal's gal. This dude has intentions of touching her cervix, and she's receptive if she's going to movies with him.

Don't be jealous or mad, just move on.

Pioli Zombie
04-16-2009, 06:51 AM
Ask her if she would mind if you had a hot tub party with 2 of her friends. "Just as friends".
As someone who has been screwed over a few times.
Dump her.
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luv
04-16-2009, 06:53 AM
If I was moving in with a guy....

1. I wouldn't be going to the movies alone with another guy, especially one my man hasn't met.

2. I wouldn't be hanging out with a group of guys at a bar without my man there. A girl's night is one thing. If her single friend wants to go man hunting, she should not be taking your woman as her wing woman.

Do not go out with another chick "to see how she likes it". That's petty, immature bullshit. Tell her you don't like her going out with other people you haven't met yet. It's one thing if you're just dating, but it's different if the two of you are getting ready to move in with each other. If she doesn't want you meeting her friends, tell her to take a hike.

Pioli Zombie
04-16-2009, 06:54 AM
Can't stand playas
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stumppy
04-16-2009, 06:57 AM
I can't believe you are even asking. You know wtf is going on and you know wtf you should do about it.
I think the reason you posted this is because you got it bad for this chick and you're hoping that maybe just maybe someone on here might post something that will allow you to reason all this out so that you don't have to face the truth. It ain't gonna happen.
The first thing you need to do is get her purse away from her so you can dig through it and find your balls. The next thing is tell her straight up 'It's my way or the highway'.

No, don't even bother with trying to set things straight. The whole thing about her going out with her friends and not wanting you around is her way of getting time away from you so she can still act like she's single. I've got $50 that says she's screwed around on you before and got away with it. Now all she's doing is trying to make it easier to get some strange peter. She probably thinks if she can get you to puss out about her going to the movies with the new meat then she'll be able to screw around anytime she wants.

Man up ! Take her out one last time, get her liquored up, poke her in the but and dump her the next day.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 06:59 AM
I wouldnt' move in right now with her, and there is no reason she should not want you to come do things with her. Going out with a guy to a movie she just met is BS...

figure out wtf she wants, but it doesn't sound good. It'd be diff. if it was a friend shes known for awhile.

remember do NOT move in together, no matter what!

suds79
04-16-2009, 07:00 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

I'm sure I'm late in getting in with this.

But your problems began with with your girlfriend going to the bars with her friends and not including you.

"Honey? Yeah I'm going out to the meat market with my girls but you shouldn't come along."

I know it's different when you're dating (thank God I'm married now) but IMO when you're with someone, you should protect the relationship by not being "Just friends" of someone of the opposite sex where you guys would just hang out.... Just leaves open the possibility of going astray.

steve_minor
04-16-2009, 07:01 AM
You need to confront her without sounding like a jealous physco. This is not in the receipe for a healthy long term relationship. She can still be friends with him, but has to start including you. Good Luck!!!

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 07:04 AM
Reach down to the patch of flesh under your urination device. Shake the magic 8 balls and see what they tell you.

I disagree with those that have a problem with her going out with her girlfriends to bars. Once in a while, going out with the girls is HEALTHY for a healthy relationship. If she's loyal, it won't hurt a damn thing. When new dicks start swinging around, thats a sign of trouble that doesn't need a Bat-light to be seen.

The fact that you're posting this, tells me your caveman instinct is that something is going on. Unless this isn't the entire truth, its time to blow that tugboat out of the water.

If it will help your decision, I guess you could smell her belly for Old Spice and stanky-semen after the movie.

Delano
04-16-2009, 07:09 AM
http://www.cheaters.com/images/site/JoeyGreco-09.jpg

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 07:12 AM
Definetly agree with going out with her friends to do stuff is just fine, but the wanting to go to a movie with a dude she met recently is the BS part...

My gf goes out with her friends here and there and we dont do everything together, but we are clear that we can trust each other, your case seems very much the opposite esp since you are asking

luv
04-16-2009, 07:15 AM
Definetly agree with going out with her friends to do stuff is just fine, but the wanting to go to a movie with a dude she met recently is the BS part...

My gf goes out with her friends here and there and we dont do everything together, but we are clear that we can trust each other, your case seems very much the opposite esp since you are asking

This. Going out without you is fine, as I'm sure there are things you want to do without her. But there are clearly a lot of lines being crossed that shouldn't be. She should know your friends, and you should know hers, regardless of whether you go out with them or not.

stumppy
04-16-2009, 07:17 AM
Reach down to the patch of flesh under your urination device. Shake the magic 8 balls and see what they tell you.

I disagree with those that have a problem with her going out with her girlfriends to bars. Once in a while, going out with the girls is HEALTHY for a healthy relationship. If she's loyal, it won't hurt a damn thing. When new dicks start swinging around, thats a sign of trouble that doesn't need a Bat-light to be seen.

The fact that you're posting this, tells me your caveman instinct is that something is going on. Unless this isn't the entire truth, its time to blow that tugboat out of the water.

If it will help your decision, I guess you could smell her belly for Old Spice and stanky-semen after the movie.


I agree with you about letting them off the leash to run with the girls every now and then. There's nothing at all wrong with that. But I don't think that's the situation here. He didn't say she was going out with the girls. He said it was with friends. Betcha $500 casino cash it's a mixed bunch. And I'll bet she's doing as much sniffing around as the swinging dicks in the group are.

El Jefe
04-16-2009, 07:22 AM
RustShack, get right brother, cut your losses.

Mile High Mania
04-16-2009, 07:27 AM
I'm also in favor of the guy and the girl having "their time and their space" with their friends. Guys need to get away from time to time with their buddies, and the same applies for the girl. If you don't have this balance, I don't think it's healthy for either in the relationship.

My wife and I have been together for 12 years and married 10... I get plenty of opportunities to have "MHM time" with my buddies, and she gets those same opportunities.

I also don't have a problem with my wife going out with her single pals to a bar, it rarely happens, but I trust her and she's never given me a reason to question her. And, the same goes for me...

Looking at your situation (based on little information) - if the trust isn't there now, I doubt it ever will be.

Question - how old are the two of you, based on the situation I would guess young (early or mid 20s). Some people are ready for deep relationships at that time in their lives, but many are not.

I'm also not as big of a fan as I used to be about the "moving in together" idea before you're married. For the sake of this discussion not taking a different path, let's leave the 'religious aspect' alone... but, moving in with your girlfriend just doesn't work out the majority of the time. Sure, some will say "it will let us know if we're supposed to be together and get us ready for marriage". It's possible, but it doesn't sound like either of you is mentally prepared to deal with it... especially the girl.

Look out your window... she's not the only available girl out there, and based on the issue at hand... she's likely figured out that you're not the only available guy.

Don't be the victim, man up and confront the situation directly... stay positive and rational, but if you let it drag on... there's nothing but pain in your future.

Katipan
04-16-2009, 07:35 AM
There are no girl friends. There are only girls you've fucked and girls you haven't fucked yet.

Hog Farmer
04-16-2009, 07:38 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?



If there's one thing Hog Farmer knows. It's when somebody's getting porked.

And your girlfriend is.

Mr. Flopnuts
04-16-2009, 07:40 AM
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either fucking the girl, or she's someone you'd like to fuck if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in fucking. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and fuck action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Bingo.

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 07:44 AM
The dude she's hanging with is a shark....He's biding his time, waiting for the night when she's angry and upset with you.

He'll be there to offer a hug, conveniently have a bottle of boone farm apple wine.....and then....well, I already told you what her belly will smell like when she gets home.

tooge
04-16-2009, 07:45 AM
Hook up tonight. Nail the dickens out of her, then end it tomorrow. You are gettin played bad. Been there done exactly that. No guy goes to a movie with a girl as friends. It is insulting that she would even expect you to believe that crap. Grudgefuck her and end it quik.

Hog Farmer
04-16-2009, 07:51 AM
You should take another MAN to the same movie she's going to and sit right in front of her and make out with him. Just act like you don't know she's there.

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 07:53 AM
* unless the guy is a hair dresser and wears a pinky ring.

Sully
04-16-2009, 07:54 AM
Girls Night Out=Okay
Other guys being at Girls Night Out= A long talk... a very long talk...
Going to a movie with only a guy= If it's not a dealbreaker...it's pretty damn close.

Crashride
04-16-2009, 08:00 AM
Time to man up sir. You need to just focus on the facts and read it for what it is.
Girls just dont go to the movies with other guys while in relationships. She has lost all respect for you and the relationship and its probably to late to fix it and if you talk to her about it, it will probably just push her away even more.
There is a few ways to handle this.
1. Be alpha about the situation. Dont get mad, jealous or upset and just move on while staying friends. I bet your a catch and could find girls at anytime.
2. Talk to her about it and try to set your boundries since they haven't already been set. If she is receptive to it and agrees, great! If she puts up resistance then you know she is set on her ways and things aren't going to change. Move on at that point.
3. Or you can not say anything, like most guys, let her continue to disrespect you and eventually cheat or leave you, if she hasn't already.
IMO I would go with the first option, you should have stated your boundries from the start. Respect is a huge factor in relationships and she has none for you. You deserve respect and she will see you in a new light once she realizes your not gonna let her walk all over you.
I also want to add, at no point should you be a dick about ANY of this. Just move on and focus on building a healthier relationship.

Katipan
04-16-2009, 08:02 AM
Girls Night Out=Okay
Other guys being at Girls Night Out= A long talk... a very long talk...
Going to a movie with only a guy= If it's not a dealbreaker...it's pretty damn close.

You're a pretty cool husband.

Demonpenz
04-16-2009, 08:02 AM
I never get to have an fun drama like this. Shit is alot easier being single. Go to a bar, drink beer, play buck hunter the end

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:03 AM
I hope Rustshack didn't kill her

Sully
04-16-2009, 08:03 AM
You're a pretty cool husband.

Eh.
I'm okay.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:05 AM
You should take another MAN to the same movie she's going to and sit right in front of her and make out with him. Just act like you don't know she's there.

That'll show her!

Katipan
04-16-2009, 08:05 AM
I never get to have an fun drama like this. Shit is alot easier being single. Go to a bar, drink beer, play buck hunter the end

foosball is more fun and you need 2

ChiTown
04-16-2009, 08:06 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

She's fucking that friend.

Demonpenz
04-16-2009, 08:08 AM
foosball is more fun and you need 2

you can't go a thread without talking about pulling knobs


back to the thread starter you're only hope is if the guy is gay or if your girlfriend is unfortunate looking. You might be in the clear if they watched Mama Mia or some shit, but if they saw Fast and the furious it's over

Brock
04-16-2009, 08:11 AM
Call her right now and dump her. Seriously.

luv
04-16-2009, 08:12 AM
I never get to have an fun drama like this. Shit is alot easier being single. Go to a bar, drink beer, play buck hunter the end

This, only Golden T.

DaFace
04-16-2009, 08:13 AM
There is only one situation in which this is OK: if the guy is 100% undeniably gay. And I don't mean COULD be gay, I mean no question in your mind that the dude takes it in the poop chute gay.

TrebMaxx
04-16-2009, 08:14 AM
Sorry RustShack, but as others have stated already, game over.

Fish
04-16-2009, 08:15 AM
This isn't why you sent me a friend request is it??

EyePod
04-16-2009, 08:15 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

There's no way I would let that happen unless I knew the guy. Every guy is trying to get some all the time, but some always at varying degrees. How long is "a while?"

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 08:26 AM
Lindsay Lohan is looking for a new boyfriend....

As I've said before, take her out, get her really drunk, take her back to her house, use her like a roll of paper towels, steal $40 from her purse, take a dump in her fridge crisper bin, disappear, never call her again.

Ten years from now she'll be a smile on your face that your wife won't understand.

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 08:27 AM
Lindsay Lohan is looking for a new boyfriend....

As I've said before, take her out, get her really drunk, take her back to her house, use her like a roll of paper towels, steal $40 from her purse, take a dump in her fridge crisper bin, disappear, never call her again.

Ten years from now she'll be a smile on your face that your wife won't understand.That was a great story up until the "wife" part. Why ruin a good thing??

Mr. Plow
04-16-2009, 08:27 AM
Lindsay Lohan is looking for a new boyfriend....

As I've said before, take her out, get her really drunk, take her back to her house, use her like a roll of paper towels, steal $40 from her purse, take a dump in her fridge crisper bin, disappear, never call her again.

Ten years from now she'll be a smile on your face that your wife won't understand.


ROFL


I'd love to have that story to tell my friends. "So, I got her drunk, fucked her in the ass - HARD - and when she passed out, I shit in her fridge."

Frankie
04-16-2009, 08:29 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

If there were any more red flags your life would be a Red Square parade. Ditch her NOW!!!

luv
04-16-2009, 08:29 AM
This isn't why you sent me a friend request is it??

You got one, too?

Mr. Flopnuts
04-16-2009, 08:31 AM
This, only Golden T.

You're a beautiful woman.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:31 AM
I accepted his friend request a few days ago

Donger
04-16-2009, 08:34 AM
Sounds like she doesn't want to move in with you.

shitgoose
04-16-2009, 08:35 AM
The goddamn plane has crashed into the mountains and there are no survivors in this one.

Relationship over. Sorry man

Buehler445
04-16-2009, 08:38 AM
Hey, Rust, man...doesn't sound good. I'm not saying she is 100% guilty, but that is uncool.

I think the part that is scary is you don't know her friends. My wife and I know all of each other's friends. I talk about my wife all of the time, anyway. If she doesn't want you to be around her friends there is a problem unless it is some sort of exclusive hen's night or something. To all of our friends, on either side, it is me and my wife or vice versa. It is never just me or just her.

As for male friends, it is possible for them to exist, but most of the ones that don't want to bone her are good friends with me also. I have some friends that are female that I have no intention of fucking. It is possible, but if your girl isn't willing to include you, there are problems, not necessarily cheating, but problems with the relationship.

I think the best thing to do is be open, honest, and explicit with your concerns. She may get pissed, but at some point during the relationship you will have to communicate. If you can't do it now, whether or not she is cheating, there will be problems later.
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Demonpenz
04-16-2009, 08:39 AM
i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

Demonpenz
04-16-2009, 08:39 AM
be strong though, don't fall into the trap of being bored and still dating her. cut your losses drink whiskey and move on like a wayne jennings listening bad mother fer

Donger
04-16-2009, 08:40 AM
i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

I dated a girl named Helen Back once. It didn't end well.

Lumpy
04-16-2009, 08:40 AM
I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:44 AM
I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.

be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 08:47 AM
i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

You.....have......NO IDEA.

I WANT MY RECORDS BACK....

I WANT MY RECORDS BACK!!!!!!

luv
04-16-2009, 08:47 AM
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too

I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.

Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 08:48 AM
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do tooJust talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:49 AM
I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.

Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.

I see...

Girls want to know they are loved and the guy will fight for them, but at the same time if you believe in your game then you won't come off a certain way and turn her off even more, keyword be a man should be enough for him

alpha_omega
04-16-2009, 08:49 AM
Move on...quickly....if you haven't already.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:50 AM
Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.

I wasn't saying be a caveman and go ape, he just needs to be confident with himself when talking to her, im sure he's a bit insecure right now

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 08:50 AM
I wasn't saying be a caveman and go ape, he just needs to be confident with himself when talking to herWasn't saying you were, was just using you as my quotational diving board into the larger discussion.

bishop_74
04-16-2009, 08:51 AM
I would never go out with a girl that my wife is not familiar or comfortable with because I respect her. In turn she wouldn't do the the same to me. That is how a successful relationship works. If she can't respect you that way then maybe she isn't the right one for you. There are plenty of nice young ladies out there that are ready for a real relationship if she is not.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:52 AM
Wasn't saying you were, was just using you as my quotational diving board into the larger discussion.

haha its ok, i didn't know for sure...but definetly agree with acting like an adult about it, even if she isn't

Lumpy
04-16-2009, 08:52 AM
I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.

Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.

Nope, ur correct Luv. I don't have a penis... eh, the last time I checked.

JASONSAUTO
04-16-2009, 08:52 AM
Maybe she thinks that albert IS going to be a GREAT LT and doesnt agree he should/could be moved, she understands that he will leave for the money if we make him a RT.

sorry man had to do it, on a real note RUN get the fuck away from this girl.

dtrain
04-16-2009, 08:53 AM
Been there done that not pretty! It's the curb for her!!!

JASONSAUTO
04-16-2009, 08:53 AM
I would never go out with a girl that my wife is not familiar or comfortable with because I respect her. In turn she wouldn't do the the same to me. That is how a successful relationship works. If she can't respect you that way then maybe she isn't the right one for you. There are plenty of nice young ladies out there that are ready for a real relationship if she is not.

this guy is right on here

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 08:53 AM
Been there done that not pretty! It's the curb for her!!!

Curb as in, let her go or Curb as in american history x, where norton "curbs" thats guy:eek:

Buehler445
04-16-2009, 08:59 AM
Curb as in, let her go or Curb as in american history x, where norton "curbs" thats guy:eek:

Beat me to it.
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Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 09:00 AM
Beat me to it.
Posted via Mobile Device

:D

rockymtnchief
04-16-2009, 09:00 AM
Lindsay Lohan is looking for a new boyfriend....

As I've said before, take her out, get her really drunk, take her back to her house, use her like a roll of paper towels, steal $40 from her purse, take a dump in her fridge crisper bin, disappear, never call her again.

Ten years from now she'll be a smile on your face that your wife won't understand.

I had a buddy that did things like this. He'd crap in the hamper and then grab the gals VCR on his way out the door.

PhillyChiefFan
04-16-2009, 09:10 AM
I agree with you about letting them off the leash to run with the girls every now and then. There's nothing at all wrong with that. But I don't think that's the situation here. He didn't say she was going out with the girls. He said it was with friends. Betcha $500 casino cash it's a mixed bunch. And I'll bet she's doing as much sniffing around as the swinging dicks in the group are.

I agree with you. Guarenteed mixed group, if she doesn't invite you along...there is a reason for it.

Girls/Guys nights out are one thing.

This is another. She is going out with another guy, even if it IS in a group setting, she is checking the stock, flirting and trying to test the waters of singlehood.

As soon as she has hooked another guy, you are going to get hurt.

Cut bait and run. You'll come out feeling better about yourself. She is in no way shape or form ready to move in with you.

All the psychobabble bullsh*t about feeling smoothered and wanting "her own time" is lipservice to justify it.

AustinChief
04-16-2009, 09:23 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

Unless the girl you are dating is 16 or retarded... she is f-ing you over. She may not be cheating, she may not be thinking about cheating... but she is being completely selfish and naive (AT BEST.. let's not even touch upon what she is AT WORST).

You can confront her and hope it works out... but odds are... you do NOT want to continue on with her.

Easier said than done... but best advice is to cut ties as soon as you feel you can.

Sorry for being so harsh, but the fact is.. I know this situation and you need to be very careful about making excuses for her. It is an easy trap to fall into.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 09:26 AM
Nope, ur correct Luv. I don't have a penis... eh, the last time I checked.

That's ok, neither does the op apparently. ;)

CaptainMorgan
04-16-2009, 09:28 AM
Could not agree more with everything that has been said by you guys. The only way something like this would be permissible in my books is if she were going with a long-time friend who I also knew. In that case, it would be different. But some dude from the bar who is clearly trying to dart her mitt??? No fing way.

That said, you've got a golden opportunity here. You essentially know that this is prolly not someone you want to be serious with (unless there is some remarkable explanation for this type of behavior that I cannot think of) and you need to take advantage of that fact.

You need to to anything and everything that you've ever wanted (anal, on a pool table, underwater, alligator fuck house, etc). Really push the envelope with things, and see what kind of crazy shit you can do. Basically, do all the things you would not want to do to someone you care about. If she gets offended, who cares, you're not serious anyway.

Once you've exhausted all possible ideas, cut her loose.

Lumpy
04-16-2009, 09:30 AM
That's ok, neither does the op apparently. ;)

That's mean. ROFL How do u suppose u would react if u were in his situation there Mr Gonzo?

Pants
04-16-2009, 09:31 AM
All this online advice we have been giving him is nice and dandy but if the dude has feelings for the girl, he's devastated right about now. It's never easy to break things off, especially after years of seeing each other. Stay strong, man.

CoMoChief
04-16-2009, 09:31 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

Ask her why isn't it ok for you to come with?

That's kinda a huge red flag. If it seems fishy, it's probably fishy business going on. just sayin.

There are a lot of fish in the sea, I would get out now before you move in and shit really hits the fan down the road and you've put yourself in a horrible position.

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 09:32 AM
All this online advice we have been giving him is nice and dandy but if the dude has feelings for the girl, he's devastated right about now. It's never easy to break things off, especially after years of seeing each other. Stay strong, man.

Agreed, easier said than done...it sucks, hopefully things work out for him

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:33 AM
Girls Night Out=Okay
Other guys being at Girls Night Out= A long talk... a very long talk...
Going to a movie with only a guy= If it's not a dealbreaker...it's pretty damn close.

Agreed. Especially if you haven't known the guy for long. I mean, I have guy friends that I've known since I was practically born that I wouldn't ever go to a movie with alone...maybe dinner or happy hour, but never a movie.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:35 AM
You're a pretty cool husband.

And yes, he is.

Al Bundy
04-16-2009, 09:36 AM
I have a feeling her bitter single friend is trying to keep her single as well.

Donger
04-16-2009, 09:36 AM
I don't understand all the "cut her loose" advice. For the sake of the time and emotion invested in the relationship, talk to her. She may just be having cold feet about moving in together.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 09:37 AM
That's mean. ROFL How do u suppose u would react if u were in his situation there Mr Gonzo?

I'm married to a good woman so I'm not worried about it there tastycakes.

However, if she were to do something like this, I sure as hell wouldn't sit around and ask for advice from these guys. I'd be living out of the pay by hour motel while contacting legal representation.

MTG#10
04-16-2009, 09:39 AM
Sorry dude, unless this guy is a pillowbiter they've most likely already fucked.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 09:44 AM
I learned a long time ago that, if you can't trust someone, they aren't worth being in a relationship with.

Obviously, since you brought up the fact she doesn't like going to the bars with you, you have breathed down her neck about it before...and it makes you come off as insecure, and girls HATE insecurity.

so I hate to say it, but it's a lost cause...it's not even talk worthy...she's moved on she just "cares" about you too much and doesn't know how to break it to you...

Sucks dude...I remember all throughout my first relationship I had the girl in my back pocket...I could break up with her, do whatever I wanted...hang out with my friends...basically treat her like shit and she'd run back to me every time because she couldn't "have" me (or some gay shit like that)...

Then I went away to school and started hearing these rumors about this girl "moving on"...which I took as a personal challenge...and so obviously I just HAD to get her back...and did...but suddenly she had the power over me...and suddenly I became jealous and stared asking questions and then it just all fell apart and HONESTLY, I would never do that to myself again...once a girl like that gets the power she starts doing shit like going out and not wanting you around, hitting movies with "just a friend"...it was a learning experience for me.

It's best for you to play it cool, flat out dump the bitch (even if that's the last thing you want to do), and act like a badass about it (because at least then you'll have the satisfaction of breaking things up that were pined for disaster anyways...and believe me it'll hurt her more if you break up with her because she thinks she's playing you)...

Just remember, because it's true, time does heel all wounds...no matter how much time you spent with the whore there will always be the next whore.

when things go bad for me in any part of my life...I just think to myself..."will I care in 5 years?" and then I get really drunk and have my roommate pee on me and all of my problems disappear!

Mr. Plow
04-16-2009, 09:45 AM
http://nodwick.humor.gamespy.com/cats/kittenpantz.jpg

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 09:46 AM
when things go bad for me in any part of my life...I just think to myself..."will I care in 5 years?" and then I get really drunk and have my roommate pee on me and all of my problems disappear!

This is why asking for life advice on the CP is generally not such a good idea.

CoMoChief
04-16-2009, 09:46 AM
Agreed. Especially if you haven't known the guy for long. I mean, I have guy friends that I've known since I was practically born that I wouldn't ever go to a movie with alone...maybe dinner or happy hour, but never a movie.

I get your point, but really I dont see what the difference is between going to dinner or going to a movie. Is a movie supposed to be more "date-ish" ?

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 09:47 AM
Agreed. Especially if you haven't known the guy for long. I mean, I have guy friends that I've known since I was practically born that I wouldn't ever go to a movie with alone...maybe dinner or happy hour, but never a movie.

Never a movie?Unless it's a drive-in theatre I would think happy hour would be the NEVER here,but then again the happy hours I attend are very happy.

LaChapelle
04-16-2009, 09:47 AM
Sorry dude, unless this guy is a pillowbiter they've most likely already ****ed.

And if he is a pillowbiter he has probably felt her up. To see if they'd be the right size set for him if he goes tranny.

Fish
04-16-2009, 09:48 AM
Where's Buddha? He surely has some appropriate advice here....

Sully
04-16-2009, 09:48 AM
I don't understand all the "cut her loose" advice. For the sake of the time and emotion invested in the relationship, talk to her. She may just be having cold feet about moving in together.

If my wife ever fell in love (or lust) with someone else, I'd be devastated. I admit, I'd be completely broken.

However, if added to that was the fact that she had been pulling the wool over my eyes for any amount of time, it would be (hard to imagine) even worse. I think most of the "cut her loose" stuff comes from that place. I don't agree with that, I think the guy needs to have a very long sit down with her. But, from the information we've been given, it looks like that's going to be the deal whether he likes it or not. I think guys, as a general rule (and especially on the intrawebs) want to come off as macho and tough as possible, and it's also coming from that place.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:48 AM
I get your point, but really I dont see what the difference is between going to dinner or going to a movie. Is a movie supposed to be more "date-ish" ?

yeah, I think so. If I want to hang out with a guy and chat, I go to a bar, watch a game, or have some dinner somewhere very casual with lots of people around. But if I were to want something more or have something more with someone, then a movie isn't quite as friendly and seems more intimate and alone. This is just me though.

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 09:49 AM
RustShack just needs to drown his sorrows and listen to some torch songs
(Language....NSFW):

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Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 09:49 AM
I don't understand all the "cut her loose" advice. For the sake of the time and emotion invested in the relationship, talk to her. She may just be having cold feet about moving in together.

this dude sounds like he's about my age...

If this girl is cutting him out of her social life...and going to movies with dudes she meets at bars (and he's only telling HER candy coated story...chances are she texts these dudes like crazy...I know how these sluts with boyfriends work...I've banged a ton of chicks with "boyfriends")...she doesn't have cold feet. She's flat out done with ol' rustshack...

It sucks. This is why you never give a girl the power in the relationship...

I keep my bitches tucked away in my back pocket!

the Talking Can
04-16-2009, 09:50 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

your relationship has jumped the shark, sorry....


there is no way what you have described is kosher...and no one who really gave a shit about you would do such a thing...

ChiefButthurt
04-16-2009, 09:50 AM
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Right on the money. Guys CAN NOT just be friends with chicks, no matter what SHE says. Give anyone enough rope and they will hang themselves.

Katipan
04-16-2009, 09:51 AM
...dart her mitt???

WTF? LMAO

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 09:51 AM
I keep my bitches tucked away in my back pocket!

I'm starting think our Hootie was also Midnight Vulture

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:51 AM
Right on the money. Guys CAN NOT just be friends with chicks, no matter what SHE says.

I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? Their parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

Buck
04-16-2009, 09:52 AM
Sorry RustShack, but you should end this relationship on your terms right now.

Especially if its your house. Break up now, instead of finding out shes been cheating on you 6 months down the line. Don't put more money into this bank that is undeniably going to lose all your money.

Sully
04-16-2009, 09:52 AM
I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? They're parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

To be fair, though, in one of those cases...you aren't exactly the guy's "type."

CaptainMorgan
04-16-2009, 09:53 AM
WTF? LMAO

You've never heard that expression? One of the best IMO

Mr. Flopnuts
04-16-2009, 09:53 AM
A quick search of Rustshack's profile says he's 20 years old and lives in the 'Loo. Katipan, quit going to movies with other guys. :D

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 09:53 AM
and why would anyone under 30 want to move in with someone from the opposite sex?

I've operated under the assumption girls simply don't poop...and I don't want that ruined for me when I still actually like having sex.

I was banging this girl a few months ago and then she started talking about her bowel movements and I believe I deleted her from my phone that night...

Steve visited a few weeks ago and hooked up with an old booty call...said she 'squeeked' one out in the morning...gross. Girls are gross. I'm done with girls. On to dudes!

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:54 AM
To be fair, though, in one of those cases...you aren't exactly the guy's "type."

oh, like that would stop me, given my track record for ex boyfriends turned gay!!!

Mr. Flopnuts
04-16-2009, 09:54 AM
and why would anyone under 30 want to move in with someone from the opposite sex?

I've operated under the assumption girls simply don't poop...and I don't want that ruined for me when I still actually like having sex.

I was banging this girl a few months ago and then she started talking about her bowel movements and I believe I deleted her from my phone that night...

Steve visited a few weeks ago and hooked up with an old booty call...said she 'squeeked' one out in the morning...gross. Girls are gross. I'm done with girls. On to dudes!

Please don't start a "Grade his muff" thread.

luv
04-16-2009, 09:55 AM
yeah, I think so. If I want to hang out with a guy and chat, I go to a bar, watch a game, or have some dinner somewhere very casual with lots of people around. But if I were to want something more or have something more with someone, then a movie isn't quite as friendly and seems more intimate and alone. This is just me though.

No, it's not.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 09:55 AM
I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? Their parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

Baths at the age of 2 with the opposite sex can turn into long nightmares,I had a bitch that stalked me into high school after one of those"just friend baths"

thanks mom and dad

Katipan
04-16-2009, 09:55 AM
and why would anyone under 30 want to move in with someone from the opposite sex?

I like sleeping with only one man at a time, and it's easier if he's in the same bed with me.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 09:56 AM
Right on the money. Guys CAN NOT just be friends with chicks, no matter what SHE says. Give anyone enough rope and they will hang themselves.

I don't know about that...

I mean, I used to operate under the same reasoning...but lately I've started piling up a lot of friends that are girls that I have no intentions on sleeping with...

But yeah, in the case of ol' rustshack...that girl is already fucking that guy. I guarantee it.

All he'd have to do is sneak in to her place, grab her phone, look through her text messages...he'll get all the evidence he needs.

I can't stress to any of you ENOUGH about girls with "boyfriends"...the last two girls I've actually dated HAD boyfriends the first time I had sex with them...and they probably had sex with 150 dudes behind my back as well (and I probably did the same to them)...

Life is much more fulfilling when you operate like me...no morals, no convictions...shit, it's my world, all you homos are just living in it!

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 09:57 AM
I like sleeping with only one man at a time, and it's easier if he's in the same bed with me.

who's talking about sleeping here?

Jilly
04-16-2009, 09:57 AM
Baths at the age of 2 with the opposite sex can turn into long nightmares,I had a bitch that stalked me into high school after one of those"just friend baths"

thanks mom and dad

Did she carry the picture of it around, have it posted on her locker door, perhaps with a heart drawn around the two of you?!!!

Pants
04-16-2009, 09:58 AM
I don't know about that...

I mean, I used to operate under the same reasoning...but lately I've started piling up a lot of friends that are girls that I have no intentions on sleeping with...

But yeah, in the case of ol' rustshack...that girl is already ****ing that guy. I guarantee it.

All he'd have to do is sneak in to her place, grab her phone, look through her text messages...he'll get all the evidence he needs.

I can't stress to any of you ENOUGH about girls with "boyfriends"...the last two girls I've actually dated HAD boyfriends the first time I had sex with them...and they probably had sex with 150 dudes behind my back as well (and I probably did the same to them)...

Life is much more fulfilling when you operate like me...no morals, no convictions...shit, it's my world, all you homos are just living in it!

Dude, one of these days you're going to get burned, karma's a bitch.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 09:58 AM
I like sleeping with only one man at a time, and it's easier if he's in the same bed with me.

I generally sleep 15 hours a day...sometimes more. I go on long drinking binges that require that much sleep for ample recovery time...

when I happen to have a girl with me in my bed...I can't sleep...I stare...I hate life...I hate people in my bed. It drives me insane. IF I get married...my bed is going to be a double king and she's sleeping on the floor.

Katipan
04-16-2009, 10:00 AM
who's talking about sleeping here?

More than one man and it's too much snoring.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:00 AM
Did she carry the picture of it around, have it posted on her locker door, perhaps with a heart drawn around the two of you?!!!

As far as i know no photography was involved just this wacko's mental pic of us in the tub together at 2,of course I'm not totally innocent here there was that time at age 7 we played doctor...

Katipan
04-16-2009, 10:02 AM
I generally sleep 15 hours a day...sometimes more. I go on long drinking binges that require that much sleep for ample recovery time...

when I happen to have a girl with me in my bed...I can't sleep...I stare...I hate life...I hate people in my bed. It drives me insane. IF I get married...my bed is going to be a double king and she's sleeping on the floor.

Yeah but you're still a baby. If you're still alive at 30 you'll re-read the stuff you've posted on CP and wonder how you're still alive and functioning. You can tell us about your marital demands when you're done sowing your oats, steve's oats, and whoever the hell else's oats.

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 10:02 AM
it's my world, all you homos are just living in it!
Lighten up, Francis...

Katipan
04-16-2009, 10:02 AM
As far as i know no photography was involved just this wacko's mental pic of us in the tub together at 2,of course I'm not totally innocent here there was that time at age 7 we played doctor...

She was a proctologist, huh.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:02 AM
Dude, one of these days you're going to get burned, karma's a bitch.

LMAO

NO MORALS + NO CONVICTIONS = NO THREADS LIKE THIS

Like I said...it's MY world, and you're just living in it Metrolike. And in my world, karma doesn't exist...and in my world, ice cream socials and herpes are all I live for.

stevieray
04-16-2009, 10:03 AM
Run like the wind, Forrest..

sorry man...bummer.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:04 AM
LMAO

NO MORALS + NO CONVICTIONS = NO THREADS LIKE THIS

Like I said...it's MY world, and you're just living in it Metrolike. And in my world, karma doesn't exist...and in my world, ice cream socials and herpes are all I live for.

ROFL
Soda through my nose on this one.

LMAO

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:05 AM
Yeah but you're still a baby. If you're still alive at 30 you'll re-read the stuff you've posted on CP and wonder how you're still alive and functioning. You can tell us about your marital demands when you're done sowing your oats, steve's oats, and whoever the hell else's oats.

I highly doubt this.

If my life boiled down to being an awesome waiter and getting drunk and waking up naked in random places for the rest of my life...I'd say I lived a pretty damn good life!

Some people like working hard, some people like accomplishing goals...I like pacman video games and slutty whores. Does that make me less of a person? I saw this dude when I was in Vegas who had a super, tiny, deformed head...I felt bad. I CAN FEEL.

RJ
04-16-2009, 10:06 AM
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?


She's probably already banging him. If not, she's close. Either way, there is no future there. Walk away with your dignity intact and be glad this happened sooner rather than later.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:06 AM
Hootie, I don't remember you always being this super obnoxious? Is it that I'm not very observant or have you just stepped it into high gear?

Pants
04-16-2009, 10:07 AM
I highly doubt this.

If my life boiled down to being an awesome waiter and getting drunk and waking up naked in random places for the rest of my life...I'd say I lived a pretty damn good life!

Some people like working hard, some people like accomplishing goals...I like pacman video games and slutty whores. Does that make me less of a person? I saw this dude when I was in Vegas who had a super, tiny, deformed head...I felt bad. I CAN FEEL.

roffel, come back and tell us how you feel when you're waiting at the age of 40 and the only girls you can get are the ones you have to pay for.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:07 AM
She was a proctologist, huh.

Ba dum dum...

wow, you've really been on your toes lately here!

luv
04-16-2009, 10:07 AM
Hootie, I don't remember you always being this super obnoxious? Is it that I'm not very observant or have you just stepped it into high gear?

I think maybe he's gone into off season mode. He's sharing more about his life than I do!

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:07 AM
I highly doubt this.

If my life boiled down to being an awesome waiter and getting drunk and waking up naked in random places for the rest of my life...I'd say I lived a pretty damn good life!

Some people like working hard, some people like accomplishing goals...I like pacman video games and slutty whores. Does that make me less of a person? I saw this dude when I was in Vegas who had a super, tiny, deformed head...I felt bad. I CAN FEEL.

Yeah, but youstill let guys piss on you so....

You've got that going for you, which is nice.

http://i176.photobucket.com/albums/w183/scottalann6/CaddyShackBillMurrayUnkempt.jpg

Crashride
04-16-2009, 10:08 AM
I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? Their parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

I hear this kind of thing all the time so...If you went up to one of them and said "come to my room I need sex BAD! and I've always thought you were hot..." you cant convince me for one second that the guy wouldn't sprint to that room and be ready before you get there.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:10 AM
Hootie, I don't remember you always being this super obnoxious? Is it that I'm not very observant or have you just stepped it into high gear?

my xbox red fucking lighted...

Rewind one month.

Typical day in the life of me...

5 PM - wake up
5:30 PM - wash marker off of my face from night before
5:45 PM - sign into xbox live
7:30 PM - punch wall really hard after losing a game of doubles because I did something stupid
9 PM - last game
9:30 PM - really, last game
10 PM - last game
10:05 PM - shower time
10:19 PM - bar time
4 AM - blackout time

DO YOU SEE WHAT NOT HAVING AN XBOX HAS DONE TO ME?! I'VE BEEN UP BEFORE 5 PM FOR A WEEK STRAIGHT! IF SOMEONE BUYS ME AN XBOX (CANT CUT INTO MY BOOZE MONEY) I SWEAR I WILL DELETE MY ACCOUNT AND ONLY RETURN AS A LURKER. THAT'S A PROMISE. $200 IS ALL IT WILL TAKE.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:11 AM
roffel, come back and tell us how you feel when you're waiting at the age of 40 and the only girls you can get are the ones you have to pay for.

when you can juggle knives the way I can, you'll never have to pay for sex...write that down

Pestilence
04-16-2009, 10:11 AM
What the hell happened to him? Maybe he's booting her ass out right now.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:11 AM
I hear this kind of thing all the time so...If you went up to one of them and said "come to my room I need sex BAD! and I've always thought you were hot..." you cant convince me for one second that the guy wouldn't sprint to that room and be ready before you get there.

1. Would never come up because I would never want to say that to them
2. I bet they would refuse....because it would ruin things forever and I think 30 year friendship are pretty darn hard to find and replace.

Donger
04-16-2009, 10:12 AM
Hootie, I don't remember you always being this super obnoxious? Is it that I'm not very observant or have you just stepped it into high gear?

I don't know about you, but I await each Hootie post with barely contained anticipation.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:12 AM
$200 IS ALL IT WILL TAKE.

Shit for a waiter as good as you that should be no problem.

doomy3
04-16-2009, 10:13 AM
Uh, is anyone else worried about RustShack? Kinda weird to start a thread like this, then just disappear without posting in it...

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:14 AM
my xbox red fucking lighted...

Rewind one month.

Typical day in the life of me...

5 PM - wake up
5:30 PM - wash marker off of my face from night before
5:45 PM - sign into xbox live
7:30 PM - punch wall really hard after losing a game of doubles because I did something stupid
9 PM - last game
9:30 PM - really, last game
10 PM - last game
10:05 PM - shower time
10:19 PM - bar time
4 AM - blackout time

DO YOU SEE WHAT NOT HAVING AN XBOX HAS DONE TO ME?! I'VE BEEN UP BEFORE 5 PM FOR A WEEK STRAIGHT! IF SOMEONE BUYS ME AN XBOX (CANT CUT INTO MY BOOZE MONEY) I SWEAR I WILL DELETE MY ACCOUNT AND ONLY RETURN AS A LURKER. THAT'S A PROMISE. $200 IS ALL IT WILL TAKE.



I thought we were in agreement on a day in the life of Hootie...

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showpost.php?p=5657427&postcount=184

Crashride
04-16-2009, 10:14 AM
1. Would never come up because I would never want to say that to them
2. I bet they would refuse....because it would ruin things forever and I think 30 year friendship are pretty darn hard to find and replace.

Of course it wouldnt come up lol This is just a situation if you DID go up to them. Assuming you and the said friend were single, I highly doubt he would refuse if he was attracted in any way. I dont think you realize how much of a dog guys can be.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:14 AM
Uh, is anyone else worried about RustShack? Kinda weird to start a thread like this, then just disappear without posting in it...

If CNN breaks with another mass shooting story,I'll get worried

RJ
04-16-2009, 10:14 AM
He probably went to the movies.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:15 AM
Shit for a waiter as good as you that should be no problem.

I am currently unemployed asshole.

I have to get a job this summer though :cuss: But I already have that lined up...and then I will be throwing dollar bills all over the place.

Crashride
04-16-2009, 10:16 AM
Uh, is anyone else worried about RustShack? Kinda weird to start a thread like this, then just disappear without posting in it...

It probably hit the fan and he to bummed to just chill on the net

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:17 AM
I am currently unemployed asshole.

I have to get a job this summer though :cuss: But I already have that lined up...and then I will be throwing dollar bills all over the place.

Here you go brah...

Smothered, topped, chopped and diced for your pleasure...

http://www.wafflehouse.com/restaurant.htm

Skip Towne
04-16-2009, 10:17 AM
Why aren't we getting any input from Claythan on this matter? There is no reason Hootie should be getting all the attention here. Well, except Hootie is a whore..

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:17 AM
I thought we were in agreement on a day in the life of Hootie...

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showpost.php?p=5657427&postcount=184

that's accurate enough...although I don't have a job currently and haven't played halo (to the chagrins of n00bs everywhere) in over a week...

some girl I met last night was complaining about getting drunk three nights in a row...

LMAO

Bitch I won a bet a few months ago that I could get blacked out drunk for an entire month in a row. I drank so much I started spitting blood every morning. THAT'S DEDICATION.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:19 AM
Here you go brah...

Smothered, topped, chopped and diced for your pleasure...

http://www.wafflehouse.com/restaurant.htm

Nope. Already landed a bartending job at a pizza place...I don't even know what that means, but it sounds easy...which means I can land a whole new crop of really young hostesses...

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:19 AM
Of course it wouldnt come up lol This is just a situation if you DID go up to them. Assuming you and the said friend were single, I highly doubt he would refuse if he was attracted in any way. I dont think you realize how much of a dog guys can be.

My forever optimism thinks that they would have greater will power to know that it was just a moment of weakness and would respect me...

but I also think the thought would repulse them as well. Seriously, these are guys who I played kickball with, climbed trees with, and hid under tables with in the basement in tornadoes. I went through their parents divorcing with them, grandfathers dying, and lots of other challenges. We went through puberty together without messing with each other...if we made it through all of that, then I think we're good.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:19 AM
I am a currently unemployed asshole.


.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:21 AM
oh, and, I forgot to add the fact that, with MLB.TV, I watched 12 hours of baseball yesterday...too bad my fantasy teams are horrible...I was really banking on winning that $500 from my roto league that I'm currently in last in...I think I already spent that money, too.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:22 AM
Nope. Already landed a bartending job at a pizza place...I don't even know what that means, but it sounds easy...which means I can land a whole new crop of really young hostesses...

Heh.. Yep, summer vacation is right around the corner. Maybe you'll get lucky and a brownie troop will come in to celebrate selling all those cookies.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:23 AM
Hootie, do we need to start a new thread just for you to vent and tell us about yourself?

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:24 AM
.
Whatever...

I like you guys. ChiefsPlanet is awesome...I read through threads when I wake up and laugh out loud a lot...it's awesome. We have some witty, intelligent people on this site that I simply adore.

In fact, I don't like you guys, I LOVE you guys.

seclark
04-16-2009, 10:24 AM
Hootie, do we need to start a new thread just for you to vent and tell us about yourself?

hell, he's already got about 50 of them.
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Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 10:24 AM
This went from a rustshack to a hootie thread in about 12 pages

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:24 AM
Hootie, do we need to start a new thread just for you to vent and tell us about yourself?

Will you promise to participate?

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:24 AM
Heh.. Yep, summer vacation is right around the corner. Maybe you'll get lucky and a brownie troop will come in to celebrate selling all those cookies.

Sounds like they neglected to tell him the bartending was of the salad bar.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:25 AM
Alright fine...I'll go hi-jack a thread on a different site...or maybe I'll just watch the Braves game.

Sorry.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:26 AM
Will you promise to participate?

Yes, I will, as long as you stop turning all the other threads into threads about you? Deal?

Sure-Oz
04-16-2009, 10:26 AM
I'm suprised Rustshack hasn't responded, hope he is ok

Lumpy
04-16-2009, 10:26 AM
Sounds like they neglected to tell him the bartending was of the salad bar.

So what ur saying is Hootie will be tossing salad?

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 10:27 AM
Will you promise to participate?

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?p=5675291#post5675291

Jilly
04-16-2009, 10:27 AM
I'm suprised Rustshack hasn't responded, hope he is ok

Has he logged in since then?

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:28 AM
Sounds like they neglected to tell him the bartending was of the salad bar.

well that would make sense...it's not good business to have a mexican man down a food station that is visible to the customers...a clean shaven white guy like me would be the perfect salad bar attendant.

in the restaurant industry, we like to hide our illegal mexicans in the back and pretend we have a chef...but to their credit, those mother fuckers can cook! I'm not kidding, seeing those dudes multi-task is a thing of beauty.

If I ever own anything, my employees are all going to be Mexican...

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 10:29 AM
So, Since you're going to be done with this chic, would you mind giving gochiefs her numbah and AIM?

Just saying.

Pants
04-16-2009, 10:30 AM
I'm suprised Rustshack hasn't responded, hope he is ok

Yeah, either this thread is fake or he's going through a very rough time right now to where CP isn't occupying any of his thoughts. The shit might have hit the fan.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:31 AM
So what ur saying is Hootie will be tossing salad?

Lumpy is a-ok reminds me alot of Jenny Gump

Iowanian
04-16-2009, 10:32 AM
Call her right now and dump her. Seriously.

I have a better idea.

Post her number and I'll call her for you and post the transcript of the conversation here.

I'll be in your area early next week for a couple of days, maybe I could go with you and I'll dump her, kindoflike your attorney and you take notes and be quiet.

Nzoner
04-16-2009, 10:34 AM
a clean shaven white guy like me would be the perfect salad bar attendant.


just make sure you don't smell like piss

gblowfish
04-16-2009, 10:43 AM
So what ur saying is Hootie will be tossing salad?Note to Hootie: Don't forget to take jelly or syrup to work.

Short Leash Hootie
04-16-2009, 10:44 AM
Note to Hootie: Don't forget to take jelly or syrup to work.
I'm old fashioned...

Lumpy
04-16-2009, 10:48 AM
Lumpy is a-ok reminds me alot of Jenny Gump

Thx! Ur sweet. ;)

Dylan
04-16-2009, 11:24 AM
http://www.cheaters.com/images/site/JoeyGreco-09.jpg

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RustShack
04-16-2009, 12:00 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 12:02 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

At least you found out now.

seclark
04-16-2009, 12:03 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

yep...i'd get away from that.
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Katipan
04-16-2009, 12:03 PM
Charming lady.

Pioli Zombie
04-16-2009, 12:03 PM
I can't believe you are even asking. You know wtf is going on and you know wtf you should do about it.
I think the reason you posted this is because you got it bad for this chick and you're hoping that maybe just maybe someone on here might post something that will allow you to reason all this out so that you don't have to face the truth. It ain't gonna happen.
The first thing you need to do is get her purse away from her so you can dig through it and find your balls. The next thing is tell her straight up 'It's my way or the highway'.

No, don't even bother with trying to set things straight. The whole thing about her going out with her friends and not wanting you around is her way of getting time away from you so she can still act like she's single. I've got $50 that says she's screwed around on you before and got away with it. Now all she's doing is trying to make it easier to get some strange peter. She probably thinks if she can get you to puss out about her going to the movies with the new meat then she'll be able to screw around anytime she wants.

Man up ! Take her out one last time, get her liquored up, poke her in the but and dump her the next day.

Will you be my coach??
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Jilly
04-16-2009, 12:04 PM
what's your facebook? I'll add you so she can get more pissed!

Katipan
04-16-2009, 12:04 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

Everyone was quoting your post I felt left out.

wutamess
04-16-2009, 12:04 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

And why are you even conditioning your brain to POSSIBLY consider to move in with her? There's more to this story. Nobody's THIS naive.

shitgoose
04-16-2009, 12:06 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

At least this has all come to light before she moved in with you.

eazyb81
04-16-2009, 12:06 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

Wow. Get rid of her now.

This is not someone you want to be in a relationship with.

MOhillbilly
04-16-2009, 12:08 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

sounds like her mind games have been working.

Run like the wind and never look back. This type of female will say whatever to whom ever to make herself look right.
she has the demon.;)

DeezNutz
04-16-2009, 12:10 PM
I wouldn't even waste my valuable sperm on ****ing her one last time.

Be glad you found all this out now before you moved in together. Sucks now, but you're very fortunate.

sedated
04-16-2009, 12:11 PM
She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

other than finding them fuggin in your bed, I can't think of a better reason to dump a chick.


even in the .00001% chance she's not fuggin him, she seems to have no clue how to respect her boyfriend and relationship.

Donger
04-16-2009, 12:11 PM
I caught her in at least 10 lies last night.

She thinks her going out to the bars is the same thing as me staying him and playing halo.

She gets pissed if a girl adds me on facebook.

She doesn't see any problem in what shes doing, and said well I'm sorry I told you.

She deletes his text messages and hers back to him.

She thinks there isn't an issue and we shouldn't talk about it.

Eh. Find a new one, with fewer miles and more options.

rockymtnchief
04-16-2009, 12:11 PM
Man, the board is slackin' today. Where's the antifreeze suggestions?

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 12:11 PM
Jesus, dump her yesterday.

Katipan
04-16-2009, 12:12 PM
I wouldn't even waste my valuable sperm on ****ing her one last time.

Be glad you found all this out now before you moved in together. Sucks now, but you're very fortunate.

Just what is the black market value for your sperm?

Inquiring entrepreneurial minds need to know.

sedated
04-16-2009, 12:13 PM
I wouldn't even waste my valuable sperm on ****ing her one last time.

well...I wouldn't go that far.

Make sure you wear a rubber, dude. She gets around. Like a record.

<img src="http://www.luminomagazine.com/2004.03/spotlight/officespace/images/drew/drew1.jpg">

Buehler445
04-16-2009, 12:13 PM
Gat damn, Shack. Sorry to hear this.

Please please please dump her. Nothing good will come of this.
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Katipan
04-16-2009, 12:16 PM
She wouldn't act like this if you were as good at Halo as Hootie is.

DeezNutz
04-16-2009, 12:16 PM
Just what is the black market value for your sperm?

Inquiring entrepreneurial minds need to know.

Sentimental value, primarily.

In my younger days, I would eulogize any that met tissue and needed flushing.

CoMoChief
04-16-2009, 12:16 PM
The whole texting thing where she deletes them etc is a huge red flag.

DO NOT move in with this girl. You're asking for a world of hurt if you do.

Just leave her. If she really likes you she will try to get you back, then the ball is in your court and you can tell her how things should be if you're gonna be in a relationship.

Jilly
04-16-2009, 12:16 PM
She wouldn't act like this if you were as good at Halo as Hootie is.

ROFL

keg in kc
04-16-2009, 12:17 PM
The whole texting thing where she deletes them etc is a huge red flag.Yeah, that stood out to me. You don't do that unless you're hiding something.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 12:17 PM
She wouldn't act like this if you were as good at Halo as Hootie is.

ROFL

MOhillbilly
04-16-2009, 12:18 PM
if nothing else crush her spirit on the way out the door.

Donger
04-16-2009, 12:19 PM
Just what is the black market value for your sperm?

Inquiring entrepreneurial minds need to know.

I was offered $1,000 once for mine.

Gonzo
04-16-2009, 12:20 PM
I was offered $1,000 once for mine.

Each? Or a batch deal? :D

Pneuma
04-16-2009, 12:20 PM
I wouldn't even waste my valuable sperm on ****ing her one last time.

Be glad you found all this out now before you moved in together. Sucks now, but you're very fortunate.

I wouldn't go that far. If you can handle it emotionally, I would suggest that you tell her you want to slow things down. Don't move in together. Find some new women to date and keep her as a around as a hookup.

If you can't handle the idea of her fvcking other dudes, call it quits now.

Going down this path without you checking your girl is going to get you castrated, broke, and depressed.

I know from my own experience...easier now then it will ever be.

Remember you are the catch not her. She dosn't respect or deserve you. It only gets worse.

RustShack
04-16-2009, 12:20 PM
she seems to have no clue how to respect her boyfriend and relationship.

I've felt that way for a pretty long time now and tried talking to her about it many times... she just doesn't understand. I don't get how she was in a two year relationship before me.