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gblowfish
05-16-2009, 01:41 PM
Does it at Wal Mart and the Elementary School Parking Lot.

That's Hawt..... (says the 15 year old boys.....)


http://tinyurl.com/pjjsb2
Woman accused of having sex with boy in Anderson Wal-Mart parking lot

By Jim Schultz (Contact)
Thursday, May 14, 2009

ANDERSON - A 30-year-old Anderson woman accused of having sex or intimate encounters with at least three underage boys who were 15 to 16 years old pleaded not guilty Wednesday in Shasta County Superior Court.

Deborah Lee Towe, who was arrested Tuesday afternoon at her Thomas Avenue home, is charged with 11 felonies, including unlawful sexual intercourse with a minor, oral copulation of a person under the age of 16, committing lewd acts upon a child and arranging a meeting with a minor for a lewd purpose.

A 48-page Anderson police report released Wednesday shows that a school resources officer assigned to Anderson Middle School was contacted on April 27 by that school's vice principal after two female students told him that the mother of one of their friends was having sex with boys.

During a subsequent investigation, which is ongoing, one of those boys told police he struck up a friendship with Towe while visiting her home. He told police that he had sex with her in the back seat of her car at Wal-Mart in Anderson and that they also drank alcohol, the report said.

Another alleged victim, who was 15 and a freshman in 2008, told detectives that he, too, had sex with Towe and that she had sent sexually suggestive text messages and a photo to his cell phone.

He also alleged that Towe had told him to come over and "do stuff," the report said.

The boy told detectives that they eventually had sex while in a car in the parking lot at Anderson Heights Elementary School.

Still another boy, who was 15, told detectives that he and Towe had kissed, but "that's pretty much it," the police report said.

But the same boy later admitted that they intimately touched each other at her home, the report said.

During a May 5 police interview with Towe, she initially denied having sex with the boys, but later confessed and began to cry, the report said.

"Deborah Towe stated she never meant to hurt anybody," the report said. But Towe admitted that she enjoyed the attention she received from the boys.

"I then made the statement, 'You must have felt pretty attractive,' " an Anderson police detective said in the report. "Deborah Towe stated, 'I did, I felt young, I missed all those years.' "

She also said she set her sights on the boys to protect her daughter from their affections, the police report said.

Also known as Deborah Lee Stoneberger, Towe remains in custody at Shasta County jail with bail set at $250,000.

Her preliminary hearing was tentatively set for May 26.

Anderson police said Tuesday that they received information on April 27 that Towe had been involved in alleged sexual acts with a number of underage boys.

She was arrested on a warrant after detectives interviewed numerous witnesses and alleged victims, as well as Towe herself.

Skip Towne
05-16-2009, 01:46 PM
I wish some of these pervs would come after old guys.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 01:50 PM
It didn't have a negative affect on my life.

the Talking Can
05-16-2009, 01:51 PM
"nice"

Reaper16
05-16-2009, 01:51 PM
Victimless crime. She gave those boys a lifetime of high-fives.

Pants
05-16-2009, 01:56 PM
Teachers and moms, they should never be prosecuted for "deflowering" 15 year-olds. The system is failing.

StcChief
05-16-2009, 01:56 PM
The HS girls won't be after those MILF hunters but, they do have hallway high-fives....

some intrigued girls will wanna know though. they will still get laid.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 01:56 PM
I remember my parents picking me up at a much older lady's house when I was 15-16 pretty late at night after they'd been out looking for me. It makes more sense now, as an adult why they said the things they said to her, and didn't believe the denials I made about why I was there.

They were right.......while it wasn't appropriate, or legal....it was fun and educational at the time.

The part I don't get about these stories, is what is in it for the 30 something that is using the 15 year old boy for a dildo?

Pants
05-16-2009, 01:57 PM
I remember my parents picking me up at a much older lady's house when I was 15-16 pretty late at night after they'd been out looking for me. It makes more sense now, as an adult why they said the things they said to her, and didn't believe the denials I made about why I was there.

They were right.......while it wasn't appropriate, or legal....it was fun and educational at the time.

The part I don't get about these stories, is what is in it for the 30 something that is using the 15 year old boy for a dildo?

She said in the article it made her feel attractive/young and that she missed those days.

kstater
05-16-2009, 01:58 PM
"I then made the statement, 'You must have felt pretty attractive,' " an Anderson police detective said in the report. "Deborah Towe stated, 'I did, I felt young, I missed all those years.' "


A 30 year old that has a(likely based on the story of her "protecting" her daughter) 15 year old. Doesn't sound like she missed all those years to me.

FAX
05-16-2009, 01:59 PM
If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times; Hey lady, it's either you or your daughter. I'll give you 5 minutes to choose.

FAX

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 02:00 PM
Its pretty common. The ex wife of someone in my circle turned filthy pirate hooker, and is linked to HS boys......and singles...and married men....and.....

The hooker switch is wired a little wrong in some broads I think.

StcChief
05-16-2009, 02:00 PM
I remember my parents picking me up at a much older lady's house when I was 15-16 pretty late at night after they'd been out looking for me. It makes more sense now, as an adult why they said the things they said to her, and didn't believe the denials I made about why I was there.

They were right.......while it wasn't appropriate, or legal....it was fun and educational at the time.

The part I don't get about these stories, is what is in it for the 30 something that is using the 15 year old boy for a dildo?she's dumb, horney.
Hot to trot and no one to race with, or guys she meets don't want trouphy kids.... she's just FU in the head.

MIAdragon
05-16-2009, 02:06 PM
My wife’s best friend walked in on her mother banging her 14 year old boyfriend when she was 13. I just dont get it.

StcChief
05-16-2009, 02:12 PM
Its pretty common. The ex wife of someone in my circle turned filthy pirate hooker, and is linked to HS boys......and singles...and married men....and.....

The hooker switch is wired a little wrong in some broads I think.
one (horny "switched" divorcee) busted a nice neighborhood in Wentzville.
caused a few Martial issues. We called it Wentzville's desperate housewives.... the 40 yo woman switch happens....

Count Zarth
05-16-2009, 02:14 PM
Would hit that shit so hard.

EyePod
05-16-2009, 02:19 PM
The worst part is that she'll barely get in trouble. If this were a guy and it was the other way around, he'd be completely fucked.

chasedude
05-16-2009, 02:35 PM
Would hit that shit so hard.

I'll believe these statements you make if you ever get laid. Until then you're just full of hot air.

Count Zarth
05-16-2009, 02:35 PM
I'll believe these statements you make if you ever get laid. Until then you're just full of hot air.

I'm just sayin'. I would. I desire her.

Mecca
05-16-2009, 02:38 PM
The worst part is that she'll barely get in trouble. If this were a guy and it was the other way around, he'd be completely fucked.

Because?

It's not like she did something evil to this kid. I'm sure it will ruin his life you know making him a hero to all his friends etc.

MoreLemonPledge
05-16-2009, 02:51 PM
Because?

It's not like she did something evil to this kid. I'm sure it will ruin his life you know making him a hero to all his friends etc.

It's not good for the kids. Yeah, it seems great, and I don't know a 15 year old boy that doesn't dream about that. However, it's still a form of sexual abuse and will probably screw the kids up if they are at all mentally fragile.

Mecca
05-16-2009, 02:52 PM
It's not good for the kids. Yeah, it seems great, and I don't know a 15 year old boy that doesn't dream about that. However, it's still a form of sexual abuse and will probably screw the kids up if they are at all mentally fragile.

Really? I figured all it would do for a 15 year old boy would give him a big ego and make him think he's the fuckin man, you know speaking from personal experience.

Just Passin' By
05-16-2009, 02:53 PM
This country's laws about so-called underaged sex are ridiculous anyway. Some of these kids today have been getting laid since they were 13 or younger, but we're going to put the adults into the "sex offender" category because they were one of the partners. Like the drinking and smoking laws, this stuff is just utterly nonsensical.

MoreLemonPledge
05-16-2009, 02:54 PM
Really? I figured all it would do for a 15 year old boy would give him a big ego and make him think he's the ****in man, you know speaking from personal experience.

That might happen for one person, but another could develop attachment issues and skewed views on sexuality. Some 15 year olds just aren't mentally prepared for that kind of relationship, especially with a woman twice their age.

Two 15 year old kids having sex is one thing completely. That's going to happen. But a 30 year old preying on 15 year old kids is not normal.

KCChiefsMan
05-16-2009, 02:54 PM
Because?

It's not like she did something evil to this kid. I'm sure it will ruin his life you know making him a hero to all his friends etc.

what if a 15 year old girl lived next to a 30 year old guy who looked exactly like Orlando Bloom and all of her friend wanted him and one day she got him and had sex with him. Her friends would all be jealous of her, but he would be going to prison for 25 years.

Pioli Zombie
05-16-2009, 02:56 PM
Where were these woman when I was 15?????????
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Mecca
05-16-2009, 02:57 PM
what if a 15 year old girl lived next to a 30 year old guy who looked exactly like Orlando Bloom and all of her friend wanted him and one day she got him and had sex with him. Her friends would all be jealous of her, but he would be going to prison for 25 years.

It's never going to be looked at the same, that's society, just like female and male homosexuality is not looked at the same way.

Mecca
05-16-2009, 02:57 PM
That might happen for one person, but another could develop attachment issues and skewed views on sexuality. Some 15 year olds just aren't mentally prepared for that kind of relationship, especially with a woman twice their age.

Two 15 year old kids having sex is one thing completely. That's going to happen. But a 30 year old preying on 15 year old kids is not normal.

I'm just looking at it from my point of view, it would make me more arrogant than I just naturally am.

KCChiefsMan
05-16-2009, 02:59 PM
It's never going to be looked at the same, that's society, just like female and male homosexuality is not looked at the same way.

that is true. I'm sure that it is more damaging, emotionally and physically if they get preggers for a girl than a boy. So really, the legal system is correct to punish men worse than women if you ask me for that type of situation.

Pioli Zombie
05-16-2009, 03:00 PM
Would hit that shit so hard.
You couldn't hit shit if the shit was the atlantic ocean and you feel out of a fucking boat.
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Pants
05-16-2009, 03:01 PM
That might happen for one person, but another could develop attachment issues and skewed views on sexuality. Some 15 year olds just aren't mentally prepared for that kind of relationship, especially with a woman twice their age.

Two 15 year old kids having sex is one thing completely. That's going to happen. But a 30 year old preying on 15 year old kids is not normal.


People like gochiefs need to worry about attachment issues. Losing your V card at 15-16 is healthy for your development, losing it past the age of 21 will probably cause you to get attached to the person you finally have sex with (unless it's with a hooker and void of any emotional involvement). I have no doubt in my mind these kids were not damaged in any way by this.

People also need to stop bringing up the argument of young girls with older dudes. It doesn't apply at all since males and females are fundamentally different when it comes to the brain wiring.

MoreLemonPledge
05-16-2009, 03:03 PM
So I guess my question is (and this may only go for parents), how would you feel if somebody your age had sex with your child?

Pants
05-16-2009, 03:06 PM
So I guess my question is (and this may only go for parents), how would you feel if somebody your age had sex with your child?

If it's my son, I wouldn't mind. If it's my daughter, I'm hiring someone to break his knees and make sure he never walks again.

keg in kc
05-16-2009, 03:08 PM
People like gochiefs need to worry about attachment issues. Losing your V card at 15-16 is healthy for your development, losing it past the age of 21 will probably cause you to get attached to the person you finally have sex with I agree with you up to a point, although, on the other hand, I'm not sure that "attachment" (aka "meaningful sex") is necessarily a bad thing. As long as you attach first, and then have sex. The problem is when the sex comes early and the attachment grows out of it. And if you go too far the other way, sex becomes an animal act devoid of intimacy.

Not really an easy answer here.

Pants
05-16-2009, 03:13 PM
I agree with you up to a point, although, on the other hand, I'm not sure that "attachment" (aka "meaningful sex") is necessarily a bad thing. As long as you attach first, and then have sex. The problem is when the sex comes early and the attachment grows out of it. And if you go too far the other way, sex becomes an animal act devoid of intimacy.

Not really an easy answer here.

Sex should never be the basis for a long term relationship, IMO. It always gets old and stale after a while anyway. A 25 year old that gets his cherry popped at that age might get unhealthily attached to the person and be damaged for a long time if that relationship doesn't work out. In the end, though, it all depends on the person, I guess, these are just the trends that I've read about.

keg in kc
05-16-2009, 04:34 PM
Sex should never be the basis for a long term relationship, IMO. It always gets old and stale after a while anyway. A 25 year old that gets his cherry popped at that age might get unhealthily attached to the person and be damaged for a long time if that relationship doesn't work out. In the end, though, it all depends on the person, I guess, these are just the trends that I've read about.I agree that it should never be 'the' basis, but I think it needs to be an important part of a healthy, long-term relationship. I believe the intimacy, the closeness, is that important. What I was saying at the end of the last post is that I think it's hard to feel that intimacy if the emotion is distilled out of the act, if for an individual's life it never becomes anything more than scoring. I think at some point, you have to grow out of that or you can't ever enjoy real intimacy. And I think that's where the "old, sterile" sex shows up.

FYI, I was somebody who did wait until his 20s, and I agree with you. I'm just pointing out the other end of the spectrum.

Mojo Jojo
05-16-2009, 04:38 PM
If it's my son, I wouldn't mind. If it's my daughter, I'm hiring someone to break his knees and make sure he never walks again.

Actually if it's my daughter they will be aiming a little higher than the knees, and making sure he never f's again!!!!

Arsonist
05-16-2009, 05:00 PM
she aint too bad looking $$

Pants
05-16-2009, 05:09 PM
I agree that it should never be 'the' basis, but I think it needs to be an important part of a healthy, long-term relationship. I believe the intimacy, the closeness, is that important. What I was saying at the end of the last post is that I think it's hard to feel that intimacy if the emotion is distilled out of the act, if for an individual's life it never becomes anything more than scoring. I think at some point, you have to grow out of that or you can't ever enjoy real intimacy. And I think that's where the "old, sterile" sex shows up.

FYI, I was somebody who did wait until his 20s, and I agree with you. I'm just pointing out the other end of the spectrum.

I see, I see. Yeah, what he said. I've still to make love to a woman, I guess. That must be the greatest feeling on earth that everybody talks about. I can only imagine the eruption of emotion mixed with physical pleasure... I really hope I get to experience it some day.

Otter
05-16-2009, 06:02 PM
Would hit that shit so hard.

Just think GoChiefs - this kind of shit goes on every day, do a search on bestiality and there's horses getting more pussy than you.

Time to reevaluate things? Maybe? Hmmm?

JOhn
05-16-2009, 06:28 PM
Just think GoChiefs - this kind of shit goes on every day, do a search on bestiality and there's horses getting more pussy than you.

Time to reevaluate things? Maybe? Hmmm?

ROFL

Classic

Now that I think of it, my 76y/o mom got remarried in December.... I know she's getting more than GoChiefs ROFL

Bowser
05-16-2009, 06:31 PM
LOL @ "alleged victims".

Katipan
05-16-2009, 06:31 PM
The HS girls won't be after those MILF hunters but, they do have hallway high-fives....

some intrigued girls will wanna know though. they will still get laid.

Teenage girls always believe that older women have unlocked all the magic secrets to sexuality and femininity.

Teenage girls will love a guy that could fuck a woman.

Count Zarth
05-16-2009, 06:47 PM
Just think GoChiefs - this kind of shit goes on every day, do a search on bestiality and there's horses getting more pussy than you.

Time to reevaluate things? Maybe? Hmmm?

Are you suggesting I start fucking animals? Because I scared the shit out of some geese and ducks today.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 06:52 PM
Would hit that shit so hard.

Well, you're a little old for her, but you've got the living at home thing going for you....Maybe she'd make due with you until the heat gets off of her back for a while.

The star wars dolls will probably seal the deal if you can get her to chat.

kstater
05-16-2009, 06:54 PM
This country's laws about so-called underaged sex are ridiculous anyway. Some of these kids today have been getting laid since they were 13 or younger, but we're going to put the adults into the "sex offender" category because they were one of the partners. Like the drinking and smoking laws, this stuff is just utterly nonsensical.

JFC

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 06:56 PM
So I guess my question is (and this may only go for parents), how would you feel if somebody your age had sex with your child?

I think I'd commit a felony soon after I found out.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 06:58 PM
JustPassingby....coming to a sex offender list near you, summer, 2010.

DeezNutz
05-16-2009, 06:59 PM
I think I'd commit a felony soon after I found out.

Would you react the same way if it were your say...16-year-old son who smoked a 30-year-old hottie?

Even though the macho guy shit is to say it's cool, I'm confident I'd still be ridiculously pissed.

Just Passin' By
05-16-2009, 07:06 PM
JustPassingby....coming to a sex offender list near you, summer, 2010.

Yeah, that makes sense. My thinking the laws governing when so-called "children" are out of whack is exactly the same as my saying that I can't wait to bang teenagers.

kstater
05-16-2009, 07:09 PM
Yeah, that makes sense. My thinking the laws governing when so-called "children" are out of whack is exactly the same as my saying that I can't wait to bang teenagers.

It's rather scary that you put children in quotation marks.

keg in kc
05-16-2009, 07:09 PM
Would you react the same way if it were your say...16-year-old son who smoked a 30-year-old hottie?

Even though the macho guy shit is to say it's cool, I'm confident I'd still be ridiculously pissed.We've had this conversation about a billion times over the years, the reaction to it happening to 16-year old boys will always be different than the reaction of it happening to 16-year old girls.

ALTHOUGH, imagine it's your 16-year old son and a 30-year-old male teacher, rather than a female.

Talk about paradigm-shifting.

kstater
05-16-2009, 07:10 PM
We've had this conversation about a billion times over the years, the reaction to it happening to 16-year old boys will always be different than the reaction of it happening to 16-year old girls.

ALTHOUGH, imagine it's your 16-year old son and a 30-year-old male teacher, rather than a female.

Talk about paradigm-shifting.

It doesn't matter. A 16 year old isn't a "child"./

Raised On Riots
05-16-2009, 07:11 PM
She could start her own adult entertainment genre:

"Beaten with an ugly stick" porn.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 07:12 PM
Would you react the same way if it were your say...16-year-old son who smoked a 30-year-old hottie?

Even though the macho guy shit is to say it's cool, I'm confident I'd still be ridiculously pissed.

I doubt it. I'm sure I have a double standard, but the truth is, even given my experiences, I wouldn't want my 16 year old messing with a 30year old woman.

Iowanian
05-16-2009, 07:13 PM
Yeah, that makes sense. My thinking the laws governing when so-called "children" are out of whack is exactly the same as my saying that I can't wait to bang teenagers.

You'd fit in great in Saudi Arabia. They only have to be 8 and sold to you by their father.

stevieray
05-16-2009, 07:19 PM
I bet the daughters are beaming with pride.

Just Passin' By
05-16-2009, 07:29 PM
You'd fit in great in Saudi Arabia. They only have to be 8 and sold to you by their father.

The drinking age is 21

The smoking age is 18

The enlistment age is 18

Selective service signup age is 18

The driving age and age of consent vary from state to state.

A 17 year old having sex with his 15 year old girlfriend isn't going to jail, but when he turns 18 and she's 16, he can be busted even though they'd been sleeping together 'legally' prior to his turning 18.

An underaged girl can sleep with all the underaged boys she wants with no problems, but if sex partner #124 is 18 or older, he can be tossed into jail.

I think that's a ridiculous way to deal with the transition of child to adult. I'm not asking for access to children as sexual playthings. I've dated older women all my life, so teenagers haven't been on the menu for decades.

DeezNutz
05-16-2009, 07:31 PM
We've had this conversation about a billion times over the years, the reaction to it happening to 16-year old boys will always be different than the reaction of it happening to 16-year old girls.

ALTHOUGH, imagine it's your 16-year old son and a 30-year-old male teacher, rather than a female.

Talk about paradigm-shifting.

True, true.

For as much as I talk big, though, I'd want to have my wife kick that bitch's ass for blowing my son.

The 30-year-old dude? Fuck. I'm probably responding with a, "Your Honor."

booger
05-16-2009, 08:01 PM
she showed me her titteees in ronnie murphys car

gblowfish
05-17-2009, 08:35 AM
Are you suggesting I start ****ing animals? Because I scared the shit out of some geese and ducks today.

Did you put your junk in a loaf of bread, "D**k in a Box" style?

ChiefMojo
05-17-2009, 10:21 AM
Right or wrong, I highly doubt those 15-16 year old guys are going to be traumatized. The only thing traumatizing to them is they will now have to go back to girls their own age to bang. They just lost the attractive experienced tramp aspect.

On a serious note, I do think there is a big difference between the boys and girls that age aspect. Older guys and a underage girl situation is generally a big outrage to most, but when you flip the age/genders, people just shrug their shoulders and go "lucky little b$stard he is" or "where was she when I was in high school".

listopencil
05-17-2009, 10:39 AM
This is just up the freeway from where I live. I've been to that Wal-Mart. It's a Super Center btw.

BucEyedPea
05-17-2009, 03:51 PM
If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times; Hey lady, it's either you or your daughter. I'll give you 5 minutes to choose.

FAX

Sophie's Choice

Saulbadguy
05-17-2009, 06:01 PM
Tits don't magically appear at age 18.

Count Zarth
05-17-2009, 06:08 PM
Did you put your junk in a loaf of bread, "D**k in a Box" style?

Trying to cut down on carbs.

CoMoChief
05-17-2009, 07:04 PM
Victimless crime. She gave those boys a lifetime of high-fives.

yeah no kidding. Still dont know why the boys dont just stfu and not tell anyone, thats how things get out is you tell friends etc. I would have shut up and not say a word to anyone.

Though you turn the story around and if its someone's dad doing this to 15 yr old girls people would be calling for his head and the court system specifically would slam the book on his ass.

Not saying they won't do that here in this case, but changing the story around like that makes it sound 50 million times worse.

Halfcan
05-17-2009, 08:22 PM
being 15 and saddled with STD's from some old Ho-yep lucky boys...

Jayhawkerman2001
05-18-2009, 12:06 AM
Because?

It's not like she did something evil to this kid. I'm sure it will ruin his life you know making him a hero to all his friends etc.

for any children it can screw them up mentally. Yah, you may be thought of as a stud, but more often then not, it screws the child up.

Raised On Riots
05-18-2009, 12:18 AM
for any children it can screw them up mentally. Yah, you may be thought of as a stud, but more often then not, it screws the child up.

Been 18 much?

DaneMcCloud
05-18-2009, 12:22 AM
for any children it can screw them up mentally. Yah, you may be thought of as a stud, but more often then not, it screws the child up.

Uhhhhh....

Jayhawkerman2001
05-18-2009, 12:28 AM
at that age most kids aren't fully sexually matured

Raised On Riots
05-18-2009, 12:29 AM
I was ready to boogie at age 15, and boogie I did!

DaneMcCloud
05-18-2009, 12:31 AM
at that age most kids aren't fully sexually matured

Wow. That *may* be true.

But I seriously doubt that the kids who boned that chick weren't ready.

Raised On Riots
05-18-2009, 12:36 AM
Wow. That *may* be true.

But I seriously doubt that the kids who boned that chick weren't ready.

I think they were lined up and ready! (pimpish high-five! pimpish high-five!)

http://www.luminato.com/festival/eng/designedit/upload/Funk_Fest_01_Morris_Day.jpg

acesn8s
05-18-2009, 04:06 AM
I think they were lined up and ready! (pimpish high-five! pimpish high-five!)

http://www.luminato.com/festival/eng/designedit/upload/Funk_Fest_01_Morris_Day.jpgAll pimped out and no place to ho.

Raised On Riots
05-18-2009, 12:23 PM
All pimped out and no place to ho.

LMAO