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dilligaf
07-06-2010, 10:34 PM
My 24 yr old ex-stepdaughter, my son's half sister, was shot in the head by an ex boyfriend yesterday. She is in a coma and may never come out. If she does, she will have virtually no memory or comprehension. She may never be able to walk right or feed herself. My ex already has a down syndrome daughter that she cares for full time for the last 34 years and she may have to care for two now. This pyschopath drug dealer is still on the loose and the family is scared to death.

RedNeckRaider
07-06-2010, 10:37 PM
My 24 yr old ex-stepdaughter, my son's half sister, was shot in the head by an ex boyfriend yesterday. She is in a coma and may never come out. If she does, she will have virtually no memory or comprehension. She may never be able to walk right or feed herself. My ex already has a down syndrome daughter that she cares for full time for the last 34 years and she may have to care for two now. This pyschopath drug dealer is still on the loose and the family is scared to death.

Sorry to hear and you are yours are in my thoughts. As far as the coward that shot her I wish him much pain~

Frazod
07-06-2010, 10:39 PM
Damn, that's horrible. I wish you and your family the best.

TrebMaxx
07-06-2010, 10:40 PM
Prayers to you and your family.

Gracie Dean
07-06-2010, 10:43 PM
My 24 yr old ex-stepdaughter, my son's half sister, was shot in the head by an ex boyfriend yesterday. She is in a coma and may never come out. If she does, she will have virtually no memory or comprehension. She may never be able to walk right or feed herself. My ex already has a down syndrome daughter that she cares for full time for the last 34 years and she may have to care for two now. This pyschopath drug dealer is still on the loose and the family is scared to death.

Oh my god. I am so sorry. I will add this to my prayer list.

Lzen
07-06-2010, 10:43 PM
How terrible. Prayers for your family. Hope that piece of shit is caught soon.

dilligaf
07-06-2010, 10:47 PM
How terrible. Prayers for your family. Hope that piece of shit is caught soon.

What kind of man shoots a woman in the back of the head. I am really having a hard time wrapping my head around this.

RedNeckRaider
07-06-2010, 10:56 PM
What kind of man shoots a woman in the back of the head. I am really having a hard time wrapping my head around this.

A gutless coward. The reason you cannot get your mind around it is your are not one. I would take great pleasure in harming that coward as would you~

Buck
07-06-2010, 11:00 PM
Oh my god. Sorry to hear this. Hope try get him but more importantly hope she pulls through and is ok even as unlikely as it sounds.

dilligaf
07-06-2010, 11:06 PM
Oh my god. Sorry to hear this. Hope try get him but more importantly hope she pulls through and is ok even as unlikely as it sounds.

Thanks but she will never be ok again. The bullet went in the back of her head and exited through her forehead taking out part of her left lobe. They dont know if she will ever come out of the coma.

cdcox
07-06-2010, 11:13 PM
I'm really sorry to hear this. Just terrible. Prayers for justice and perseverance.

bevischief
07-07-2010, 06:34 AM
Prayers to you and your family.

Coach
07-07-2010, 07:45 AM
Jesus...

That sucks man, and I'm very sorry to hear about that.

RedNFeisty
07-07-2010, 08:39 AM
Truly sorry. I could never imagine going through such a terrible thing. I wish peace for you, your ex wife and son. May God show no mercy for this s.o.b.

seclark
07-07-2010, 08:41 AM
thoughts and prayers.
awful...
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pr_capone
07-07-2010, 09:57 AM
WOW.

Thoughts and prayers man.

Fat Elvis
07-07-2010, 10:37 AM
I don't know what to say. Your family is in my prayers.

Dallas Chief
07-07-2010, 02:21 PM
thoughts and prayers to you and your family. :(

FAX
07-07-2010, 02:59 PM
Words are useless in the face of something like this, Mr. dilligaf. All I can tell you is that, even in the most horrific of circumstances, your faith can see you through. No matter how difficult it may seem, you have to try to turn it all over.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter, and your family.

FAX

dilligaf
07-07-2010, 03:19 PM
They caught the guy in Colorado this morning. Maybe we'll get lucky and he'll get shot in the back trying to escape.

big nasty kcnut
07-07-2010, 05:53 PM
god bless you may she heal up and get better.

big nasty kcnut
07-07-2010, 05:56 PM
As for that punk ass dude that shot her i hope that he get ass raped by a stick with barbed wire then pour lemon juice on the wound. Then tied behind a car and dragged across town. Finally put a sign saying he hate black people and put him in the worst part of Detroit.

Al Czervik
07-07-2010, 08:46 PM
Dilligaf,

Prayers to all involved....
I hope that fucker that shot her has a painful aneurysm.....

mikeyis4dcats.
07-07-2010, 09:10 PM
prayers for you, and I pray somebody finds him and makes him pay.

booger
07-08-2010, 01:23 AM
I'm really sorry to hear this. Just terrible. Prayers for justice and perseverance.

i can't think of the words for something like this so i'll just echo cdcox and his post.

my thoughts and prayers to you and the family, hang in there.

Hydrae
07-08-2010, 08:11 AM
Prayers for the whole family not just for peace but for the strength that will be needed going forward.

Bwana
07-08-2010, 08:22 AM
All my best to you and your family. Sorry to hear about all this.

38yrsfan
07-08-2010, 11:33 AM
So very sorry .......

KC Dan
07-08-2010, 11:58 AM
Prayers and humble thoughts heading your way.

kepp
07-08-2010, 05:11 PM
Wow, horrible...praying that she recovers.

Gracie Dean
07-08-2010, 11:43 PM
How are things today?

Simply Red
07-09-2010, 12:30 AM
Done, I sure will bud, :/

dilligaf
07-09-2010, 08:07 PM
How are things today?

She has swelling of the brain that is causing alot of problems. They suspect a blood clot on the brain stem that is pushing down on the spinal column. They are going to perform a cat scan to find out more.

bevischief
07-09-2010, 08:27 PM
My wife back in 95 was a passenger in a car that was hit by a drunk driver. She was thrown out the back seat and almost not found. She was in a coma for about 2 weeks, had to re-learn to walk and talk and doesn't remember a lot of high school. Our families and have been friends since we were in grade school. The brain can amaze you on what it can recover from. We were not serious till after she recovered about 3 years later, we have been married 10 years this Oct. Don't give up just yet!

dilligaf
07-09-2010, 09:57 PM
The CT scan shows no clot and the pressure is better.

talastan
07-09-2010, 09:59 PM
God bless you and yours my friend. May God's healing hand work miracles!! Believe in it and it will happen.

Halfcan
07-09-2010, 11:11 PM
Best Wishes.

Hope they get the fuggin bastard and he gets prison raped the rest of his life-what a piece of shit.

Pawnmower
07-11-2010, 04:30 PM
I am praying for you and yours. May your family be kept safe and the victim of the shooting be returned as healthy as possible to enjoy life.

bevischief
07-11-2010, 04:32 PM
Best Wishes.

Hope they get the fuggin bastard and he gets prison raped the rest of his life-what a piece of shit.

The worse thing to go to prison for is to harm kids or women, does not end well for them...

dilligaf
07-15-2010, 04:54 PM
Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

DaFace
07-15-2010, 04:54 PM
Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

So sorry to hear that, man. :(

SDChiefs
07-15-2010, 04:58 PM
They caught the guy in Colorado this morning. Maybe we'll get lucky and he'll get shot in the back trying to escape.

That would be to easy on him. He needs to go to pound you in the ass prison for the rest of his life until they bbq his ass. Sorry to hear what happened and I hope you all are going to pull through this and be stronger for it.

SDChiefs
07-15-2010, 05:03 PM
Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

Im so sorry. I just hope everybody is able to get through this. If theres anything I can do to help, just let me know.

kysirsoze
07-15-2010, 05:08 PM
Prayer said. More on the way.

Baconeater
07-15-2010, 05:15 PM
:(

RedNFeisty
07-15-2010, 05:28 PM
The loss of a child by the hands of another, this is something I hope to never face.

May God have his loving arms wrapped around you and your family.

Gracie Dean
07-15-2010, 05:44 PM
Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

Oh god, I am so so very sorry

Der Flöprer
07-15-2010, 05:51 PM
My 24 yr old ex-stepdaughter, my son's half sister, was shot in the head by an ex boyfriend yesterday. She is in a coma and may never come out. If she does, she will have virtually no memory or comprehension. She may never be able to walk right or feed herself. My ex already has a down syndrome daughter that she cares for full time for the last 34 years and she may have to care for two now. This pyschopath drug dealer is still on the loose and the family is scared to death.

Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

I don't know how I missed all of this, but I am so very, very, sorry. A lot of us piss and whine about things that seem like big deals in our lives, but something like this puts things in perspective. I'm just so, so, sorry. Take care my friend. If you need an ear, or a shoulder, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.

bevischief
07-15-2010, 06:34 PM
That sucks. Sorry to hear about your family's loss.


I had to make the call on my mom here 6yrs, after a month of steady going down hill and no chance for recovery, hard to do at the time but I still agree with the decision to this day.

dilligaf
07-16-2010, 01:46 AM
They went ahead and pulled the life support tonight. She lasted about an hour. R.I.P. Jill. You will be missed.

Phobia
07-16-2010, 01:49 AM
Sorry bud. That's an awful way to go. Hopefully somebody will turn her loss into something positive. Keep the good memories.

booger
07-16-2010, 02:03 AM
RIP

lean on your loved ones dilligaf

God Bless you and the family

big nasty kcnut
07-16-2010, 02:26 AM
Sorry to hear that may god loving hands hold her and protect her. As for that guy i hope some prison guard goes all mel gibson on his ass and skinned him alive then pour sugar on him and let the fire ants slowly eat him alive.

Msmith
07-16-2010, 08:21 AM
I got teary eyes just by reading the latest message this morning.

May God's grace be with you and your family this hour.

Bwana
07-16-2010, 08:25 AM
Oh wow, sorry to hear that dilligaf. :( All my best to you and your family.

Slainte
07-16-2010, 08:56 AM
Terribly sorry for your wrenching loss. May you and your family find solace and eventually, closure.

Old Dog
07-16-2010, 09:01 AM
No words to adequately express how messed up this is. Condolences to you and your family.

RIP Jill

Gracie Dean
07-17-2010, 06:34 PM
Just got a call from my son. They are going to pull the plug on Jill tomorrow. The doctors said she may last a day or two. Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts.

How are the family holding up today?

go bowe
07-17-2010, 08:45 PM
may she r.i.p.

CrazyPhuD
07-17-2010, 10:11 PM
RIP

Sorry for you and your families loss. :(

dilligaf
07-18-2010, 02:27 AM
How are the family holding up today?

Everyone seems to be doing ok. They all had about a week and a half to say their goodbyes and I think they came to grips with it a little. Her services will be wednesday.

The guy waived his extradition so he should be back in Idaho in a week or so.

Simply Red
07-18-2010, 08:09 AM
This is horrible. Just awful. Please hang in there, i'll say prayers today for the family and you.

bevischief
07-18-2010, 09:02 AM
Everyone seems to be doing ok. They all had about a week and a half to say their goodbyes and I think they came to grips with it a little. Her services will be wednesday.

The guy waived his extradition so he should be back in Idaho in a week or so.

Sorry for loss.

dilligaf
09-26-2011, 12:33 PM
Update...His trial starts next week and I actually got called for jury duty in his trial! What are the odds of that? They couldnt get me outta the room fast enough!

Predarat
09-26-2011, 12:37 PM
Hope the bastard gets the chair! A rope and tree would be better, we are too easy on criminals nowdays.

Lzen
09-26-2011, 01:24 PM
Update...His trial starts next week and I actually got called for jury duty in his trial! What are the odds of that? They couldnt get me outta the room fast enough!

Do you know a link to the local paper covering the trial?

Phobia
09-26-2011, 01:32 PM
Update...His trial starts next week and I actually got called for jury duty in his trial! What are the odds of that? They couldnt get me outta the room fast enough!

Wow - they don't tell you about the case so you just showed up and they sprung it on you and the rest of the jury pool. Unbelievable.

Sorry for you and your family's loss. Hope the guy gets his just due. Hang in there, BP. You're one of the good guys.

Frazod
09-26-2011, 01:39 PM
Update...His trial starts next week and I actually got called for jury duty in his trial! What are the odds of that? They couldnt get me outta the room fast enough!

How did that play out? Did you get a chance to stand up and say "yeah, the cocksucker murdered my step daughter"?

FAX
09-26-2011, 01:44 PM
Very sorry, Mr. dilligaf.

FAX

doomy3
09-26-2011, 01:57 PM
Update...His trial starts next week and I actually got called for jury duty in his trial! What are the odds of that? They couldnt get me outta the room fast enough!

Wow. Crazy.

dilligaf
09-26-2011, 02:04 PM
How did that play out? Did you get a chance to stand up and say "yeah, the one who sucks the penis murdered my step daughter"?

I had an idea that is was for that trial but I quietly told the lady handing out the questionaire because I didnt want to chance a miss trial or anything.

dilligaf
09-26-2011, 02:09 PM
Do you know a link to the local paper covering the trial?

http://magicvalley.com/news/local/the-long-wait-for-justice/article_ea276b8a-ad54-11e0-a44f-001cc4c002e0.html

38yrsfan
09-26-2011, 02:27 PM
To bad it's not North Idaho, I might know a few of the jury .....

Frazod
09-26-2011, 02:58 PM
I had an idea that is was for that trial but I quietly told the lady handing out the questionaire because I didnt want to chance a miss trial or anything.

I thought about that - if you'd stood up and said something the defense might have claimed it tainted the entire jury pool. It wouldn't have resulted in a mistrial, but it would have probably delayed things a bit.

But I'm sure you did the right thing. I don't know if I could have passed that up, though.

dilligaf
09-27-2011, 05:27 PM
Today they let him plea bargain down to second degree murder with 15 yrs fixed. The prosecutor wasn't positive they would get a conviction if it went to trial. I'm absolutely fucking speachless.

Phobia
09-27-2011, 05:31 PM
Today they let him plea bargain down to second degree murder with 15 yrs fixed. The prosecutor wasn't positive they would get a conviction if it went to trial. I'm absolutely ****ing speachless.

I know it doesn't seem like justice but 15 years is more than a lot of 1st degree murderers serve.

Buck
09-27-2011, 05:34 PM
Sorry again for your loss, and sorry that he isn't getting the time he should be getting.

chefsos
09-27-2011, 05:36 PM
I hope the "fixed" means 15 years and no "good behavior" release bullshit.

So sorry for your loss.