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stevieray
10-07-2011, 04:37 PM
...is packing and moving out today.

while I'm happy and proud for her, I'm pretty suprised how sad and melancholy I feel....

:(

that is all.

ChiTown
10-07-2011, 04:39 PM
...is packing and moving out today.

while I'm happy and proud for her, I'm pretty suprised how sad and melancholy I feel....

:(

that is all.

She going off to College?

luv
10-07-2011, 04:40 PM
I'm sure she'll be back in no time. ;)

DMAC
10-07-2011, 04:40 PM
Tell her to stay away from Penn St.

allen_kcCard
10-07-2011, 04:41 PM
Just think of all the sex she is goi....err wait.


Just think of how much household estrogen you won't be exposed to, that should help make you feel better.

stevieray
10-07-2011, 04:42 PM
She going off to College?

she's in school, and working two jobs...

ChiTown
10-07-2011, 04:45 PM
she's in school, and working two jobs...

Well, good for her. You did well, stevie. Just continue to be there for her, as she will undoubtedly need help ($$$$) in the future ;)

Seriously, I get what you are feeling. I can't imagine what it's going to be like when my son's:deevee: leave home

DaKCMan AP
10-07-2011, 04:46 PM
Congrats. You're old.

Demonpenz
10-07-2011, 04:47 PM
You tried to raise her right, that is about all you can do. God's in charge now.

rocknrolla
10-07-2011, 04:48 PM
As long as she has a good head on her shoulders, she'll be fine. Good luck.

chop
10-07-2011, 04:49 PM
This thread is useless without ...jk

My daughter may be moving out soon. I'm buying her a car today. She said she was moving out as soon as she got a car. We'll see. She started college this year.

DaKCMan AP
10-07-2011, 04:51 PM
This thread is useless without ...jk

My daughter may be moving out soon. I'm buying her a car today. She said she was moving out as soon as she got a car. We'll see. She started college this year.

What are you buying her?

patteeu
10-07-2011, 04:52 PM
My daughter starts college next year. My wife started crying about her leaving last year. It will be hard to see her go, but I think I'll do like Stevie and wait for it to hit me when it happens.

Baconeater
10-07-2011, 04:54 PM
I love my son dearly, but the day he moves out will be the greatest day of my life. Seventeen years of cleaning up after him has been more than enough.

stevieray
10-07-2011, 04:55 PM
Congrats. You're old.
ya, a little....

while I don't want to do too little, I don't want to be overbearing.

it's like letting go of the bike the first time without the training wheels...gotta take the chance and let her skin her knees.

stevieray
10-07-2011, 04:55 PM
My daughter starts college next year. My wife started crying about her leaving last year. It will be hard to see her go, but I think I'll do like Stevie and wait for it to hit me when it happens.

my wife is fighting back tears.

stevieray
10-07-2011, 04:56 PM
I love my son dearly, but the day he moves out will be the greatest day of my life. Seventeen years of cleaning up after him has been more than enough.

just wait...it creeps on you.

KevB
10-07-2011, 05:10 PM
my wife is fighting back tears.

I have no doubt it will hit me hard when all three of my kids leave for various reasons. As I move into my late 30's kicking and screaming, these kinds of life changes really move me. You start to understand that part of really living life is allowing your emotions to come through. I'm sure you did a great job parenting her, and things will work out great.

Extra Point
10-07-2011, 05:21 PM
Sounds like you've prepared her for the inevitable.

Combined congratulations and good luck wishes!

Ugly Duck
10-07-2011, 05:22 PM
I tried to raise my daughter right, but she just didn't get it. So smart she got a free ride at the University of Hawaii including a penthouse in the dorm. So what did she do? Doubled up on her classes & got out early with a Masters. "Slow down!" I say. "Chill at the beach - its free," I say. But nooo.... kids these days...

Rain Man
10-07-2011, 05:46 PM
Isn't your daughter like 12 years old or something? When I was at your house a while back she seemed young. 12 is way too young to be getting her own place.

Rain Man
10-07-2011, 05:46 PM
I tried to raise my daughter right, but she just didn't get it. So smart she got a free ride at the University of Hawaii including a penthouse in the dorm. So what did she do? Doubled up on her classes & got out early with a Masters. "Slow down!" I say. "Chill at the beach - its free," I say. But nooo.... kids these days...

They'll always rebel against their parents. The best thing you can do as a parent is to offer her meth and talk about how great it is.

Otter
10-07-2011, 05:50 PM
Bitter sweet indeed.

KC_Lee
10-07-2011, 05:52 PM
I moved my baby girl into her first apartment a few weeks ago. While it was a fun time it was bitter sweet.

DeezNutz
10-07-2011, 05:53 PM
I tried to raise my daughter right, but she just didn't get it. So smart she got a free ride at the University of Hawaii including a penthouse in the dorm. So what did she do? Doubled up on her classes & got out early with a Masters. "Slow down!" I say. "Chill at the beach - its free," I say. But nooo.... kids these days...

Can't blame her for disregarding the advice, lest she end up a Chargers fan like her old man. ;)

chop
10-07-2011, 06:01 PM
What are you buying her?

I bought a taurus.

stevieray
10-07-2011, 06:06 PM
Isn't your daughter like 12 years old or something? When I was at your house a while back she seemed young. 12 is way too young to be getting her own place.that was 2002....she was nine then...goes fast, huh?

Rain Man
10-07-2011, 07:58 PM
that was 2002....she was nine then...goes fast, huh?

Holy cow. That's amazing.

Mosbonian
10-07-2011, 08:04 PM
http://youtu.be/PNe59AD_K7Q

This is one of my favorite Michael W Smith songs...and seems so relevant here.

My baby girl is only a couple of years away from leaving for college and I can't believe it. I'm already sad knowing that it is that close to happening.

So...I enjoy the time I have with her now as much as possible.

Kudos to you for raising her right StevieRay...

Pawnmower
10-07-2011, 08:10 PM
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tecumseh
10-07-2011, 08:11 PM
We're shopping college now with my oldest, a H.S. senior. I'm just loving every little moment of this year, her fighting with her younger sister, losing it over silly stuff. Our home is going to be a much different place when she's away.

bricks
10-07-2011, 09:32 PM
I can only imagine what it feels like for a dad to see his own daughter leave home and ready to lead a independent life on her own. Thats never an easy thing to experience. My heart goes out to you man.

Rausch
10-07-2011, 09:33 PM
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Nice.


She hot Stevie?...:evil:

Phobia
10-07-2011, 09:45 PM
My oldest has been on her own for about a year. Her younger sister left her mom's several months ago and lives at grandma's here in KC. Our Reese is 8 already. It's just unbelievable how time flies.

cardken
10-07-2011, 09:53 PM
My son left for College this year. He is only 40 miles away, so not far enough to miss per-say. But happy to see him growing into adulthood. And glad I'm not in "charge" of him anymore, living for myself after 17 plus years, liberating for both of us. I do miss him from time to time, and he says the same. We are good friends, father and son first, but still good friends.

RJ
10-07-2011, 10:27 PM
It's bad enough my own kids make me feel old but I've noticed the past couple of years that my internet friends' kids now make me feel old. So many little ones we were posting pics of and talking/bragging about 10+ years ago are now in high school, college, the military, etc.. I suppose that's to be expected but it just sort of sneaks up on you. I don't look forward to my own daughter reaching that age - I will miss her so much.

Demonpenz
10-07-2011, 10:32 PM
there are alot of people out there with no kids or no one to miss. So I mean you are going to end life like. Fuck yeah I got my moneys worth

2bikemike
10-07-2011, 10:38 PM
...is packing and moving out today.

while I'm happy and proud for her, I'm pretty suprised how sad and melancholy I feel....

:(

that is all.

I know exactly how you feel Stevie, I helped my daughter move to KC a couple weeks ago. She is now 1600 miles away.

Demonpenz
10-07-2011, 11:09 PM
I promise I will keep my binoculars on her

RJ
10-07-2011, 11:11 PM
My oldest has been on her own for about a year. Her younger sister left her mom's several months ago and lives at grandma's here in KC. Our Reese is 8 already. It's just unbelievable how time flies.


Your youngest is the same age as mine. Seems like yesterday we had threads on this board announcing their births.

Phobia
10-08-2011, 12:28 AM
Your youngest is the same age as mine. Seems like yesterday we had threads on this board announcing their births.

I'm not allowed to call her my youngest. I get corrected every. single. time...

Emersyn is our youngest. Announced her birth and death in the same thread roughly 37 months ago.

But Reese cracks me up every time I call her the youngest. It's just hilarious. I should throw her for a loop one day and call her my youngest living daughter.

Smed1065
10-08-2011, 04:31 AM
I'm not allowed to call her my youngest. I get corrected every. single. time...

Emersyn is our youngest. Announced her birth and death in the same thread roughly 37 months ago.

But Reese cracks me up every time I call her the youngest. It's just hilarious. I should throw her for a loop one day and call her my youngest living daughter.

Always liked you because I am crazy but you are not.

Smed1065
10-08-2011, 04:33 AM
I love my son dearly, but the day he moves out will be the greatest day of my life. Seventeen years of cleaning up after him has been more than enough.

Sorry but that act was outdated in 1984. Tech sucks.........

Smed1065
10-08-2011, 04:37 AM
What creeps me out is the all pussy kissing.

Like if you make her expect she needs it licked, She will never know-LOL

Guys are dumbstruck with this but most would say they are Doms otherwise.

Hey GL and hope they have a great life but it was not from you if it happens/

ROYC75
10-08-2011, 06:53 AM
...is packing and moving out today.

while I'm happy and proud for her, I'm pretty suprised how sad and melancholy I feel....

:(

that is all.

The feeling does ease over time. If you are lucky, they stay away, if not, they come back!:doh!:

Then they expect for you to continue to take care of them because life out there was too tough on them.:harumph:

MTG#10
10-08-2011, 08:51 AM
Dont worry, she'll get knocked up and be back home for you and your wife to raise the baby in no time.

jspchief
10-08-2011, 08:53 AM
What creeps me out is the all pussy kissing.

Like if you make her expect she needs it licked, She will never know-LOL

Guys are dumbstruck with this but most would say they are Doms otherwise.

Hey GL and hope they have a great life but it was not from you if it happens/

Excellent post.

patteeu
10-08-2011, 09:41 AM
Dont worry, she'll get knocked up and be back home for you and your wife to raise the baby in no time.

Spoken like the parent of a girl whose homelife is bound to lead her to the porn industry.

Iowanian
10-08-2011, 10:31 AM
Best of luck to her in her new adventure and to her daddy's sanity in the transition.

Pioli Zombie
10-08-2011, 11:03 AM
I'll have her back next weekend

stevieray
10-08-2011, 11:15 AM
My son left for College this year. He is only 40 miles away, so not far enough to miss per-say. But happy to see him growing into adulthood. And glad I'm not in "charge" of him anymore, living for myself after 17 plus years, liberating for both of us. I do miss him from time to time, and he says the same. We are good friends, father and son first, but still good friends.

this is what I'm looking forward to....still her dad, but ready to be her friend.

stevieray
10-08-2011, 11:20 AM
Dont worry, she'll get knocked up and be back home for you and your wife to raise the baby in no time.

one of the most excellent angles about things that are real and have value.... they intimidate and expose people that are assholes.

JASONSAUTO
10-08-2011, 11:29 AM
one of the most excellent angles about things that are real and have value.... they intimidate and expose people that are assholes.

Lol. He was just deflecting.

He knows how his kids will end up...

Look at the partner he chose.
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Earthling
10-08-2011, 11:39 AM
Best of luck to her! Mine will be moving in a couple of years too. Only one we had so it will be tough seeing her leave.

Lzen
10-08-2011, 12:00 PM
I love my son dearly, but the day he moves out will be the greatest day of my life. Seventeen years of cleaning up after him has been more than enough.

This. My son moved out about 3 weeks ago. :)

Dallas Chief
10-08-2011, 12:56 PM
one of the most excellent angles about things that are real and have value.... they intimidate and expose people that are assholes.

MTG is speaking from experience, I am sure. Obviously he couldn't hold his own shit together so he has to crap all over everybody that does. Plus look at what he was married to. Do you think his brood has any chance of growing up to be solid productive citizens with a slut and butt sniffer as parents? I would think not.

How was that?:D

Dallas Chief
10-08-2011, 12:57 PM
Lol. He was just deflecting.

He knows how his kids will end up...

Look at the partner he chose.
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LMAO THIS!!!!

kysirsoze
10-08-2011, 01:40 PM
What creeps me out is the all pussy kissing.

Like if you make her expect she needs it licked, She will never know-LOL

Guys are dumbstruck with this but most would say they are Doms otherwise.

Hey GL and hope they have a great life but it was not from you if it happens/

This might be the perfect post. I am having trouble looking directly at it.

mlyonsd
10-08-2011, 01:48 PM
Congrats and best of luck to her stevie. I hope she isn't moving too far.

My daughter and grandkids that live in Florida flew back last Saturday. First time she's been home since 2007. It's been a good week but they fly home tomorrow. Gonna be a sad day.

RedNeckRaider
10-08-2011, 04:24 PM
It is tough bro. I went through this with my daughter. I was uneasy but I knew I was a phone call and a few minutes away from any problem. When I moved out to the coast I had tears in my eyes driving knowing I would no longer be a few minutes away. She turned 30 this year. I have been on a full court press to get her out here. She was not in the mindset to move here but I think she is going to later this year.

I dropped my son off to go in the Army and it hit me like a truck. Everything I knew was gone. Both kids were grown. Everything in me wanted to tell my son to jump in old Silver and head back home and I would be back when this fight was over. I held my emotions until he was out of site and the tears came no matter how hard I tried to stop them. You can count the times I have had tears in my eyes in my adult life on one hand and not use your thumb. You will always be dad and will always be the one she looks to when life gets mean. She knows no matter what you will handle the problem one way or another. It is a part of the walk in life and a tough part~

Bowser
10-08-2011, 04:34 PM
Mine just left for Homecoming. Feels just like a few months ago I could hold her with one hand (she was preemie and only 3 lbs. at birth). :(

griZZly64
10-08-2011, 04:42 PM
buy her a lotta towels as a housewarming. shes gunna be gettin hosed 24/7

Iowanian
10-08-2011, 05:01 PM
Dont worry, she'll get knocked up and be back home for you and your wife to raise the baby in no time.

Don't worry, after watching you, your kids may star in Bukake porn, but Stevie is an attentive and decent father showing them a good example of how to live.

You're such an asshole and you deserve all of the F'd up things that happen to you. It's no wonder your wife left you for a teenager.

Easy 6
10-08-2011, 08:21 PM
The empty nest... its definitely a big deal, i feel for ya, both of mine left 10 years ago with their mother & its hard to get -un- used to your usual routines & being able to have daily, face to face input with them.

But you learn to stay in touch in other ways as best as possible, becoming the typical nagging parent... CALL SOON! lol... and you learn to enjoy watching them become full-fledged adults, with all of the triumphs & failures that come with it, knowing you did the best that you could.

She'll be fine, tell Ma to quit crying... best wishes.

MTG#10
10-08-2011, 09:00 PM
Don't worry, after watching you, your kids may star in Bukake porn, but Stevie is an attentive and decent father showing them a good example of how to live.

You're such an asshole and you deserve all of the F'd up things that happen to you. It's no wonder your wife left you for a teenager.

Yeah well go fuck yourself.

HemiEd
10-08-2011, 10:52 PM
this is what I'm looking forward to....still her dad, but ready to be her friend.

Good luck to you and your daughter Stevie, just be there for her as I know you will. That is a tuff step you are dealing with.

I have one 900 miles east, and another 1000 miles southwest. They would both tell you I always have there back, but we don't get to see each other much.

JoeyChuckles
10-08-2011, 11:04 PM
You are all old.

Pestilence
10-08-2011, 11:05 PM
Yeah well go fuck yourself.

Its pretty sad that you brought your sob story here and people tried to help you out.......and then you turned into a complete douche.

Chiefaholic
10-08-2011, 11:09 PM
My oldest (now 21) moved out three months ago. Luckily they bought a house close to home and we visit a couple times per week. Now, my youngest (turned 20 today) has been talking about moving out as well. I couldn't imagine having the house to just my wife and myself.

The Bad Guy
10-09-2011, 12:12 AM
Dont worry, she'll get knocked up and be back home for you and your wife to raise the baby in no time.

what's the matter? Still bitter about your wife taking in more hose than a fire company? Did she push that bastard kid out yet?

Sorry, I'm out of the loop. I've had your loser ass on ignore for a long time.

The Bad Guy
10-09-2011, 12:13 AM
Don't worry, after watching you, your kids may star in Bukake porn, but Stevie is an attentive and decent father showing them a good example of how to live.

You're such an asshole and you deserve all of the F'd up things that happen to you. It's no wonder your wife left you for a teenager.

And then knocked her up and the fucking jerkoff was having sex with her while the kid's swimmers were making a baby inside her.

The last thing your kids should do MTG is take any sort of advice from you. See if the wife's boytoy has any intelligence and then direct your kids to his wisdom.

The Bad Guy
10-09-2011, 12:14 AM
Stevie, wish your daughter best of luck.

MTG#10
10-09-2011, 08:46 AM
Its pretty sad that you brought your sob story here and people tried to help you out.......and then you turned into a complete douche.

Maybe all the negative response and insults during that horrible time in my life made me a little bitter. Im only a dick to the people that were a dick to me unprovoked.

Sorry, I'm out of the loop. I've had your loser ass on ignore for a long time.

Yeah you just now happened to take me off ignore before you opened this thread. Dumb ****.

|Zach|
10-09-2011, 08:49 AM
Maybe all the negative response and insults during that horrible time in my life made me a little bitter.



Do stupid immature shit.
Tell people about stupid immature shit.
People call you stupid and immature.
Act like a bitch.

Sucks to be you.

JASONSAUTO
10-09-2011, 08:53 AM
Maybe all the negative response and insults during that horrible time in my life made me a little bitter. Im only a dick to the people that were a dick to me unprovoked.


Yeah you just now happened to take me off ignore before you opened this thread. Dumb ****.
Why even come here then?
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MTG#10
10-09-2011, 09:03 AM
Do stupid immature shit.
Tell people about stupid immature shit.
People call you stupid and immature.
Act like a bitch.

Sucks to be you.

Its one thing trying to help someone out by telling them what they're doing is stupid and immature, that's fine. But insulting them, calling them every name in the book, telling them they are a bad father when nothing they ever did was around their kids, and all this while they aren't even themselves because they are still in shock about their life getting turned upside down unexpectedly is completely different.

Its fun to pile on to people who are rival fans, or people who come here just to be a dick to others for no reason. But if you do it to someone who has hit rock bottom and life is in the gutter just to try to be funny, then dont expect that person to be nice once he's pulled himself out.

Why even come here then?
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Because there are a handful of good people here who actually did help me through it without insulting me.

|Zach|
10-09-2011, 09:14 AM
Its one thing trying to help someone out by telling them what they're doing is stupid and immature, that's fine. But insulting them, calling them every name in the book, telling them they are a bad father when nothing they ever did was around their kids, and all this while they aren't even themselves because they are still in shock about their life getting turned upside down unexpectedly is completely different.

Its fun to pile on to people who are rival fans, or people who come here just to be a dick to others for no reason. But if you do it to someone who has hit rock bottom and life is in the gutter just to try to be funny, then dont expect that person to be nice once he's pulled himself out.




Don't get mad at all of us for your inability to man up and deal with your shit.

Iowanian
10-09-2011, 11:52 AM
Yeah well go **** yourself.


After what you said about SR's daughter in here, you have lost all pass. Anything is fair game for you as far as I'm concerned.


I wonder how many times you kissed your wife and tasted someone else's cock? Of course, you may be all too familiar with that so she'd never get away with it.


You've acted like a bitch, you live like a bitch and it's because you're a bitch.

Sr's daughter has not once been a part of piling on you, and you chose to take that jab. F you.

Pestilence
10-09-2011, 11:58 AM
Sr's daughter has not once been a part of piling on you, and you chose to take that jab. F you.

This.

MTG#10
10-09-2011, 01:09 PM
After what you said about SR's daughter in here, you have lost all pass. Anything is fair game for you as far as I'm concerned.


I wonder how many times you kissed your wife and tasted someone else's cock? Of course, you may be all too familiar with that so she'd never get away with it.


You've acted like a bitch, you live like a bitch and it's because you're a bitch.

Sr's daughter has not once been a part of piling on you, and you chose to take that jab. F you.

Everything always has been fair game with me you dumb fuck that's what made me this way here. But your ignorant hamster-wheel powered redneck brain is obviously too small to understand that. Once again, go fuck yourself :)

Iowanian
10-09-2011, 02:31 PM
Seems to me when your troubles started, a lot of people gave you some support and overlooked quite a bit of your dumbassary. Then when you were too broke to afford your lawyer, some planet folks stepped up and purchased some of your things to help you out.


My small redneck brain somehow seems to keep my life off of an everlasting gobbstopper of dumb**** that you're sucking on, asswipe.

Oh, and because I'm not a douchebag, my wife didn't leave me for a teenager who was more of a man, and I don't have to F myself.

MTG#10
10-09-2011, 02:39 PM
Seems to me when your troubles started, a lot of people gave you some support and overlooked quite a bit of your dumbassary. Then when you were too broke to afford your lawyer, some planet folks stepped up and purchased some of your things to help you out.


My small redneck brain somehow seems to keep my life off of an everlasting gobbstopper of dumb**** that you're sucking on, asswipe.

Oh, and because I'm not a douchebag, my wife didn't leave me for a teenager who was more of a man, and I don't have to F myself.
Yeah those handful of people are the reasons I don't stop coming here dipshit. And if he's more of a man why has she asked me to give her another chance 3 times including a day after our divorce was settled? You are nothing but a dumb fuck stupid-ass know it all. Im sure your wife would rather you fuck yourself and not bother her with your nasty ass 2 inch deformity you call your package.

Iowanian
10-09-2011, 02:44 PM
....and that's why you're so cool that you have to take shots at innocent bystanders like SR's daughter.

Tool.

MTG#10
10-09-2011, 03:10 PM
....and that's why you're so cool that you have to take shots at innocent bystanders like SR's daughter.

Tool.
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

The Bad Guy
10-09-2011, 03:50 PM
Yeah those handful of people are the reasons I don't stop coming here dipshit. And if he's more of a man why has she asked me to give her another chance 3 times including a day after our divorce was settled? You are nothing but a dumb **** stupid-ass know it all. Im sure your wife would rather you **** yourself and not bother her with your nasty ass 2 inch deformity you call your package.

Why wouldn't she ask for another chance? You let her fuck teenagers, and kept coming back for more of her used beef. What woman is going to turn down a stupid man she could walk all over?

The Bad Guy
10-09-2011, 03:51 PM
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

It's frightening that you have children. Truly frightening. Hopefully the wacked out hoe bag you were married to still has them. I can't imagine she's more mentally fucked than you are.

RedNeckRaider
10-09-2011, 04:48 PM
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

From your silly ass thread over your ex I wondered about you. It turns out she was on to something. You are a fucking tool and I dont blame her for dumping you~

Pestilence
10-09-2011, 06:34 PM
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

Really?

How about this then?

I hope you lose your kids......I really do.

Rausch
10-09-2011, 06:35 PM
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

Either way, it's good you stepped up and proved who was the better person...

Rausch
10-09-2011, 06:38 PM
And if he's more of a man why has she asked me to give her another chance 3 times including a day after our divorce was settled?

Because she's a selfish whore.

Probably the reason you wanted the divorce to begin with...

Mosbonian
10-10-2011, 09:12 PM
It was more of a shot at stevieray for the shit he said to me in the past. His daughter is just collateral damage.

Cumstain.

This is all I need to know about you to know how much of a low-life you are. Anyone who takes a shot at someone and calls his daughter collateral damage is f***** in the head.

I'm not going to mess with my own karma by wishing bad karma on you. But it seems that when you take shots at someone elses kids, that's a superball that will come back and hit you in the face real hard.