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luv 03-21-2010 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6620876)
Oh believe me I know. I didn't need everyone here to tell me that I needed to get away from her, that's obvious. Ive known that for a long time. The problem is actually doing it. I have to see her and talk to her several times a week because of the kids and it makes it hard.

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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6620985)
This isnt effecting my ability to be a parent or provide a home for my children at all. Everything that happens with me and my wife is between me and my wife. The sex only happens when they are at school. As far as they know we are just friends. I mean, they know I still love her. My daughter has asked me in the past if i still love her mommy and Im honest with her. She also occasionally asks us if we will ever get back together and I dont know what my wife tells her but I just say Im not sure right now.

So, you're not just seeing her because of the kids.

Mr. Flopnuts 03-21-2010 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6620678)
It doesnt feel like its another guys kid. It feels like its my kid. We've had 3 together, so seeing her and ****ing her while pregnant wasnt weird to me at all.

You sure they're yours?

Iowanian 03-21-2010 11:53 AM

You should run up to the hospital, there might be time for the doctor to add the Ex-Husband stitch.

BigMeatballDave 03-21-2010 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 6621061)
Reach down and punch yourself where your balls used to be.

LMAO
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Phobia 03-21-2010 11:55 AM

I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.

You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.

Mile High Mania 03-21-2010 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621130)
I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.

You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.

Solid advice and if anyone in this scenario were capable of doing it... they could probably make some progress that is good for everyone involved.

Mr. Flopnuts 03-21-2010 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621130)
I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.

You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.

I was just about to post that this will lead to a mental disease and the whole family is going to end up dead with 1 person in prison. Unless of course they're cowardly, in which case they'll all end up dead.

BigMeatballDave 03-21-2010 12:05 PM

About 2 months after my ex fiance dumped me I started dating. I was laid off at the time. Screwed 3 woman. In october I started working again. I haven't been laid in nearly 7 months. It sucks. I met a nice woman 2 months ago. Went out twice. She's been over to my place 3 times. I'm not rushing anything with this. The point here, MTG is I took some time for myself, my son and concentrated on my job(even tho I don't like it). I'm fully ready to move on.
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Slainte 03-21-2010 12:05 PM

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Go **** yourself. /quote]

Please take your innocent children out into the woods and leave them. Their best hope is to be adopted and raised by wolves rather than retain even a slight influence from you or your charming wife-slut.

I don't pity you. I abhor your existence.

'Hamas' Jenkins 03-21-2010 12:07 PM

If your wife's vagina had a theme song, it'd be this:

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MTG#10 03-21-2010 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621130)
I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart.

I have. She says she still loves me, doesnt love him, and is only staying with him because she feels "trapped". She said after the baby was born and things settle down she would be able to think more clearly and make a decision. I just want my family back, that's all Ive ever wanted. If there is one more member so be it, I would lover her and treat her like my own. This isnt entirely her fault, I wasnt the greatest husband in the world either. Thats why I havent been able to totally let go and move on, because she is still saying there's still a chance for us. If she said she was done and we would never get back together I would be able to move on.

Mile High Mania 03-21-2010 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6621226)
I have. She says she still loves me, doesnt love him, and is only staying with him because she feels "trapped". She said after the baby was born and things settle down she would be able to think more clearly and make a decision. I just want my family back, that's all Ive ever wanted. If there is one more member so be it, I would lover her and treat her like my own. This isnt entirely her fault, I wasnt the greatest husband in the world either.

Wow... she has completely flipped the script on you. You're the one apologizing and trying to do what you think she wants and what you think is the right thing.

Good luck.

Hammock Parties 03-21-2010 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621130)
I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

ROFL

Phil has officially gone off the ledge.

Never thought I'd see the day.

Mr. Flopnuts 03-21-2010 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Mile High Mania (Post 6621230)
Wow... she has completely flipped the script on you. You're the one apologizing and trying to do what you think she wants and what you think is the right thing.

Good luck.

Seriously. She didn't communicate her unhappiness with you. She responded to it by filling her vagina with another penis. Maybe more than 1. You wouldn't know, would you? Are your other 3 kids yours? Maybe you'd rather not know anymore...............

btlook1 03-21-2010 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621130)
I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.

Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.

You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.

But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.

I don't think I have ever seen Phobia give bad advice. Get some help dude. Counseling would be a good start. IF you can't afford it maybe a good counselor would take a payment plan? At least try.

Slaint whoever you are....maybe you should keep your hate threads to yourself....your being a major douche by leaving those comments!


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