Yeah, because women hardly ever run away from you.

So far like...10 have? 11? I think the 12th one is coming back. We were discussing second and even third dates Friday night.

Streak has to end some time! Then what will you say? :evil:

You all want honesty? So here you have it:

Its true, to them it really is all about sex. The entire world knows that girls are far hornier and more perverted than guys are, they just hide it. In relationships, its the girls who want to fool around all the time, and if the guy doesnt do it often or isnt good at it, she runs off. Being dishonest about it, is a big reason why relationships are so difficult these days. Girls always say they want an honest man, well men want an honest woman! This is why guys keep pushing you to fool around, because they know deep inside you want it bad, you're just hiding it.

Most guys agree, a girl whos honest and doesnt hide her true feelings, is pretty attractive. When girls sit around acting like they dont care and pretend to be innocent, then hit GF status and turn into porn stars, thats kind of a turn off. Theres nothing wrong with talking about the most natural, normal thing alive. Its the one thing everyone alive can agree is good, and without it, you wouldnt even look at the other gender lol. How come so many girls go out with guys who brain fuk them silly and treat them like dirt, and the girl stays? Yet they'll go out with guys who treat them well, but dont fool around a lot or arent good at it, and the girl leaves? Lol doesnt that say something? All guys know that keeping a girl is all about how good you are in bed lol. If you give her the best sex ever, she'll never leave regardless of how you treat her. Not good, ladies.

Unfortunately, sex ruins many relationships. Thats a big reason why certain religions speak against it so much, because they realize couples constantly divorce or separate for purely sexual reasons. If your significant other isnt good, why cant you teach them then? If you dont do it for an entire week due to a busy schedule or something, get over it, thats life. Reading through profiles and ads of both guys and girls, reading them talk about how theyre different than the others, not all about sex, not into this and that is funny. Personally I think its a lie, I cant count how many first dates Ive been on with girls who claim to be so innocent, yet within hours....down they go.

Some girls say they dont put out and do all that because if they do, they look like whores to the world. Umm, why do you care what others think? Let them think that, but you're not a whore, you're a person who likes sexuality, aka...a human lol. Is that embarrassing? No. Talk about it all you want, it doesnt mean thats all you care about. Myself, I fully admit what I like and what I want to do. But I also love to go out for the day, have weekly things we do, and yes, I do like cuddling lol. But I also love hours of fooling around lol. Another thing thats funny is, when a girl says she wont do something. Really, all it takes is the right words at the right time, and most of you would do anything. Again, nothing wrong with admitting it..

I do have tremendous respect for those girls who want to wait til theyre married though (though I doubt theyll last til marriage lol). Would I wait? Sure, for the right girl. But I wouldnt wait for other stuff that I love (you can ask if youre curious). Everyone loves intimacy, its one of the most important things in a relationships yet people try so hard to hide it and pretend they dont want it? Or, you're not supposed to talk about it? Since when does dating have rules? You just need to be careful that it doesnt become the basis of the relationship, otherwise it wont last.

Some girls say they dont like to fool around quickly because they did, and the guy never called back. Well I hate to say it, but some of you are no better. We guys spend our hard earned money on you on dates, and you dont call us back!

So you think that just because a guy talks about sex, it means hes all about it? No. Many guys will pretend they dont care for it, then use you for it lol. So if a guy is open about it, I think that shows hes honest. Look in Europe, people are so open about sex yet they last! Here, we hide it, pretend we dont care, then once we hit relationship status we turn into porn stars. Thats called being dishonest. And women do get far hornier and far more wild in their 30s, and far more open about it. I can tell a 30-some year old woman that im addicted to oral sex and she'll giggle, but I cant tell a younger gal that...so ya, Im not gonna tell you that....

Yes, its possible to be naughty and a good lover at the same time lol (how many of you would keep your bf/gf if they broke a limb or became deaf or something? Not many, but I would. I wont cheat, lie or tell you what to do, but I'll show you what "rough in bed" really means (and often) lol. We can even get tested together before doing anything, no problem.) And its very easy to tell apart the guys who just want sex, from those who want to commit to you, treat you well AND brain fuk you (hint: bars, clubs and parties usually dont work lol). My background is fully Italian, so that may be why my drive is so high, but may I remind you that Italians are ranked as 2nd best lovers in the world lol.

Dont hate. Just being honest.

Here I'll bump this thread, I have a date Saturday, boo ya!

Wow some decent analysis for once in this thread Gochiefs. Couldn't agree more.

Wow. A LOT of truth in that.

I want to know:

Height, weight, bust, rating 1-10

where you met her

what she is up for

how old she is

what you are going to do with her/to her

Anything else you can tell me

It's high time someone ELSE put it up on the chopping block

BTW, as for the diatribe, I halfway agree with it. I'm almost scared now to initiate too much physical contact with a girl on the first date. But I'm scared to be un-aggressive for fear of making them think I'm a nice guy and I'll spend too much time trying to love them and not **** them. Either way, if I **** up, I miss out on a great thing.

And by the way, the girl I went out with last Friday for SIX HOURS has completely ignored me since. And now another one is messaging..........arrrgh

That's alot of info you're asking for there man...

Be yourself and not one of your alter personas.

If you want to get laid be all cognate but if you want a relationship, drop the lies and persona.

And you thought internet dating sucked.

I'll answer a few of those questions, she's 29, she's about 5'7 she has 2 kids, and I'm also not going to try to sleep with her right away since from speaking with her I actually like her.

Good luck on your date Mecca. Give us a report.

I had one tonight and I think I will see her again Saturday. That would be my first second date. Here's hoping, but I expect her to blow me off like all the others...

Oh holy shit. The girl I went out with LAST AUGUST, the fat one, who is still fat, just messaged me.

I want no part of her...but screwing with her (online) could be fun. Ideas?

GO BOY insert your wang .. its easy .....

Don't do it. Karma is biatch that will post your BS all over the internets. Do not want.:shake:

My turn... I have an actual date Sunday. I have been 'seeing' a couple women, but that was what it was. I think I'd like to have a GF now.

THIS...

There's only one thing on a chick's mind when she texts you at 2 AM....

o:-)

OK. Let's see if I can turn a 3 AM Denny's date into sex. CUE ADVENTURE SOUNDTRACK!

What the **** was that shit. What sort of ****ing girl asks you to meet her at 3 AM AND HAS NO INTEREST IN SEX?

Maybe I'll **** her tonight (she wants to go out to some stupid bar). Jesus ****ing Christ.

Well do you smell like fish now ?

A chick hanging with her gay friend?

luvs in town also, coincidence?

I didn't go on a date with Luv lol, I don't think I'm her type.

What's my type?

That's a good question but I've never thought I was really your type but I dunno.

You're too old...:D

I just turned 29 man!

How was your date? Get any?

LOL I know. I think Luv likes 'em young. :D

LOL, I don't sleep with anyone the first time I meet them...I'm not Clay here. That's not what I'm about.

She's really cool, we click well, we phone pretty much everyday. She has 2 little girls who sound like they are adorable.

I probably shouldnt talk, I'm 39 and I prefer women in their late 20s early 30s.

Thats cool. Hope it works out for ya. Are you a patient man? I ask that since she has kids.

Very cool. I hope it works out.

For the most part. I'm just a very laid back person. I hardly ever get mad about anything. I may argue on here and all that but I'm about as laid back of a person as you'll meet.

In some ways I know how to handle children, Growing up I was much older than my sister and brother, when I was 20 my sister was 10 and my brother was 8.

Well thanks, the only downside is she doesn't live all that close, so I don't know how often we'll see each other.

I'm learning so much about myself.

I can relate. How far?

She lives in Topeka so roughly 80 miles...

That helps a lot. I was pretty much in the same situation growing up. I was 13 when my brother was born and had a sister the following yr.

:D

Wow. That sucks. I was seeing a woman 40+ miles away. We just took turns driving to each others place, or met in the middle.

It is what it is, but to this point I really like her so I'm not looking at it as a huge deal.

How far did you drive to meet her, Mecca?

Uh oh Clay is going to give me a lecture because what he looks for and what I look for aren't remotely the same.

Relax dipshit. Just curious. And how can I do that if you don't post a picture?

Wondering what might be worth driving over 10 miles for?

Yea I don't think posting a picture would be the best idea.

In the end what's important is this is the first woman I've really liked in quite a long time.

Good for you, eighty miles would be too much for me.

I'm single and I think quite a bit older than you, priorities change when you meet people you like after awhile.

We're almost the same age.

I can't imagine driving 40 miles for anyone barring a celebrity or a 10 that wanted to shag, guaranteed.

The farthest I've gone is about 20 and usually I look for girls within 15 miles.

Like I said, we look for different things, like you said you don't even want a relationship.

Her and I click very well so much so that it doesn't bother me that she has kids, I doubt you'd be thinking that.

I'd love to have a relationship.

So tell us about the date.

Didn't you say not that long ago you had no desire to put in the work for a relationship?

That's great.

Hope it goes well for you.

Also, the older you get, the harder it is to find someone you can connect with that isn't already taken. Sometimes, they're not so close. I think that's why Clay goes for the near teenagers. Probably why guys I like tend to be younger. They're what's available.

I don't remember saying that. I said I'd be a horrible boyfriend. At this point I'm willing to see just how awful a boyfriend I might be. This entire dating thing, since last August, is mostly about personal growth. I'm just in it to get the experience mostly. I have lost time to make up for. If something happens along the way, great.

I have only been out with three girls who were under 20. The rest were all 22+ and one was 30.

Oh...of course one was 39...bless that woman. :D

This one is the same age as me which I think is pretty good. We like the same music...she likes my hair.

I don't think she likes sports much but that isn't an issue at all to me.

I have a friend who is almost 28. He's had 3 girlfriends over the last 7 years with probably a period of about a year of being single. None of the girlfriends have been over 22.

I've always wondered if he had a case of arrested development.

Spot on. I miss how easy this was in my 20s...

Yeah, that's rough.

I'm currently in a long distance relationship. She lives about 100 miles away from me but is on a work assignment that runs through next year that has her even further away (~250 miles). We spend every weekend together either at my place, her current location or meet in the middle at her permanent place.

Sometimes getting through Monday - Thursday can be difficult and the 1 weekend a month dedicated to class is especially tough.

However, if it's the right person it'll work itself out. It's kind of strange, but I have quite a few friends who now are either in long distance relationships or were in them for 1-2 years before they moved to the same city.

Good luck.

I had a manager at a high school job who was in his mid to late 30s, and he didn't date anyone over 20 (and I heard plenty of stuff about what happened behind closed doors with the ~17 year old girls at work).... I once heard him say "she'll be gone soon, because she's gettin' too old" when talking about his gf, who I think was 18, and was living with him at the time.

So your sister is 19 now, that's cool.

Wow. I think she's in love.

You've got to be kidding me...

Fraid not. She wrote me 400 words. LMAO. She's way out of my league but this should be fun...

Hahahahahaha.

So, it's 3 AM, this girl on facebook tells me to come over. I'm like, yeah, right, stop teasing. She's like no, really, come over. This is the same girl who was telling me to come over the night before, but ignored me after I said, "yeah, right, you're just teasing me." She gives me directions to her apartment, her phone number, and tells me to call when I get there. I text her when I leave.

So, I shave my balls, put on my dashing Indiana Jones jacket (Raiders of the Lost Ark style), and drive my dick 30 minutes southwest. I get there with no problems, park at a CVS and call her up. No answer. I leave a message and tell her to call me back. I wait 15 goddamn minutes like a pathetic bitch, call one more time, and hang up when it goes to voicemail again.

Angry, pissed off, and ready to consume an entire AI Thick and Hearty Burger PLUS a large order of onion rings from Whataburger, I drive another 30 minutes home.

WHAT THE **** WAS THAT SHIT?

This burger is good, though. How should I punish this bitch? Anal?

LOL

She just sent me 900 words.

Bitch is crazy in love with e-Me.

LMAO. Sometimes women aren't so bad. How do I play this, now?

Yes they are, they're evil !

Sonofabitch. I went limp again.

My head's not in a good place right now.

Maybe she wasn't that hot? Either that or I'm gay.

Haven't we been telling you that you're gay this whole time?:D

You went to her place ?

Haven't we established this already?

Ah, this was a different girl. But yes.

Today was disappointing enough of an experience that if I attempt to nail the hotter broad this weekend, I'm going in with a "YOU ARE PROBABLY GAY OR IMPOTENT" mindset. I'm worried and a little depressed. Something is ****ed up upstairs.

The place of heterosexuality, huh? It sucks to be you...

I don't know, dude. I don't think I'm gay. But when the moment of truth comes and I can't perform I honestly wonder. This has happened twice now.....it went up and it went right back down....... :cuss: