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Iowanian 04-27-2005 03:33 PM
as much as you talk about Anal, its no wonder people think you're gay.

between that, and the Abercrombie Turtleneck...you just might be.

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:34 PM
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If she's not interested in me because of those things, I didn't need her shallow ass anyway.
I understand the attitude, but my point is this: girls don't want to TALK about it. It's not bad that you're interested in it, but she's probably not. You've got to find things to talk about that she is interested in, or you're bore her.

ChiefsCountry 04-27-2005 03:35 PM
Oh another thing, if you have a girl that is really good friend have her help you shop for clothes. Girls pick out stuff they like for you, and you get to reap the rewards.

Brock 04-27-2005 03:36 PM
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Those things aren't part of my "core values" either. That's all the more reason she shouldn't have a problem with them. If she does.... :shake:
Poor thing. If she'd only take the time to get to know the real Boba. ROFL

Simplex3 04-27-2005 03:36 PM
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Be nice, compliant them on everything...

...Get some art work for the walls and fake plants, mirrors look cool. Trust me, chicks dig my place.
1. I always found the more I complimented them the more they wanted to introduce me to their fat, ugly friend.

2. Don't show them that mirror on the ceiling above your bed. Let them find it themselves.

3. Fake plants are a guy's best friend. If you can keep real ones alive that's even more impressive, but I never could.

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:36 PM
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Now I have to tiptoe around the american vernacular? I thought I was supposed to have some balls.
You've got to feel a girl out before you know if you can say stuff like that around her. It's not good first-date or first-chat material. Some girls will find it offensive or simply stupid. Others won't mind. Find out which she is before you start saying stuff like that. Most, I think, will feel that it makes you sound immature.

Hammock Parties 04-27-2005 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by jcroft
Okay, overall, you're not so bad, Mr. Gochiefs. The most important thing I can say is avoid that nerd talk. Some girls like nerdy guys. But that doesn't mean they want to talk about digital cameras and gmail. It means they think it's cute if you have glasses and are kind of skinny. If a girl really is a geek herself, you'll figure it out and you can talk about gmail to your little heart's content. Until then, just stop it. :)

Also, I'd probably avoid telling drunken stories right away -- although this girl didn't seem to mind it.

The other big thing here is that, while it wasn't really a BAD conversation, you didn't seem that interested in getting to know her. I think you ought to be asking more questions about her. Where's she from? What's her family like? What kind of music does she like (you kind of got into this a little bit)? What does she like to do for fun? Where does she work? Etc. Girls, in general, love to have a guy really talk to her and seem interested in getting to know more about her.

And don't forget to ask if she does anal.
Thanks for the pointers. I'll add that I haven't spoken to Ms. Girlused since this encounter.

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:38 PM
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Also a big thing is the apartment/pad/house this is the big key. If you are a college age guy, the beer posters and playboy pictures are fine for a dorm room but if you live off campus dont put that stuff up. Make your living area look like a man's place and not a kids. Get some art work for the walls and fake plants, mirrors look cool. Trust me, chicks dig my place.
I agree with this 100%. As a non-college guy (I'm 28) who regularly picks on on college girls (hey, I live in Manhattan), I can assure you that they love this kind of thing.

However -- get real plants, dude! Damn! :)

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Iowanian
as much as you talk about Anal, its no wonder people think you're gay.

between that, and the Abercrombie Turtleneck...you just might be.
I have neither a single piece of Abercrombie gear nor a single turtleneck in my wardrobe. :)

ChiefsCountry 04-27-2005 03:39 PM
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However -- get real plants, dude! Damn! :)
If I had real ones they would be dead.

Hammock Parties 04-27-2005 03:40 PM
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I agree with this 100%. As a non-college guy (I'm 28) who regularly picks on on college girls (hey, I live in Manhattan), I can assure you that they love this kind of thing.
You invite college girls back to your place? ROFL

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Simplex3
1. I always found the more I complimented them the more they wanted to introduce me to their fat, ugly friend.

2. Don't show them that mirror on the ceiling above your bed. Let them find it themselves.

3. Fake plants are a guy's best friend. If you can keep real ones alive that's even more impressive, but I never could.
1. You can definitely overdo it. You gotta be complimentary, but you can't sound too eager or desperate. Just be nice. Nice is good.

2. Haha.

3. C'mon, man! Real plants! Fake plants are for fat white hetero slobs that hang out on football sites!

Oh wait...

Simplex3 04-27-2005 03:40 PM
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Those things aren't part of my "core values" either. That's all the more reason she shouldn't have a problem with them. If she does.... :shake:
My wife was an auditor for John Deere when we met. Had she spent our first date talking about accounting there wouldn't have been a second date. Even today as much as I love her I'd stand up and walk out of the room if she started discussing the benefits of accrual vs. cash based accounting.

Choose to talk to her about things that make you who you are. If she asks if you're into computers say "yes" and move on. If she wants to hear more she'll ask.

Chicks aren't your guy friends. If you want a guy to know something about you you'd better damn well tell him because he won't ask. Chicks will ask you whatever they actually want to know.

Donger 04-27-2005 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted by gochiefs
Thanks for the pointers. I'll add that I haven't spoken to Ms. Girlused since this encounter. Who knows WTF happened but she was on once and I said hi, after which I have not heard from her since. So far no one else has dropped me a line at plentyoffish.com. :shrug:

Here are her pics. She's quite a looker:
Did the conversation stop after you sent your pictures?

jcroft 04-27-2005 03:42 PM
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You invite college girls back to your place? ROFL
Sure, why not? Why is that funny?


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