Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6621226)

I have. She says she still loves me, doesnt love him, and is only staying with him because she feels "trapped". She said after the baby was born and things settle down she would be able to think more clearly and make a decision. I just want my family back, that's all Ive ever wanted. If there is one more member so be it, I would lover her and treat her like my own. This isnt entirely her fault, I wasnt the greatest husband in the world either. Thats why I havent been able to totally let go and move on, because she is still saying there's still a chance for us. If she said she was done and we would never get back together I would be able to move on.

Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621334)

She's not going to be thinking any more clearly now that she's had the baby. Her hormones are jacked and she's likely going to be faced with post-partum depression. You need to be aware of those dynamics.

Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6620649)

The fact that I cant get over her is my own fault. We've been seeing each other and sleeping with each other for the last 6 months. At first I was only doing it for revenge. It felt good because her bf knew it was going on and kept giving her chance after chance. I guess I just wanted him to feel a little bit of what I felt when he did it to me. Plus we have amazing sex, by far the best Ive ever had. I didnt think it was messing with me emotionally but I guess I was wrong. She has been telling me that she wants to get back together someday, but couldnt right now because she felt trapped since they were having a baby together. She says she still loves me and doesnt love him at all but Im not so sure anymore. Im starting to think she just likes ****ing two guys. There have been several times that I tried to end it, but she would always talk me into to it again and I couldnt resist.

Originally Posted by GoChiefs (Post 6621234)

ROFL

Phil has officially gone off the ledge.

Never thought I'd see the day.

Originally Posted by Slainte (Post 6621290)

Clayton, I find your new avatar highly disturbing. Good choice...

Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life (Post 6621337)

You are speaking to someone who is incapable of processing any worthwhile thoughts. Save your good advice for people who would actually listen and understand.

Originally Posted by GoChiefs (Post 6621372)

Do you like this better?

http://i44.tinypic.com/51zh9x.gif

Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 6621354)

Do you really think so? Man, how do I fix this with you, dude? Because you know your opinion is of utmost importance in my life. Please share with me your wisdom.

Originally Posted by Slainte (Post 6621387)

I think I want to throw my laptop into a lake of fire...

Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6621309)

I have sat down and talked to her about working things out. She said she wanted to wait until after the baby was born and things settled down so she could "think more clearly". She just had the baby last night so I guess I'm playing the waiting game. For how long, who knows. And its hard to relocate when there's kids involved. Plus I just signed a 12 month lease.