In general terms, I don't think so. My reasoning is they may not want to hurt my feelings or whatever and they lack the cajones to tell me "Thanks, but you're not my type" to my face.

In specific terms, I'm still at a loss as to why a girl shows interest in me; we chill at her place for hours just talking. Then everythin gets twisted as a hug (I didn't suggest) turns into an extended make-out session (all I said was "Can I?" and before I could finish with my planned buss on the cheek, she grabbed me), then after that night she's said nothing more than a handful fo brief sentences to me. I can take being a horrible kisser, but I'd at least like to know that I am!

Dude, you screwed up somewhere and you'll never know what you did wrong. Women are like that sometimes. They're different than we men and you'll never quite understand why they do the things they do.... The sooner you accept and embrace that, the better off you'll be.

I learn from my mistakes, and I like to think that I better myself by not making the same mistakes again. So, if I don't know wtf I did to screw up, how can I better myself?

Aww, f**k it, I'll just blame CP. :cuss:

that's part of why I didn't feel too dissapointed--I mean, I want a threesome, but to jeopardize 'relationships' with both a good friend AND my woman over sex seemed pointless

it'll happen one day soon, though... oh believe me--I will one day live the dream.

see, the thing is, the friend and I conspired to catch my woman by surprise--but by the time my woman realized the fix was on, bang bang. my baby shot me down.

I still have faith though

Buy a book about women and learn how they think. You won't understand it but at least you'll be able to start to recognize behaviors.

phobia knows this better than most, j-town... it's a fight that you can't win

Just don't get one written by a guy. They're clueless. Then again, don't get one written by a woman. They want to remain mysterious.

What I'm about to say should belong in another thread. But scientists have basically theorized through experiments with photons, that what a particle is doing in the present is influenced by what it does in the future.

I am stuck in a GoChiefs situation because I WILL BE GOCHIEFS IN THE FUTURE!!! :crybaby:

I take all of my dating advice from a guy who lives in a
van down by the river.

With only 448 posts in just over a year, and an active interest in women that you know, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Good luck, and say hello to Clayton for me! :D

But can the definition for "active" fit with me talking to this girl going to DU next more over Facebook than in person, which was once and when she said somethin smartassed to me?

Day by day, I think of how nice it would be for people to read what I've written...

you're fuggin' nineteen years old. when I was nineteen, I was mentally fugged up over an ex (don't ask) and had suicidal tendencies. five years makes a lot of difference--

so don't say you're the next clayton wendler. NOBODY is that hopeless (even him, though I doubt he knows that)

My last ex wanted to get married to me. It took me a while to realize that was a bad thing. Not to mention the fact she dissed my initiation into Freemasonry. Devil worship my ass.

I just get the foreboding feeling that this whole headgames bullshit that women, and people in general, play will last a lloooong time.

Not to mention the practical aspects, how the hell am I gonna know how to manage a relationship if I have absolutely no prior experience? And I say this in all seriousness.

I say this in as nice a way as I can, having somewhat the same past with fucked up exes... women are just like guys--there are some of us that are decent human beings, and the rest of them aren't worth the time it takes to sneeze

the only way to find which ones are worth the time is to date/make yourself available. it's when you least expect it that you 'find' someone worthwhile

don't be in a hurry to get married either, though... I've been with my woman four years, lived with her 2.5 years--definately make sure you allow yourself time to get to really know her--those cute little annoying things she does the first six months become your major psychotic fucking hatreds two years down the line. so pick your poison well

Heh, I know what you are saying. Still haven't figured out why my parents divorced, and find it mildly funny that my mom has been dating the same guy for 10 years.

is she hot?

Probably because of you. Heh.

Let me translate this.

A married guy is finally getting out of town on business and is looking for a hook-up. He doesn't have a home.... that's the best one I've heard yet!

DT

This one is pestering me. She took offense that I looked at her profile twice but didn't say anything.

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/4...3450574km3.jpg

Uh. She's about twice as hot as you deserve. Step out. Take a chance. Leave the house. Turn off the computer.

This is a warning sign that the picture might only be displaying 1% of her.

She smokes, she's tall, and she's not very attractive. I'll pass.

So, shes got a pussy and thats all that counts.

And she walks around the house nekkid.

Beggars cant be choosers dude...seriously....strike while the iron is hot.

I don't think Giselle is probably going to answer your fan letter.

At least get some batting practice in with a live one.

ROFL

Yum.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=blueeyedstar06

You're fat, live with your mommy, have no money, are on the internet 18 hours a day, have no experience with women, watch too much porn, dress up like a star wars dork, can't handle your liquor, are pasty white, don't dress well, and have religious baggage.

You don't have room to be selective.

But let's focus on your good qualities...

Ouch! Your like the Simon of Chiefsplanet. ROFL

That pic of her and her brother is a bit disturbing, he's holding her a little too tightly.

This one is pretty hot for a fat chick. And she had the balls to post her profile pic.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=nellbell_11

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http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/3...4298280ye5.jpg

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http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/3...7435013bn6.jpg

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/1...9554651jr2.jpg

Honestly, I'm not trying to be rude. It needs to be said. I mean, he's no prize and he needs to figure that out or he'll never hold a woman's hand.

This one needs a nose job. But I dig her.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=Konstantine83

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http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/9505/p8722864la7.jpg

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She probably thinks you need a stomachectomy.

:LOL: You sound like me.

This one is great.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=5164536496026939802

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/5...7442354rp2.jpg

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/8...1061181pz9.jpg

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Dude have you seen yourself..

Man I hope there is a quasi chiefsplanet where a whole bunch of girls are laughing their asses off at your fat ugly reeruned ass...

She has bad grammar.

Not possible. I never send annoying messages asking why people haven't messaged me. I send a woo if I find them attractive and I'm done with it.

See? We're perfect for each other. I'll fix her grammar, she can fix my heart.

Or you could have her write a column on Warpaint.

You find a way to bag that one you better weld some I-beams onto your bedframe.

First date: Weigh-in.

If a chick views your profile more than once you should probably propose.

I thought she was really cute in the first picture and then the rest of them arrived.

They're really tight with their money?

They could go on "The Biggest Loser: Couples Edition."

Yeah, but you can see the hot chick trying to escape. She'd be smokin' if she lost 50 pounds.

I should hook up with that one and convince her to join my gym. In six months I'll have a hot chick in my lap. YES!!!

ROFL ROFL ROFL

FYP.

I'll bet you couldn't even work up the gumption to talk to her in person.

You say that like you know how to do it.

I wouldn't even have to. I'd just carry around a slice of pizza.

Dude, you could wear a pizza around your neck like a clock and holla "yeah booooooooooooooooooooy" and still scare big girls away. You're gonna have to do better - like diamonds.

Have you sent any messages to any of these chicks.

Not any of the ones in this thread, besides woos.

What's a "woo?"

What site is this?

Dear chick. Who do you think the chiefs will draft this year?

Chick. I don't know but they better they weren't very good this year

Yeah they need to (Way to long of a rant by a nerd who knows too much about football)

Chick: well good talk!

That's so him!

OKCupid.

If you see someone you desire, you can send them a "woo," by clicking on the "send this user a woo" button. It's basically a simple, uncomplicated way of telling someone else you find them attractive. All you do is click once, and that's it. It helps out scared losers like me who are afraid of even IMing girls.

Where's your profile?

On OKCupid with the rest of the profiles.

Gochiefs just needs to read the 3, III threads of love......"these internet chics dig me" "what do I say to get a girl to see her naked" and "what a glorious day"....

Maybe someday, you'll get IIIsized balls and work up the courage to TALK to a girl.

So you're willing to post the (sometimes private) profiles of some random girls, but not your own?

None of those profiles are private.

Why ? They're just chicks.

It was a joke, reerun.

What the hell are you afraid of? Rejection is a better than never knowing...hell you NEED some rejection to get over the fear of even experiencing it!

If you're really serious about meeting someone in this lifetime, you need to get out of your comfort zone and start putting yourself on the line.

ROFL

That they have big noses?:shrug:

site probably nsfw

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That's OK Brian. Plenty of fish in the sea.

That's a slumpbuster..

Or one where I've been drinking and wake up in the morning and wonder what I did.

At least one required registration, which I take to mean as private.

I'd add that chicks who look like her are usually good in bed because they think they have to do more than a hot chick...just don't tell your friends about it...

Anyone can register.