Sadly, I don't think the whole "grew up" part took hold, Mr. MTG#10.

I really like you as a poster and Planeteer. But, man. You really need to dive into some counseling aqap. This story sounds freaking weird to a relatively normal person.

FAX

You're right, I don't think I have grown up emotionally. There's a lot of shit from my childhood that Im sure played a role in that, but Im not going to try and make excuses.

You are correct! I confused the two however the condescending reply is still amusing to me~

You're right. Your ongoing story in no way represents the demographic Jerry Springer plays to.

With all the shit she has done to you I don't know why you would want to or how you could ever trust her again.

BTW I thought you were dating a new girl that you liked alot? What happened to that?

As pointed out I confused you with another poster. I have not read that much from you. As I said just because I see things different does not make me right. I do think your reply was rather condescending towards Phobia~

As is yours to me. I'm just so bereft that you didn't have the opportunity to look down on my religion yet.

Phil is a big boy and knows me a helluva lot better than you.

Sure he appreciates the reach around tho.

Is there a religion where the girls all wear scanty clothes and mix margaritas and make sure the cd player is loaded with good music?

Just wondering.

FAX

United Church of Strip Clubs

You're choosing the wrong responses to reply too. That makes me believe that you want validation rather than solid advice.

Just remember, there are plenty of middle class white boys on here that are trying to tell you that they've been there, and understand where you're at. They're also trying to tell you that you need to have enough self respect to move on. Even if you guys get back together, we're going to be hearing about child number 5 and Daddy number 3 within a year. Worse yet, maybe this time you'll think it's yours. Wake up dude. Wake the **** up.

And for her next trick...
http://www.fancast.com/tv/Jerry-Spri...sodes/-/734435

The problem, however, is that you're giving advice which, while sound, is step #32.

He needs step #1, and that will start by making a personal commitment and seeking professional help.

She went back to her ex.

If you were my friend and we rolled together you might listen to me and maybe you wouldn't. That said be a man quit this Nancy boy bullshit. She was f&cking another guy when she left you and she has been and will be again when she heals up. Tonight she will lay in another mans arms. F&ck her and focus on your kids be a man and be a dad. Leave what happened between you and her between you and her and leave the kids out of it. She is their mom and you are their dad. Be a man and be a dad. Guess what if you are a man and handle yourself as such things will workout one way or another~