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Yep.

Said she liked hanging out with me and we had a lot of similar interests but "we weren't connecting on a deeper level."

How is that even possible after 3 weeks?

The Franchise

02-03-2014 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10411580)

Yep.

Said she liked hanging out with me and we had a lot of similar interests but "we weren't connecting on a deeper level."

How is that even possible after 3 weeks?

Men and women work at different speeds. If it wasn't for reproductive organs....men and women wouldn't even ****ing talk to each other.

Cephalic Trauma

02-03-2014 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10411580)

Yep.

Said she liked hanging out with me and we had a lot of similar interests but "we weren't connecting on a deeper level."

How is that even possible after 3 weeks?

Shitty. If she expects a deep connection after 3 weeks, she'll be looking for a while.

Hammock Parties

02-03-2014 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Cephalic Trauma (Post 10411590)

Shitty. If she expects a deep connection after 3 weeks, she'll be looking for a while.

*shrug*

I'm guessing it was something else entirely. That was just her prepared excuse for ending it.

Discuss Thrower

02-03-2014 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10411596)

*shrug*

I'm guessing it was something else entirely. That was just her prepared excuse for ending it.

There's your sign Clay. Women aren't worth it bro! Chase the impossible dream of being.. whatever the **** you want to be.

Step 1: Get Money
Step 2: Get More Money, and if by this point you're feeling horny and pr0n doesn't do it for you then,
Step 3: Fly to a city with prostitution.
Step 4: Live it up.

patteeu

02-03-2014 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10411580)

Yep.

Said she liked hanging out with me and we had a lot of similar interests but "we weren't connecting on a deeper level."

How is that even possible after 3 weeks?

First, try not to let it make you feel too bad. These kinds of things happen and you'll eventually find someone who makes you happy if you keep looking.

Second, I don't want you to feel like I'm kicking you when you're down, but maybe her "deeper level" comment is related to some of the things mosbonian was trying to say to you. Obviously, I don't have a clue about what kind of relationship the two of you had over that 3 weeks, so disregard if I'm way off the mark. Did the two of you already have sex? How much of your focus was on sex versus how much was on figuring out what other things she wanted out of a relationship? :shrug:

Third, girls are weird. But you'll get them figured out (at least enough to co-exist in a happy relationship). Keep your head up.

Hammock Parties

02-03-2014 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 10411619)

Did the two of you already have sex?

No. She said she wanted to wait and I respected that.

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How much of your focus was on sex versus how much was on figuring out what other things she wanted out of a relationship?

The other night I asked her for the FIRST TIME if she wanted to go further. I didn't push it after she said no.

patteeu

02-03-2014 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10411623)

No. She said she wanted to wait and I respected that.

The other night I asked her for the FIRST TIME if she wanted to go further. I didn't push it after she said no.

Good for you. That seems like a good approach to me.

Hammock Parties

02-03-2014 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 10411625)

Good for you. That seems like a good approach to me.

We had a lot of similar interests and mostly my focus was on exploring that. AKA NERDS

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