The simple solution is don't get married.

I am monogamous, and think its great. Doesn't change the fact that we aren't wired that way. Wifey isn't supposed to be getting dolled up and picked up by some dude. she is supposed to be making the "cave" liveable to her mate so that he can relax and rejuvinate while he is rebuiling his sperm supply. I didn't make this shit up, I'm just stating it.

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So let me kill it. I told my ex girlfriend monogamy is a failed concept. She didn't appreciate that too much.

A huge part of monogamy is deliberately limiting your opportunity. If you choose not to deliberately limit your opportunity, you are choosing to fail and monogamy. It's not hard. If you choose not to try, that's your thing.

If you always go out to the bar with friends instead of going home to your wife and kids, you are choosing to make monogamy hard. While you are out at the bar, if you choose to be your buddy's "wingman", you are choosing to make monogamy hard. While you are wingman, if you choose to engage in flirting, you are choosing to make monogamy hard.

You can choose not to do any of those things, and that make monogamy easy.

Ive never cheated. Ever.

Agreed 100%. If you don't want the commitment, don't make it. It's a choice and a preference. Just don't rationalize that it's some foreign idea we humans can't process.

Jealousy is an outdated concept for you. I reserve my right to engage in it, though.

Me either. Doesn't mean the oportunity hasn't been there. I have a buddy or two that cheat on their wives all the time. Not my thing, but I understand how it happens. I agree that it is easiest to just not put myself in those situations. I've always said, I already have one woman griping and telling me what to do, why would I want another?

I really like the way you think.

I told my wife about this. She didn't agree.

Sure, but that's the most disrespectful, contemptuous for the relationship scenario imaginable. I.e., not realistic.

Sorry if you can't be monogamous then don't get married. Don't be freaking surprised though when the husband/boyfriend of some girl you nailed comes knocking down your door. If we "de-evolved" our selves by going back to just openly nailing whoever, we'd also be inviting the savagery (pun intended) that inevitably comes along with it. If this is more a pro-prostitution stance, then I say let the states decide.

Keep it in ya pants .. then ya can't dance .....

Right, not realistic. I'm sure it would always be conducted in the most respectful way imaginable.

Dumb.