Don't do it please.

Suicide is never a good answer or solution. Get help; things get better. It doesn't matter if you've been a good father or bad father, good husband or bad husband-no one is better off if someone they love commits suicide.

Get help immediately. Call a friend. Call a hospital. Call anyone and just talk. Make to tomorrow.

Good luck and God Bless.

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This

Unless I'm missing a joke and your not being serious I think you need to think of those around you give yourself a kick in the a$$ and turn it around one day at a time.
Make a list of the daily things you think your doing wrong and how much better in time youd feel if you erased some of those things listed.

Gl & think of the kids especially

there are free or low cost counselors available, call one

it will help you

Get help. If not for you, then for your family. You really think having a dead father/husband is going to make their life any better? Grow some balls, and get professional help.
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If you spent your first half of life being a bad father take a lesson from it. Use the next half of your life being a great father. Its a 2nd chance for redemption. Nobody ever said this life was gonna be easy. Others have it worse than you. What kind of text do you want to leave on your tombstone for everyone to remember you by?

1-800-273-8255

Suicide Prevention Hotline. Seriously.

Dude, I'm not sure you're serious or not, so many smartelics on here saying off the wall stuff all the time...

As a person who has suffered a suicide in the family, I agree it's cowardly. I feel it's the utmost in selfish decisions a person could ever make. All it does is transfer hurt and pain. Somebody who's contemplating that are obviously hurting and in pain about something. But, if successful, you pass your hurt, pain, and confusion on down the line. You angelic wife will turn stoic and your kids will carry guilt FOREVER that they had done something wrong.

My wife's father took his life. She's NEVER been the same. Used to be happy go lucky, a lot of fun to be around. Now, she's never happy...she's depressed and on all kinds of meds. Used to be she'd never take a Tylenol. She's ANGRY! Mad at the world with no patience for anything. Hurtful, hurtful words during arguments and when angry at the kids. I have to tell them "don't take anything personal when words are said in anger." That's helped them a lot. For me, I just hang on because she loves me, and I remember the way things used to be and live in the hope that she'll change back. But, I wouldn't count on it. She's still madder than hell at him, has never forgiven him and never will...and, thus his selfish act he just passed along his troubles to us.

Would you ever really want to have your kids feel that way? You say you've been a terrible dad. Well, that my friend would be ultimate child abuse. You'd ruin a bit of them forever. Don't ever do it, and consider speaking with a counselor or minister.

If you kill your self? & put that kind of guilt & shame on your Children & Wife? Turning they're worlds inside out.










I WILL FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE & I WILL PISS ON YOUR GRAVE !

Do it. DO IT

It'll get better. Your kids wouldn't be here if it wasn't for you, so they really wouldn't be better off without you. You can get help, everything will work out.

Its true killing yourself is the Bitch way out. it would **** up my kids

I'd say it's an excellent pr move.
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Dude, you okay? If this is serious, let us know.

I can't lose you. I rely on you for good posts.