This.

I would add that at a certain point, you find that smoking hot 24 year old aerobics instructor types are just not that into you any more.

I tend to agree. I think anyone who enters into a monogamous relationship is responsible for denying those proclivities for the sake of that commitment. I just don't think a man is a scumbag for having very natural human urges here and there that extend past his partner. It's whether or not he acts on those urges that matters.

Not quite how I said it.
In fact, I never said a word about my own struggle.
I was speaking about men in general.

I know.

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....well said.

Wait till she finds out who's beent texting 281-330-8004

Next time, just nod and say "yeah, that rotten bastard".

WHO!?!

Before i dial that, is it just texting, or sexting?

As the guy in the McDonald's ad says..."He's a jerk."

You're safe without revealing anything about your own thoughts as to whether you agree with him.

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If my years have given me any wisdom to pass on to those younger than I it's when a woman asks you to share your feelings with her DO NOT go into detail and DO NOT think she has your best interests at heart.

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100% with you, Mic.

I've been honest like that before and it's always a little awkward. I just explain that it's an instinct hardwired deep in every man's psyche and it's just something that's always there. Doesn't mean that I don't love her or love her any less and doesn't mean that I'm going to cheat on her. Weak men give in to the instinct, the strong ones don't.

Women can be very seductive and it's difficult for men to say, "no" to extreme hotness. The word, "no" and extreme hotness just don't go together well.

But, you can own a Renoir and still admire a van Gogh. The museum probably won't let you touch it, though.

FAX

Desires never go away but a great GF or Wife can suppress those desires greatly by taking care of their man. Men who get great sex at home rarely cheat.

Also, women always claim they want to be open, share your feelings and the truth but the moment you let the cat out of the bag, it's a bad decision. You learned a good lesson and in the future, you probably should hold some things in reserve.

Lets be very clear here. A great GF or Wife feels bad for your repressed feelings and asks her hottest friend to come over for a threesome with you.