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It's not worth it, man.
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So did you just need to tell everybody youre thinking about suicide and leave? Dick move
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I can't help but feel completely helpless when someone mentions that they are contemplating suicide. But, you know that if you ever need anyone to talk to about this, make a phone call or pm someone on here. Many people are willing to help you, to be a shoulder, (including me), so PLEASE talk to someone... ANYONE!
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Lumpy, I'm thinking about killing myself. Can I get yo digits?
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The only person who benefited from his death was my absolute **** of an "ex" sister in law. Their divorce was to be final just days after he did it until she reneged on the agreement and told him she was going to drag him through it all again. It had already been a year of hell. I miss him every day, as does everyone at work, and the whole family. Not one of us is better for him having done it. No matter how much you think it will sole things, the only person it doesn't cause an immense amount of pain is you. |
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I don't normally do this, but some of the comments on this thread are really pissing me off and I'm about to go on a neg repping spree. I certainly know who the heartless bastards are on this board.
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Leave everyone that loves you to suffer for the rest of their life because you are too big of a pussy to face your problems and grow stronger.
My friend did the same thing a month ago by putting a shotgun in his mouth and pulling the trigger. He is a coward. His children will grow up knowing that their father would rather be dead than be with them. Their lives will be a disaster because he was a selfish pussy. Grow. Figure out your problems and face them. Be honest with yourself and your family and you will come out stronger than you ever thought possible. |
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Only one that hurts is their loved ones.. Killing yourself is the easy way out..
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Heh, I'm probably one of them. But good lord, this is absolutely the worst possible place to try to find the help he needs.
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[QUOTE=Bugeater;8221350]Heh, I'm probably one of them. But good lord, this is absolutely the worst possible place to try to find the help he needs.[/QUOT
I have read some pretty sound advise. Mixed in with some funny banter |
Hopefully the guy logged off to get help. I've heard usually people who are going to kill themselves don't announce it but either way Brainfo needs help. It is kinda ****ed up people on here are mocking him when all of us fall on hard times.
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I do agree that this should be the LAST place anyone should seek help. However, people need to understand that when someone is hurting they will turn to anyone that will listen. |
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times are different. there have been numerous incidents in the pastt year or two of people posting threads like this, and following through, often enduring the same jokes and ridicule as people have here. some people have a hard time separating real life and the internet in today's society, others don't have anyone they can talk to in real life. it is a myth that people that talk about it aren't serious. |
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brianfo needs to get on here on say he wont do it if we get lumpy nudes.
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Hmm. I recall a guy I went to HS with kill himself he was always very quiet seemed depressed but still we were surprised to hear the news. I can understand being depressed around this time of the year the weather is shitty and the holiday season is a pretty hard time for us who've lost someone recently. It gets better though and theres nothing wrong with getting help unfortunately we live in a society that makes you look like a dumbass if you admit weakness. |
I'm not going to bust someone's balls for a post like yours. Talking about it is better than doing it.
Suicide takes all of your problems and reasons you don't feel you can live and puts those problems squarely on the shoulders of those who care about you most and will be affected for their lifetimes as well. Whatever your issue is, taking that option eliminates any chance to fix it. If you feel you're a bad father or husband, get some help. Whatever your issue is, get some help, talk to someone who knows how to deal with it. On top of that, wake up in the morning and say to yourself in the mirror "today is the day I become a better father/husband" ....whatever. Kiss your wife, your kids and take 1 step to being that better person. Maybe it is a simple breakfast conversation....ask about the pending day, whatever. The action of which you speak is the worst thing you can do. As for hell, I'm not your preacher, but there is a solution for that too. Ask for some help from the man himself. Ask for forgiveness, ask for strength and guidance. You'll be alright. |
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Brianfo.... we all go through sucky times... I can say i understand where you are coming from, but every time a thought like that comes into my head, I think about my beautiful daughters and how they would miss their dad. They are only 5 and 7, and even though their mom ran off from us a couple years ago, and the divorce was nasty... you have to think about the kids.
I think this time of year really brings out bad thoughts in a lot of us too maybe... shoot me a pm and we can chat. Hell, maybe we should grab a drink and laugh about the wasted life we so futilely wallow in here... because usually after really thinking through things, there is always a single bright spot one can cling to. I am flat out broke dude, but the drinks are on me. That's why god made Credit Cards right? :) Let's chat. |
To me this is an epic troll thread started by the OP.
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Get some professional help. Living life like that isn't good or productive.
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I have S.A.D.- contemplating suicide everyday sadly comes with it...
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Are you really willing to try to push a guy over the edge this time of year? There are threads and situations worthy of ridicule and jokes at the person's expense....but this is not a funny topic in any manner. There are plenty of stories like this one that don't have a happy ending. Brian. There isn't a worse solution. period. |
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I hope to God this isn't serious.
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I feel worst of all for my mother. She has endured the suicides of both of her brothers, and her son. Then my grandmother passed away after a drawn out struggle just 29 days after my brother died. Luckily, my sister survived a botched surgery in April of the same year, after doctors told us she was likely going to die, otherwise 2010 would have been even worse. |
Some good thoughts here.
Also, Brianfo can't kill himself because I've never known what the 'fo' part of his name means. If he kills himself I'll never find out and it'll bug me. |
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If you love your wife and kid, don't do this.
If you want to be a better father and husband, don't do this. This will only make the situation worse for your wife and kids. You aren't thinking rignt. Get some help. I will make a difference. You might have to do some hard work to get better, but I promise that hard work will be a whole lot easier than what you are planning to put your family through. Check in. Let us know you are okay. |
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1) you are right, and all the good and bad comments have zero effects on anyone's life, except maybe comedic value. "ha ha, I tricked you into saying nice things about me thinking of killing myself, I'm so cool." or 2) you are wrong, and all the negative "trying to be shocking, and edgy" comments could actually push someone toward doing something stupid like killing themselves. And the positive comments are pushing them to talking to a professional or talking them out of doing it this time. If 1 is right, who cares. it's stupid to mess with people's emotions either way, but the best case scenario is a few cheap laughs and the worse case scenario is someone is an ass. however if 2 is right, then best case scenario is our responses could actually help someone get real help, better than on this board and worst case scenario, someone on the fence about a life altering decision with limited options gets talked into pulling that trigger, or swallowing that pill. |
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As a society, we should banish anyone who commits suicide. No funeral, no remembrances, nothing. feed them to pigs
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In all seriousness, people who have legitly decided to commit suicide are usually happy about the choice as they feel a weight is being lifted off of their shoulders. Grim as that may be, brianfo seems to still be in that contemplation state, so maybe a good chat with a loved one or medical professional will help you get back on track.
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I have once, when I broke up with my first girlfriend. First love. She broke up with me. I got over her like 6 months after it ended. Rough. But hey man, turn to God. Find a church. Pray about this. I'm serious. There is nothing better than having a strong network of people that will help you anyway they can. Tell your wife about this, she'll support you.
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•Over 36,000 people in the United States die by suicide every year.
•In 2008 (latest available data), there were 36,035 reported suicide deaths. •Suicide is the fourth leading cause of death for adults between the ages of 18 and 65 years in the United States (29,668 suicides). •Currently, suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the United States. •A person dies by suicide about every 15 minutes in the United States. •Every day, approximately 99 Americans take their own life. •Ninety percent of all people who die by suicide have a diagnosable psychiatric disorder at the time of their death. •There are four male suicides for every female suicide, but three times as many females as males attempt suicide. •There are an estimated 8-25 attempted suicides for every suicide death. |
Honestly you should talk to someone other than a bunch of chiefs fans on a message board.
The only thing I ask is that if you choose to go, make sure you go alone. There's nothing much worse then the murder suicides or doing something that puts others at risk. |
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about 7 years ago, one of my very best friends I ever had took his own life. DON'T ****ING DO IT. Your kids will never ****ing EVER recover from it. They will be completely ****ed up forever, and will be rendered completely incapable of sustaining relationships as adults. If you have any feelings for your wife at all, this is the complete ruination of her life from that moment forward. Your family and friends will forever have a gaping hole in the souls. BAD ****ing idea, bro. Man the **** up and deal with life. That's what REAL MOTHER****ERS DO.
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