Bullshit.

Just more threads.

Good Grief....hate to say it, but you derserve everything you get..

:facepalm:

Pretty much.

People need to stop responding to them. That's the only way they'll die.

Dude....you must hate yourself. You need to get rid of this chick as quick as possible. Do you not see what's going on around you? She has you wrapped around her finger. She knows that if the other dude leaves.....that she has you to fall back on. If you leave....she's got the other guy. She's just making sure that she is taken care of. I would honestly go as far to say that she's not really giving two shits about your kids either.

Here it goes.

You are NOT in love with this woman. You are ADDICTED to her. You are obsessed with her. You are no better than a heroin addict who needs their fix in order to survive. You and she have no idea about what loves is, or means, or looks like.

You need an intervention but not FOR you. For the horrible messages and impressions you are burdening your children with. If you do not love yourself enough to get over her then PLEASE DO IT FOR YOUR KIDS.

Seriously, dude. This ain't love or nothing close to it. The behavior of she and yourself is borderline SRS intervention. DO something before it gets that far.

Why the hell would you do that to yourself?????? You should have said "hell naw I don't want to see it!" I want you to realize how screwed you are right now. The first move in a divorce is HHHHUUUUGE! if she files first, she's got you by more than just your balls. You're setting yourself up for a big fail. You could end up homeless literally without custody of your kids. Now I know you don't want that


Question, what the hell do you want exactly??? What's the ideal ending for this situation??? And if you say what I think you will, why are you so anxious to raise another able bodied mans orgasm?

Here's the deal:

I'll admit a lot of it is because I still love her and still hope we will reconcile someday, but also as long as we are still married and she knows I care I dont have to worry about losing my kids or paying child support. In MO its damn near impossible for the man to win a custody battle unless the mother is on drugs. If we divorce, child support will put me in the poor house and I'll lose everything.

Why the hell would you do that to yourself?????? You should have said "hell naw I don't want to see it!" I want you to realize how screwed you are right now. The first move in a divorce is HHHHUUUUGE! if she files first, she's got you by more than just your balls. You're setting yourself up for a big fail. You could end up homeless literally without custody of your kids. Now I know you don't want that


Question, what the hell do you want exactly??? What's the ideal ending for this situation??? And if you say what I think you will, why are you so anxious to raise another able bodied mans orgasm?

Go to blockbuster and rent "the Mack", and dolemite. You'll get a lesson out of it.

And to be fair, you are not the first, and won't be the last, to be led through life by your little head vs. the big one. History is littered with stories of men who found a piece and lost everything else.

This guy is me, 15 years ago (minus the kids, thank God). Self-absorbed, self-destructive, seeking good advice that is eternally ignored. Now I know how frustrated my well-intended friends felt.

Thread tools>ignore thread>I'm outta here. Good luck.

You know what....that's fine. BUT STOP HAVING SEX WITH HER!!!! That is doing nothing to help your ****ing cause here. You don't want to divorce her just yet.....fine. Be civil BUT STOP ****ING THE BITCH!!!!!

Lose what? You've said for a year you can't get professional help, lawyer or therapy, because you can't afford it. So you're clearly not losing money that you don't have. What's that leave to lose? Dignity?

YOU ARE STUPID!!!! what if she decided to marry the other dude? Guess what, she's gonna file for divorce and you will be ass'd out. You need to do it first.

Hey wait.....didn't you move into an apartment after she left? You're not losing your house.....what the **** is left to lose?