What I want out of it is a nice lunch with a nice guy who can hold up his end of a conversation. I think I'll get that.

You asked if I was going out with Phil's brother. Or were my eyes playing tricks on me?

Dude is flying 500 miles to see YOU. I hope you both get more than that. Let's not kid ourselves.

Hmmmm, whats with the seat cover there? What does he do in that back seat? :hmmm:

Yeah, don't let the cold stare and the glossy eyes scare you. :p

I'm not really sure what you're implying, but I don't think I appreciate it.

It's a cab in China.

Now it's time for hazing.

http://img440.imageshack.us/img440/8830/poopgl0.jpg

Implying? I'm not implying anything. I'm saying if you like the dude you should definitely give him the business.

It's a friggin' first date!

A face only a serial killer could love.

GoChiefs + Logical where is our third confirmation?

Well, have a second date for dinner then. Jeez. Don't get all insulted.

If I ever get a date with this guy, you can insult me all you want.
:p

Way to go Phil!!!! :shake: ROFL

Are you easy, too?

What do you mean "too?"

I was under the impression that I appear to be.

When you consider the whole mooo and endelt thing, yes.

But when you consider that you've only actually done it 7 times, definitely not.

you are just self-conscious. First date jitters. Nobody has accused you of being easy.

I've decided that I know far too much about your sex-life, Luv. Please .... tell me more.

Endelt thing?!.... Oh please do tell.

I didn't sleep with Moooo on the first or second date. ENDelt was an obvious drunken mistake.

Man...torrid.

Isn't Endelt spoken for?... I'm sooo confused!

I think that when somebody flies hundreds of miles to see you, you can save the whole "nice wholesome girl" thing for somebody else. If you like him and you guys have a nice time, let your hair down.

If that's all he flew here for, the he can fly his ass elsewhere. Don't think I won't let him know that if it comes down to it tomorrow.

Please. He's a dude. Of course that's what he's flying down for. He's gonna be on his very best behavior and say all the right things to you. You'll both have a nice time and end up in the sack. What's wrong with consenting adults participating in a little hanky panky? You're a grown woman. It's okay.

so not only did she give it up to m0000, but brian as well??

goddamn... I'm out of the loop information wise I guess

Where protection though...

now that is funny

This thread has hall of classics written all over it.

I'd recommend not ****ing him just yet. Who knows what VD he could have.

Nothing wrong with doing it on the first date??

Dude is flying 500 miles. If he were at risk for VD, he'd be dating one of the 3,000,000 ladies in Chicago. I'm guessing he hasn't had a taste since his divorce.

Where should he where it-lol

I am registering a match.com account.

There's nothing wrong with it. The dude says he's looking for a serious relationship. To me, that means respect. I have to respect myself enough not to let it happen, and he has to respect me enough not to try after one day together.

bingo

I wonder if he knows he is a new superstar on the Planet yet??

If its free i'll sign up to.

That should kill some time.

GC has made him a star with that creepy pic!

Shit, didn't see...wear...cock.

It's free unless you actually want to email someone.

How much have you had to drink tonight, son?

Bloody hell. What about IM?

Nothing for me...have to be up at 7:30 though. Floating the river tomorrow baby...gonna kick ass.

Glad I found a nice girl-I had already recycled through the Yahoo chicks several times over. Crazee biatchs!

No offense Luv, but I'm being honest here. Number one goal in EVERY guy's mind is to get some. Sure we all are looking for a good relationship, but that comes later. EVERY guy is looking to get some when they can.

You have to contact them in order to get them your info. Unless you go around the filter they have. Like, I would say...if you luv_2_rite then you should say yahoo! Something corny like that.

I'm sure he'd be thrilled.

You honestly have respect for a woman who gives it up on the first date?

Yep screw him and see if it is even worth having a "relationship" with him-especially long distance.

Screw it. I'm going back to plentyoffish. Maybe Allison is still there.

He's looking for a serious long-distance relationship? Seriously? Who does that? Can he just fly down to see you anytime he wishes? That's not very practical. Are you prepared to move to wherever he is?

I don't have a problem with internet relationships but I think for any hope of a long-term relationship you have to at least live within a couple hours of one another, unless he's loaded and flies wherever he wishes on a whim.

Screw all the talk about respect. That's silly. If you're attracted to one another, why waste time beating around the bush? What's the difference if you make him wait 2 days or two weeks? Who cares?

If you like him, go for it.

Me, no. I'd consider that a slut. It took 8 dates before the fiance and I did anything. The 8 dates took about a month.

Ah. Good times. The link is dead but several portions of the chat transcript were copied.

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showt...6&page=2&pp=80

Bingo.

Depends on her background. If she has been out of a relationship and has not been with anyone for say 9 months and she jumps your bones-how can you hold that against her. If it is good he will be back.

It's not like you're both virgins. He's gone to considerable effort to see you. That's like 10 dates right there. You've already done all that getting to know you crap by talking to him online for weeks and weeks. This isn't your first date. You've been dating online.

Just because a girl doesnt give it up to you on the first date does not mean she has not done it before.

Depends on the circumstance.

BS. The harder you have to work for something, the more you appreciate it once you get it.

Yep. The guy is expecting atleast a BJ out of this

I wouldn't hold it against her.
Who could possibly resist a physical specimen such as myself.

I'm not trying to coerce you into something you don't want to do, Luv. I'm just saying that creepy dude should get some serious credit for flying to meet with you. It's not like he's picking you up in a bar.

Even if he has frequent flier miles, there's still a significant investment. Those things are worth currency. He could fly anywhere in the country but he chose to come visit you.

sorry but there are too many options out there to play Little House of the Prairie with him.

Oh jeez - he's working his tail off flying to see you.

Maybe it's personal with me. I've been a little too willing to give the physical to get the emotional. I'm telling myself to hold back. I'm telling myself that I'm worth waiting for.

BTW, are you sure he isn't a member of CP? He seems to fit the protocol based on his pic.

You are worth waiting for-don't ever sell yourself short. I was just saying-don't let your past losers effect a chance at a winner. Let your heart tell you when it is time-don't try to mandate a certain time limit because you made some Moostakes- I mean mistakes.

**** this shit. I can't even login on plentyoffish.com. Stupid site.

Anyone know a good free dating site? LOOK OUT HOUSTON-AREA MILFS.

yep yep

I'm sure that you are but it's a whole different ballgame in long-distance relationships. It's not like you're gonna see creepy dude 3-4x a week.

Dudes want the physical to get to the emotional. It sounds like you're a guy's dream girl if you have the ability do the same.

Tell him to buy my house-that way he will be close, but not too close if he turns out sleezy.

It would be a great starter home for you crazy kids-plus no downpayment or closing cost.

Yeah, did I mention I haven't been very successful with that practice?

Adult Friend Finder got rave reviews when i asked about it in one of my classic threads.

Phil said what I was trying to say earlier.

Make him burn all his freq flyer miles first-lol

I mean Chicago to KC is what $100 bucks-jeez he is really putting on the Ritz there.

ROFL

that's classic--how did I miss that originally?