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Or do we acknowledge that there are some people so powerful they are hard to take down. Do we acknowledge there are some "codes" that are difficult to break? To work in athletics, there is an unwritten code that you have a high tolerance for letting shit slide. And there is an unwritten code that you don't jeopardize the team unless your coach says so. |
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Unwritten codes don't apply when kids are being hurt in ways that damage them for life. It's baffling that you can't see the difference. |
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He fully admits that he should have done more the night he saw Sandusky in the shower. He says he saw them in the shower through the reflection in a mirror, slammed his locker shut so they would hear it, and then looked in the shower and saw they had stopped. Then he left. But he feels he put a stop to it. He told Paterno. Then he told the Penn State higher-ups, one of whom was in charge of the campus police, which McQueary says he took as having reported what he saw to the authorities. Then... nothing. Everyone can argue about what they would have done had they walked in on something like the shower situation, but like Paterno, where McQueary really fails is after the fact. Personally, if I reported that I saw someone ****ing a kid, and that guy was still out on the street, I think that after a week... or a month... or six months... or a year... I might have followed-up on it with the people I told. Or I might have told someone else. McQueary didn't do anything for 10 years, except apparently walk out of the room anytime Sandusky came in. The defense lawyer pressed him on why he didn't do anything more. McQueary didn't talk about being afraid. He rejected the notion that he was worried about the university firing him. What he did say is that he loved Penn State. Even though Sandusky was still around the program, McQueary loved his job too much to leave in protest. So if you wanted to attach a specific reason to his failure to follow up, it was probably more out of his reverence for the great JoePa and the mighty Nittany Lions, not out of fear of "breaking codes" or any of that. He had his dream job and didn't want to rock the boat too much. Then when he was asked about his departure from Penn State and his whistleblower lawsuit, he said "I didn't do anything wrong to lose that job". Perhaps he intended his answer to apply simply to his job duties, and wasn't commenting on the larger Sandusky issue. But if you're in a position with some degree of authority at a university, you witness a sexual assault right there on school property, and you don't do everything you can to get to get it sorted out, then you've failed your station in my view. No parent is going to say "Sure, I trust Mike McQueary to do everything possible to protect my son or daughter" after this, so how would he justify his continued employment at a school of all places? Because he can read defenses? Point being, he didn't come off like a guy who wanted to do more, but was just too scared to act. It's a shame in some respects because it is true that McQueary did more than everyone else around Penn State. If the people in charge had done something after he told them, McQueary would be talked about like one of the heroes in this story. On the other hand, if he'd done absolutely nothing, little would have changed and McQueary wouldn't be attached to the story at all. He'd still be at Penn State with his reputation fully intact. But it's a good lesson to learn. There are no A's for effort, no shiny gold star for being the one who tries the hardest. McQueary did something, but he didn't do enough. He surely knew he didn't do enough. Yet that knowledge didn't spur him into any further action. And who knows how many kids Sandusky went onto rape after that? |
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He should have done more. But research shows that over 90% of whistleblowers, I believe, do not come forward. He told a legendary coach and powerful guy that his best friend and his ranking "officer" was a pedophile. He told the VP, the AD, the campus police. He even went on the stand and took down the University, even if that ultimately doomed his career at Penn State. It wasn't nearly enough. It could have and should have been more. I just think people are talking unrealistically when they try to dream up scenarios of how they would have acted in the same situation. Again, there is droves of psychological evidence to suggest that most people in this spur-of-the-moment situation would likely NOT make a particularly good decision. |
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Split second decision? Yeah... like the world was really hanging by a thread waiting for his next move as he decided what to do after he personally witnessed a 60 year old guy butt raping a little boy. What on Earth would make you describe that as a "Split second decision"? Name one thing that put the pressure of time on his decision there. He waited years and years to say anything. Split second LOL.... |
I've said before that I think zilla has gone on a dunk rampage.
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All these examples you're providing, a private seeing a general rape a girl and such things, are all valid in their own context. They just don't apply to Mike McQueary. McQueary does not come off like a guy who's troubled by his inaction over the last decade. Nothing he has said suggests that he wanted to come forward and do more, but was too intimidated by the system -- which is how you continue to portray him. I think he thinks he did enough. Like various others connected to this situation, his feelings seemed to be "Well, I did my part. I told them what I know. It's out of my hands now." He thinks he should still be coaching at Penn State. Given that, it's not a leap to suggest that he thinks JoePa should have been allowed to stay too. You're projecting a defense that doesn't apply to him. |
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But in the end, he did provide the testimony that sunk Sandusky and will sink Penn State. Twice. And he did provide detailed information to the right authorities who failed to act. He didn't do enough, but he did something, which is a lot more than you can say for everybody involved. Again, it's not just McQueary. There are lot of people who seem to have kept their mouth shut and it will be interesting to see how far that paper trail goes. College football programs are awfully good at secrets. And there's probably a good reason for that -- because nobody wants to be the one who gets caught spilling the beans. |
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Here is the deal - McQueary did more than anyone else, yes. But he did not do what he should have. That does not make him a hero as some would paint him to be. He was a member of a cult who had good instincts but, did not act upon them the way he should have. We can all say at one point or another in our lives that we should have done more. However this was not a situation where doing less was an option. He made it one, and therefore should not be heralded as a hero. PERIOD. |
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You're assuming the opposite based on... nothing, as far as I can tell. |
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ANYONE THAT KNEW THIS GUY WAS ****ING LITTLE KIDS AND LET HIM CONTINUE TO DO IT IS A VILLAN. i dont give a **** who he told about it obviously it didnt go anywhere and he still knew he SAW this ****er screwing a little kid. should have done more, he is partly responsible for every kid that got molested by this guy from that point on. HE LET IT CONTINUE. oh and **** you, douchebag. |
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He didn't do enough. But apart from going direct to the cops he did everything a reasonable person should be expected to do. You can criticize him for not going above and beyond. But the fact is that the inaction is blamed on Paterno, spanier and curley. You are asking a subordinate to go over the heads of bosses three levels higher than him. |
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Exactly...after a week my next statement...in writing.... would be that I would have to approach the national media about what I saw. This isn't going away. Sincerely, GB |
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Again, its easy to stand on the sidelines and act like these decisions are easy. |
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JFC, could you be any more stupid? |
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Look at Steve bartman. Look at fanatics who rallied aaround joe pa. Look at fanatics who sent death threats to mcqueary for having the "audacity" to speak up. |
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I appreciate your position and insight on this topic. In the fight, flight or freeze scenario McQueary had thrust upon him I would likely have frozen like he did. I am not proud of it, but people are wired differently I suppose. But BigRock's argument is absolutely true. If I did nothing after ten years I would expect nothing but scorn. I would hate myself as McQueary does. Ultimately, tho, I would know I deserve it. Quote:
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again he is partly responsible for every molestation incident from that point on IMO |
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and that would not be " going above and beyond"
that would be doing what you are supposed to do. (well actually IMO he should have beat that ****er half to death when he saw it going on) |
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it's not a "university matter" at that point it's a call the ****ing cops right away matter. |
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he didnt do ANYTHING that actually helped keep little kids SAFE |
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he had the best shot IMO. |
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nothing courageous about doing the RIGHT THING HERE.
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bartman ****ed up a GAME. this ****er RUINED ACTUAL LIVES> mcqeary probably would have had some people mad at him, MORE PEOPLE WOULD HAVE LIKELY APPLAUDED HIM. and he most likely would NOT have had ANY issue getting a job as a recruiter. anyone that could take down that regime would be someone people would have trusted to send their kids to college with, parents would know he had the children's best in mind. |
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zilla, please just STFU....
...you've said the same thing at least one hundred times, and it's all still nothing more than unmitigated BS. |
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There was a riot in the streets over firing joe pa. Mcqueary got death threats from psu fans and it would have been a lot worse if he would have went straight to the cops. And the idea that he could still coach is laughable. You think big football programs don't cover up rapes and assaults and illegal transactions on a regular basis? It would not bbe easy being known as the guy who took ddown sandusky. Even worse to take ddown joe pa. God help a guy who sinks a big football program like Penn state. |
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and again with the "snap decision" bullshit.
that happened YEARS ago. he had PLENTY of time to think about it and make the right decision. you are a ****ing idiot. |
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fuzzy mental state? goddamn you are ****ing stupid. |
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You think programs cover up rapes on a regular basis? You are the king of ****ing blanket statements. You pull out completely bullshit statistics in this thread and then make a claim like this? Laughable. Completely ****ing laughable. No one gives a shit about taking down Sandusky. If the whistle was blown on this shit back in the early 2000s, it would not have been even close to the circus it became last year because people in authority positions actually would have done their job as mandated reporters. |
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no, you ****ing moron, this is about what a normal person would do sfter seeing a CHILD BEING MOLESTED BY AN ADULT. call the cops. easy decision, no trivialization there. only person trivializing anything here is you. not reporting a molestation to the COPS COPS, when you personally SEE IT is ****ing wrong. i cant believe ANYONE could try to rationalize it. he let it go on for YEARS. just stood by and basically WATCHED. |
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And you are naive if you don't think the only way for big NCAA programs to survive is to do shady shit and keep it secret. You are naive if you don't think pro and NCAA programs won't actively keep rapes, assaults, etc..quiet if that meant avoiding suspension. You can't coach in a big program if you insist on following the rules. |
btw...if he did report that to ESPN and they tried to fire him....they get their asses sued and lose on perception alone.
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you cant see something like that and just let it go, and then spending 10 years seeing the kid ****er with more kids. |
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CALL THE POLICE, obviously no one else did too much. it was his responsibility |
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Now you change the criteria to shady shit. And no, the whistle was not blown. Actual cops did not investigate this. It's not going over someone's head if there's a severe law broken. It's not an issue of playing time where he goes straight to the AD instead of talking to Joe. You are just full of general and blanket statements that you are trying to pass off as facts. |
and yeah the only thing you have said correctly "it became the job of a 28 year old"
it did and he didnt do it. **** him right along with you. at this point you should both be locked in the same cell with sandusky wearing school outfits... |
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I am talking about the way fanatical fans will turn your life into a living hell if you turn on them. Bartman went into hiding. He changed his identity. And before that, he was harassed, threatened, all kinds of horrible things i wouldn't wish on anyone. That absolutely would have happened to mcqueary too. |
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once it all came out as truth more people would applaud him. why? because NO ONE likes a child molester, thats why they do so well in prison |
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And shady shit means they will trivialize murders assaults rapes etc if it means keeping a coach or player off the ssuspension list. If they know about it, sorry, hard to believe they would report it. I don't think any of that should be hard to believe. |
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Fans are often emotionally unrational. Again, why would that be hard to register? |
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he had 10 years to help those CHILDREN out. |
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excuses are just that. excuses. has anyone been killed over this? nope. who cares what THE FANS THINK? thinnk about those CHILDREN being abused. |
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And anyone who thinks otherwise needs to be removed from the gene pool. |
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McQueary did what he did to protect Penn State, nothing more or less. |
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They sent death threats to mcqueary for implicating one. You can't act like sports fans are rational. |
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OK, here's an analogy. I'm trying to make it in entertainment, an industry famous for being about "who you know" and so on. If I walked in on Steven Spielberg and Harvey Weinstein tag teaming a 10 year old, I would be on the phone to the police so fast they'd still have their pants around their ankles when the cuffs went on. I would rather be reduced to flipping burgers for life than preserve my career at the expense of children. That's not bragging. That's what any decent human being would do. It is NOT above and beyond. It is the bare ****ing minimum. I cannot believe the behavior some people will make excuses for. |
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