Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313875)

Good job bud!

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313880)

What? Do you know how to have a conversation? You did a drive by shooting on my post and now want to run away.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313882)

I refuse to wear your ribbon.

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313888)

No idea what that means. Again, do you know how to have a conversation? It is important for the other person to understand your message.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313890)

What else would you like my opinion on?

The color of the ribbon?

You will have to show pictures of your wife first.

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313895)

Ok... I win, simply by your forfeiting the conversation. Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313895)

Ok... I win, simply by your forfeiting the conversation. Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy! (Post 11313898)

Katipan always wins, dude. Always. Sorry.

Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy! (Post 11313898)

Katipan always wins, dude. Always. Sorry.

Originally Posted by Graystoke (Post 11313901)

On a side note we are always on Katipan's side because she is a cool chick

Originally Posted by ptlyon (Post 11313900)

She had me at the beer bottle post

Originally Posted by ptlyon (Post 11313900)

She had me at the beer bottle post

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313860)

OH BUT PLEASE STUMPPY IT WOULD MAKE ME SO HAPPY IF YOU WOULD SHOVE THIS BEER BOTTLE UP YOUR ASS AND LET MY GIRLFRIENDS PLAY RING TOSS I LOVE YOU BABY

Originally Posted by stumppy (Post 11313910)

LMAO

I got one rule in the bedroom. We both gotta enjoy it !!! If we BOTH don't like it the I don't like it.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313907)

Would YOU stick a beer bottle up your ass? Does that interest you?

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 11313906)

temper11: my wife does things that she may not love because she wants me to be happy.

Katipan: its appalling that you would want her to do things she doesn't like.

Am I getting this right?

Originally Posted by DMAC (Post 11313915)

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 11313906)

temper11: my wife does things that she may not love because she wants me to be happy.

Originally Posted by DMAC (Post 11313915)

Originally Posted by stumppy (Post 11313919)

The last thing I'll ever want for my old lady to do in the bedroom is something she doesn't like. I might encourage her to experiment before she makes up her mind but if it's something she's not enjoying doing then it's no fun for me.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313916)

I totally see both sides. My thought is this: I may occasionally do things I don't fully enjoy just because he likes them. I mean, as long as I'm not turned off by said things, and we both end up achieving the ultimate goal, then no harm done. However, if he EXPECTED me to do said things, then that changes things.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313916)

This whole holiday is a conundrum. I don't think we need a special day to remind us to be romantic. OTOH, it's pretty much the first time in longer than I can remember that I've actually had a Valentine, so it's kinda nice.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313922)

I think there's a line between "something she doesn't like" versus "something she doesn't necessarily enjoy".

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313922)

I think there's a line between "something she doesn't like" versus "something she doesn't necessarily enjoy".

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11313922)

I think there's a line between "something she doesn't like" versus "something she doesn't necessarily enjoy".

Originally Posted by stumppy (Post 11313929)

Yea, I get that. For me though it's all about both people having a smile on their faces afterward. Not one of them laying there ( or climbing down out of the swing) :evil:thinking ' I'm glad thats over'.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313930)

Not that I really think it's the same, since men are dirty little hamsters and like to do everything. ;)

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313933)

I couldn't even imagine enjoying something that I knew the other person did not enjoy.

I mean unless it was just some dirty 20 year old college "girl" I pulled from the bar.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313896)

Plus you have a ribbon.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313933)

I couldn't even imagine enjoying something that I knew the other person did not enjoy.

I mean unless it was just some dirty 20 year old college boy I pulled from the bar.

Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy! (Post 11313936)

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313970)

Ok... I'm going to get a little personal here, but my wife does not like to have the lights on. She is self-conscious about her body even though she is gorgeous (typical woman). Or she just doesn't want to see me! (more likely). Soft lights on would fall into "special occasion" category for us. Does that make me disgusting because I want to "SEE" my wife?

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313970)

Ok... I'm going to get a little personal here, but my wife does not like to have the lights on. She is self-conscious about her body even though she is gorgeous (typical woman). Or she just doesn't want to see me! (more likely). Soft lights on would fall into "special occasion" category for us. Does that make me disgusting because I want to "SEE" my wife?

Originally Posted by stumppy (Post 11313975)

Oh you sick sick bastard. You're really out there on the new cutting edge with all that lights on shit.:p

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313970)

Ok... I'm going to get a little personal here, but my wife does not like to have the lights on. She is self-conscious about her body even though she is gorgeous (typical woman). Or she just doesn't want to see me! (more likely). Soft lights on would fall into "special occasion" category for us. Does that make me disgusting because I want to "SEE" my wife?

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313970)

Ok... I'm going to get a little personal here, but my wife does not like to have the lights on. She is self-conscious about her body even though she is gorgeous (typical woman). Or she just doesn't want to see me! (more likely). Soft lights on would fall into "special occasion" category for us. Does that make me disgusting because I want to "SEE" my wife?

Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 11313988)

Find someone else who doesn't care what the light situation is.

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 11313993)

perfectly reasonable to divorce your wife because you have differing opinions on lighting during sex.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313984)

What I find to be an antithesis of everything my vagina stands for is the idea that our passion comes at a cost to one of us.

Individual kink having little to do with my personal feelings on the subject.

You specifically stated things she didn't enjoy. You should send me flowers for sticking up for your wife.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11313984)

You specifically stated things she didn't enjoy. You should send me flowers for sticking up for your wife.

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11314013)

And probably the worst thing I could do for my own Valentine's day is send another woman flowers! :)

Originally Posted by ptlyon (Post 11314016)

Can't we all just stick a beer bottle up our ass and get along?

Originally Posted by ptlyon (Post 11314016)

Can't we all just stick a beer bottle up our ass and get along?

Originally Posted by TribalElder (Post 11314035)

This thread has gotten weirdo now lolz

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313864)

Does your boyfriend give you back rubs? Foot rubs? If yes, he is doing stuff he doesn't enjoy. Get off your high horse.

Originally Posted by DMAC (Post 11313915)

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11314050)

OK but flip it around. No double dipping.

And when were all done someone teach the rapey noob what a sense of humor is.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11314050)

OK but flip it around. No double dipping.

And when were all done someone teach the rapey noob what a sense of humor is.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 11314050)

OK but flip it around. No double dipping.

And when were all done someone teach the rapey noob what a sense of humor is.

Originally Posted by Baby Lee (Post 11313312)

Make it about one of his hobbies he doesn't get to indulge overly, or a more extravagant indulgence in it than he usually does. And makes sure it's a manly pursuit, reinforce how sexy you find his virility.

Like a round of golf at a really nice club, or a couple hours with a golf pro at the driving range.

If you can find a place nearby, rent a sports car, or some laps at a racing school.

Is there a private cigar bar in the area?

That kind of thing.

If you want something you both participate in, an elaborate meal is always nice. BlueApron.com has fancy meal prep services where they send all ingredients and detailed instructions for a gourmet meal prepared at home.

Basically, find a way to let him relax luxuriously and feel masculine a the same time. Good way to say 'I really like what makes you, you' without being sappy or clingy or desperate.

Originally Posted by TribalElder (Post 11314121)

Originally Posted by TribalElder (Post 11314121)

Originally Posted by TimBone (Post 11314139)

Hahahahahahahahahaha

WTF

Originally Posted by TribalElder (Post 11314121)

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11313888)

No idea what that means. Again, do you know how to have a conversation? It is important for the other person to understand your message.

Originally Posted by BigRedChief (Post 11314211)

Do you not have any education on pop culture? Do you not know of the soup Nazi? The Dude? the horror.........:shake:

Originally Posted by Baconeater (Post 11314079)

Luv's threads always deliver

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11312923)

Sucking dick is kind of a given.

Originally Posted by Baconeater (Post 11314079)

Luv's threads always deliver

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11314262)

Consider it my Valentine's Day gift to CP.

Originally Posted by temper11 (Post 11314227)

hmm... I do remember the soup nazi, still don't remember anything about a ribbon. My recollection is that George asks for something extra to Jerry's horror. Soup nazi replies... "no soup for you!". Sorry. It's been years.

Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins (Post 11314242)

An axe, shovel, and a bag of lime.

Always comes in handy.

Originally Posted by R8RFAN (Post 11314304)

This thread will be going 5 years from now

Originally Posted by Baconeater (Post 11314079)

Luv's threads always deliver

Originally Posted by raybec 4 (Post 11314104)

rapey noob LMAO

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11328316)

BTW, I ended up getting him a bottle of tequila that we both like and a wall clock that looks like the Death Star. He loved it. I got a five course meal prepared for me...followed by "dessert". :) Great weekend. Thanks for all of the suggestions!

Originally Posted by luv (Post 11328316)

a wall clock that looks like the Death Star.

Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 11328343)

So I put in the work and effort and get preempted for a wall clock

Originally Posted by TribalElder (Post 11314121)

Originally Posted by Numbah One (Post 11312991)

BTW, on the love thing:

Wait for him to say it. Guys don't really care about hearing it from a girl this early in the relationship. As long as he is hitting that shit on the reg, he really does not care if you say it.

You want to wait for him to get emotionally attached to you and thinking long-term and then he will say it. Hopefully then you want to say it back, because that's when he needs to hear it.