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memyselfI 03-22-2010 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6625059)
Here's the deal:

I'll admit a lot of it is because I still love her and still hope we will reconcile someday, but also as long as we are still married and she knows I care I dont have to worry about losing my kids or paying child support. In MO its damn near impossible for the man to win a custody battle unless the mother is on drugs. If we divorce, child support will put me in the poor house and I'll lose everything.
You've lost everything, including your mind, ALREADY. The rest is just excuses for self destructive behavior. You are using those kids to hang onto her. They are just a pawn in this pathetic game you two are playing.

Brock 03-22-2010 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6625059)
Here's the deal:

I'll admit a lot of it is because I still love her and still hope we will reconcile someday, but also as long as we are still married and she knows I care I dont have to worry about losing my kids or paying child support. In MO its damn near impossible for the man to win a custody battle unless the mother is on drugs. If we divorce, child support will put me in the poor house and I'll lose everything.
That's ****ed up thinking. You need to talk this out with somebody (not CP).

kstater 03-22-2010 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 6625072)
. What's that leave to lose? Dignity?
I got some bad news for him.

memyselfI 03-22-2010 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Brock (Post 6625077)
That's ****ed up thinking. You need to talk this out with somebody (not CP).
It's an addicts thinking. He's addicted to her, the drama, the pain. It's giving him something he needs and feels comfortable because he's either lived it with his parents or has some other connection which has made this scenario comfortable and tolerable to him.

Most of us would run. But something in his past is keeping him stuck and contentedly so. The worst part of that fact is that he's passing on this dysfunction to his kids who will one day search for answers of why they are in a similar predicament.

Pablo 03-22-2010 05:46 PM
So you're still technically married? And she just had a kid with another man?

Doesn't the state sort of assume that all children brought in under marriage are the responsibility of the married parties?

threebag 03-22-2010 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6624814)
Yeah thats why its so hard for me to let go...she tells me she loves me, she kisses me passionately like she used to, she tells me she knows she will never be able to love her new guy and is only with him because of the baby and because she thinks her parents will be pissed that she put everyone through all this for nothing. She doesnt want to divorce me, she says the only way we'll ever divorce is if I go do it...but even after all that she still says she does want to be with me again someday but "cant make any promises"...
She needs to shit or get off the pot and quit worrying about everone else and worry about you and kids

Msmith 03-22-2010 06:00 PM
MTG, I will probably get a lot of flaks from other posters for doing this. I am openly make a prayer for your situation.

Dear God,

I pray for MTG's healing of broken and embittered relationship with his wife. I pray for their children that they receive your grace and protection despite the family turmoil. Please provide MTG's financial and emotional needs. Bring supportive friends and grant hope to him.

In Your Son's name,

Amen.

MTG#10 03-22-2010 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 6625074)
Hey wait.....didn't you move into an apartment after she left? You're not losing your house.....what the **** is left to lose?
Yeah but I recently moved into a fairly nice house (renting) that was only $25 more a month than my apartment. Its got 3 bedrooms, a fenced in backyard, and my kids love it. If she racks me for child support, I wont be able to afford my own place anymore and will end up sleeping on my brother's couch in an even bigger state of depression than Im already in.

MTG#10 03-22-2010 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by PostRockPablo (Post 6625088)
So you're still technically married? And she just had a kid with another man?

Doesn't the state sort of assume that all children brought in under marriage are the responsibility of the married parties?
Yes until paternity is determined but she already signed the birth cert with the baby having his last name and he signed as the father so im not worried about that.

'Hamas' Jenkins 03-22-2010 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6624949)
She just sent me a picture of her baby and the caption read "wish you were her daddy"...Im sure she does, since her 21 year old bf makes $8/hour...
Would you like me to send you a link to a since-banned book on the art of contract killing?

threebag 03-22-2010 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins (Post 6625206)
Would you like me to send you a link to a since-banned book on the art of contract killing?
Um ya I will take one of those

Mr. Plow 03-22-2010 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 (Post 6624949)
She just sent me a picture of her baby and the caption read "wish you were her daddy"...Im sure she does, since her 21 year old bf makes $8/hour...

ROFLROFLROFLROFL

'Hamas' Jenkins 03-22-2010 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by threebag02 (Post 6625233)
Um ya I will take one of those
Check your rep.

'Hamas' Jenkins 03-22-2010 06:53 PM
Ultimately, MTG, the mistake that you made was not having this bitch killed with the money you raised for your bankruptcy lawyer. You can't do it yourself, because you are too likely of a suspect.

However, if you would still like to have her eliminated, there are other services you could enlist, including a quid pro quo type situation. Find someone else who needs a problem blotted out, and do the other's deed for them.

With that said, given your life choices, I imagine this scenario will end up like Throw Momma from the Train.

MTG#10 03-22-2010 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins (Post 6625248)
Ultimately, MTG, the mistake that you made was not having this bitch killed with the money you raised for your bankruptcy lawyer. You can't do it yourself, because you are too likely of a suspect.

However, if you would still like to have her eliminated, there are other services you could enlist, including a quid pro quo type situation. Find someone else who needs a problem blotted out, and do the other's deed for them.

With that said, given your life choices, I imagine this scenario will end up like Throw Momma from the Train.
Nahh I could never trust anyone enough to set something like that up. My luck it would be an undercover cop.


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