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Hammock Parties 10-18-2005 01:11 AM

Yikes. I can't believe anyone would cheat on their spouse only days after the ceremony. That's just awful.

keg in kc 10-18-2005 01:13 AM

Not just days, but the day after we got back from the honeymoon.

Straight, No Chaser 10-18-2005 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Jenson71
Hi. I've fallen in love in the past few months. And I've been thinking about marriage.

Since when does one follow the other, and so quickly? Enjoy it. Marriage changes everything.

"What Would Bob Do?"


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chagrin 10-18-2005 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Jenson71
I don't plan on getting married right now. I mean, shoot, that'd be stupid, I know that. I couldn't even support her. With my job right now, I couldn't even support myself.

But I'm thinking after college...


Dude, fug all this "wait until you have enough money" crap, love is love.

That being "said", maybe you should revisit this after college, or at least your senior year?

bkkcoh 10-18-2005 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc
I dated my ex-wife for 5 years in college and grad school. Our marriage lasted 2. Although it was a matter of days (literally) before she was unfaithful, so it never really got off the ground.

I think under my own criteria, I probably shouldn't even think about marriage again until I'm at least 35. I don't think I'm mature enough now, at almost 32.


And she wasn't cheating on you while you were dating her in college? I would find that really hard to believe.

keg in kc 10-18-2005 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by bkkcoh
And she wasn't cheating on you while you were dating her in college? I would find that really hard to believe.

Where did I say she hadn't? She slept around all 7 years we were together. I just didn't know about any of it at the time. Didn't even start to suspect it until right after we were married. For whatever reason, something 'clicked' that night, and I started to suspect what she was up to. For a long time I chalked it up to paranoia, but eventually the truth came out.

The only reason I mentioned it is because it's one of the more fucked up things I've ever heard, and things like that do happen. It just so happens (unfortunately) that it happened to me.

kepp 10-18-2005 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc
Married. Divorced. Never in love.

Nothing wrong with marriage, but I think too many people do it too young, without knowing what they're really getting into.

Yep...that's what happened to my first marriage. Too young. You (Jenson71) would be well-advised to wait until your mid-to-late 20's.

Predarat 10-18-2005 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Mer
For the really mature bright ones, maybe late 20s.

But if they were bright they wouldnt want to get married anyways, so you wouldnt have to worry about that.

ferrarispider95 10-18-2005 10:57 AM

WTF, are you crazy, why start serving a life sentence so early. Go out and screw around, find the least pyschotic bitch that you can and keep her. Believe me it will take a while to find one that is not crazy, I mean there all crazy, but finding one that wont have a fucking issue with everything you do.

Dr. Johnny Fever 10-18-2005 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Jenson71
Hi. I've fallen in love in the past few months. And I've been thinking about marriage. I also read beer me's thread about his ex-wife and I got to thinking about that.

Don't let my bellyaching persued you not to marry someone if you want to. I actually still believe in marriage and figure I'll do it again someday. I'll just do it differently. Whatever you do, just take your time.

Clint in Wichita 10-18-2005 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc
Not just days, but the day after we got back from the honeymoon.

Wow. It would be worth a few years in prison to kill 'em.

ferrarispider95 10-18-2005 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc
Where did I say she hadn't? She slept around all 7 years we were together. I just didn't know about any of it at the time. Didn't even start to suspect it until right after we were married. For whatever reason, something 'clicked' that night, and I started to suspect what she was up to. For a long time I chalked it up to paranoia, but eventually the truth came out.

The only reason I mentioned it is because it's one of the more fucked up things I've ever heard, and things like that do happen. It just so happens (unfortunately) that it happened to me.


WTF, it took you 7 years to figure it out, if you have suspicions you need to call CHEATERS they will take care of you man and then you can have a swweet confrontation with the dude laying the pipe to your wife.

Valiant 10-18-2005 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2rite
I have dated less than three people seriously. However, I am ten years out of high school, I have a real job that pays for real bills, and I live on my own. I don't think it's fair to say I have attachment issues based upon one criteria.


Are you a highschool kid, kind of important???

ferrarispider95 10-18-2005 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita
Wow. It would be worth a few years in prison to kill 'em.

No sh*t, just plead insanity, go to jail for a few years and bulk up and then get a fine ass bitch when you are out.

luv 10-18-2005 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Valiant
Are you a highschool kid, kind of important???

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Originally Posted by Valiant
If you have answered true on any of these, you need to sit down and get a reality check..

You seriously have some emotional attachment problems if this is happening this early on...

Ahh yes. I read that last sentence wrong (or just formulated a response after the word "problems"). My bad.


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