In regards to dating? Maybe. I was guilty of that a few times when I was younger.

But not for a wife.

Jesus, no.

Her friends, on the other hand... http://img159.imageshack.us/img159/2712/shiftywd5.gif

Whose picture did you post?

I'm guessing if I went 5 years without trying to look my best for him at least once or twice a week, it would effect our relationship. Because what am I telling him if I never try? Would he love me anyways? of course, cuz I'm damn fine regardless!!! (Kidding). But I bet it would take it's toll...just like if he never shaved, etc. I'd begin to wonder why he never wanted to look good for me.
My hair being a mess inthe morning or my breath isn't really what I'm referring to, because that happens. I just mean...getting up and making an effort. If I got up, put on sweats and a t-shirt every day... esp to go out or something.... I'd be giving a message I don't really want to give. But if we go do something and I put on a cleavage shirt and do my hair, and look awesome, I'm giving a message that I'm still interested in impressing him.

Mine.

wow, then my friend should be set.

As long as she has a hole and it's juicy, I'd hit it. Marlboro Chief has the lowest standards on this board because I am a dirtbag and proud of it!

Well, maybe not. There is that weight limit to consider.

Because she keeps the first hand busy ?

Thank you for the input. The vaginal side of the species continues to bewilder me...

you know, she's not fat. she's not a size 3 either though. The thing about her is that she jsut doesn't try. I love her and think she's pretty regardless...but you know, I know her soul. On the surface, she's just not one of those girls that looks good naturally, she just needs a little mascara and it bumps her up like 10 notches.

yeah...we're pretty strange. At least some of us are. But doesn't that make sense...or maybe that's something I'm putting in there. Maybe I'm obsessing about nothing?
Personally, I think to feel sexually empowered, a woman needs to take care of herself and feel good about what she looks like. I think many women don't have sex with their husbands because they constantly feel bad about what they look like. But to me, regardless of weight or other factors, if a woman decides to put on something pretty, wear pretty make up and do her hair, she instantly feels better about who she is and is more apt to feel sexually amorous

Does she date married men?

no....but this should bump her up like 20 notches... she consciously made a decision when she was 18 to maintain her virginity and she has stuck by it.... that's crazy, huh?

It's all about attitude...being smoking hot is a state of mind, not accessories, IMO.