Well, men are pretty basic creatures. They don't think, "How do I feel about her blowing me?" when they're getting blown. We just think, "Ummm. Good. BASEBALL!" and that's it.

I suspect that women are more involved than that. Even more so in luv's example.

naw, I'm pretty sure that most women are a lot more 'deviant' in their sexuality than guys are. my wife has dropped several not-so-subtle 'hints' about her being bi-curious. a good female friend of mine is 100% certified bi. several female acquaintances are openly bi.

maybe it's the way y'all are wired. maybe it's society. maybe it's because some women see that guys like it, and dangle it in front of guys as a way to pique interest. who knows?

I hear they get together the night before games and swap tickets with each others spouses

Are you twelve?

yeah. Cavemen are just.... well cavemen.

Did she dangle it in your face before you were married? Or could it just be something she would like to explore with you?

Having a 3way with your wife or girlfriend involved is the quickest way to not have a relationship anymore...

Um... felatio is not cunnilingus. Just sayin'.

eh, we're very open with each other (obviously). it's something that she's always kinda had an interest in, but honestly, as awesome as that would be (impossible to NOT sound like a pig saying that), I don't think it would be a good thing to ever do. I love the friggin' woman, and she's way too jealous--there would HAVE to be STRICT rules of conduct, and it would HAVE to be with a complete stranger--otherwise, things would get way too weird. and I don't wanna **** up the good thing I have.

When I read that I thought Donger was somehow implying he liked to suck penises.

Depends on who the guy ends up focusing his attention to. Females are very jealous creatures.

Rep-worthy response.

The risk versus reward doesn't sound very promising, IMO.

If you have a 3way with your wife or girlfriend involved I guarantee you..unless you date or are married to a woman who frankly isn't a normal woman or is extremely slutty.

Your entire relationship will then become how you like the other chick more than her or you did this and that, it's just a path that you shouldn't venture to unless you want issues that you never thought about.

yep. sucks, but it doesn't suck. you know?