Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts (Post 5926740)

1. It still wasn't your responsibility. You can't save the world, and the sooner you learn that the happier you'll be.

2. Why on Earth would you feel stupid? You don't think it's your fault do you?

Originally Posted by Dunit35 (Post 5926748)

I don't know why I feel so stupid. I've told her how much she means to me and what not, only for her to tell me that. Everybody that knew her is saying I shouldn't feel stupid. Everybody warned me about her, telling me she had issues...I just didn't think they ran so deep.

Originally Posted by PostRockPablo (Post 5926739)

LOL. Dude, she doesn't even know if she is a lesbian. It's just a cry for attention. Ignore said cry and run away.

Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts (Post 5926751)

Now that you know they do, there's no reason for you to feel stupid about anything.

Originally Posted by Dunit35 (Post 5925562)

I feel like a dick about this. I texted in ex earlier, seeing what she was up too. (We usually talk atleast once a week). She always texts me first btw. I'm always real sweet to her, I still care about her but I'm trying my best to go forward with my life. She talks of how she wants to see me soon and what not. Her text reply was very short and made me feel like she was trying to act better than me...really pissed me off. Well, I just got a call...a bouncer from a local bar in her town she lives in. He was saying he doesn't know what to do, she's throwing up, real drunk and found her on the ground or something. He said he tried calling her best friend and she wouldn't answer so he called the last person she texted (which was me). She has been trying to tell me that she's grown up a lot..was starting to believe her too. Now, I answer and he askd if I'd come get her. I say doubtfall (2 hours apart). I was already pissed at her for her bitch message. So, I told him to call her mom and have her come get her. Long story short, her mom is a real bitch, treats her like shit...doesn't like to be woken up for stuff like this. Her mom is on her way to get her. She will regret all this in the morning. Did I do the right thing?
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Originally Posted by Mecca (Post 5926756)

When you realize what someone is and you continue to put yourself in the spot anyway, that's when you become stupid.

Originally Posted by Dunit35 (Post 5926767)

That's why I'm putting a lot of effort into getting her away from me. I'm not about to be considered stupid by my friends.

Originally Posted by BWillie007 (Post 5926779)

The thought of you thinking about it means you are one of those typical "nice guys". You aren't going to get anywhere w/ that mindset. I've read the other threads about your woman, and I think you just need to tell her the way it is. Never let a woman control the relationship.

Originally Posted by Fairplay (Post 5926777)

Tell us if you get stupid about the situation on here so we can give you sh*t. :D