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Hey folks Im in a situation, some thoughts would be appreciated....... (https://chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=214498)

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Originally Posted by JimNasium (Post 6087413)

I'll not wait for your answer because I'm assuming you are. Look, it's time to shit or get off the pot. This girl has given you plenty of signs and you better act now before some other guy jumps all over her. I'd start by approaching her before class and introducing yourself. Find something that you have in common to talk about. Yesterday's lecture, the weather, homework....you get the picture. Women love men with confidence and you are going to have to suck it up and get over that shyness or this is not going to happen for you. If, during this initial conversation she is friendly and open then take a chance and say something to the effect of "we should get together sometime" or " why don't you let me give you a call?" If she's not overly friendly don't give up, she may just be shy herself or trying to play hard to get. Look for obvious signs such as open body language and playing with her hair. If that happens chances are she's into you. Finally, what's the worst that can happen? If she's not into you so what? There is more vagina than penis in this world, time to move on to the next one.

One thing I didn't mention, and my bad for not doing so, was that even before I started this English class, I seen her. I noticed her at the time of registration for the course, and on the very first day of school. On the first day class I rememberred her meeting some dude in the hallways giving him a hug and a kiss. who knows who that could be? her boyfriend? A cousin? A brother? It got me thinking for sure.

Don't go weird on her like that dude from Yale.

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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6087732)

That's not your concern, it's hers and his. Just give it a go and stay away from the friend zone.

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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6087732)

What kind of kiss...you should be able to tell. Dude she wants you to B your L on her T's.

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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6087732)

Oh, and for the sake of the English teacher you didn't "seen her" you "saw her" or "encountered her."

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Originally Posted by JimNasium (Post 6087763)

Oh, and for the sake of the English teacher you didn't "seen her" you "saw her" or "encountered her."

Okay dude. Thanks

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Originally Posted by yeti (Post 6087760)

What kind of kiss...you should be able to tell. Dude she wants you to B your L on her T's.

It was a kiss on the cheek. Like a simple peck.

Red, don't think about it, who that other guy is, or how sunspots might affect her affection for you. Just go talk to her. If she likes you, she'll respond positively as long as you don't make an ass of yourself.

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Originally Posted by RedThat (Post 6087732)

Find out if she's from the Ozarks. That would help you rule out "cousin".

(And before anyone gives me trouble, I'm from the Ozarks.)

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Originally Posted by Rain Man (Post 6087815)

Find out if she's from the Ozarks. That would help you rule out "cousin".

(And before anyone gives me trouble, I'm from the Ozarks.)

So the fact that Jenny and I are cousins is a problem?

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Originally Posted by JimNasium (Post 6087827)

So the fact that Jenny and I are cousins is a problem?

It wasn't a problem for my parents, so I think you should be okay.

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Originally Posted by Rain Man (Post 6087848)

It wasn't a problem for my parents, so I think you should be okay.

Whew, you had me worried for a second. I just about called my dad....wait, or was he my uncle?

Start a casual conversation.
Make eye contact.
Smile.
Be calm.
Listen.
Answer every question she has with "I have a ten inch penis."
If she walks away, it wasn't to be.

Just take it out.
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Why? I mean, really - why? You are asking this group's opinion on what YOU should do regarding a girl that you find attractive? Are you reeruned?

Either you ask her out or you don't. Or she asks you out. Or she doesn't. That's about it. If you don't ask her out, and she doesn't ask you out, then you aren't ever going to go out. If you ask her out and she says no, it's about the same thing as you sitting here asking a bunch of drunken, delusional football junkies what you should do about the situation rather than being proactive in your own life. If she says yes, then you are on your way to a potential relationship that will probably end for you in heartbreak and despair and a non-reversible manic depressive personality, but that's all in your rosy future.

But seriously - WTF? It's these types of posts that make me truly wonder if we aren't just some fictitious, surrealistic characters in some mad gods feverish nightmare.