damn, I gotta start reading through these threads before posting

Nothing wrong with being honest about it. Many women are secure enough and mature enough to understand and accept a man's primal urge. It's a daily battle for us as most reasonable people know. But it might not be the thing she needs to hear from YOU. You just have to figure out what she's able to hear and not hear. It's a lifelong quest in figuring those things out. How long you been with this girl?

partially disagree.. if someone is staying faithful just for the kids and the stuff, that compromise will eventually find its way to the surface.

I will always put my wife first, kids second...and they know it.

Don't think anybody said that but it's never a shock to discover the bedroom life sucks when one partner steps out. Don't make your man wait more than 72 hours and do something other than missionary every third time then he's going to be fairly happy in that department.

No man ever manages the urge other women. It is in our DNA.

But we're also not animals and you have to consider the impact of your actions, i.e. potentially ruining the lives of other people, kids, etc.

I think you skipped something in his post. That's the way he wrote it - in that order.

Another big lesson for you-if you talk to her tonight DON'T tell her "I was discussing this today with all my friends on the Chiefs Planet to get their opinions"

You will be deeper in the doghouse and on double secret probation for an extra month!

LMAOLMAO:LOL:

She needs to read that book....
Women are from Mars, men are from....somewhere they wish had lots of hot and horny women.

Bullshit. You don't Look at other women? Riiiiight. Bet you stop watching porn altogether too, but huh?

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I kind of just go with this philosphy & I've been devorce twice and am single in my late 30's fwiw.

I think a person has to be happy with themselves before they can make any one else happy & it's impossible to understand women so just love them as they are or leave them that way you don't become a miserable smuck.

You nailed it right on the head!

LMAO

I prefer to subscribe to the 48 hour rule but when the wife and I first started going to church several years ago, she heard the 72 hour rule during a break-out session at a marriage conference and has followed it closely ever since. I added the missionary portion.

Every woman on earth needs to read this. Doesn't sound so difficult does it?