Ok but I'd still piihb if it help because we are pals and all. What are friends for?

Life moves on and the sun will rise and set tomorrow. The Chiefs are stuck with Smith for another year at least...

Had a severe falling out with a friend years back over a failed business venture that we had both risked much on. The devastation over the failed attempt was magnified by the loss of several friends. I tried to hold onto the friendships. We are still "Facebook" friends, but the desire to actually get together and hang out is gone and probably not coming back.

Best advice I can give is to move on, forgive any injustices that were done to you whether they are sorry or not, and forgive yourself for whatever part you had in it. No use hanging on.

Oh geeze trying cheer a guy that's down up and you bring this into the thread?

Why don't you just pass out razor blades and teach us how to slice an artery?

Thanks Debbie Downer.

Nonsense man:shake:

Why do you gotta be a dick about this to the guy?

He is feel down which is natural considering the circumstance he is involved in.

He is just trying to reach out and is asking for other people's perspectives about his situation. Where did he act like a 13 year old? That's just you being condescending and you expose yourself as not the greatest person to talk to in difficult situations. I certainly wouldn't rely on you for advice that's for sure:rolleyes:

Forgiveness is powerful stuff. Forgive them for your own sake and let go. Not just forgive but also let go and move on.

Nice post wazu

You CAN but they have gotta trust you and listen

So you are saying you can't pass it on then :D

Basically.


And since I've been in business I have hired and fired no less than three of my best friends.

They knew when I fired them they all deserved it and we are still the same friends we were before. I've been lucky.

Thats a tough deal, kudos to you for being able to handle that and still maintain the friendship.

We are dudes... The rules:

If he hit on a girly you liked, hit on your actual girl , hurt your family or stole from you walk away.

If it is something else, confront the issue and get on with your friendship.

Women hold grudges for years over stupid garbage, Men can scream and yell, even fistfight, and forget everything once its settled and its never brought up again...

If you are truly men, which you are at 24, tell him why you are upset and fix it. If he doesn't want to fix it then move on.

Good luck... you can't buy the knowledge you will get from this experience.

Oh it gave me a reason to drink too much for a couple days leading up to it each time, that's for sure.

I got socks older than you.....

You should NEVER need a reason.... just do it.

I do it my fair share, and a couple other people's fair share too