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luv 04-10-2013 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Fish (Post 9575374)
I don't think you can put methods or constraints on it at all. Everybody's different, and each relationship is different. You're never going to apply any set method to a range of different people. One date out to sleeping over may be exactly what works for some people. Neither way is right or wrong. Either way could bring the relationship to a higher level.

Dating should simply be whatever brings enjoyment to the both of you while you're together. No rules or methods. It's not a 12 step program.

Here I thought I was removing constraints. I guess I just suck at saying what it is I'm trying to say. If you took it as me saying that's the only method, and not just trying to suggest a different way of approaching it to people who seem to be trying things I've been trying for forever that obviously haven't worked, then I'm definitely misspeaking. Also, there was a point to my "hash tags".

KurtCobain 04-10-2013 06:32 PM

They were nice hash tags, don't get me wrong.

Discuss Thrower 04-10-2013 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Wonton Prejudice (Post 9575751)
Pic of you? Pic of boyfriend?

100% objective, he's better looking than I and probably isn't the cynical asshole that I am. Also, she seems incredibly nice and never cusses. That ****ing shit won't work with a horrible **** such as myself.

luv 04-10-2013 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9575791)
100% objective, he's better looking than I and probably isn't the cynical asshole that I am. Also, she seems incredibly nice and never cusses. That ****ing shit won't work with a horrible **** such as myself.

Hmmm. I thought **** was one of those words that was filtered no matter what setting you're using.

Just an observation. Carry on.

Discuss Thrower 04-10-2013 06:41 PM

I'm a little confused by the filter myself.

patteeu 04-10-2013 06:44 PM

This is for those of you who have given up:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuYNcbpqQkg&sns=em

Hammock Parties 04-10-2013 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9575791)
100% objective, he's better looking than I and probably isn't the cynical asshole that I am. Also, she seems incredibly nice and never cusses. That ****ing shit won't work with a horrible **** such as myself.

Ignore this bitch.

Discuss Thrower 04-10-2013 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Wonton Prejudice (Post 9575829)
Ignore this bitch.

No worries. I just dropped off a job application this afternoon that will hopefully allow me to quit my attempt at getting a second degree and then I'll never see her again.

Her or another girl who's pretty cute and is pretty flirty with me it seems like, but she too is dating someone else. First good looking Trekkie I've run across but them's the breaks, ya know?

ThaVirus 04-10-2013 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9575619)
then she sent me a message saying she was going to fight for me.

Sounds like the plot of The Notebook or some shit.

You gonna put her to the test, bro? Make her fight for ya?

Spott 04-10-2013 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9574655)
Why the **** would you do that?

Because I didn't want any more kids and my insurance paid for it. One was enough for me. Haven't regretted it one bit since I did it.

DaKCMan AP 04-10-2013 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by lewdog (Post 9575645)
Your first mistake, texting her something like that which you know should would misinterpret through text. Biggest thing I learned through my 20's was when you get serious with someone, just talk about it. Text ****s up so many things besides lining up plans or just saying hello.

Yep. I'm really into the girl I've started dating and probably the best reason things are going so well is our communication is great. We talk a lot in person & on the phone. Texting is probably a distant 3rd form of communication for us at this point.

Lumpy 04-10-2013 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by something cooler (Post 9574953)
I ****ed up with my situation. I confronted her and turns out I'm an idiot.

WTF happened?

Also, I don't want to hear you giving me shit about my advice. It was solid, but you could have hit her with the "serious stuff" at the wrong time. It's all about timing.

For instance, I just watched "Sleepless In Seattle" on Netflix and that movie is all about timing. Yep, I watched a chick flick and now I'm all hormonal... and shit. :)

KurtCobain 04-10-2013 08:52 PM

Ftr I was joking when I was blaming buck and awesomeboy.

I did heed the planets advice and brought up my feelings, unfortunately I did not make the decision to do that until I was pretty ****ing drunk.

Lumpy 04-10-2013 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by something cooler (Post 9576442)
Ftr I was joking when I was blaming buck and awesomeboy.

I did heed the planets advice and brought up my feelings, unfortunately I did not make the decision to do that until I was pretty ****ing drunk.

:facepalm: Damn it, Joey. Yeah, you were just a bit off on your timing.

Serious Talks - Sober

Yelling her name in the heat of the moment and not giving a shit about serious stuff - Drunk

KurtCobain 04-10-2013 09:03 PM

Well, buck made a good point earlier, atleast I went into it with honesty. Drunk Joey is horrifically blatantly honest. Tipsy Joey wonders if you and Gonzo have every tried oral sex with ice cubes.

Anyways, with the girl, I ended up getting way too emotional.


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