Its in our divorce papers. My lawyer advised me to just sit back and wait for her to file a relocation amendment and then we would respond.

Tombstone - I dont talk bad about her to my kids, but her and I no longer get along either after I found this out so there will be no "working it out". She's leaving and is going to try to take the kids, and I'm going to try to stop her. I tried to rationalize with her when she first told me her plan, but she's stuck on trying to do this. There's nothing that can be done except letting a judge decide.

My lawyer did tell me this would be a bit more tricky if she were trying to move them to Ft Leonard Wood here in MO, but since she's trying to move them out of state no judge in his/her right mind would be ok with that. I hope you and him are right.

Kidnapping seems like something they would go after.

All of MTG's travails have proven to me that marriage is one of the dumbest things a man can do in today's era.

100% Wrong!!!

No, it isn't 100% wrong that I have heard stories of that happening.

Maybe back in 1972 but custody enforcement has come a long way and unless she wants to go off the grid this shit wouldn't fly at all.

He's actually right though.

Children have very little life experience and even less foresight.

This. Times have changed in the last 40 years.

My wife is a Family Law attorney, licensed in MO and KS. If it doesn't break any rules (since you are already represented), I'm sure she'd answer some questions over the phone. PMing you contact info. Shes currently at a family law conference in Lake Ozark so she probably wouldn't get back to you until Monday.

Heck if you want 200+ lawyers opinions just drive up there :)

Dumb ****, I'm not a liberal, I am simply someone who realizes sometimes kids will just choose the most permissive parent. But you being the stupid, shit-eating country dumb**** you are, probably think it's great for kids to stay up all night playing video games and neglecting school work. You idiotic hick.

The web is full of these stories, and not from 1972. I make no claims about their being true, but I'm sure a legal expert such as yourself can straighten me out.

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I think I already alluded to that, but thanks.

I think what you a failing to understand. The child just doesn't say what he/she wants to do. The judge will ask many questions some of them may have been written by a child psychiatrist. Sometimes a child psychiatrist will sit in and observe. It is much more than I want to live with mom or dad.

It is entirely up to the judge's discretion. That's a fact.