now thats a lesson most men need too hear.

i still dont get why you broke up with her though...it sounds like she was really into you. are you afraid of being in love or what?

She told him she was not "ready". Commitment.

PICS NOW OR I LEAVE FOREVER

DON'T YOU DARE POST THOSE PICS NOW!!!

Promises, promises.

POST THE GODDAMN PICS YOU SON OF A BITCH

HEAL

Ha indeed. You're very cool. I'll bet you get refunds on movie tickets too.

It's not what I want to do...at all. I can't bother her though...I have to let her think about things and come to me. I texted her. I emailed her. I called her. I handled it about as poorly as a guy can. It will make things worse I think if I keep being persistent right now. Maybe a few weeks down the road try to call her and let her know I'm thinking about her? But right now...these last few days. I've called her twice...didn't take the call. I've texted her 3 times...nothing. I might have really screwed it up.

In order for peer pressure to work, one kinda has to be a peer.

I said peer not pear.

No...I embraced it for the first time in a long time. I wanted to move forward with her...she has commitment issues, not me. (ass backwards). She developed feelings for me and got scared...started pulling away. I remember thinking 2 weeks ago when I started to notice it...I chose the wrong thing which was to give her space. I stopped calling her every day. I started turning off my phone when I was sleeping and missed a few of her calls. I stopped pressing because I thought that's what she wanted: Space.

PEER INTO MY ASSHOLE

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Dude - those rules are stupid. They're nothing but games, don't call for 3 days after the first date - and all that other crap. If you want her back you show her that you do. That doesn't mean stalk her.

OTOH, if she's completely ignoring all forms of communication I would say that you're screwed. "Getting her back" would be a tall order, I think.

Well, I agree with this.
Space is good.
I just thought it was odd that you were saying you were going to forget about her, considering those facts.

Yeah...looking back...it was terrible to do. It really made things worse. I saw her yesterday...she was crying but she seemed really happy to see me. I made her smile. I asked her to go out later in the week and she said it sounded like a good idea. I was so happy.

I texted her later that night...nothing. I told her it felt great to see her and am looking forward to seeing her again. Then wished her good night. This morning...I texted her after work (which i used to do all the time) and told her to wake up! and have a good day at work...and to call me later. Nothing. I called her and left a message (because she didn't answer) later on in the day when I hadn't heard from her. No call.

She worked until 430 then had a wake to go to with a friend tonight...so I know she is busy. Should I give it more time or try to call her tomorrow? We did have plans to go out....tentatively...but with her not answering/returning phone calls or texts...I don't know if that has changed. It's not like her all...