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Originally Posted by Bearcat
(Post 16287349)
I mean to each their own and so forth, but shit I really don't like people enough to live that life... can't even imagine the level of drama and bullshit that several relationships per year for decades on end would bring. That doesn't seem pleasure seeking at all, or maybe looking in all the wrong places for it. :shrug:
If someone told me they found the one perfect woman who loves beer and bourbon and loves to cook and go to sporting events, etc... paint me green as that's something I'd be jealous as **** about.
The man whore life ain't for me.
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It's not for everyone and you are right, everyone needs to find what makes them happy in life.
Is it wife, kids and family?
Is it a great career?
Is it traveling?
Is it money?
Sports?
Fitness?
Philanthropy?
Religion?
Politics?
Public Service?
I've had 6-7 great relationships in life with women but many tried to change me into something I was not or wouldn't become for them. (Like having kids, changing to Judaism or being a BETA to a strong very successful female ALPHA executive from Silicon Valley). I knew very early on in my life kids weren't for me.
One of the greatest loves of my life in mid 2000's was just horrible timing and I still regret not making changes in my life to be with her. She was wonderful.
The one thing you mention is drama: it's just the OPPOSITE. I have NO drama except one time with the younger crazy girlfriend I talked about in multiple threads here.
I've NEVER been a person who needs other people to bring me joy or happiness or contentment. All my travels around the world helped me a lot to seek out other people and their life stories.
I have the same best friends since 7 years old who we all grew up together in the same neighborhood in NJ. They are all still in the same place we grew up at but I've always been the adventure seeker, risk taker, crazy guy, street smart, jokester, Hedonist, immature/young at heart guy I still am.
I enjoy great restaurants and food, traveling the World, fine cigars, alcohol, gambling, sports, golf, and many other self indulgent things like.......yes hot escorts on occasion.
My goal in life was to live every day to it's fullest and never do anything half way. I think I can say without a doubt I've haven't been cheated in life and have very few regrets.
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