Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5425069)

FYP

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5425074)

Not all women like arrogance.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5425074)

Not all women like arrogance.

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5424609)

It's not really 'shallow'. Attraction is a necessary part of a relationship, for both people, and physical appearance is as valid a facet of that as intelligence, personality, sense of humor, goals, and all the rest of those things that make us who we are. And often I think appearance is a window into some of those other traits.

Hell, I'll use myself an as example. I'm fat. I don't think it's shallow at all if someone finds me less attractive because of it. It's not their fault they see me the way they do. It's because I've been too lazy to exercise and too weak-willed to diet, and if I ever really want people to see me another way, I'll get off my ass and do something about it.

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5425080)

You confuse confidence for arrogance.

Originally Posted by Baby Lee (Post 5425096)

I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.

Originally Posted by Baby Lee (Post 5425096)

I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5425113)

A confident person doesn't put down other people's prospects just because they don't meet their personal standards.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5425121)

All chicks are crazy. You can't deduct it down to saying it's because they're heavy.

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5425125)

That doesn't make any sense and this is a message board filled with discussion including critique of anything and everything.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5425136)

Someone shows a picture of their wife. Are you going to tell the dude what a dog you think she is?

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5418918)

LOL



I don't even want to show you her picture...she frightens me...

Originally Posted by 88TG88 (Post 5425319)

You've never been kissed ?

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5425382)

Originally Posted by JOhn (Post 5424543)

OK, that is true.........


BUT the good ones shouldn't be shallow about that.




(I'm not including myself it that, as I am a pig)

Originally Posted by JOhn (Post 5424620)

I agree with you to a point. But I know that looks used to be #1 but that doesn't work for a solid relationship (see both my ex's). Now it's personality #1 and as long as they take care of themselves no matter what their size then who cares?

Originally Posted by Baby Lee (Post 5425096)

I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5426148)

I've been involved with a bigger girl or two, .

Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 5426138)

Please, looks are the first thing EVERYONE(99.9%) sees in a person.. It goes from there.. They either like your look or do not.. If they are not physically attracted at first that is not the end.. Especially more so for women.. They could end up thinking you are funny or have a great personality.. Or that you are rich.. But looks matter first when two people meet..

Every person on this planet is shallow in this sense, denying it means lying to yourself because you know it is wrong.. But guess what, we all do it..

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 5426201)

I don't think looks (as in physical appearance) matter as much as first impressions do. I've been attracted to someone without knowing what they looked like. I've seen what I'd guess the world would classify as a gorgeous man and felt nothing but nauseous.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 5426201)

I've been attracted to someone without knowing what they looked like.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426205)

You're female.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426205)

You're female.

Originally Posted by Katipan (Post 5426208)

So debateable when it comes to how I think or my methodology in life.

Totally love dresses and heels and pink and sparkles tho.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426205)

You're female.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426205)

You're female.

Originally Posted by Predarat (Post 5426390)

I'm male and have been attracted to someone without knowing what they looked like so I dont know what that has to do with anything.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426433)

You're gay.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426460)

OMG

Never, never, never, EVER ask gay dudes who hit on you online to send you a picture. Even if you're just slightly curious to see who you're attracting. You might end up with a picture of a 60 year-old black dude who's about 5-6 and creepy as hell. At least he was clothed...

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426229)

You must be The Real Man with huge dignity


The reasonable woman never will say to you, that she is dissatisfied by the size yours penis.
But - the brawny and large member in itself is the strongest activator for the women, and the greater size means the greater number of the nervous terminations, which he influences, thus delivering much more pleasant and bright sexual pleasure.
The increase of the member is possible to achieve by different ways.
But it is not necessary to subject the health and precious body of danger.

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5382099)

Oh god...I shouldn't be going to gay bars, should I?

Details on the morrow.

Originally Posted by Fire Me Boy! (Post 5382311)

Is Buckin' in town?

Originally Posted by BuckinKaeding (Post 5427966)

LOL, screw you FMB.

On Saturday I went out to this gay bar in Hillcrest with some co-workers, and some former co-workers, one of which is my ex-girlfriend.

In the morning its a Brunch place so we ate and drank until around 2 pm. The "Hostess" of this place was a tranny. She was hitting on me the whole time. And Claythan, no, she wasn't a hot tranny either.

So after that we were all drunk and decided to go to the strip club. That was awesome. Some of the people had left after breakfast so it was just me and 4 girls at the strip club.

I had a pretty fun weekend...

Originally Posted by BuckinKaeding (Post 5427966)

LOL, screw you FMB.

On Saturday I went out to this gay bar in Hillcrest with some co-workers, and some former co-workers, one of which is my ex-girlfriend.

In the morning its a Brunch place so we ate and drank until around 2 pm. The "Hostess" of this place was a tranny. She was hitting on me the whole time. And Claythan, no, she wasn't a hot tranny either.

So after that we were all drunk and decided to go to the strip club. That was awesome. Some of the people had left after breakfast so it was just me and 4 girls at the strip club.

I had a pretty fun weekend...

Originally Posted by kaplin42 (Post 5428110)

In Hillcrest, you went to a strip club......hmmm, between this story, and the other one.....

Originally Posted by BuckinKaeding (Post 5427966)

LOL, screw you FMB.

On Saturday I went out to this gay bar in Hillcrest with some co-workers, and some former co-workers, one of which is my ex-girlfriend.

In the morning its a Brunch place so we ate and drank until around 2 pm. The "Hostess" of this place was a tranny. She was hitting on me the whole time. And Claythan, no, she wasn't a hot tranny either.

So after that we were all drunk and decided to go to the strip club. That was awesome. Some of the people had left after breakfast so it was just me and 4 girls at the strip club.

I had a pretty fun weekend...

Originally Posted by patteeu (Post 5428184)

This past summer I went to a gay bar in Austin with a gay friend of mine. They had a drag show that night and the contestants were unbelievably believable as fine looking women. I don't know if it was just coincidence or not, but they were all black too. Does anyone know if that's more of a black thing these days or if it was just happenstance?

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5429689)

Did she look like Ellen? I'd hit that.

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 5432373)

Women's priorities:
1. Money
2. Appearance (facial)
3. 'Game'

If you have none of the above, there are a few skills that will give you a shot:
- cooking
- dancing
- sense of humor
- appearance (body - i.e., muscle)


Any critiques?

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5426460)

OMG

Never, never, never, EVER ask gay dudes who hit on you online to send you a picture. Even if you're just slightly curious to see who you're attracting. You might end up with a picture of a 60 year-old black dude who's about 5-6 and creepy as hell. At least he was clothed...

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 5432373)

Women's priorities:
1. Money
2. Appearance (facial)
3. 'Game'

If you have none of the above, there are a few skills that will give you a shot:
- cooking
- dancing
- sense of humor
- appearance (body - i.e., muscle)


Any critiques?

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5429700)

No, she... was sitting at the bar smoking.

Originally Posted by Fairplay (Post 5432389)

Dude! :eek:

Hey Clathan what happened to that women you acted like she was the sure thing and you had a 27 minute phone conversation with her on the phone.

Didn't happen did it?

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5432392)

That's a deal-breaker for me right there.

Originally Posted by sedated (Post 5432373)

Women's priorities:
1. Money
2. Appearance (facial)
3. 'Game'

If you have none of the above, there are a few skills that will give you a shot:
- cooking
- dancing
- sense of humor
- appearance (body - i.e., muscle)


Any critiques?

Originally Posted by boogblaster (Post 5429671)

I think I was at a gay-bar once .. at least they all looked gay except me and the dude I was dancing with ...

Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 5426138)

Every person on this planet is shallow in this sense, denying it means lying to yourself because you know it is wrong.. But guess what, we all do it..

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432398)

Sense of humor
Facial Appearance
Cooking (IMO, a man who can cook is SEXY)
Body Appearance
Game
Money
Dancing

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5432408)

I like this list better.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432398)

Sense of humor
Facial Appearance
Cooking (IMO, a man who can cook is SEXY)
Body Appearance
Game
Money
Dancing

Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5432408)

I like this list better.

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5432416)

I think that's fairly universal amongst the females of the species. You've been programmed well.

The facial/body appearance, money and dancing are why I don't date. When you're ugly, fat, poor and have always thought dancing was silly, there really isn't any point. ROFL

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432423)

My date is tomorrow night. Going out for sushi. One more morning workout before then. And not getting killed on the roads the way they are. I was nervous at first, but the more I talk to him, the less nervous I get. He knows how much weight I'm trying to lose. If it breaks the deal, it'll suck, but it will be that much more motivation for me in the future.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432423)

My date is tomorrow night. Going out for sushi. One more morning workout before then. And not getting killed on the roads the way they are. I was nervous at first, but the more I talk to him, the less nervous I get. He knows how much weight I'm trying to lose. If it breaks the deal, it'll suck, but it will be that much more motivation for me in the future.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432414)

Guys always say chicks only care about money. Some may, I won't deny it. After my last relationship, I'm more than satisfied as long as he can fend for himself. As long as he can do that, and I can do that for myself, then we'll be just fine together.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432398)

Sense of humor
Facial Appearance
Cooking (IMO, a man who can cook is SEXY)
Body Appearance
Game
Money
Dancing

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5432432)

Yes, but if all things are equal, would you not take the guy who makes more money?

Originally Posted by Claythan (Post 5432432)

Yes, but if all things are equal, would you not take the guy who makes more money?

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432461)

If all else failed, I'd be single.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432423)

My date is tomorrow night. Going out for sushi. One more morning workout before then. And not getting killed on the roads the way they are. I was nervous at first, but the more I talk to him, the less nervous I get. He knows how much weight I'm trying to lose. If it breaks the deal, it'll suck, but it will be that much more motivation for me in the future.

Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5432392)

That's a deal-breaker for me right there.

Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry (Post 5432477)

Good luck! What sushi place? Lots of good ones in Springvegas.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432423)

My date is tomorrow night. Going out for sushi. One more morning workout before then. And not getting killed on the roads the way they are. I was nervous at first, but the more I talk to him, the less nervous I get. He knows how much weight I'm trying to lose. If it breaks the deal, it'll suck, but it will be that much more motivation for me in the future.

Originally Posted by KChiefsQT (Post 5432485)

Exciting!!!!! Who's the guy?

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432490)

Nobody anyone on here knows, which is a plus. :)

Originally Posted by KChiefsQT (Post 5432492)

Yea, I'd hope not. No... I mean have you known him awhile? Is this the first date??

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432490)

Nobody anyone on here knows, which is a plus. :)

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432495)

First date.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 5432398)

(IMO, a man who can cook is SEXY)

Originally Posted by KChiefsQT (Post 5432483)

I've been hearing this more and more from men lately.