God, that's horrible. Hang in there, Loki. I'll be thinking of you and yours.

Good luck and I hope your kids never have to deal with 'asshole' ever again.

Hang in their, hopefully your prayers will be answered. Me and Mine will say a prayer tonight.

Best of luck.....
Here's to hoping there is light at the end of your tunnel.
And here's to hoping here's a light at the end of her tunnel connected to a train. :clap:

Loki, thanks for putting any "problems" I have into complete perspective. You should be sainted for not putting asshole and the entire legal system into the same shallow grave.

This would probably have no legs, but as she is lying about what you do with your kids in order to swing custody to her favor, a libel/slander suit might be in order. It's awful that she is accusing horrendous things against you in order to manipulate the legal system in her favor. Also, I know it's probably prohibited because of patient/client privilege, but I'm wondering if your kids' therapist could petition the court to have CUNextTuesday taken out of the picture entirely.

MOVE!
Get the hell out of there and at least 1500 miles between you and the asshole. Make it so she has to pay for the expense of transportation of seeing her children, bet she won't even try. And if she does don't send them back for visitation.
From state to state there isn't anything the other parent can do in the courts from long distance, the asshole would have to go to your state and file for visitation or failure to allow and have to live there while going through lengthy multiple court dates, bet she wont even try.
How do I know? I've been there man.

That's true. I've been going through that for the past 3 years. It's been difficult and expensive. This friday will be our final trip to Virginia. After we win there, it's over.

More thoughts and good wishes coming from here,keep your head up.

Done deal.

Ask your attorney to request supervised visitation for "asshole" (sounds like skank whore to me) when she has the kids. This should be an easy thing to do since she has tested positive for drugs.

How old are your kids? If they are over 10 and reseasonably mature for thier age the judge can talk to them get their side.

Good luck, my ex was a complete bitch for years and this story makes her sound like an angel.

Wow that is a really messed up situation. It just pulls at my heart listening to it. It sounds like your determination is paying off she is just not going to let it go because she is a bitch. I don't know how some people can deal with a situation like that you have my admiration as well.


Phil,

Good to hear things are working out for you. Any kid would blessed to have either one of you for fathers.

After this is all done, could you anonymously let us know where she is, so we can tie her up and sizzle her cvnt hairs with a branding iron?

Just kidding. :p

Yeah, this thread made me count my blessings.

yes, i have been keeping a journal on everything since the divorce. it is VERY thick and full of bad situations/memories.

i am sick of writing in it. it never ends.