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Nzoner 01-09-2012 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 8279300)
You know my wife. She's a very strong and assertive woman. If tonight is not the night, I can change her mind once in about 10 times. I learned that early so I don't even try on 10% odds any longer. I'd go almost every night but obviously that's not incredibly realistic when you've been married 10 years so we've kind of figured out non-verbally when it's "on". If we didn't do it last night, I'll make a move. If we didn't do it last night or the night before, I know we're on unless I've been a dick that day. Heh.
Actually I should've said shift the clutch once in awhile because after 26 years of marriage my engine needs a little nudge to get into gear from time to time. :)

luv 01-09-2012 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 8279310)
Well, the key one is that we have to feel respected. If we feel disrespected for any reason then we turn into pathetic children. Respect isn't nearly as important to women so they don't understand why it is so integral to our existence.
It's not?

Nzoner 01-09-2012 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by luv (Post 8279327)
It's not?
As in respected as the man of the home,the one with the answers etc. We men need to feel that and if a woman can make us feel that she more than likely gets what she wants without demanding it.

Micjones 01-09-2012 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by suds79 (Post 8279309)
Micjones. The mistake you made was talking about that or any urge.

Honestly what good does it serve to share that? Nothing.

Words of wisdom:
"I've never been hurt by something I didn't say." - Calvin Coolidge
If I'd spoken explicitly about my desires I'd agree.
That's NOT what happened. We were talking about another couple entirely.
And I spoke about the process of a man settling down.

Phobia 01-09-2012 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by luv (Post 8279327)
It's not?
Not in the way that it's important to men. No, not even close. You want to feel close, feel loved. If you feel distant for any reason to your man, you're not going to want to get naked with him...

Everything changes when you've been with somebody a long time. All the new dating or new marriage assumptions turn into work in maintaining a relationship.

luv 01-09-2012 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Nzoner (Post 8279347)
As in respected as the man of the home,the one with the answers etc. We men need to feel that and if a woman can make us feel that she more than likely gets what she wants without demanding it.
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 8279375)
Not in the way that it's important to men. No, not even close. You want to feel close, feel loved. If you feel distant for any reason to your man, you're not going to want to get naked with him...

Everything changes when you've been with somebody a long time. All the new dating or new marriage assumptions turn into work in maintaining a relationship.
I see. Being single, respect is very important to me. Of course, I've recently learned to respect myself, so now I'm requiring it from others. :)

Phobia 01-09-2012 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by luv (Post 8279387)
I see. Being single, respect is very important to me. Of course, I've recently learned to respect myself, so now I'm requiring it from others. :)
It's important to a woman, no doubt. But yeah - we're talking about women helping us feel like we're "The Man". If a husband feels emasculation from his woman then that marriage isn't going to do very well unless he's a very unique individual.

Nzoner 01-09-2012 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 8279394)
It's important to a woman, no doubt. But yeah - we're talking about women helping us feel like we're "The Man". If a husband feels emasculation from his woman then that marriage isn't going to do very well unless he's a very unique individual.
AMEN to that!

Phobia 01-09-2012 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Pants (Post 8279320)
Ahh, makes sense. Also, I learned from you a long time ago to fight the urge to fix their problems when they come complaining to us about their stupid shit at work. It's so hard to just sit and listen and nod and agree. ARGHHHH!
Heh. That's another good example. We want to fix everything. They just want to vent and be heard. They feel close when they have a confidante who will just listen. I think statistics show that women use more than 3x the amount of words a man does in the average day so if it feels like your wife won't shut up... it's because she won't. My wife talked all the way through the Texans/Bengals game the other day. It was crazy. I finally asked her when she was going to finish using her word quota for the day. Probably wasn't a smart thing for me to say because it came back on me later that night. Even though I was kidding, it stung for her. So I have to get smarter. I have to learn to engage her better so that she doesn't feel like she has to talk for 3 hours just to get my attention.

Fish 01-09-2012 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 8279300)
You know my wife. She's a very strong and assertive woman. If tonight is not the night, I can change her mind once in about 10 times. I learned that early so I don't even try on 10% odds any longer. I'd go almost every night but obviously that's not incredibly realistic when you've been married 10 years so we've kind of figured out non-verbally when it's "on". If we didn't do it last night, I'll make a move. If we didn't do it last night or the night before, I know we're on unless I've been a dick that day. Heh.
I don't know.... sounds awfully difficult...

Hammock Parties 01-09-2012 01:25 PM
Find a girl who likes threesomes. PROBLEM SOLVED.

DaKCMan AP 01-09-2012 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Omega (Post 8279451)
Find a girl who likes threesomes. PROBLEM SOLVED.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-l_iKmBTpwd.../BadAdvice.jpg

Phobia 01-09-2012 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Omega (Post 8279451)
Find a girl who likes threesomes. PROBLEM SOLVED.
I've been watching craigslist every single day.

eazyb81 01-09-2012 01:34 PM
Phobia when can I sign up for your marriage seminar? You need to write a book dude.

stevieray 01-09-2012 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by eazyb81 (Post 8279504)
Phobia when can I sign up for your marriage seminar? You need to write a book dude.
i told him all of this years ago...:harumph:


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