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Has her not returning your calls, emails, and texts made you think about her more? If you answered yes, then you need to stop all attempts at contact. Some call it games and BS, but its obviously working for her.

My definition of whining and yours are different.

I made mistakes with my wife twice while we were dating. It took a long time for her to recover from that pain.

Stop calling, stopping by, texting, and emailing.

Write her a HANDWRITTEN letter on some masculine stationary. The letter should explain why it was a mistake and why you want to continue your relationship. Deliver it where she will find it along with a single simple flower and then leave it at that. If she calls you're good. If she ignores that one, move on.

Dude, I don't think I'm the only one in this thread that thought you were the one that got dumped. not vice versa. now how do you think I came to that conclusion? :hmmm:

You need to do her in the butt. I'm surprised Phobia didn't mention this.

I respectfully disagree about the letter. I know a dude that tried that and he still gets his balls broke about it by the people that have gotten their hands on it over the years. Never leave any evidence of past feelings.

I'll bet she found herself a new dude with a schlong thiiiiis long.

I think that's a poor reason, though. Sounds like the woman means more to him than a couple ball bustings.

There's no real advice without knowing the gal and the exact situation though. Women would be the best person to ask.

I recommend that you look up and review "The D.enise Show."

Best option thus far?

U whipped?

Embarrassment would be worth it if that's what it took so thats the last thing I'm worried about. Its more of, would it bother her if I wrote a letter or should I give her space...try to move on and hope that she will call knowing already how I feel.

Got to get ready for work...sit in front of a computer all night, so I'll continue to look at peoples advice and keep this post updated until its over or we are together again.

And it has passed from the lips of the man with the silly hat.

Follow this post. Nothing more need be said.