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I have a brother-in-law in the same situation.

To me, that's not married, that's having a roomie...

That is almost rule number one. It sucks because they tell you "just be honest, all I want is honesty" Then one day they ask if you think their friend is hot, you say yea, and it's on like donky kong. They want the fairytale. They can't handle the fact that most men love to look at, dream about and picture themselves ****ing other women.

Its actually more like imprisonment.

"Threesomes" can mean different things to different folks. You might want to be more specific, or your problem won't be solved at all.

If that were the situation I'd been in it'd be different.
Because that would be giving my personal opinion of my own tastes in women.

This wasn't even about my personal views.
This was about another guy (and girl) entirely.

I wish I could talk to this guy...I'd call him an asshole for getting ME in trouble!
LMAO

Your wife has warped, unrealistic expectations. Good luck with that.

Threads like this remind me that I'm married to the perfect woman. We are absolutely honest, and (since she had no brothers and no prior relationships), it took a while to educate her on men and what they're about. Luckily, we trust each other completely, and neither would ever betray that trust.

99% of what guys on here bitch about regarding their women doesn't apply to my wife (see Frazod thread regarding things your wife does that drives you insane). And stuff like this -- she understands (now) that men instictively drool over attractive women, but that most men (and certainly me, which is all she cares about) can keep it zipped.

Agreed. She doesn't seem to understand men.

Marriages will be healthier and happier if you understand what the other sex is about, how they operate, and what is realistic/unrealistic to expect.

Seriously. I told my wife that if my brother-in-law steps out, I wouldn't be surprised, nor would I blame him to be honest.

Hahahaha - yeah. No. It's easy to know what you should do. It's completely something different to execute. I'm probably a lot better husband than I used to be but I'm always screwing something up. I'm very blessed to have a wife who really wants to be with me and is willing to train me for life.

I'm sure she enjoys using the shock collar more than she'll ever let on. :D

LMAO

This guy is a good columnist. People are different. If we can accept gay couples we should certainly accept this variety of relationship.

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/S...e?oid=11412386

Doesn’t matter. Talking in hypotheticals is still going to be reflected onto you. She was (subconsciously) waiting for you to say one thing, and focused solely on that once it was out of the bag.

We're not married...yet.