I'm not one to be unkind to people. I've been said to have a tender quality that allows me to speak gently to persons about sensitive issues. Coming right out with bad news has never been my style as I prefer to ease the person into the knowledge so they kind of intuitively understand the problem. Often, I'll just hold and cry with them for hours until their grief is heading down the path of mending.

I'm just saying....some folks fall from the top, some folks are lucky enough to only be half way up when they lose their grip.