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I practice Nonogamy.
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It's hard to love a clown. FAX |
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Or at least I box one. |
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In less advanced times, like pastoral times, it's easier to be polygamous but later when economics advanced only a few practiced it as it strains the resources of men. It's quite expensive, so it was mainly kings and the wealthy that practiced it where it was allowed. ( or concubinage) Having more than one wife was a sign of power and wealth. Also, some primitive societies held property in common which is another reason there were multiple sexual mates. Interestingly enough, this is why it is favored among Marxists, as in everyone's wife belongs to all. In other situations it was due to the scarcity of males, arising from wars or too many female births. So I would conclude that the arrangement is economic and survival while men still have a biological urge to mate with other women even if they don't act on it. One is relies on analytical reasoning in order to survive the other biological. |
The reason for Monogamy is jealousy. That is not a negative comment, its the simple truth.
Even if you love someone but also have a complete lack of jealousy, you can make all the "hey I love you, but I don't mind, if you are happy then I'm happy, and you should feel the same way" arguments you want, but if your partner doesn't feel the same deep inside, you won't convince or argue the jealousy out of them. If you want an open relationship, you are limited to the very few people in the world (which doesn't include me) that have a similar lack of jealousy. The reason for monogamy is simple, and not nearly as interesting or complex as the reason for marriage. "why do we have marriage" is a separate question. (ie you can love and marry someone but also both not be monogamous) |
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Ya baby if it feels good do it, No wonder this nation is going down the tubes. You can justify anything and it will be ok.
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