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well i would say you made a mistake man, give it time and hope she comes back...things might be different for a while if she does but atleast youll have her again. good luck

If this girl, no matter how hot, has emotional issues, he should turn and run as fast as he can the other way.

Not.

Worth.

It.

I would probably drown my sorrows in a tub full of lesbians. But, that's just me.

FAX

What's your ****ing problem, Asswipe?

Leaving negative comments on my profile page?

I don't even know who the **** you are, Douche.

First of all, OT=Offensive Tackle. So unless an offensive tackle that plays for the Chiefs has a broken heart, your subject line and icon for this thread were worthless.


Now, why are you being such a whiny little bitch? You dated/slept with her for three and a half MONTHS!! The only commitment the two of you should have been making is dinner reservations.

Finally, grow a pair, stop crying and move on.

But most know you!

and that is more than enough. From the comments.
most noT want to be in a room with U.

So least posting but most azz?

Figure it now.......

Wonder why-LOL

Nice, incoherent, drunk-ass gibberish.

**** Doll

Sure whatever takes you off the most unwanted in a room thread for a week. ROFL

ROFLMAO.

Not really emotional issues but has no idea what she wants...which might be worse.

I can't believe no one has asked how old she is, for that is absolutely crucial in the formulation of advice.

how old?

23 years old

What do you want?

Another night with her?

An undetermined short-term while with her?

An undetermined long-term while with her?

What is your bottom line objective with a woman?

crap, that's in no man's land. If she's 19, you cease contact. 26, and you write the letter.

Regardless given your attempts at contact thatve failed, you gotta stop that. Don't initiate shit. Then, IF she attempts to contact you, do the following...

Text message - DONT reply immediately, you'll look desperate. Or more desperate. Leave at least a couple hours delay. Don't feel the need to explain your delayed response.

Phone Call - DONT answer it. Text her a couple hours later, tell her you were having lunch with a friend. Don't say MATE or BUDDY or whatever generic word you use to describe your MALE friends. Introduce some ambiguity.

Appear to be real busy with work/play/whatever. Even if you arent. Don't give her the impression you're sitting arounf crying about it all. NOT attractive.

Just went through something somewhat similar to this with the oldest daughter (16:doh!:)(without the piercings and intamacy - I hope). She dumped her boyfriend of a little over a year back around Jan/Feb. Then, when he moved on and started noticing other girls, she started getting upset. He thought it was funny that she was jealous after breaking up with him so he played it up. I wasn't very popular over the last 3 months because I kept telling her that SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM and he has every right to move on and she needed to move on as well.

She broke up with him in attempt to straighten him out. But when he didn't come crawling back, begging her forgiveness and promising to change, she realized she overstepped. But, like I told her, once that hand is played it's too late to pull it back.

It's taken 3 months but she is finally realizing that this guy isn't the only one out there, nor is he the best guy out there either. She's also realized that her "Out of touch with reality" dad does indeed have a bit more experience in these matters than she gave him credit for.



If I were in your shoes, and had done what you've done, no matter how I felt, I would start moving on and if she came back to me, then I'd consider the situation when it does take place. I'd treat her nice and respectful when I saw her around, I'd talk to her if she were to seek me out, but everything within me would be moving on. Yeah, my heart would hurt, but I'd shove the feelings under a smile and keep holding my head up anyway and move on without looking back.

No matter how great she seemed, she wasn't perfect and there are others out there. But, they won't put up with a guy that is still hooked on an Ex - and you won't notice them if you are still dwelling on a past relationship. Learn from this one and move on.