This:

I'd say that she needs to be told (to tell her friend) that if the woman wants to keep the man's desire to stay monogamous, it's up to her to be better than all those other women. We're cool, we get "that week", but too much of a non-thing just kills the desire to NOT spread your seed. Or just get some! So, repulsed or not, the better stay on top of things, or "he" (you) will get on top of other things...

My wife and I are very honest with each other.

One day she asked me if I ever wanted to have sex with another woman.
I looked her dead in the eye and said yes every day.

She was a bit shocked and I explained that I decided to marry her when I was sure I would never act on that impulse. That I had to much respect for her and loved her more than she would ever know.

She has never asked again.

Ang

Dump her. Way too insecure.

As long as there are hot chicks, we're going to dig them.

Chicks **** around as much as guys, they just like to act all innocent

I Like Turtles!

You're one of those people that don't HEAR comedy... you just listen to it...
Right at the 59s mark... HEAR C. ROCK!

Anyone know how to embed at the 59 s mark?

http://youtu.be/vnZLcx6hIaE?t=59s

In general... a man who is still breathing (regardless of age or committed-ness) is most likely going to look when a nice butt or rack walks by. This doesn't necessarily mean he wants to... or would... cheat. But window-shopping should be ok even if one has no intention of buying. Right?

I feel as though I have an obligation to share my wealth of knowledge about this subjuct with younger guys based on the fact I've lived for awhile and have so much life experience in which to draw upon.

I just wish I could remember any of it.

You are not an animal, you have control over your urges. But that doesn't make the urges go away.

I always explain it like this...I could be in love with probably a million people in the world, but I CHOSE my wife. That's because love is a choice not a feeling. Lust is a feeling. You have to control your feelings...otherwise we're just animals.

That is damn true.

Still, it's best not to use her best friend as a 'for instance'.

I find it interesting too.

However, a relationship is a 2-way street. What happens when a wife/gf's needs aren't being met? Let's say there's a lack of emotion/communication in the relationship yet there's plenty of sex. Do men ever worry that their wife/gf will seek out someone to help fill that void?

I don't mean to sound like a "typical chick" with my post, but think about it, gentlemen... a relationship without communication is like a relationship without sex. Plain and simple.

Go ahead and talk or cry with another man if you need to.