When did you lose interest?
 

I've been living with my girlfriend for awhile and we've been together for a little more than two years now. While I haven't lost interest in her, i'm not all that into the sex anymore. She's definitely the initiator now and I find myself becoming more flirtatious with other women.

I've cheated on girls in the past, but don't wanna go that route this time. I plan on trying to put down the xbox this week and stepping up the flowers and romance thing. It should also help that football season is wrapping up

How long did it take for you guys if ever? What did you do to help?

Now that I'm single I tend to lose interest as soon as we're done, or she start talking ROFL

Eh...It happens on occasion when you've been with the same person for a long time. Iv'e been with my wife for almost 15 yrs now. She's still smoking hot so that helps and the fact that she's a freak in the sack.....

One thing I might suggest is trying to hit a line drive up the 2 hole. That's exciting when she's not expecting it. ROFL

Try introducing things like toys, lingerie, posting nude pics on C.P. etc. That'll always help.

ARE YOU FRICKEN SERIOUS????


BAN HIM!!!!

wow, wasn't ready for that picture

Don't quote it!!

SORRY!

Jesus H. Christ n00b..WTF!?

Must be Marlboro Chief again. :shake:

Thanks for the NSFW memo!!!!!!!!!!!!


Your and Idiot

Time to move on.

Delete that shit

2 years. yup, thats about right.

actually, thats pretty normal. After the "honeymoon" phase its not all about the sex anymore, then its about commitment, friendship, the simple things, the good stuff.

then kids come, fights start, you masterbate a lot, finally it all ends in tatters and you lose everything, now she betrays you, your "friends" turn on you, the people at your church tell you, this is wrong, you must stay together, and you scream at them "Its not me!! Shes the one that wants the divorce!!!! but it doesnt matter, they blame you anyway so they ignore you and when they start ignoring your kids thats the last straw, im leavin this place, and then the economy goes bad and you get the pink slip, now youve lost your marriage, youve lost your home, you lost your job, you lost your money, your kids are all confused and your hopes for them have been dashed and you even lost your place of worship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


.......oh wait........sorry, dude...........

what was the question?????

I cheated on my ex-husband, but that was long after we stopped communicating or fornicating. So I always took the stance that it wasn't cheating. When he caught me somewhere I wasn't supposed to be, he took the opposite stance.

I've only lost that loving feeling once. And that was because he was a complete... well... fiasco.

Any other relationship ended because of other issues.

When you lose it. You lose it. Run.

ROFLROFL
Damn I had almost put it behind me. Time to start seeing a counsler again

can i call you? STFU

You ask yourself....do you love her? Can you picture your life better with or without her? If not, gtfo and stop wasting her time.

Ive been with mine for 2 years and we are best friends, and i wouldn't trade her for anyone period. show her you care about her, the longer you ignore her the less you realize you are ****ing it up. Some women will put up with it, but others won't and will find someone that cares just as much about them as she does you. I have one of those, but i know other people that just settle and live with that bullshit. Treat her good man, esp if you love her.

I was scrolling down and I could see that chicks head and I knew by the way the photo was shot what was next.

Oh well that and there was a dude's trail to glory to the left of the screen

Ask her for a Ménage à trois. It can only end well, trust me.

So break up or have threesomes and anal haha, good stuff. I dont think one girl would be enough after two though.

You need to figure out why you aren't into sex that much anymore. Is it the actual sex or is it her. Try spicing things up.....if that doesn't work then you need to decide if you love her enough to stay with her.

Welcome to being married. Except you have the big advantage of being able to pack your shit and leave without consequence.

Above all, take advice from the geniuses on Chiefs Planet.

I know if i need sound legal, financial, or relationship advice, the first place i would think of to go is Chiefs Planet.

btw, wasnt there a hairdresser in Wichita that was giving advice a couple of days ago???

sounds like you're going the right direction. Give her attention to get the spark back in it. One question, what if she's lost interest more than you? Not trying to be mean.

I've lost interest after a long time of feeling neglected in the relationship myself. First wife when she was hanging out with the neighbor too much. My second wife really made me feel emasculated. After five years I acted on feelings with a girl that made me feel more manly. of course now I'm divorced twice....

the answer to your question has to be "it's situational"

I think if you analyze that sentence you'll find the source of your problem.

Put the damn toy in the closet and play with your woman instead. If you find yourself unable to do so, you may want to check yourself into Video Games Anonymous.

LMAO IM AT WORK!!!!!!

In college, I often lost interest when I pulled out.

But I often became invested in the situation again around 2:00 am the following night (morning).

As for help: Google "booze."

I need more info. Does she give good BJ's?

ah, another "TWO-TIMER"

my first hung out too much with the assistant manager at the grocery store she worked at.
the second was like listening to Alec Baldwin's monologue in "Gengarry Glen Ross" for 17 years. Emasculated?? I'll let you know when i find those suckers. I think she kicked them out during the first Clinton Administration.

I need someone who will make me feel more respected and appreciated, someone who wont leave me feeling traumatised after lovemaking, someone who will raise my level of self esteem from what it has been.

I going to find an escort on backpage.com

LMAO

Sounds about right LMAO

Anyway Max we need a picture of her so we can determine if you're gay or not

I would just make sure you have one lined up if you do decide it isn't the right one. I don't think you want to go pussy free months if you do call it off. Make sure you have that black book chalk for then make a break for it. Or neglect her to the point where she blows another guy, hell I will even volenfuckingteer for you. I will layeth down my sword in her mouth. Just for you to be happy

im starting a divorce care group here on Chiefs Planet.

whose with me???????????

* let this in no way influence the originator of this thread one way or another about marriage or long term relationships

I doubt she likes toothpicks demon

ROFL

I have no interest in relieving those horrible days.

you sound like My X.

I shaved my pubes so no worries

Is that supposed to make your toothpick look bigger? LMAO

Simple, take some encyte.

no i ment my pubes were as thick as toothpicks. it was actually more like steel wool though. Steel Wool Of the Gods.. Steel Wool as Strong as The toughest track in Rc Pro am

LMAO

I am sure she will appreciate it just take it easy on her

I know I am supposed to take it easy, last girl said her ass was sanded down with twelve grit when I was done.

im not kidding, guys.

I had a house!!!!

And savings. And the kids were going to a nice school in a nice neighborhood.

that was worth putting up with all the insults, i thought. And every couple of weeks I could go out to Price Chopper all by myself, sometimes for almost an hour!!!!!!

This is why women invented marriage and lawyers. They become boring, fat, bitchy, demanding, and downright nasty. Then your dumb ass figures out you married Beelezebub with an attitude and your sitting with a 6-pack wondering where 1/2 your shit went.

BJs? not a porn star or anything but good. She's hot also, but no pics! not after snitching that's been going on around here.

Oh and I know about asking advice on a forum, but I'm just more curious about how common this is. Like if it can be an up and down thing, or it happens once and then you've fixed the problem, or if it was never the same again.

more than half!!!!!!!

i settled so she'd stop yelling at me!!!!!!!

see below

:cuss:STFU

She is of course a beautiful, charming, sophisticated woman of high values and higher morals.

I haven't after 17 years....I'm very blessed.

..you'll get what you give...:)

Well another 2x divorce here :cuss:

At least this time I got the kids:D

THIS

I've been married for 20 years and still can't keep my hands off of my wife. No loss of interest here at all. :)

That's called a "Southern Trespass".

She aint the one or this would not be a question you would be asking.

FYP. Morals, sophistication, charm, values all slipped.... eventually the beauty will too. aging:shake: is bitch.

In may I will have been married to one woman for 20 years. We dated for a year before marriage. So, for amost 21 years, I have commited myself to this one relationship and this one relationship only. Through this almost 20 years of marriage, I have yet to lose interest in her as a person, nor have I lost interest in her intimately.

I'll let you know if I ever do, but I have a feeling that as long as I keep investing in our relationship like I should I'll lose the ability to be intimate with her before I lose the desire to.

Unlike my last reply she is the one. Congrats!

I'm gonna ask my 'bama buddy about this term. ROFL

How old are you? Guys lose libido as they age.

It's also in the UD but we've called it that for years up here:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...thern+trespass

How would you know? You read that somewhere?


My grandfather told me after I was married, "You may lose the ability, but you never lose the desire."

Stop jerking off. Really, I'm not kidding. It helps a lot. When you keep doing that it really kills the sex life.

Some guys do. Some don't.

go to a strip club before you two have sex. That should get the juices flowing.

Thank you, Mr. Know-It-All. I'm sure Bullwinkle and Rocky's people will want an exclusive interview.

I must admit, your vast array of knowledge over things you have little to no personal experience with seems to have no boundries whatsoever.

We Will have been married 20 years this August and we lived together for 5 years before marrage and dated 5 years before that. So yah, we have been together a while.

What was the first thing I did when I came home from work tonight? I walked over to the stove where she was standing cooking supper and grabbed her ass. :D

We are doing great :)

It dosen't mean you don't have thoughts or fantasy's from time to time. That dosen't necesarily mean you want to cheat or don't love eachother anymore.

One thing I've always done, if we have a fight or disagreement I sleep on it. More times than not I change my mind or at least compromise.

I think people lose interest because in the back of their minds they have that settlement fear and think 'oh no what if I meet someone better!"

ROFL pretty much!

After the Southern Trespass, I suggest going for the mouth hug.


BTW, someone is going to track down your girl and show her this thread. Just sayin'.

Is the quiz at the bottom of the page
totally random

If he doesn't have interest in having sex with her, I'll bite the bullet and step in like a stunt double.

Then he won't even have to stop playing Xbox.

I can speak from experience, because I have been married almost ten years. Got married when I was 19, and cheated on her, justifying it with saying I wasn't attracted to her. Loss of physical affection happens for every couple at some point. For me I felt it was coming in spurts. We talked and talked when she found out I had cheated, and through that I was able to work out they why of it all. I would say just tell her what is going on with the attraction issue. That is what we did and we are that much stronger for it. My wife is now dieting and working out because she wants to look her best for me. Just talk to her man. Hope this helps :)

You're married to a fatty boombalatty huh? It's cool, my wife is too.

When they quit swallowing ditch em' ;)

So that's where they came up with ditch pig.

^5

Well Shyguy, you should have probably stayed with your wife in the first place.

:eek: She's 13. She's homeless. And she's mine.

Not sure anyone has mentioned it - but it's cold outside... Warm her tank up with some ANTIFREEZE !!!

Just kidding of course... Hang in there... Just try to be alittle bit more lovey dovey... If you don't give her the attention - someone else will... So - if you care about her - you better get on the ball !!! Now !!!