Suicide?
 

Have you ever contemplated suicide? I have, I think about it everyday. I think my kids and wife would be better off without me. My wife is an absolute angel. She did not deserve to be stuck with me. I know that it's the right thing to do. But it's cowardly. I know for a fact that I am going to hell. I love my kids and wife so much, but I have not been a good father.

I say you let them decide what they deserve. Take a vote.

WTF??? Antifreeze!

There's no hell, reerun.

This isn't going to help turn your rep green.

Get some help, there is nothing normal about contemplating suicide, it means you have problems that only professional help can solve.

Your wife and kids will be effected the rest of their lives in a negative manner.

Get off CP and get help.

Ok, what inside joke did I miss this time?

Matt Cassel?

Jeez. Take a shit and man up.

Is this serious?

If so...

Get some help. Talk to someone in person. There are plenty of resources out their.

Brianfo = Todd Haley?

Haley has already been to hell working with Pioli, he is now in heaven with big $$$.

Honestly. This may come off as Harsh but maybe it will be for the Good. Take a harden the **** up pill. You live in a great country, some proclaim its the greatest. You have every opportunity to be happy. Some people don't even have access to water and food around the world, and you have it bad? Do something to make yourself happy, **** that, you have children, you should live for them, because millions of people can't even have kids and would love to have them, that alone is enough reason to stay alive. You have it much much much better than a good % of the worlds people, take that into perspective next time you think about it. Also, Seek therapy, because you need it. Life is not all sunshine and butterflies, but there are plenty of things to live for in this world that you can look at and find beauty in. You need a happy place. My best friend killed himself because he was 'unhappy' or felt like a burden to his family. You know what I resent that prick for it and his family is miserable.

Bro it could be worse. You could be a browns fan

Don't do it please.

Suicide is never a good answer or solution. Get help; things get better. It doesn't matter if you've been a good father or bad father, good husband or bad husband-no one is better off if someone they love commits suicide.

Get help immediately. Call a friend. Call a hospital. Call anyone and just talk. Make to tomorrow.

Good luck and God Bless.

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Unless I'm missing a joke and your not being serious I think you need to think of those around you give yourself a kick in the a$$ and turn it around one day at a time.
Make a list of the daily things you think your doing wrong and how much better in time youd feel if you erased some of those things listed.

Gl & think of the kids especially

there are free or low cost counselors available, call one

it will help you

Get help. If not for you, then for your family. You really think having a dead father/husband is going to make their life any better? Grow some balls, and get professional help.
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If you spent your first half of life being a bad father take a lesson from it. Use the next half of your life being a great father. Its a 2nd chance for redemption. Nobody ever said this life was gonna be easy. Others have it worse than you. What kind of text do you want to leave on your tombstone for everyone to remember you by?

1-800-273-8255

Suicide Prevention Hotline. Seriously.

Dude, I'm not sure you're serious or not, so many smartelics on here saying off the wall stuff all the time...

As a person who has suffered a suicide in the family, I agree it's cowardly. I feel it's the utmost in selfish decisions a person could ever make. All it does is transfer hurt and pain. Somebody who's contemplating that are obviously hurting and in pain about something. But, if successful, you pass your hurt, pain, and confusion on down the line. You angelic wife will turn stoic and your kids will carry guilt FOREVER that they had done something wrong.

My wife's father took his life. She's NEVER been the same. Used to be happy go lucky, a lot of fun to be around. Now, she's never happy...she's depressed and on all kinds of meds. Used to be she'd never take a Tylenol. She's ANGRY! Mad at the world with no patience for anything. Hurtful, hurtful words during arguments and when angry at the kids. I have to tell them "don't take anything personal when words are said in anger." That's helped them a lot. For me, I just hang on because she loves me, and I remember the way things used to be and live in the hope that she'll change back. But, I wouldn't count on it. She's still madder than hell at him, has never forgiven him and never will...and, thus his selfish act he just passed along his troubles to us.

Would you ever really want to have your kids feel that way? You say you've been a terrible dad. Well, that my friend would be ultimate child abuse. You'd ruin a bit of them forever. Don't ever do it, and consider speaking with a counselor or minister.

If you kill your self? & put that kind of guilt & shame on your Children & Wife? Turning they're worlds inside out.










I WILL FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE & I WILL PISS ON YOUR GRAVE !

Do it. DO IT

It'll get better. Your kids wouldn't be here if it wasn't for you, so they really wouldn't be better off without you. You can get help, everything will work out.

Its true killing yourself is the Bitch way out. it would **** up my kids

I'd say it's an excellent pr move.
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Dude, you okay? If this is serious, let us know.

I can't lose you. I rely on you for good posts.

Also if youre just doing this for attention, **** you.

if not refer to my post on page 1

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Don't do it, man. Seek help.

Get help man.



And dibs on his Casino Cash and post count

The ****? dude, go get help. Not here, like from a professional.

As long as you don't mind completely ruining your kids' lives, then fire away. Just know that your kids will carry it around with them for the rest of their lives. They'll never be able to experience a happy moment for the rest of their lives without catching themselves and thinking of you. Your cowardice will haunt them forever. They'll be burdened with guilt, they'll have anger issues, and your selfishness will make them much more likely to be suicide candidates themselves. Suicide is the last, most thoughtless, act reserved for only the most extreme of cowards. I heard the same bullshit line, "you'll be better off without me". Nobody ever is. Trust that I know what I'm talking about.

Be sure to run a webcam while you do it. You'll go down in glory.

Can I have your casino cash?

RIP Candyjunkie

I think this is his first post I've read that wasn't bashing me. :eek:

1-800-273-TALK (8255)

Call it. Now.

I allready called dibs.

If that's true, then you will get help. Now. And not just from Chiefsplanet.

A friend of mine committed suicide a couple of years back. The weird thing was that she was liked and respected by so many people, and somehow she didn't recognize it. I still occasionally see someone walking down the street who looks a little bit like her, and it's frustrating all over again to think about it. If she had talked to any of us we could have helped her or supported her.

Even if we don't think so, we're valued by more people than we think.

LMAO

Get professional help man don't do this to your kids. It's only temporary they'll get you feeling better.

Its Xmas time. At least wait till the day Obama gets reelected

Calm down dude, the Fisher thing was just a rumor.

So you're saying you've been an asshole.......welcome to the club. We're all assholes at one time or another. Better to be a live one than a dead one though. Now if you cornholed your kids and curb stomped your wife on any occassion I think you know the answer yourself. You're a Raiders fan.

When you say you haven't been a good father, is that like "I missed a school play" or a Sandusky? You might want to get the kids some help too.

Just remember, ammo's only getting more expensive if Obama gets re-elected. Now's your chance to do it on the cheap.

Frame your wife if you do decide to do it.
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Only 24 post away from a 1000 to. Join date April 2002. Thats 10 years man.

I think you should at see it threw to a 1000

My relationship with Brianfo isn't particularly deep, but it's one of the many squares that collectively create the patchwork quilt of my life. I don't need a hole where my left foot goes.

You'll ruin Christmas and the Holiday's for your kids for the rest of their lives. Get some help in the meantime and reassess your life around Groundhog Day.

Get a goddamn job, Brianfo.

You got a negative attitude. That's what's stopping you.

You gotta get your act together. I'll help you.

If I find out you did it and it ruins my christmas, im going to neg you.

Think about your kids. Think about how they would feel. Whatever you have done, nothing would compare to the selfishness of suicide. Not sure the relationship you had with your own Dad, but you need to talk with someone who can help you with how you are feeling.

Always think of your kids and what is best for them. Live your life for them. It is NEVER too late to start over. NEVER too late to being a good dad and good husband. Be your best, and everyone will love you for it. Even if you feel worthless, never quit trying.

You wouldn't want one of your kids killing themselves or taking the easy way out and quitting on everyone so don't set them an example they may follow. Do all you can to get better and have a better outlook.

Think of the advise you would give them if they were feeling low, and use it yourself.

I hate how the holidays are a mandatory give a **** time.
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Lol no wtf

Are you going to dress him in sharp and fashonable clothing?








I kid...

:)

But are you?

Im taking back your christmas present prick!

I'll give him $500 if he frames someone I don't like instead. Hey, brianfo, what do you think? Do we have a deal? Assuming you're serious, of course. But I'd rather keep the $500 and just keep our options open.

anyone remember this?

http://mashable.com/2008/11/20/19-ye...justintv-smcb/

It IS devastating that K-Mart canceled layaway...

Once again, RIP CandyJunkie

Calm down there buddy.Lets grab a cold one and talk about it.:toast::toast:

my fault, missed that post.

We all have a lot of pressure and problems that plague us and we each handle that pressure in different ways. You obviously have allowed that pressure and stress to build up to the point that you are on this board posting about suicide.

Make the call and speak with someone who can help you professionally or seek out your local support.

The only people you will hurt for the rest of their lives are the same people you think you will be helping by ending your life. There is nothing that cannot be resolved and no mistake that another human being has not already made.

People are much more forgiving and understanding than you can imagine.

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength.

Please seek help immediately from a professional.

God Bless you and good luck.

I won't stop being concerned for this guy's safety until he swears that he doesn't have a gun.

As others have said, suicide is the most selfish act I could imagine. Its a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

I had a boss a few years ago that ate a bullet after talking me through a difficult situation and stressing to me that you have to open up and talk to people you trust and seek professional help if it becomes an issue.

Don't be embarased or ashamed to ask for help. If I had the opportunity I would kick him in the nuts so hard right now.

If you off yourself, you will be sent to a special hell where you have to watch the Lin Elli-oops game over and over and over and over again for eternity.

What's there to lose by changing your attitude then? Screw thinking about "hell". Live your damn life and make an effort to be a good father. There is nothing stopping you but yourself.

Dam he logged off

If you are gonna end your life... go down in a Blaze of Glory... like knock out some of the global elite before you go. Maybe a Rockefeller or Rothschild or two. Quit being selfish!! :-) < /joke >

Only if you allow them to be.

Anyone know him or have a # ?

I haven't put the tree up yet.
Im a bad dad

I think it's 1-800-DOUCHE.

Nope, don't have any contact info.

I hope he's okay. He seems like a good guy.