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bowener 04-06-2015 09:20 PM

My Father passed away
 
He died of congestive heart failure today. He had open heart a few months ago, but never could get healthy enough to go home. He was scheduled to be moved to a nursing home near our home today for long term recovery.

My mother was holding his hand while they were doing a routine sonogram of his heart. She said he seemed to just go to sleep, then his heart stopped. At least he didn't go alone. I'm not a religious guy, but he deserves a special place if there is one.

Legally he was my step-father, but in my heart he has always been my dad.

I miss you, meathead.
Love always, worm

TribalElder 04-06-2015 09:21 PM

Damn bro RIP

ShortRoundChief 04-06-2015 09:22 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. In my prayers man.

MIAdragon 04-06-2015 09:22 PM

Sorry bud, prayers for you and your family.

Dallas Chief 04-06-2015 09:23 PM

Sorry for your loss man. Prayers to you and your family.

Jimmya 04-06-2015 09:23 PM

Prayers from Texas.

LoneWolf 04-06-2015 09:25 PM

Sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

bowener 04-06-2015 09:27 PM

Call your parents.

Mr_Tomahawk 04-06-2015 09:27 PM

Prayers buddy.

listopencil 04-06-2015 09:27 PM

Been there, done that, it's going to hurt for a while. Sorry to hear that you're going through this and I hope you have some family around to help you.

notorious 04-06-2015 09:27 PM

My thoughts are with you.

Just remember, he is a part of you, so his spirit will never pass.

SDChiefs 04-06-2015 09:28 PM

Damn dude I'm so sorry. I couldn't imagine losing my dad. If there's anything I can help with just ask.

RobBlake 04-06-2015 09:28 PM

I'm deeply deeply sorry for your loss.

Leaving this earth is never easy because it has a ripple effect or is it affect? who cares.

Let time heal your wounds and do not feel guilty if you smile at a great memory you had together. Lean on your close ones. I'm sorry

Halfcan 04-06-2015 09:31 PM

Sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you and your family.

TLO 04-06-2015 09:32 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. Good thoughts coming your way.

BigMeatballDave 04-06-2015 09:33 PM

:( Sorry for your loss.

wazu 04-06-2015 09:34 PM

Sorry, man. The next year will be tough. The one after that, less tough. Find reasons to laugh. Pull your family closer and lean on each other.

eDave 04-06-2015 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by listopencil (Post 11422724)
Been there, done that, it's going to hurt for a while. Sorry to hear that you're going through this and I hope you have some family around to help you.

It's coming for me soon. I'm realizing the harsh reality recently.

My condolences bowener. It was just time and he raised a good kid. And he will still always be there.

TrebMaxx 04-06-2015 09:35 PM

Sorry to hear that, condolences. Stay strong for your family.

Rain Man 04-06-2015 09:36 PM

Sorry to hear this.

Mr. Flopnuts 04-06-2015 09:38 PM

I wished my mother a happy birthday in heaven today for the 16th time. While time does not heal my wounds, it does dull them until special days come around. It's been a rough day. You have my heartfelt condolences.

TrebMaxx 04-06-2015 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts (Post 11422773)
I wished my mother a happy birthday in heaven today for the 16th time. While time does not heal my wounds, it does dull them until special days come around. It's been a rough day. You have my heartfelt condolences.

I hear ya. My mom's is April 9th and it's been 7 years. I try not to think of it but I always do.

RobBlake 04-06-2015 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TrebMaxx (Post 11422790)
I hear ya. My mom's is April 9th and it's been 7 years. I try not to think of it but I always do.

unless you're not human.. momma will always have a special place.. no matter the age

thabear04 04-06-2015 09:49 PM

Damn sorry to hear this bad news may he rest in peace.

Mr. Flopnuts 04-06-2015 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TrebMaxx (Post 11422790)
I hear ya. My mom's is April 9th and it's been 7 years. I try not to think of it but I always do.

I was raised by my Aunt and Uncle from the time I was 7 due to unfortunate circumstances outside of my mom's control, but was always very close to her. I lost her suddenly and unexpectedly at 21 and will never ever forget the day that the light inside my soul faded to black when I learned that she was gone. That sounds horrible but you only get 1 true mother and I think anyone who has lost theirs can relate entirely to that last statement. God bless, bud.

Strongside 04-06-2015 09:53 PM

Sorry to hear. Thoughts to you and your family.

Buehler445 04-06-2015 10:04 PM

:(

Sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and yours.

DaFace 04-06-2015 10:04 PM

Sorry to hear man. RIP.

Lonewolf Ed 04-06-2015 10:05 PM

I am very sorry for your loss. It is good that your mother was with him at the end, though that had to be extra hard for her. I pray you and your family find consolation and comfort in each other and your friends.

EPodolak 04-06-2015 10:06 PM

Someone once said the most significant event in a man's life is the loss of his father, it may be true. Happened in our family not long ago also. Thanks for sharing about your Dad and best wishes to you and your family.

Al Czervik 04-06-2015 10:14 PM

RIP
 
Very sorry for you and your family....
Prayers to all left behind....

eDave 04-06-2015 10:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EPodolak (Post 11422849)
Someone once said the most significant event in a man's life is the loss of his father, it may be true. Happened in our family not long ago also. Thanks for sharing about your Dad and best wishes to you and your family.

That's got to go both ways. I have separate, distinct, relationships with my parents. Both are equally significant, IMO.

I'm being drawn closer and closer to them as they are starting to decline.

KC native 04-06-2015 10:26 PM

Condolences

Meatloaf 04-06-2015 11:31 PM

Bowener, I feel your pain. It's never easy to lose a loved one. Hang in there. Good thoughts and prayers headed your way. Take care.

ShortRoundChief 04-06-2015 11:39 PM

FWIW, he sounded like a hell of a man. Any guy who takes another's seed and raises him/her as his own in such a way that it positively and profoundly changes their lives for the better has got my vote to get into those pearly gates.

DanT 04-06-2015 11:44 PM

My condolences, bowener. Sounds like he was a good man!

DaneMcCloud 04-07-2015 12:31 AM

My sincerest condolences

ThaVirus 04-07-2015 01:11 AM

Sorry to hear it. Stay strong.

Donger 04-07-2015 03:13 AM

I'm very sorry to hear this. My condolences.

DRU 04-07-2015 04:02 AM

I like to consider that energy cannot die. May his energy become "Spring's sweet rhythm dancing in your hair."

Coochie liquor 04-07-2015 05:34 AM

Rest in paradise. Sorry for you loss!!

Kman34 04-07-2015 05:40 AM

Sorry for your loss....Prayers sent...

InChiefsHeaven 04-07-2015 05:51 AM

Lost my mother 3 and a half years ago...now dad has stage 4 lung cancer...but we are a very close family and we make new memories all the time. He will go home some day, probably sooner than later, and my heart will break. But I'm choosing to remember the good and enjoy every day I have with him.

Your pops sounds like he IS a great man...there is no WAS...he's still around man, just in a different way. God Bless.

tooge 04-07-2015 06:04 AM

So sorry man

DC.chief 04-07-2015 06:29 AM

So sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family the best. My father was killed 7 years ago this June and a part of me died that day too. Life has never been the same. Rely on your family and try to remember all the good times

Rukdafaidas 04-07-2015 06:35 AM

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

Sweet Daddy Hate 04-07-2015 06:59 AM

Very sorry, sir.

petegz28 04-07-2015 07:03 AM

Sorry for your loss

Amnorix 04-07-2015 07:18 AM

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Msmith 04-07-2015 07:23 AM

Peace to you and your family.

Bwana 04-07-2015 07:29 AM

Sorry to hear that bud, all my best to you and your family.

kepp 04-07-2015 07:35 AM

I'm sorry for your loss...my prayers go out to you & your family.

Lzen 04-07-2015 07:40 AM

May God lay his hands on you and give you peace in this time of mourning.

RIP, bowener's dad.

Spokane Chief Fan 04-07-2015 07:46 AM

Sorry for your loss.

dirk digler 04-07-2015 07:50 AM

Very Sorry for your loss bowener.

jenksme 04-07-2015 07:55 AM

Prayers for you and your family in this trying time. May God bless you and your family.

HonestChieffan 04-07-2015 08:00 AM

Prayers your way. Hold tight to the memories!

BlackHelicopters 04-07-2015 08:02 AM

Prayers to you and your entire Family.

digger 04-07-2015 08:05 AM

Sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.

ChiTown 04-07-2015 08:10 AM

So sorry for your loss, bowener.

ShowtimeSBMVP 04-07-2015 08:16 AM

Prayers sent.

Old Dog 04-07-2015 08:24 AM

Condolences to you and yours.

morphius 04-07-2015 08:42 AM

Sorry for your families loss, prayers for him and your family.

displacedinMN 04-07-2015 08:47 AM

We are all with you. Been in your place.
Lost both my parents in the last two years.

Be strong!

gblowfish 04-07-2015 09:05 AM

My dad passed in January 2011. I was there. I miss him every day.

kappa72202 04-07-2015 09:20 AM

Prayers and condolences.

Steron 04-07-2015 09:36 AM

Sorry to hear this. I can't imagine. My father is 71 and had a massive stroke last August. TPA saved his life. However, this isn't about him. Again, I'm sorry. I'm not sure if you're the religious type or not, but I will pray for you and your family in this difficult time.

Floridafan 04-07-2015 12:07 PM

Condolences and prayers to you.

Easy 6 04-07-2015 01:11 PM

Very sorry to hear, I feel your pain.

Lost mine in 07 at the too young age of 64 to the same thing, chf.

Get your chin up, make him proud.

Sully 04-07-2015 01:13 PM

Prayers for peace for you, your family, and loved ones.

38yrsfan 04-07-2015 01:48 PM

Sorry for your loss.

temper11 04-07-2015 02:20 PM

Prayers to you. I fear I will be looking at this inevitability with my own father in the next few years. Condolences.

ToxSocks 04-07-2015 02:30 PM

Sorry for your loss man.

scho63 04-07-2015 02:59 PM

Sympathies and prayers to you and your family.

BigOlChiefsfan 04-07-2015 03:22 PM

Best thoughts. I sure miss my Dad.

Crush 04-07-2015 03:31 PM

Sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.

58-4ever 04-07-2015 05:11 PM

very sorry for your loss. RIP. I lost my Dad shortly before his 60th birthday.... way too young.

PHOG 04-07-2015 05:48 PM

Very Sorry. Prayers Sent.

MahiMike 04-07-2015 05:52 PM

Sorry for your loss man.

Chiefaholic 04-07-2015 06:21 PM

Sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I'll add him to my prayer tonight.


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