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I saw a story about it on TV the other day. |
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I think the bigger problem isn't reading the messages, but the fact that you thought you should.
When facebook came into play and we'd heard some of the stories about what happens, brideowanian and I had a discussion about it. The answer is that we have an open book policy. I've never asked, but if I do, I have the right to read anything she has in an email, message box or text, and that goes both ways. To my knowledge, we've neither one felt the need to follow up. A healthy relationship wouldn't contain messages that would be dangerous to the relationship. Bitching about your mother's shitty cooking isn't nice to read, but it's not the same as exchanging sexually suggestive notes with a coworker or something. Do the world a favor and don't get married until you're both mature enough for that commitment. |
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My mother-in-law IS a shitty cook. And my wife already knows it because she's eaten much more of her cooking than I ever will.
Can't wait for tomorrow's runny/lumpy mashed potatoes. :banghead: |
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Life is a series of learning experiences. You learn from your mistakes, learn to look for warning signs, and move on. |
You sound very insecure reading her texts.
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Some people have hinted around this so far but is any if the shit she is talking on your family true? If so then where's the problem?
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He broke trust by reading the text message She broke trust by talking shit about his family with someone beside him |
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Unless they both SHARE the same feelings for his family, it's going to be a constant point of contention until something gives. There are fundamental things on which you MUST agree in order for a marriage to work. |
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