I would confront her. That said, don't. Not yet anyway. Wait until after the holidays. No need to make it awkward for the both of you now. You'll just be ridiculously critical of everything she does all Xmas.

She wrecked his Christmas already but he has to hold it all down. That's tough man.

I actually was recently with this girl who was acting pretty kind to NY family. Told me I was rude to my aunt and called my mom ma'am. I dumped her ass quick. **** my family.

Tebow does NOT Rule.

No matter what you do, this is how this will turn out.

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I know that is why it is backwards, because he sucks.

I doubt that's the case considering your Denver nut-huggery in other threads, you stanky hoe.

hahahaha Thats awesome

Do two things:
1. Say nothing.
2. Stop reading her text messages.

I'm not going to be condescending about you having done that. I've done both and I can tell you that confronting her will not end well. I also think it's ultimately unnecessary to continuing an otherwise happy relationship. We'd ALL be mortified by our partners' most private thoughts. Which is precisely why we shouldn't have access to them. So long as she's kind to your family, does it matter that she isn't fond of your mom's cooking? I mean, most people put on airs to go along with less than pleasant interactions with family.

She'll never get past you invading her privacy in the first place. You'll be angry that she won't set her feelings aside to address yours. The two of you will talk AT each other and your relationship may pay the ultimate price.

LET. IT. GO.

All my gifs after 5pm are funny.:)

Lots of good advise in this thread

But if it were me/ I think this is probably the way to go.

You do come up with some funnier than shit stuff. The ramp on the van had to fricking hurt

In my opinion, you're not ready for a serious relationship. Until you can get to the point where you don't have to snoop on someone, you're damaged goods and any relationship you have is going to end badly. Everybody deserves a little privacy and space and you owe it to someone you're with to respect that. Maybe you need some counseling to get over your trust issues.

As far as the foul, this is pretty small. She's likely just be venting. Yeah, her time at your family's house isn't the most favorite time for her, but she is putting on a good face for you so you can enjoy yourself while you are there. You need to give her the space to vent. Sure it is a pretense, but everyone puts them on, because no one gets to do exactly what they want every minute of their life. Eventually the pretenses put on during courtship fall to the wayside and she would let you in on the secret that your family wears on her a bit and you'll have to make some allowances for that. Or maybe she would come around to like them better down the road. It's called marriage and there are going to be some bumps in the road. This one is pretty minor.

As someone who has never tried that, it looks ****ing painful. ROFL