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Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:13 AM

Maryville teen allegedly raped by football player
 
And wasn't prosecuted (probably) because the rapist's family was politically connected. There's no excuse for at least statutory under the facts as presented. Also. dude should probably avoid saying rape-y things on social media if he's still within the statute of limitations.

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Here's a depressing story that will bring back memories of the Steubenville rape case. It begins with a 14-year-old drunk girl getting dumped on her porch by the high school football player who had just allegedly raped her, and it ends with her family being driven out of town by an unsupportive community.

A horrifying story out of Missouri: A mother was run out of a small town after her daughter blacked out at a party filled with older high school athletes and was left, with clear marks of rape, on the front lawn of her home in freezing weather.

The Kansas City Star details how the small town of Maryville turned against a newly-arrived family after 14-year-old Daisy Coleman reported that an older athlete had sex with her while another older male videotaped, after she was given an alcoholic drink at a party that left her barely able to stand. Her friend, a 13-year-old, was also made to have non-consensual sex.

After a thorough investigation by the local police however, clearly implicating 17-year-old Matthew Barnett in the sexual assault, charges were inexplicably dropped by the prosecuting attorney. Barnett, coincidentally, is the grandson of a prominent former Missouri state representative.

Star reporter Dugan Arnett writes,

Sexual assault cases can be difficult to build because of factors such as a lack of physical evidence or inconsistent statements by witnesses. But by the time his department had concluded its investigation, Sheriff Darren White felt confident the office had put together a case that would “absolutely” result in prosecutions.

“Within four hours, we had obtained a search warrant for the house and executed that,” White told The Star. “We had all of the suspects in custody and had audio/video confessions.

“I would defy the Kansas City, Missouri, Police Department to do what we did and get it wrapped up as nicely as we did in that amount of time.”

But no prosecutions ever came. The charges were dropped by the prosecuting attorney who didn't believe the evidence was strong enough. He dismissed any idea that political influence had anything to do with his decision.

In the meantime, the town had already begun to turn on the Coleman family. Threatening phone calls and online threats were directed at the family. Melinda Coleman had moved to the town with her four children after her husband, a physician, had died in a car accident. She was easily targeted by the community for being an outsider.
The parent of one of the teens at the Barnett house that night was the only one to comment briefly to The Star: “Our boys deserve an apology, and they haven’t gotten it yet.”

In a later interview, Rice [the prosecuting attorney] called it a case of “incorrigible teenagers” drinking alcohol and having sex. “They were doing what they wanted to do, and there weren’t any consequences. And it’s reprehensible. But is it criminal? No.”

Robert Sundell, who represented Barnett, echoed that sentiment: “Just because we don’t like the way teenagers act doesn’t necessarily make it a crime.”

After the charges were dropped, things just got worse for Melinda and Daisy Coleman. Daisy has struggled with depression and attempted suicide. Melinda had to move away from Maryville and back to the town she had lived in with her now-deceased husband. In April, the house in Maryville she still owned burned down under mysterious circumstances.

And Matthew Barnett, the young man accused by Coleman of raping her? He's attending the University of Central Missouri and apparently having a great time:

In a recent retweet, he expressed his views on women — and their desire for his sexual attentions — this way:

“If her name begins with A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z, she wants the D."
http://gawker.com/family-gets-driven...23656/@Tom_Ley

saphojunkie 10-14-2013 10:16 AM

All these gun enthusiasts posting here, and yet no one has the guts...

KC native 10-14-2013 10:17 AM

Rape is only funny when SNR makes jokes about it.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:26 AM

The alleged rapist's grandfather served on the Public Safety-Law Enforcement committee, Criminal Law committee, and the appropriations committees for both. That's practically a license to rape.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:26 AM

that sucks but can you have statutory if everyone involved were minors? It certainly appears that this girl and her mom are being targeted by the community as a whole and that these young men are being enabled to act irresponsibly and with no consequences.

Blame the parents of the perps. Period. End of story. Prosecute the parents for this crap and it will stop happening

I'm so very very tired of arguing this point with other people. But how else will justice be served?

Prosecute the parents who allowed these minors to drink too.

End of story and if you don't agree, kindly piss off.

oh_snap 10-14-2013 10:33 AM

Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

oh_snap 10-14-2013 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084750)
that sucks but can you have statutory if everyone involved were minors? It certainly appears that this girl and her mom are being targeted by the community as a whole and that these young men are being enabled to act irresponsibly and with no consequences.

Blame the parents of the perps. Period. End of story. Prosecute the parents for this crap and it will stop happening

I'm so very very tired of arguing this point with other people. But how else will justice be served?

Prosecute the parents who allowed these minors to drink too.

End of story and if you don't agree, kindly piss off.

You can prosecute the parents with a fine of some sort for their kids drinking underage. But I honestly think our laws are too leniant on minors. You make a dumb decision as a "minor", you should face the same consequences as if you were an adult.

Is murder any lesser of a crime because the person who murdered was under the age of 18? If you do the crime, you face the same punishment regardless of your age. That is the way it should be anyways.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084750)
that sucks but can you have statutory if everyone involved were minors? It certainly appears that this girl and her mom are being targeted by the community as a whole and that these young men are being enabled to act irresponsibly and with no consequences.

Blame the parents of the perps. Period. End of story. Prosecute the parents for this crap and it will stop happening

I'm so very very tired of arguing this point with other people. But how else will justice be served?

Prosecute the parents who allowed these minors to drink too.

End of story and if you don't agree, kindly piss off.

I don't know the case law, but the statute for 1st degree statutory just mentions the vic's age, not the perp.

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A person commits the crime of statutory rape in the first degree if he has sexual intercourse with another person who is less than fourteen years old.
http://www.moga.mo.gov/statutes/C500-599/5660000032.HTM

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

So she was asking to be raped. Got it.

You must have also missed the part about the confessions by the rapist in this case.

-King- 10-14-2013 10:38 AM

That tweet isn't rapey at all.
Posted via Mobile Device

Eleazar 10-14-2013 10:39 AM

This is a really sad story about how the local community seems to have rallied around the rapists instead of the victims.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10084796)
I don't know the case law, but the statute for 1st degree statutory just mentions the vic's age, not the perp.



http://www.moga.mo.gov/statutes/C500-599/5660000032.HTM

The story clearly says the alleged perp is 17 so um, yah.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

Typically I'm with you on this. But I don't think it's particularly common for the sheriff to so publicly and vehemently disagree with the prosecutor.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Cochise (Post 10084808)
This is a really sad story about how the local community seems to have rallied around the rapists instead of the victims.

Prosecute the perps enabling parents.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084813)
The story clearly says the alleged perp is 17 so um, yah.

And your point is????

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084819)
Prosecute the perps enabling parents.

I don't think you understand ****all about foreseeability and negligence.

Canofbier 10-14-2013 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084794)
You can prosecute the parents with a fine of some sort for their kids drinking underage. But I honestly think our laws are too leniant on minors. You make a dumb decision as a "minor", you should face the same consequences as if you were an adult.

Is murder any lesser of a crime because the person who murdered was under the age of 18? If you do the crime, you face the same punishment regardless of your age. That is the way it should be anyways.

I'm sure that you led a responsible, thoughtful and squeaky-clean life when you were a young teenager. Not. She was at a party because she's a teenage girl who wants to make friends and appear cool to her peers. She got blackout drunk because she has no idea how to drink responsibly yet.

It's scientific fact that people of that age haven't fully developed emotionally, mentally or physically, so I don't see the logic in expecting them to act as if they have.

WhiteWhale 10-14-2013 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

Read the article.

1. She was dumped off on her front lawn in freezing weather. That doesn't scream consensual anything.

2. They confessed.

I like how you make it all about her though. Those poor guys... they're the REAL victims huh?

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10084823)
And your point is????

that when the rape allegedly happened the perp was 17 years of age or younger right? He was possibly 16? So he was under the age of 18 which is when a minor becomes a major or am I wrong?

WhiteWhale 10-14-2013 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084794)
You can prosecute the parents with a fine of some sort for their kids drinking underage. But I honestly think our laws are too leniant on minors. You make a dumb decision as a "minor", you should face the same consequences as if you were an adult.

Is murder any lesser of a crime because the person who murdered was under the age of 18? If you do the crime, you face the same punishment regardless of your age. That is the way it should be anyways.

Holding children as accountable as adults is the 2nd dumbest thing you've posted on this thread.

I think I've figured out the problem.

It's you.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:47 AM

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warpaint* 10-14-2013 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

I don't anybody would claim she didn't use poor judgement in terms of putting herself in a bad situation but that's aside to a bunch of kids from well connected families potentially getting away w/ multiple felonies.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084833)
that when the rape allegedly happened the perp was 17 years of age or younger right? He was possibly 16? So he was under the age of 18 which is when a minor becomes a major or am I wrong?

Star article said he was 17. Not only was he above the age of consent, there's nothing in the MO statute (that I'm aware of) preventing a minor from being prosecuted for statutory. It's probably exceedingly rare, though.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:48 AM

So tired of arguing this point, so very tired of it...

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10084842)
Star article said he was 17. Not only was he above the age of consent, there's nothing in the MO statute (that I'm aware of) preventing a minor from being prosecuted for statutory. It's probably exceedingly rare, though.

But he was below the age of being able to legally drink? MO is stupid.

tooge 10-14-2013 10:51 AM

there is wrong all over this deal. However, if I'm the mother of rapist boy, hes getting his ball shot off at some point

Iowanian 10-14-2013 10:53 AM

At the very least making or possessing a video tape of a 13 or 14 year old girl having sex would be child pornography. High School seniors have no business banging 13 year old girls.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:53 AM

Small town values, amirite!! They need to Dresden that town.

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At a dance competition, Melinda Coleman says, a girl arrived wearing a homemade shirt: Matt 1, Daisy 0.

IA_Chiefs_fan 10-14-2013 10:56 AM

The girl may be a little void of strong parenting, but not necessarily due to neglect. Unless I'm confusing two stories, my wife told me her dad was a doctor who died not too long ago in a car wreck. This is so sad.

warpaint* 10-14-2013 10:57 AM

Ya the article mentions that.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by IA_Chiefs_fan (Post 10084876)
The girl may be a little void of strong parenting, but not necessarily due to neglect. Unless I'm confusing two stories, my wife told me her dad was a doctor who died not too long ago in a car wreck. This is so sad.

And her mother was a vet. It's not like she came from an obviously dysfunctional family background.

Saul Good 10-14-2013 11:04 AM

I don't know anything about this case. However...whenever nearly everyone involved in a situation like this is on one side, and an article is published that makes it seem like all of those people are out of their minds...generally, there is a lot more to the story.

Is it more likely that an entire community is cool with raping a young girl OR is it more likely that a single reporter is trying to break a huge story by selectively including/omitting critical details?

Skyy God 10-14-2013 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Tombstone RJ (Post 10084853)
But he was below the age of being able to legally drink? MO is stupid.

Which has ****all to do with statutory rape.

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good (Post 10084899)
I don't know anything about this case. However...whenever nearly everyone involved in a situation like this is on one side, and an article is published that makes it seem like all of those people are out of their minds...generally, there is a lot more to the story.

Is it more likely that an entire community is cool with raping a young girl OR is it more likely that a single reporter is trying to break a huge story by selectively including/omitting critical details?

I would say the Sheiffs comments seem to paint a pretty good picture that they thought they had a pretty good case.. They had video/confessions/Sheriffs stating it was a air tight case. I remember hearing about this awhile back, but never heard anyone defending the rapist.

WhawhaWhat 10-14-2013 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good (Post 10084899)
I don't know anything about this case. However...whenever nearly everyone involved in a situation like this is on one side, and an article is published that makes it seem like all of those people are out of their minds...generally, there is a lot more to the story.

Is it more likely that an entire community is cool with raping a young girl OR is it more likely that a single reporter is trying to break a huge story by selectively including/omitting critical details?

This is the same area where a man was shot in broad daylight with over 30 witnesses and no one was ever prosecuted because the witnesses wouldn't speak.

This is also the same area where a pregnant woman was murdered, and the baby was cut out of her.

Maryville and the towns that surround it are filled with weird people.

Tombstone RJ 10-14-2013 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10084900)
Which has ****all to do with statutory rape.

I'm saying the state laws are stupid. If he can be persecuted for statutory that great, do it! But the town let him walk. I'm saying that if he is a minor in the legal sense, that is, below the age of 18 which is where most if not all the people in the US say is when a minor becomes an adult, then go after his parents too.

Bugeater 10-14-2013 11:20 AM

I smell bullshit, there is no woman on earth under the age of 80 named "Daisy".

stonedstooge 10-14-2013 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10084954)
This is the same area where a man was shot in broad daylight with over 30 witnesses and no one was ever prosecuted because the witnesses wouldn't speak.

This is also the same area where a pregnant woman was kidnapped, the baby was cut out of her and the mother was left to die.

Maryville and the towns that surround it are filled with weird people.

Both of those incidents happened in Skidmore Missouri. Bobbie Jo wasn't kidnapped, but murdered in her own home. McElroy got what was coming to him from a community that was terrorized by him and his family

WhawhaWhat 10-14-2013 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

You didn't read the story, but people like you that blame the rape victim for being raped can DIAF.

Frazod 10-14-2013 11:22 AM

One my best friends worked as a part time deputy sheriff in Nodaway County while he getting his degree at NWMSU. His opinion of the locals was not good.

Saul Good 10-14-2013 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by stonedstooge (Post 10084974)
Both of those incidents happened in Skidmore Missouri. Bobbie Jo wasn't kidnapped, but murdered in her own home. McElroy got what was coming to him from a community that was terrorized by him and his family

So there was more to each of those stories than what a one-sided comment included?

stonedstooge 10-14-2013 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good (Post 10084986)
So there was more to each of those stories than what a one-sided comment included?

You got it brother.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Bugeater (Post 10084973)
I smell bullshit, there is no woman on earth under the age of 80 named "Daisy".

Real person.

http://kcur.org/post/why-was-maryvil...e-case-dropped

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good (Post 10084986)
So there was more to each of those stories than what a one-sided comment included?

I've ready about this story after it happened since Maryville and St. Joe have some ties Maryville shit gets reported down here. The facts haven't changed in the last 2 years one bit as far as I've read.

I'm not sure what more there might be.

That’s when Melinda Coleman called 911, setting off a law enforcement response that Nodaway County Sheriff Darren White is proud of, saying they had the boys’ “videotaped confessions” wrapped up that day.




Nodaway County Sheriff Darren White outside the jail in Maryville, Mo
“I was actually pretty happy with it because we had what I considered to be a very serious crime and within a matter of a few hours, we had warrants for their arrest and they'd been arrested,” he said. “That's a pretty good day.”

In Missouri, 17-year-olds are considered to be adults in the criminal justice system. So Barnett was charged with a felony for sexual assault and a misdemeanor for child endangerment. The underage boy with Daisy’s friend also admitted he forced her into sex and was charged in the juvenile system.

WhawhaWhat 10-14-2013 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by stonedstooge (Post 10084974)
Both of those incidents happened in Skidmore Missouri. Bobbie Jo wasn't kidnapped, but murdered in her own home. McElroy got what was coming to him from a community that was terrorized by him and his family

I changed the kidnapped to murdered. I said the same area because Skidmore and Maryville are about 15 minutes apart and both in the middle of no where.

The people of the Nodaway County in Missouri are creepy ****ing people.

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10085011)
I changed the kidnapped to murdered. I said the same area because Skidmore and Maryville are about 15 minutes apart and both in the middle of no where.

<b>The people of the Nodaway County in Missouri are creepy ****ing people.</b>

It's sort of like Deliverance placed in Missouri.

WhawhaWhat 10-14-2013 11:41 AM

Anonymous picked up the story.

http://pastebin.com/3rq0ZSrY

InChiefsHeaven 10-14-2013 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by oh_snap (Post 10084774)
Not saying rape is okay. It clearly is not. But what the hell is a 14 year old doing at a party, and why the hell did she get black out drunk? We can talk peer pressure, but no one made her get drunk (unless we're talking roofie drunk).

Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual.

Anyways, clearly a 14 year old shouldn't be out partying and drinking and getting drunk. You're just asking for trouble. Strong parenting.

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She drank from the ‘bitch cup’

Daisy Coleman remembers little of the night, except how it started. She and a 13-year-old friend, a girl she considered her little sister, had a sleepover at the Colemans. Daisy Coleman admits the girls were drinking and were not acting with her mother’s permission.

“Then this guy texted me and he's like, 'Hey, you want to hang out?’ And I was like, ‘Well, I’ll have to sneak around. It's like one in the morning,” she said.

The guy who texted Daisy was Barnett, a friend of Daisy’s older brother, Charlie, who had been at the Coleman’s a couple nights before for a chili dinner. Barnett drove over to the Colemans, picked up Daisy and her friend and, along with some other boys, snuck into Barnett’s home through a basement window. There, Daisy continued drinking, using a glass that has since become infamous.

“They called it the ‘bitch cup,’” Daisy Coleman said, “and it’s a really, really tall shot glass. I think it had lines. Like, if you drank that much, you were some rank or whatever. Like, you’re a B-word if you only take half of it."
She snuck out. Her mom did not know. She got herself in a bad situation. She doesn't deserve to be raped. It's not like she went to a party suggestively dressed and dry humping everyone in the place. Which still doesn't make rape OK, but this doesn't even rise to the level of her "asking for it".

Pitt Gorilla 10-14-2013 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by InChiefsHell (Post 10085052)
She snuck out. Her mom did not know. She got herself in a bad situation. She doesn't deserve to be raped. It's not like she went to a party suggestively dressed and dry humping everyone in the place. Which still doesn't make rape OK, but this doesn't even rise to the level of her "asking for it".

She was also dumped in sub-freezing temps. I can't imagine doing that to someone.

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 11:45 AM

It's stories like these that make me glad I don't have a daughter.

Saccopoo 10-14-2013 11:46 AM

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The guy who texted Daisy was Barnett, a friend of Daisy’s older brother, Charlie, who had been at the Coleman’s a couple nights before for a chili dinner. Barnett drove over to the Colemans, picked up Daisy and her friend and, along with some other boys, snuck into Barnett’s home through a basement window. There, Daisy continued drinking, using a glass that has since become infamous.

“They called it the ‘bitch cup,’” Daisy Coleman said, “and it’s a really, really tall shot glass. I think it had lines. Like, if you drank that much, you were some rank or whatever. Like, you’re a B-word if you only take half of it."


The ****ing guy is a predator. Totally premeditated. What a scumbag.

If I was this girls older brother, I'd be hanging around the Central Missouri campus looking for a little justice.

And let's be real - these scumbags raped a ninth and eighth grader after intentionally getting them drunk enough to pass out. ****ing dirtbags.

Bearcat 10-14-2013 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Saul Good (Post 10084899)
I don't know anything about this case. However...whenever nearly everyone involved in a situation like this is on one side, and an article is published that makes it seem like all of those people are out of their minds...generally, there is a lot more to the story.

Is it more likely that an entire community is cool with raping a young girl OR is it more likely that a single reporter is trying to break a huge story by selectively including/omitting critical details?

That crossed my mind when I read about the house being burned down, because that takes a lot of hate even beyond blaming the victim.... but, the story on kansascity.com is pretty damn detailed and video doesn't lie.

I don't think it's really a matter of "an entire community being cool with rape," since the article says it's sparked outrage in the community. I don't think it's hard to imagine a football star telling lies, spreading rumors, etc; to the point that at least part of the school sides with the popular kids. I read somewhere else that the 17 year old has also had other charges dropped in the past, too.

You could very well be right, but unless some of the details in the article are flat out wrong, it certainly seems like a teenage girl waking up on a lawn with a BAC of .17 (or whatever it was) in 40 degree temps and video of the incident warrants more of an explanation than "lack of evidence".

Skyy God 10-14-2013 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Bearcat (Post 10085078)
That crossed my mind when I read about the house being burned down, because that takes a lot of hate even beyond blaming the victim.... but, the story on kansascity.com is pretty damn detailed and video doesn't lie.

I don't think it's really a matter of "an entire community being cool with rape," since the article says it's sparked outrage in the community. I don't think it's hard to imagine a football star telling lies, spreading rumors, etc; to the point that at least part of the school sides with the popular kids. I read somewhere else that the 17 year old has also had other charges dropped in the past, too.

You could very well be right, but unless some of the details in the article are flat out wrong, it certainly seems like a teenage girl waking up on a lawn with a BAC of .17 (or whatever it was) in 40 degree temps and video of the incident warrants more of an explanation than "lack of evidence".

Prior DUI, I think.

vailpass 10-14-2013 12:05 PM

If she was passed out you don't **** her.
Period.

BlackHelicopters 10-14-2013 12:05 PM

14 year old girls, alcohol, athletes. Mix. Enjoy.

Eleazar 10-14-2013 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10085050)
Anonymous picked up the story.

http://pastebin.com/3rq0ZSrY

I would love to see some street justice here.

Reaper16 10-14-2013 01:24 PM

Having lived in Maryville for 4 years I'm only a little surprised. Doesn't stop me from being disgusted though. This is the perfect confluence of rape culture and small-town crooked politics. Horrific.

stonedstooge 10-14-2013 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Bearcat (Post 10085078)
That crossed my mind when I read about the house being burned down, because that takes a lot of hate even beyond blaming the victim.... but, the story on kansascity.com is pretty damn detailed and video doesn't lie.

I don't think it's really a matter of "an entire community being cool with rape," since the article says it's sparked outrage in the community. I don't think it's hard to imagine a football star telling lies, spreading rumors, etc; to the point that at least part of the school sides with the popular kids. I read somewhere else that the 17 year old has also had other charges dropped in the past, too.

You could very well be right, but unless some of the details in the article are flat out wrong, it certainly seems like a teenage girl waking up on a lawn with a BAC of .17 (or whatever it was) in 40 degree temps and video of the incident warrants more of an explanation than "lack of evidence".

Was the girls mother's house burned down or is it referring to McElroy's house, which burned several months after he was executed.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by stonedstooge (Post 10085397)
Was the girls mother's house burned down or is it referring to McElroy's house, which burned several months after he was executed.

Alleged rape vic's house.

Bearcat 10-14-2013 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10085401)
Alleged rape vic's house.

Yeah, that one... they moved before selling their house in Maryville, and it burned down. The article said it was investigated but the cause wasn't determined.

It's disgusting enough to blame the victim and cover up something like that, but then to go after them by firing the mom and burn down the house they lived in (and I'm sure the girls had a pleasant time in school, too)... holy shit.

Scorp 10-14-2013 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by BigCatDaddy (Post 10085059)
It's stories like these that make me glad I don't have a daughter.

Well I do have a daughter. She is 12 right now. I am preparing myself for prison, because if anything ever happens to her............. I would skin these little asswipes slowly.

Cephalic Trauma 10-14-2013 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10085050)
Anonymous picked up the story.

http://pastebin.com/3rq0ZSrY

MOAR!!!

I love anon, and I hope they are able to do something substantial.

Cephalic Trauma 10-14-2013 02:25 PM

I would also like to hear from some of our legal gurus on the board.

Paging Dj's left nut.

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Bearcat (Post 10085508)
Yeah, that one... they moved before selling their house in Maryville, and it burned down. The article said it was investigated but the cause wasn't determined.

It's disgusting enough to blame the victim and cover up something like that, but then to go after them by firing the mom and <b>burn down the house they lived in </b>(and I'm sure the girls had a pleasant time in school, too)... holy shit.

That may have been a good thing if they were making payments on it and the community refused to buy it.

WhawhaWhat 10-14-2013 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Cephalic Trauma (Post 10085594)
MOAR!!!

I love anon, and I hope they are able to do something substantial.

The work that offshoot group did with the Steubenville case was amazing.

Strongside 10-14-2013 02:36 PM

This is not funny and I'm not trying to joke about it...but I'm on my phone and the title was cut off to read 'Maryville Teen Allegedly Raped by Football.' That seemed painful.

blaise 10-14-2013 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10084976)
You didn't read the story, but people like you that blame the rape victim for being raped can DIAF.

Saying someone made bad decisions doesn't mean you're blaming them.

Saying a woman shouldn't walk in a dark parking lot alone at night doesn't mean you're blaming her if she gets mugged.

BigCatDaddy 10-14-2013 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by blaise (Post 10085689)
Saying someone made bad decisions doesn't mean you're blaming them.

Saying a woman shouldn't walk in a dark parking lot alone at night doesn't mean you're blaming her if she gets mugged.

True, but when he added this part it sounded a whole lot like he didn't have much sympathy for her and stopped just short of saying it was her fault.

"Back in college, I can remember false calls of rape happening a lot. Girls get drunk, sleep with someone they wouldn't normally sleep with, then cry rape the day after. Happened to a mate of mine. Nearly ruined his life as well. Then the girls story unraveled and she admitted finally that it was consensual."

jerryforeverrice80 10-14-2013 02:48 PM

this dad of 4 girls would be in prison right about now for blowing his head off.

Skyy God 10-14-2013 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Cephalic Trauma (Post 10085615)
I would also like to hear from some of our legal gurus on the board.

Paging Dj's left nut.

I'll take a stab at it. Consensual sex requires capacity to consent, and this girl's BAL was .13 in the morning (probably at least 8-10 hours after the party). Extrapolating back to when the alleged rape occurred, I think a tox expert could credibly testify that she was either passed out or so drunk as to be unable to meaningfully consent. She was probably somewhere around a .20 to .25, which is pretty ****ed up for a 14 year old girl. Again, keep in mind I don't know when the rape occurred or when she was tested.

Apparently there's a loophole in the current law, however, where that incapacity has to be caused only by the perp. In this case, she clearly had a role in her incapacity

http://barnesformissouri.com/?p=935

So, I'm back to my original assessment that a properly motivated prosecutor should at least have gotten a statutory conviction/plea. The perp's grandfather was retired highway patrol, so my guess is a few favors were called in.

Cephalic Trauma 10-14-2013 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Cave Johnson (Post 10085722)
I'll take a stab at it. Consensual sex requires capacity to consent, and this girl's BAL was .13 in the morning (probably at least 8-10 hours after the party). Extrapolating back to when the alleged rape occurred, I think a tox expert could credibly testify that she was either passed out or so drunk as to be unable to meaningfully consent. She was probably somewhere around a .20 to .25, which is pretty ****ed up for a 14 year old girl. Again, keep in mind I don't know when the rape occurred or when she was tested.

Apparently there's a loophole in the current law, however, where that incapacity has to be caused only by the perp. In this case, she clearly had a role in her incapacity

http://barnesformissouri.com/?p=935

So, I'm back to my original assessment that a properly motivated prosecutor should at least have gotten a statutory conviction/plea. The perp's grandfather was retired highway patrol, so my guess is a few favors were called in.

:thumb:

Thanks.

Eleazar 10-14-2013 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Reaper16 (Post 10085364)
Having lived in Maryville for 4 years I'm only a little surprised. Doesn't stop me from being disgusted though. This is the perfect confluence of rape culture and small-town crooked politics. Horrific.

I wonder if this didn't have more to do with their place as football players or just as popular kids than local politics. Who knows.

Iowanian 10-14-2013 05:24 PM

I went to college there and have several local friends. I guarantee the entire community doesn't approve of this or support it.

Eleazar 10-14-2013 05:24 PM

Tons of fellow bearcats on this board it seems.

Cephalic Trauma 10-14-2013 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 10086191)
I went to college there and have several local friends. I guarantee the entire community doesn't approve of this or support it.

Why were they silent? Why didn't anybody stand up for this girl?

Bearcat 10-14-2013 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cochise (Post 10086181)
I wonder if this didn't have more to do with their place as football players or just as popular kids than local politics. Who knows.

All 3, since he was a popular football player with political ties in his family, and (supposedly) favors were called in to get the charges dropped, as they had been in the past for the same kid.

Bearcat 10-14-2013 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by WhawhaWhat (Post 10085050)
Anonymous picked up the story.

http://pastebin.com/3rq0ZSrY

Hmmm...

http://www.yelp.com/biz/a-g-restaurant-maryville

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Nice looking place. came to try the saganaki but my waiter insisted that i should have a drink and the "D" special instead. I agreed and woke up sore and cold on my mom's front lawn the next day. What a crazy meal! I'm not sure if I would go back as I don't remember what happened there that night.

My friends asked if my waiter's name was Matt "Rapey" McRaperson. I'm not sure what that means, but I hear he has 40 pound boxes of rape in his bedroom.

Al Bundy 10-14-2013 05:45 PM

I hate little shitty small towns.

Valiant 10-14-2013 05:47 PM

Well hopefully anomyous and the internets will make his life hell..

The only thing that sucks is he has a generic name.. A lot of innocent people might get dirt dug up because of this..

Eleazar 10-14-2013 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 10086258)
Well hopefully anomyous and the internets will make his life hell..

The only thing that sucks is he has a generic name.. A lot of innocent people might get dirt dug up because of this..

Well, knowing where the two go to school and where they are from, and their ages within a year or two should help with that.

Bearcat 10-14-2013 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 10086258)
Well hopefully anomyous and the internets will make his life hell..

The only thing that sucks is he has a generic name.. A lot of innocent people might get dirt dug up because of this..

Looks like they've hit UCM's FB site pretty hard, too...

https://www.facebook.com/UCentralMO

...and it's just beginning.


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