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KCChiefsMan 04-16-2009 12:51 AM

ya dude. I wouldn't care for that too much, I would text message break up with her right now.

Jenson71 04-16-2009 12:52 AM

I'd say "**** that" and make her say she wants to be with me and won't do it again, or end it.

Pablo 04-16-2009 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry (Post 5674588)
Mistake #1 moving in together or thinking about it.

THIS x 10,000.

Don't ruin your independence until you're married and you absolutely have to. Living by yourself, and being able to sleep in a bed by yourself should be treasured.

Pablo 04-16-2009 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Jenson71 (Post 5674594)
end it.

FYP.

There's no "don't do it again".

Either you have the cheater mentality or you don't, it's pretty simple. You're the type of person that will or won't fool around on your significant other. If you do it once, 99% of cases suggest you'll do it again.

My buddy has been married for like 2 years. He's banged probably 12 girls since he got married. They both used to cheat on each other all the time. I'm not sure how many dudes she's ****ed since they've gotten married, but I'm sure the cheater mentality didn't just vacate her mind altogether once she got a ring.

Abba-Dabba 04-16-2009 12:59 AM

You're getting played. Simple as that. Don't move in, just move on.

PastorMikH 04-16-2009 01:11 AM

I'm pretty much with the consensus on this one. I'd have to draw a line with her on this one and let her know that one woman and one man at a movie is a date - even if they are "friends" and she needs to choose if she wants me in her life or not. If she insists on going, she's made her choice.

I'll add in that I'd probably have a talk with the dude too. Sometimes you just have to draw a line and let the guy know where things stand.

Dr where my wife worked quite a while back was a bit of a player. He never made a direct hit on the wife, but there were times when she said he would invade her personal space, put a hand on her shoulder (not around her, but pat the shoulder closest to him) or try to give her a back rub and such. She had told me this would make her really uncomfortable. We'd interacted with he and his wife as couples and he and I had hunted some, been to his house, seen his karate pics and such. One day we're out hunting. While out, I take the opportunity to point out to him that if I ever had reason to believe that a guy was making a move on my wife, preacher or not, it wouldn't matter if the guy had a gun, knife, or black belt in karate I'd beat the crap out of him. He kinda turned white, gulped, and changed the subject.

He kept a professional distance from that point forward though, and we were still able to remain friends. The wife didn't know until just a year or two ago when I finally told her about our talk.

Mecca 04-16-2009 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by GonzoRox88 (Post 5674595)
THIS x 10,000.

Don't ruin your independence until you're married and you absolutely have to. Living by yourself, and being able to sleep in a bed by yourself should be treasured.

Oh cmon you got a neckbeard what do you know?

Mecca 04-16-2009 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by GonzoRox88 (Post 5674598)
FYP.

There's no "don't do it again".

Either you have the cheater mentality or you don't, it's pretty simple. You're the type of person that will or won't fool around on your significant other. If you do it once, 99% of cases suggest you'll do it again.

My buddy has been married for like 2 years. He's banged probably 12 girls since he got married. They both used to cheat on each other all the time. I'm not sure how many dudes she's ****ed since they've gotten married, but I'm sure the cheater mentality didn't just vacate her mind altogether once she got a ring.

That just sounds like an open marriage to me!

T-post Tom 04-16-2009 01:13 AM

You're getting played. Women don't go to movies with guys they've only recently met because they want to "be friends." She's either cheating or forming a "backup plan" because she's unsure of your relationship. Her dishonesty is definately an indication of her character.

Pablo 04-16-2009 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca (Post 5674619)
Oh cmon you got a neckbeard what do you know?

My neckbeard knows that having a bathroom free of stupid ass curling irons and body lotions is kick-ass.

And then I can shave that neckbeard over the sink and nobody will bitch about me not cleaning up the mess asap.

Mecca 04-16-2009 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by GonzoRox88 (Post 5674624)
My neckbeard knows that having a bathroom free of stupid ass curling irons and body lotions is kick-ass.

And then I can shave that neckbeard over the sink and nobody will bitch about me not cleaning up the mess asap.

LOL...I actually clean the sink after I shave and all of that, my mom is a heavy neatfreak so growing up with that you just did it because you didn't wanna be killed in your sleep.

Pablo 04-16-2009 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca (Post 5674625)
LOL...I actually clean the sink after I shave and all of that, my mom is a heavy neatfreak so growing up with that you just did it because you didn't wanna be killed in your sleep.

Yeah, I was raised in a house with myself, my brother and my dad.

Our bathrooms were fucking hideous. Just atrociously disgusting at times.

I keep my apartment clean, but fuck, I grow a thick Kyle Orton neckbeard and sometimes I miss some of the hair...

acesn8s 04-16-2009 01:18 AM

Poke her in the butt and take a picture of her while doing it.



At least when it's over you will always have that.

Mecca 04-16-2009 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by GonzoRox88 (Post 5674627)
Yeah, I was raised in a house with myself, my brother and my dad.

Our bathrooms were fucking hideous. Just atrociously disgusting at times.

I keep my apartment clean, but fuck, I grow a thick Kyle Orton neckbeard and sometimes I miss some of the hair...

Why don't you grow a real beard you know like me?

Pablo 04-16-2009 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by acesn8s (Post 5674628)
Poke her in the butt and take a picture of her while doing it.



At least when it's over you will always have that.

And then make copies and get a frame that says Daddy's little girl or something like that and let it miraculously find it's way to her dad's mailbox.

Oh, and posts pics on CP as well.


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