1) I carry a default presumption with your posts that since you're a jackass, most of your comments have underlying pretexts of jackassery. 2) The "Know how I know you're . . . ." is a common phrase of snide accusation. 3) The question isn't moot even if there was no ridicule.

Well, in most cases, the child is still genetically a male or female. Genetic testing can be done if the organs aren't defined enough so as to be clear.

Nobody wants to watch you wave your gay chivalry around.

We all know what an upstanding defender of human rights you are, as well as a pretentious, silly twat.

That's as good of an admission of ridicule as I can expect, but not quite up to the level of a sincere apology for being a hateful jackass.

Damn now thats tough. Gotta go with Yes though.

At bare minimum maybe with a few drinks LMAO

It just isn't news there anymore.

I would hardly call that "based on" deception. Fact is, this guy is totally insecure. He's had a long, long relationship, presumably with no complaints. None of the honest, real feelings he had for his spouse should have been made to disappear because his spouse's sex at one point in her life didn't match up with her gender identity and presentation.

If this was in the first year of the relationship? By all means, throw a fit. After 19 years together? I think at that point you can admit that you love this person for who that person is.

Can we say mail order bride? I'm not guessing there was a lot of "love and respect" in the first place. Time to upgrade to a newer model, and the factory warranty appears to be out of date.

Oh, I think it's probably likely that he assumed that the gal he was importing was actually a gal. Therefore, yes, the entire relationship was based on a falsehood that it chose to never tell the husband.

Just helping

i'm thinking that if jan fell for this for 19 years, monica deserves some props.
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instead of a Belgian waffle he ended up with a bratwurst.

Monica could probably suck the chowder out of a thermos.